Same could be said about the mom. I’m sorry but this works both ways .
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If he has a known history of child physical/sexual abuse then sure it’s wrong on every level. But if he’s been nothing but a decent dad and has given you no reason to think this way then your just being a petty biatch. Let him snuggle and love his daughter, if you’s are moving so far away from one another both him and his daughter will want to cherish whatever time they can get together, assuming you’ll have majority custody.
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Yes it is. You need to get full custody because. If he keeps this up what’s next. Touching? It happened to my nieces.
So because you guys are splitting up hes suddenly a chomo?
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Dads love their children just as much as Moms…there is no harm with dads and daughters laying in the same bed together…you lay with her? Would you question your motives for doing so? If you had a son would you avoid snuggle time with him? Your daughter will probably need more connection time with BOTH of you if your separating…
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Nothing wrong with it in my opinion. Mum of 3 girls. My youngest sleeps with me and my partner every single night. My other two were in their own beds from babies. But my youngest ( she is 5) is our baby and she loves to snuggle with both of us.
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I don’t think it’s wrong at all. When you were together were you worries about him being Predatorial? I don’t know you but I’m going to say no.
So if you weren’t then why are you now?
He probably just wants to spend as much time with her before and build a bond before you are living under separately.
Just remember you love this man once, Just because you don’t any more doesn’t mean you should jump to any suspicions.
The bond between a father and a daughter is a beautiful thing don’t come between that because you’re salty.
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If you think he’s a predator - make him move out.
If you don’t think he’s a predator - what’s your damn problem?! A father trying to bond with his child in the same was her mother does? Or are you doing something inappropriate with your daughter that you don’t want to share her?
Wtf is wrong with this world?! No wonder men feel like they can’t do half the stuff mother’s do… Do you also abuse men who try to change their babies in parents rooms?
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I wanna know why you have concerns…for a mother to have these concerns over a childs father is a real issue…I’m not judging…I’m a mum and the only way I’d think this is because he has a previous of being a pedo
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Shes only 5 !!! I think your being ridiculous 
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Is the difference because he is male? If so do you have a reason to think the father would betray an innocent situation?
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Why is it okay for you to sleep with her, but not him?
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Um like unless you think hes praying on her no its not inappropriate its a human instant. Moms and dads have a human instant to want to cosleep its a calming protective thing. Just like moms cosleeping.
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I mean, so what if they nap together? If there’s no other place for him sleep, then it is what it is. It’d be no different then you doing it.
Offer him your bed then, to nap in?
Do you have concerns of him doing something to her? If not, I think you’re blowing it out of proportion.
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There is nothing wrong with that it’s her father! 
I was 15 sleeping with my daddy when I wanted to because we loved watching a show and I’d fall aslp in his bed. Absolutely nothing wrong with it u trippn
I think you are seriously over reacting. He is her parent just like you, and you are both adults so if its wrong for him then it’s wrong for you.
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my opinion its wrong,could he not put matteress on floor
I don’t see anything wrong with it. She is only 5 and he is her dad. Would be different if she was 10+. Everyone loves cuddles with their parents
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You’re being ridiculous. Is it wrong if you sleep in the bed with her? No cause you’re her parent and so is he! If you had a son and dad flipped whenever you shared a bed with your son you would think he is being ridiculous. Unless you have a genuine concern for predatory behaviour than I don’t see your problem. And if there is cause of predatory behaviour why would you even allow her near him?
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Nothing is wrong with it. If he has pajamas or clothes on then no big deal!
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He’s her dad!! And she’s 5!! Jeezo 
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I’ve been through same boat as you, and I’ve had to refuse her staying until she gets her own bed or room, and It worked her dad ordered one, it for really bad where she’d come home to me crying cause her daddy wasn’t sleeping next to her, it was hard on both me and her during a period of 4 months after I moved out of his place in out new home, stay strong you’ll find the right solution soon xx
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My husband still co sleep with our daughters and why do you think in that way ? The only issues I’ve faced in this situation is my husband will allow our kids sleep late just that but they have bonding as father and daughters as well. Because when the mother pass away the kids will only have only their father to lean on. In my opinion though
Shut up you sound dumb as hell this page isn’t for parenting
Its her dad there’s nothing wrong with that
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There is nothing wrong with it. There is no difference between mum and dad.
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Seriously stop sexualizing your child & making it a parenting double standard on what YOU can do but he can not😒
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Ok do you think he’s molesting your children ??? I think the problem is with you . There is nothing wrong with a dad or a mum napping with there children in some cultures the whole family sleeps together . But there must be a reason your feeling this way . So really that’s the question you should be asking … why do I feel this way ?
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So you can sleep with her in the same bed but her dad cant?? If its ok for mum then its ok for her dad. Nothing inappropriate at all and if you think it is then maybe you should seek help.
