Nor sure? Go ask a much of strangers on social media.
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Cuddling upto a parent for naps is natural especially when both are appropriately clothed.
Do you mean daytime naps if so why is your child still napping at almost 6yrs old should be playing doing stuff.
Yes your partner needs his own bed so your daughter has her bed to herself especially as she gets older
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with this except your thoughts are in the wrong place which I find are a little far out. Think you should stop trying to find a problem and hope like mad she continues to see her dad when your child needs both her mum and dad
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I think from the comments on 2 pages you e put this on
Why is it any different from your kid to sleep with you but not her dad 
seems like your fishing for some sort of justification
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My husband sleeps with my 5 year daughter n itâs absolutely fine they both love each other very much u r over thinking
WHAT!! If I was the dad Iâd be very offendedâŚ
you was with this man for years I am assuming and to think This way is perverted. Why is there something wrong with it what because heâs a MAN !!! Have a word with yourself
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Itâs not inappropriate unless heâs a pedophile. If heâs just a good dad, no. Itâs loving.
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Why is ok for you to sleep with your daughter but he isnât allowed to sleep next to his daughter. You are sexualising something that isnât. Iâd be pissed at you aswell if I was him
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So itâs ok for you as the mother to sleep in the same bed but not the fatherâ:yawning_face:
If you wonât allow it maybe you shouldnât be sleeping in the same bedâŚrethink the whole sleeping arrangements get your daughter in her own bed, you and the father discuss your sleeping arrangements .
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Wow⌠shes 5 years old. There is nothing wrong with them sleeping in the same bed. Theres even precautions he can take. Like having seperate blankets, having some pillows in between each other and make it like a pillow fort⌠your already taking ALOT of time away from them 
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stop being a bitch
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Kerrie Chambers frfr I wish I still had mines xoxo
Like fr ⌠All we know about this is one side-ed ⌠Hell on my mama Iâm gonna ask my child ⌠IJS frfr so like what else you ainât saying
Smh fukni scroll up on smh again gn/gm
If you had any doubts on him . He shouldnât be in your home period. You sound bitter asf
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I was on night shift my ex slepted in my sons bed as he had tempeture .but I wouldnât allow my sons dad to sleep in my sons bed all time sounds like pedophile .my kid brothers used to wake up during night sneak into my parents bed
I donât see a problem
I do not believe itâs inappropriate, unless you have physical proof that he is being a pervert then you shouldnât come between the father and daughter.
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Youâre making excusesâŚyou still want your husbandâŚ#realtalk
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Go by your GUT INSTINCT. It will NEVER let you down x
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My cousin told me that her hubby baths in the tub with their 8 year old daughter. I cautioned her against this behavior because itâs not appropriate according to me.
As a mother of a child who was abused by her father I wouldnât worry unless there were indications that he took an interest in children and some different sexual preferences⌠I had to speak to a psychologist about the whole ordeal, obviously as a mum our first job is to protect our children from harm and had to learn that I wouldnât of known the signs, I think it would be a good idea to read up online to find out what these signs are so you can put your mind to rest which Iâm sure it will
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Youre starting unnecessary drama. The separation is going to be hard enough on your kid. Donât make it harder by making it seem like heâs doing something wrong.
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If your having concerns about this I feel like maybe you need to reevaluate the whole situation. Are you trying to say heâs abusing your daughter ? Iâm confused but seems like thatâs what your implying and if thatâs the case then you need to do something ASAP !!!
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This day and age the world is evil. It is not right so move with your daughter period.
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I use to sleep with my son (6) often to help settle him after my separation with my boys father, I donât see anything wrong with it especially if you say itâs OK for her to do it with you. You are both parents who care for your child. Why must there be something sinister here. A good parent provides comfort, support and love which it sounds like he is doing
Why not put the child in her room. You sleep on the sofa and let him have the bed.
Really sounds like you are trying to accuse him of something.
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Whenever I visited my dad me and my younger brother would both sleep in the same bed as our dad, never felt weird or uncomfortable. If you feel uncomfortable about it ask why. If itâs uncomfortable due to a risk thatâs one thing If itâs just being upset about itâs, itâs normal.
I think itâs ok for this to happen (he is the dad) when our girls were younger the loved sleeping with me and dad. But girls are daddyâs girls (well mine are ) and the love sleep with him! No wonder ur not getting onâ!!!
Imagine if he said she canât sleep with you 
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There must be more to this.
