You should have put your foot down years ago and reported him to the authorities
Nope. Goodbye sil creepy bf and anyone who thinks this is ok at a family function.
I wouldnāt even be going to these events what the hell are you doing to your kids are you kidding me?
I just worry cause u had to ask
Stop going!! If asked respond with the Truth!!!
Omg!!! Totally unacceptable behaviour around children 
Heās trying to keep it in the family.lol get a big orgy going lol
Why do people follow up an answer with a question.You know what to do .Whatās stopping you ?
I think YOU do what YOU want and if YOU are uncomfortable take YOUR children and LEAVE. What other adults do, especially if there still sober adults present, isnāt any of your damn business. 
I think be AWOL and say why.
if she wants a loser, let her. keep your family away from it and if the rest of your family wants to continue to associate with such a loser, i meanā¦ hes passing drugs to someone right? your family is to blame as well, id be cutting off every toxic person, regardless of relation. how do you justify allowing that around children? you dont. so the fact they expect you to just ignore it, while theyre engaging in the same behavior, shows they dont care what your kids see nor do they care how you feel. cut em all off, thats fkd
Can you pass on the name of your SIL? I would like to attend the parties in your place. 
Iāll throw this question into the mix. You said ur SIL man is older. X is a sex enhancing drug. Makes you seek it out losing all ur inhibitors. Maybe that guy is a pedophile. Ever think of that? If there are little girls there by encouraging others to also take part in these drugs takes the parenting attention away and those little girls or boys could be shuffled off to the bathroom without much notice. If this hasnāt already happened. You keeping ur kids out of it is good but who is protecting the others???
Simple choice
No party for your family
Ensure that on that day if you think your children might miss out on having fun take them out to a fun park or anywhere that they would enjoy
I donāt think they are the only ones to know how to party
We use to have a babysitter for when we would want to tripā¦ if the have someone sober and watching the children then to each their own. However, if no one is around that is sober then yes I would be worried alsoā¦ And they should be waiting until kids are in bed!!! Lots of parents drink when kids are at home or in bedā¦ How is that differentā¦ Alcohol is just as bad buy you didnāt mention it as a problemā¦
There are so many red flags about the situation, passing drugs around kids, not keeping his sexual interest to his girlfriend, and the fact that he has identified a whole family group that allows him to mentally incapacitate them all and attack the one person with enough wherewithal to understand this is repulsive. The OPās family sounds about as dangerously niave as the Abducted at Plain Sight parents.
I canāt hardly believe someone would even need to ask this questionā¦If you donāt want your kids being sucked into a world of drugs then you donāt put them in this position of being exposed nor developing relationships with people that are part of that world. What the heck is wrong with parents these days???
ZERO tolerance! This should NOT be normalized!!
You got to be kidding asking the obvious.
You should had stop socializing with them years ago. Does anyone has to tell you it is totally inappropriate. 
I wouldnāt be taking my kids whatsoever !
Oh man I want to hang out with him!!
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Omg seriously I would not care if they didnāt like me that is nuts 
I would never go anywhere near these people especially my kids!
Sounds like an entire family that does drugs together.
If you donāt wanna go, donāt go.
Two words, children services and cops
Nope. Call the cops to go undercover at the next event.
Do whatever your conscience tells you
Fk him. Call the cops when he shows up. Thatās possession and intent to supply
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Stay away from all of them
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WHY are you even asking such a question??? This is all insane & criminal. & you ,& your husband are SICK to expose your children to this whole family who evidently agrees with drugs being passed around. The whole thing is looney
Tunes ā¦all of yall are a waste!!!
Your family is toxic. Let them go. Make new friends with kids your childrenās age. They arenāt the people you want your kids growing up around.
I would just remove me and my family from the situation, first Iāll say something tho, so they know why Iām not messing with them like that
Absolutely not! The safety of your kids should be a priority. Continuing to attend these events is saying you are ok with the behaviors and teaching your kids that drug use is ok. Dump them before your kids get involved with drugs
Any of them single cause I wanna be part of the family
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If ur in laws are cool with his adolescent behavior then let them have him. U donāt have to expose urselves or children to his childishness. God forbid something should happen, a fight or an OD or ANYTHING to call the attention of the authorities and u have ur kids there, guess who is going to catch child endangerment chargesā¦ Yep, thatād be YOU for knowingly having them in an environment where drugs and alcohol are being used. To be truthful about it, that side of the family doesnāt exactly seem like a bunch of winners. I mean ur SIL clearly condones his habits, u said many other family members make those trips to the bathroom just the same as he is and whatever family member saying to get over it doesnāt seem to think so much about consequencesā¦ I say steer clear until they wise up. It sucks being the grown one in the group but its better than being a victim of circumstance.
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Iād call the police on him 
if you wanna do drugs on your own time, fine. But not around kids.
Sounds like the rest of the family likes him and youre just the party pooperā:rofl:
. This is also probably fake news because unless your whole family is just trash theres no way someones been passing out drugs for 6yrs and everyone else is just ok with it. I swear this page post some of the dumbest shit
Talk to your SIL. Itās possible she doesnāt realize how severe the problem has gotten. Especially mention the sexual innuendos; maybe sheāl drop his drugged up cheatinā ass.
Can I grab a invite to the next one, he sounds a good time 
Probably depends on the family. 
Because it is at a family gathering it is any less illegal? Dude should be in jail. Or taken out to the wood shed for a come to jesus talk.
No it is not. No more family gatherings.
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Stay away from this. Why do you even have to ask? So dangerous!
Can I get an invitation please?
Get out and stay out!
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Next event call the police
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Never accept the unacceptable. .
Protect those children!
Do you live in Oregon where all drugs are legal? If not, you need to be reporting that to authorities.
To answer your question, isnāt your SIL putting you in an uncomfortable situation? I say, stay away. If it effects your relationship, so be it. You need to take care of you and yours.
I wouldve called the police years ago.
Keep your children safe from this illegal activity and leave.
I hope this is a jokeā¦ but if notā¦ hey dumb ass, keep your kids and yourself away from that nonsense
People are gonna do what people wanna do. You can ether get in the way or cut ties and suck it up drugs are a norm of society now a days and these old boomers just donāt understand that yet
You are 100% right, he is trash and a dangerous sick person!!!
Iām sorryā¦. Are you an idiot? You call the police. Right thenā¦ right now. You make a report to child protective services. You shun those creepy family members and never attend a family function where they are present again. You protect the kids and the community from people who are obviously involved in illegal drug trade. Whatās wrong with you? Your are allowing child abuse and drug use. Family is not exempt from morality or the law.
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Honestly, if this representation is correctā¦ it sounds like your family is down to get down with this guy.
The anger wouldnāt be appropriate to aim just at him. Sounds like you are the odd one out, and maybe donāt relate well to this group of people. Family is not binding. Thereās zero requirement to be around them or maintain a relationship.