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My hubby sleeps in bed with my daughter when he’s turfed out of ours by our baby!
She too is 5 and I’d question yourself as to why you find this inappropriate…
No different to her sitting on his lap and they both fall asleep. Let him enjoy the cuddles as you do. Xx
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How is it inappropriate? He’s her father…
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He’s being a parent. If you would not view it as inappropriate if it was you and a son then why view father and daughter as inappropriate? If you have no reason to believe he is harming your daughter then why do you feel this is inappropriate?
I’m tired of the stigmas and double standards against dads and daughters vs mothers and sons.
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I loved taking naps with my dad at that age lol his snores were always comforting for me even as a baby, it let me know that someone was there with me.
Its her dad. What’s the problem? Is it acceptable for her to sleep with you?
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Unless you get weird vibes like he is in appropriate with her in some sort of sexual way, I don’t see what the issue is. It’s not like he’s sleeping naked or anything. My advice is if you have concerns or have issues with this then speak your peace now or of course it will continue in your absence. I pray it isn’t what I was speculating too by the way!!!
My five year old gets in between me and my partner every night elbows me as she cuddles up and whispers ‘my daddy’ every bloody night, nowt wrong with it at all 
Even though I didn’t do this with my daughter you sound like my ex, sounds like your reaching for something to hold over him. Chill lady
I don’t see anything wrong with it sleep is sleep it’s not like you’re they’re both naked in the bed
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I have vivid memories of sleeping in the same bed as my dad who had custody of me when I was around that age anytime I didn’t feel good.
If the child isn’t showing distress, then I’m not really seeing the issue.
She’s just looking for another excuse to add to the separation… be lucky she has a dad that cares.
I guess you are watching too much porn which has effected your mental health badly.
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If you’re worried about your child sleeping in the same bed as her father then you should be worried about her ever being alone with him.
If you’re not then no it’s not a big deal. It’s her dad, of course she seeks comfort with a parent. Why is it okay for you to if it’s not okay for him?
If you have concerns that he’s a child predator then why is he in your home?
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If she was 15 yeah there would be an issue, but at 5 it’s easier to wake up with them or hear and feel them get out of bed so they don’t get onto things they shouldn’t.
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My son 4 I only have 1 bedroom fuck you he sleeps with me women always try to make men look bad I bet it’s the saggy tit milfs fems that hate men saying it’s not ok
Fair ta say (#MyOpinionEntitled) … Na errbody know u ride the short yellow … Please don’t reflect your … On her but mother’s instinct ok , yes we live in a world where uncle’s , cousins, brothers , father’s etc have … But fr u jump on the internet talk to family and seek Yahweh cause we don’t know … From a individual that’s been RAISED vs brought Up … Lil girls fall in love with they Father’s 1$t … In like of marrying or living happily … With one as such that stands to get her father’s approval where this tradition and culture has been … But nehow … What I wanna know b4 this post … How and who else have your addressed this concerned with … I wish I could fall back with my parents … Hell my kids still get in my bed oldest 30
He’s her Dad!! She’s 5
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If it’s wrong for him its wrong to you. Wtf! There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Stop acting weird.
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What’s your problem? It’s her dad for heavens sake
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are you serious?? My daughter who is 6 absolutely adores her father and often sneaks out of bed to cuddle up with him In the night. My son whp is 8 does the same with me! Wow
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I dont see the issue. Its ok for you to bed share but not him 
my daughter is 6 and sleeps in with her dad when she goes over there. My sister has two boys age 5 and 10 that choose to sleep in with her some nights i cant see the problem unless you think hes a danger around her but as he’s still living under your roof atm and you’ve stated she will be staying at his when he moves out i guess he isnt a danger so theres definitely no problem unless your daughter becomes uncomfortable with it.
My 5 year old son sleeps with me and my husband because he feels safe with us. He loves to snuggle. Be happy that he is involved and loves his daughter. You’re making it into a problem when it’s not. He is her father! Let him be a daddy.
Wtf you’re weird for this. If you can’t trust the father of your child to sleep with them, why were you banging them in the first place???
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So it’s okay for you to do it but not her dad? It’s not inappropriate. If you think so maybe you should rethink being around children yourself.
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I don’t see anything wrong
Hes her father… why would there be anything wrong with it
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I feel like you’re the one trying to make it seem inappropriate.
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Ur nuts… I always slept with my kids… Its soothing as fuck… Makes me pass out faster than normal… Its that relaxing… The fuck is wrong with you
either you had a traumatizing childhood growing up or something is seriously wrong with you… all my kids slept or took naps with their father !
You’re being inappropriate because you’re the one thinking about inappropriate things. He is the father of your daughter 
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I don’t get it, he’s her Dad… what’s the issue? So you can, but he can’t?