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So youâre saying itâs OK for them to nap together⌠But that itâs inappropriate for him to sleep in the bed with her on a morning?
What?
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I will take advantage of every minute I can with my daughter, cause there will be a time that we will no longer be able to do that
Nothing wrong at all in my opinion with a father sleeping in the same bed as his daughter xx
No it is not ok. Speaking from experience.
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Why would you even question this??!! She is 5 not 15, if you think this is inappropriate then Iâm sorry to say itâs you that has the problem
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Not a thing wrong with it
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Are you kidding me?!?!? Is this question even real?!?!? Sheâs a daddyâs girl and likes her daddy (protector) to sleep next to her. This stage doesnât last very long and he is probably sucking up as much time as possible before you take his kid across the state to where he only gets to see her 4 days a week!!! Makes me wonder if your trying to make a monkey out of a mole hill so you get full custody.
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Trust your instincts if you feel something that truly jeopardizes your childâs safety is happening and investigate it on your own before asking any questions immediately. Donât listen to others on here that only have insults. Should (and hopefully) nothing arise from that, I wouldnât think more into it.
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Lol dose she sleep in the same bed as you?? My kids slept in my bed till they were like 7&9 until I got a boyfriend then my bed was off limits to my kids⌠but they sleep with their dad and their step mum and all their kids together in the lounge room and I see nothing wrong with it⌠I think if you are separating he might see it as a bonding for him and his daughter before you live in separate houses⌠I think maybe a counceler for co parenting may help too
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Think about it the other way round would you be comfortable with a son sleeping with you at 5 . My grandson sleeps in my bed when heâs stays over heâs 10 and I have no problem with that I we both have pjs on
Is there a reason you donât trust him? Why is it okay for a mum to share a bed with their child and not the dad? Personally think this is a you problem if thatâs the way youâre thinking.
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Nope, nothing wrong with it!!
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That is ridiculous that you think its ok for you to sleep with her but not her father. There is nothing wrong w a father loving his child. A father can be affectionate and it not be sexualized. Shame on you.
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My son climbed into my bed every night until he was 6 he cuddled next to me. If ur unhappy with the situation get a sofa bed and have him sleep on there. If you guys chose to be roommates where did u expect him to sleep? In your bed with u or the floor
Poor kid having 2 parents 5 hours a part how sad is that.
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My daughters father sleeps in the same bed with our daughter sheâs 3 I donât see anything wrong
Why did u even have a kid with him if thatâs how u feel?
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Not even going to read comments if u feel itâs inappropriate do something
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As a dad i donât what the issue is,i was in a shared house & my daughter would stay at weekends sleeping in my bed from the age of 5-7 ,it was either that or i wouldânt have my daughter staying over. Parenting is a shared job & at least he is still doing his bit so give the man a break after all she is his daughter too
Unless there is a concern for sexual abuse I donât know why you would be concerned? Thereâs no difference between that child sleeping with you or with him?? Youâre the childâs parents & all kids enjoy cuddling up to mum or dadâŚ
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The same post??? UmmâŚ
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Wow unless you have a Very good reason for him not to then you honey have the problem
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Why is it a problem? Would it be ok if it were you instead of him? Are you thinking he is being inappropriate?
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Their must be something else behind this do u trust him with your daughter if itâs a yes their shouldnât be a problem but if for some reason you donât trust him then itâs a clear no I donât no why your asking strangers you should no as her mother whatâs right
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My dad has nothing but girls and we were in our early/late 20s and we would all go lay in his bed when he put a movie onâŚ
Iâm confused by this like a few others I guess.
I find it so upsetting that this is an issue for some people. Imagine how you would feel as her dad if you thought people were judging you for loving your child.
Heâs possibly just wanting to spend as much time as he can with her given the fact heâs going to be moving so far away.
If cosleeping is an issue then your child should sleep in her own bed. 
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Umm, who seriously would even ask something like this? I can see why you two are getting separated because clearly you are a strange one! Why would you ever sexualize something like your daughter sleeping with her father? Thatâs almost like sexualizing a child sitting on her fathers lap. 
Someone is bitter I see!! If I were him, I would fight your weird ass for custody 
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I smell a dirty delete
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Ermmm if you had a 5 year old son would you let him sleep in bed with you? Heâs her Dad. Why would this thought even cross your mind? If you think anything inappropriate would happen why would you have children with this man in the first place? I think you need help!
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First that isnât inappropriate as long as he has never gave you reason to be worried about sexual abuse. Heâs her father. You donât have a right to try to control and set the rules for their relationship. You are leaving him your daughters not.