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Terina Miru I swear I’ll give you the back hand if you do this 
lemme have my cuddles 
Just seems a bit jealous of their relationship like hes taking away the special thing you do with your daughter if it isnt right for him then it isnt for you either
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Go with your gut instinct. Hopefully he isn’t molesting her.
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Lol my step-daughter is 4 and co-sleeps with us on our weekends. She wants to snuggle her daddy just like any other CHILD wants with their PARENT. Just because y’all are going through a divorce please don’t take this out on him. He deserves the snuggles just as much as you do.
Unless there are other things going on that are causing you to have other thoughts. Than she shouldn’t be with him at all.
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You know your partner better that anyone else ,you should know if he’s trustable,it is his daughter and if he’s a good man you shouldn’t worry
I’m trying to understand why it’s ok for her to sleep with you…her mother but not ok to sleep with him…her father?!
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Would you be questioning this if rolls were reversed you had a son that slept with you at that age?
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Trust your gut, if something doesn’t feel right
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This a stupid statement unless the is something you not telling about your baby daddy! Or the case of him forcing himself to you then you fear it might happen to your daughter as well…
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Nope don’t see anything wrong with this
You’re weird for this.
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My sons dad puts him back in his own bed and falls asleep with him, it’s a bad cycle to get into because he won’t sleep on his own now, and if I had a daughter I wouldn’t feel any different about him doing it, the only thing I see wrong about it is that he won’t sleep in his own bed on his own
Oh dear god, this must be a joke! Please say it’s a joke!!!
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She 5 … what are you REALLY worried about the man you laid down with an also married doing to his daughter…i say reading this hes a good dad an you should leave him be
Id be fine with a divorse if this is how you seen me from his perspective
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Wtf. The weird thing in this situation is you.
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So why is ok for a mother to sleep with kids and when it’s the father there is an issue… Are you serious? He’s her father and she’s only 5, he’s allowed to cuddle and sleep with her just like you do…
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I don’t see what your issue is here?? U clearly trusted the man enough to have child/children with him… and if I was him I’d feel super offended by this post!!! I mean, what are you trying to imply here??? The man is her father for god sake…
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Youre the only one sexualosing it so the problem lies with yoy
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Well if he can’t then you shouldnt
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Phaedra Chaney neutral should be your place and reflect your comment #NoJudgment … All we the people/public know about the situation and then is the post we commented on Gn/gm Shalom
Spread love XOXO
Omg is this a for real question? That is her dad as long as he isn’t naked there isn’t anything wrong with this, he’ll my 4 year old daughter won’t go to bed some nights until her daddy is in bed with her there is nothing wrong with that at all. But if something doesn’t feel right with you trust your gut all though you are the mom and you know best
I slept with my parents now and then when I was younger, I often got scared of my own room. It isn’t that abnormal. You should be able to trust family - if you’re having doubts you can trust him then there’s deeper issue than this going on.
Hell no. He is her dad.
Would this be a problem if you werent separating?
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Put a camera in the room and give yourself peace of mind and trust your instincts.
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Well in my view nothing wrong with that unless you know more than you are saying, if you do and anything sinister is happening then you have a moral obligation to your childs welfare
If you’re concerned about him co-sleeping with his daughter, you’ve got bigger issues at hand.
The only way I can guarantee my 4 yr old daughter won’t start screaming in her sleep from night terrors is if she’s co-sleeping with dad. And yes that is what it is. CO-SLEEPING.
First question I have is have you seen something that concerns you?
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Can someone say bitter baby mom
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Go with your gutt girl
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Oh wow, be thankful to have a father for your daughter who cares. Nothing wrong with her being cuddled into her dad, she’s 5 not 15 
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All kids sleep with their parents…I would be concerned if she was a teenager…or perhaps you need to speak to a therapist about your own childhood issues…
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If your having a go at him over this no wonder it causes an argument, to him that’s probably really hurtful . That’s his little girl no difference than a mum sleeping beside there child . He’s also moving out and away like you said . Don’t you think he’s trying to spend every hour he can because he knows this will be the last time he can in your family home .
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I dont care how old my kids are if they want to sleep in my bed they can. its no different then her sleeping in the bed with you
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I think you need to find out the legal side of things before asking facebook. The law may have a different view on things then what is on facebook. If you and the Dad are separating and still want to remain friendly you might like to point out the legal side of co sleeping with children of the opposite sex. If it’s illegal and he is reported to child safety he might blame you for it even if it wasn’t.
Stop putting this energy in your family. He’s her father and the family is in turmoil. Ì can imagine she needs comforting. Please leave them alone.
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okay people are saying go.with your gut but has this man still in her home … please make it make sense .
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You are not inappropriate. You are well within your rights to be concerned because unfortunately we live in a sick world. Trust your intuition. I also feel the same way and I’m very wary when it comes to my kids.
What a strange Question
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