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If she sleeps with you in master bedroom whyâs it any different for her dad to share a bed with her? Children like to be close to their parents, my eldest is nearly 4 an without fairly every night she gets into my bed with me and my partner and myself not her biological partner have a problem with it as she clearly wants the comfort. As I wouldnât have an issue if she got into bed with her dad an his partner x
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Itâs ok for you but not him be thankful thatâs a close bond
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I slept in the bed with my dad growing up.
Unless heâs done something that makes you not trust him when it comes to his daughter than no, this isnât weird. Is it weird when moms sleep next to their sons? No? Than a dad sleeping next to his daughter is no different. Knock it off before you ruin a bond. 
Obviously after a certain age itâs considered weird but early-middle childhood itâs not.
My mother pulled this bullshit when I was 6 and made me feel like wanting to cuddle next to my dad was wrong. Ruined the relationship we had for a while because I distanced myself.
My.father started sexually abusing me when I was two. Do donât say sheâs only five whatâs the harm. He can be grooming het so that later when he does sexually attack her, it will seem normal in her eyes. So to everyone who says oh leave it alone itâs just her dad, thatâs what they said about mine. I agree no adult male father or not, should be sleeping with anyone whoâs that young. They start off young. Please see that their are two sides to every story.
If itâs okay for mother it should be okay with father, unless daughter has expressed that she no longer wants to share a bed with father.
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Bruh that is his daughter!! If he has not gave you signs of anything inappropriate then your just overthinking let the man enjoy daddy daughter time
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You better tread lightly or your gonna start putting unnecessary BS in your daughter head. Make sure your not masking your own stuff as other peopleâs stuff
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Thatâs like saying you should never sleep in the bed with your son!! Well my son is almost 5, and he sleeps with me whenever he feels like it. Which is mostly naps on the weekend. Nothing is wrong with him sleeping in the same bed as yâallâs baby! Thatâs truly petty! Iâm sorry but it truly is!!
I think the real question here is why do you not trust your daughters father to sleep in the same bed as her?
Because in a ânormalâ household this isnât generally thought about as a bad thing.
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Sounds like they have a strong bound. Maybe heâs trying to soak up his last bit of being a full time dad. Canât be easy for him âsharingâ your daughter. And it wonât be easy on your daughter as well. I am an adult and when I visit my dads apartment and heâs laying in bed reading news papers I still go next to him to hang out. Maybe itâs a cultural thing. If you truly have a gut feeling that something inappropriate is happening then there are signs to look for .
OP is getting dragged harder than Joe Exotic in a tiger cage
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Bitter itâs not always sexual when a father pays attention to there child I hate people who label fathers in a bad way pathetic
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Well when my parents were divorcing when I was 10, I would sometimes sleep with my dad. We were clothed in appropriate PJs. And there was no touching. And that case I would see no problem. But if there is a suspect of any sort of abuse I would not approve.
Wow, do you think itâs inappropriate if you sleep with your daughter ?? What a stupid question 
he is her father, if itâs okay for you, then itâs okay for him.
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Unless you think heâs a creep whatâs the problemâŚitâs her dad
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Unless you have clear evidence that heâs done or is going to do something to her then you really need to take a step back. If itâs all in your imagination then I would have to agree with others who have said the problem is you. Maybe you have some underlying issues or maybe you were abused as a child and feel like the same thing could happen to her, but heâs her dad. If sheâs comfortable with it then maybe you should try to be as well.
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Nothing. Because itâs not inappropriate as long as youâve never had red flags of pedophilia before or sexual harassment.
Itâs his daughterâŚ
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Would this be a question if you had your 5 year old son sleeping in the same bed as you? Unless you suspect something wrong is happening, leave it alone
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So since your separating Iâm guessing youâre about to use that bullshit to start a custody battle and use it for a reason why he can no longer see his child? itâs the weird made up scenario in your head yet it wasnât a problem b4 the split nor is it a problem for you to sleep in the same bed as your child
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So where is the problem? It is only ok if you share the bed with her, not her father? My 6 year old sneaks into bed with us in the middle of the night. I leave for work at 3am. She stays sleeping in the same bed as her dad till morning. Unless your daughter says she doesnât want him sharing the bed with her, then there is no problem.
Some of these comments are shocking! I donât know why the OP posted this but itâs not so far fetched for a father to molest or rape their own daughter⌠Yet, so many are pretending it is⌠Instead of being judgemental show some empathy as there may be something very wrong at home!
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So is it wrong that my 6yr son is sleep in my bed and Iâm his mom. No! So why would it be wrong for him to sleep with his child. If heâs never done anything solid as sexual abuse then you need to stop that way of thought.
Its a blessing for him separating from your toxic mindset. I wonder if your daughter is already a witness of your apprehension, what sort of an image she would be growing up with of a guardian.
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I had to re-read this post twice just to be sure i was really reading what it actually says⌠And still had to come look in the comments just to make sure i didnt misunderstand it the 2nd time too⌠What an odd question. And clearly something you seem to be insecure about⌠Why is this even something youâre so unsure about⌠Hes the biological father. Yall aint sleeping in the same room. There has to be more otherwise this whole post is hella weird⌠Has he done anything to indicate hes sexually attracted to his child? Have you witnessed anything? Has the child said anything? Does she act any way around him that seems out of character? Cause if not then you feeling the way you feel or having these type of un-instigated thoughts. Really makes me feel bad for the father and the effect that your problem thinking is most likely going to have on their relationship⌠And possibly the shit that its gonna create for him if you keep persistently making some innocent. Not at all sexual, normal and paternal thing into some weird pedophiles shit ⌠Youre gonna ruin that dudes life. And thats gonna have a huge impact on your daughter. .
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Wtf? Sounds like you have a jealousy issue. Which is sickening.
Itâs fine for you but not for him? Get over yourself and stop trying to drive a wedge between the father and daughter. If this is how you are in general, he probably left you and he should fight you for custody. You have the issues obviously! What should you do??? Knock this crap off! Thatâs what you should do!
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Well you better stop sleeping in the same bed then. I find this so sad that you think this and in turn could project it onto her. This is unfair on your daughter.
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You are sexualizing a dad sleeping in the same bed as his young daughter, and you think he is the inappropriate one? 
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Just because youâre separating from him doesnât mean he is separating from his child. Thereâs nothing wrong at all with whatâs going on. I feel like youâre possibly just allowing your resentment to play with your mind. How would you feel if he said the same about you?
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Has your daughter not got her own room ? I mean your daughter is nearly 6 personally I think she should be in her own room not with u or her dad ?
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Iâm going to play devils advocateâŚand assume that since youâre acting like this⌠he gave you a reason⌠meaning sexual abuse⌠in the case I wouldnât be posting fucking fb questions I would be getting a lawyer and keeping my kid as far away as possible.
So, the comments section isnât going the way you planned
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Teach her bodily autonomy and independent sleep and it could help prevent her from sleeping in bed with him. Your daughter should have her own bed so dad needs to stop crashing in her room. When he moves out he legally will have to have a bed and dresser for her
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I donât see any problem with that unless he has done something unusual for you 2 be concerned.
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Would you be asking the same question if it was a mother sharing a bed with a five year old son? While I believe the child should be sleeping in their own bed I donât see anything wrong with her sleeping next to her Dad.
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You need to think about why youâre even questioning this! Do you have suspicions about him? Do you not trust him? If you think thereâs nothing to worry about, you wouldnât even question it.
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Are you concerned or jealous? That seems to be something that needs to be addressed before asking this question. If there were red flags, I feel you, as a mother, would act on protecting your child. Itâs very difficult to answer the question without knowing that
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Me , My kids and there father sleep together any chance they get. Snuggle time is valued by everyone here. She is 5 and heâs 3 so no nothing wrong w it lol
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This thread is being posted everywhereâ:woman_facepalming:
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How TF do you think of that shit? If he does something stupid. Then send his ass jail. There are plenty of people to see to your daughter justice. They donât like that shit. As a father. I could never destroy my daughterâs life like that. I get a free pass to embarrass the shit out of her and put the fear of God in the heart of the poor soul that trying to take her from me. It sounds to me like you got issues. Some very bad ones at that. Ones that could really fuck up the relationship between him and his daughter. I pray for this guy to find a house. Cuz you is sick in the head. You bad for any relationship. Naw man. Big MF Red flag. You need God. Jesus canât help you yo.
I think at the end of the day you need to figure out why you feel this way. If itâs just the age thing then honestly heâs her daddy donât worry about it. If thereâs another reason youâre feeling this then trust your instincts and figure out why youâre not feeling itâs right.
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Why is ur 6 year old or in her own bed?? Canât have different rules for both parents so if u donât want him sleeping with her best you donât either and cut the habit if ur so concerned
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