Lots of people think babies are gross. Probably because they are 
Im currently pregnant with my first and i think babies are gross 
it wonāt stop me absolutely adoring my child. But they are pretty gross.
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Run away as fast as you can.
Nope 
! Iām old school.
Not everyone like having kids. There is nothing wrong in that. And to force that would result in end of relationship. Why do people think its a god given right to love having kids. Itās not. Loved my kids but the know Iām not interested in grandkids. I did my duty. Love them to death but never again do I want to be around kids.
Maybe he just doesnt want them, not his cup of tea
Children are gross. Eww
Iām 34. My 9 year old daughter and 15 month old son are gross. Farts, burps, poops galore. My wife (32) would agree. The poops are from my son, of course. My daughter definitely had her own episodes, though.
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Run and donāt look back.
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Keep looking! He is not the one
Run for the hills and leave his self-centered ass, you deserve better
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To be fair babies are pretty gross as humans are gross in general. Secondly not everyone has a desire to breed nothin wrong with that but if his goals and yours donāt line up yāall might make better friends. Maybe you should have an honest open conversation with him about these issues.
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Babies ARE gross and look like aliens. Anyone who says otherwise is lying to themselves.
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Run. I would not trust him with ANY child.
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I stoped reading after āheās ok with herā about your daughter. Throw that relationship away. If they are not THE UP MOST BEST with your children, even if your child denies themā¦ that relationship isnāt worth ish. Because in the long run your child will resent you for choosing that person. 
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I would steer well clear of any bloke who doesnāt like babies or animals.
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Babies ARE gross (see source). Also, how does he say he wants a family but also āis indifferent to having children of his own as wellā. I think you may need to brush up on the definition of indifferent. Wanting children and indifference toward having them are mutually exclusive.
Source: Iāve had 2 of them.
Youāve wasted enough time thinking about it, just go your own way and never look back.
Honestly I would be more worried about his relationship with the child you already have then hypothetical children.
And I donāt mean that in a mean way, but did you ever talk to him previously about what that meant when he moved in? About what role heād play and what he wants? I know a lot of people who have zero interested parenting someone elseās child. I myself have been a step parent, so Iām not speaking personally, just know quite a few people.
Echo what others appear to be saying and that is he doesnāt appear to want children. From personal experience my ex husband asked me what would happen if he thought our child was ugly when she was born. I told him not to be so daft that even if she was he wouldnāt think that. And when she was born his first word were OMG sheās ugly (and he was serious). When we got home he asked if I was happy coz Iād got what I wanted now (my daughter).
We had been together 10 years by this time,we were due to go for IVF when I found out I was expecting. So even though heād gone through all that with me and said āsomeā of the right things he clearly didnāt want children.
I ended up a single mum.
You need to think long and hard about this but I would say he really isnāt keen on having a child and if you do want more heās not going to be the one, and if he does he may end up resenting either you or the baby or both x
Good luck with your decision
Normalize not everyone wants kids. This guy obviously doesnāt care for them. Accept that fact about him and move on
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I am a mother and I think babies are gross lol I thought my babies were gross but I loved them. However there seems to be more than that going on here. I would NOT make a baby with this man, Iām 90% sure youād do the entire thing alone (even if he stayed).
Maybe he just thinks babies are gross. Babies are gross the most important sentence here is āI planned for usā not we but āIā . Stop trying to change him he was this way this whole time
Babies ARE gross, though. Trust me, Iāve had 4. Gross, adorable little glow worms. Iām more concerned that he hasnāt bonded with your daughter. How does she feel about him? I wouldnāt want to be with someone that refused to build a relationship with my kids after that long.
He is literally telling you exactly how he feels about kids, what else explanations do you need?
Why would you think of having a child with him in the first place. He has made it very clear he doesnāt want children so why trap him with one 
I like babies more then full size humans
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I love my one year old to death, but shes legit gross 
That is not normal sounds like a very selfish person!
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If there is no bond with your daughter who is part of the package then kick him to the curb hes worthless.
Yeah cuz babies are gross. Its just how they are.
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Your intuition is usually right.
Some people have NO BUSINESS being around kids.
If you want more* kids and considering you already have one I would absolutely consider this a deal breaker.
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I think babies are gross.
āis it normal for men to think babies are grossā? Because one does, once again throwing a net over a whole gender.
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Like imagine if I came on here asking, as a man, āgolly gee folks, my girlfriend told me she HATES cats and absolutely thinks they are gross. Should I maybe get a cat?ā Youād all be like, āno you idiot she was quite upfront about how she feels on cats.ā
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Yea. Some women do too
oh look, a man with an unwashed ass has an opinion again
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Get the hell out NOW!!!
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Know had three children . Love them love children abs6love babies holding them the innocents. Actually it sounds like there is some6wrong with this guy .
I meanā¦ I think babies can be a little gross, yeah. Doesnāt mean they all are but I can totally understand how and why people think so.
Heās made it abundantly clear that kids arenāt for him, and thatās fine. He doesnāt have to like or want kids.
But kids are definitely in your present and future.
Youāre just not compatible, itās that simple. Cut your losses and move on.
Why would you stay with someone who canāt bond with your child. You are signing your kid up for a childhood of feel not good enough and feel abandonedā¦
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Babies, toddlers, an older children are gross. He isnāt lying. Infant adults are gross in my opinion. Lol
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I would be more shaken at the idea hes not bonded with your child from your previous relationship ā¦ Than worrying about bringing him a new babyā¦ You as a MOM should openly reallze your daughter is your main priorityā¦ She deserves more than just some dude in her life making you happyā¦ She deserves loveā¦ Attentionā¦ And everything children get in lifeā¦ If i were you id hang up this relationship and pursue someone better for my childā¦ Shes a package deal with youā¦ Relationship should be based off of happiness and love for you both along with attention and etcā¦ Id give it up just for that reason alone.
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Sure you could have a baby with him but doesnāt sound like he will help you with the child you will be doing it on your own heās already let you know that.
Why would you want to have children with someone that doesnāt want children?
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Um dude needs to grow up. Seriously. He sounds like heās still a child
Oh my god, you shouldnāt even need to ask anyone this. ALWAYS put your child first period. NEVER put a man before your child. He canāt bond with your child? Then say goodbye. Why would you even have to think about it? I mean seriously??? I donāt understand women like this. Mind blown. 
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Why would you even question this? 3 years and heās not bonded to your daughter?! Your living breathing child. Throw the man away and get far better standards for yourself and your child!! Your daughter deserves better.
Iām a female and think they are gross lol. Love mine but not a huge fan of other kids.
But why would you keep waiting thinking itāll happen? Itās been 3 years. At this point itās on you. Waiting for something that heās being honest about
I have 4 children that I love with my entire heart, but they are indeed gross 
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Honestly, I would leave him. Being āokayā with your child isnāt enough for a 3 year relationship. Take it from a divorced mama, you want somebody who is going to love your baby like you do! Best of luck 
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Babies are gross. I have kids and even I know that.
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Heās gross, on to the next.
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Iād be more worried about the relationship with the child I already have than him thinking babies are grossā¦ while she is not his child, they should still have some sort of relationship after 3 yearsā¦ā¦ Especially if you wanted a future with him.
No thanksā¦!
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I donāt think his choice in words were wise. If you are wanting more children in the future, his comment basically states that you both are wanting different things, which is grounds for a OFFICIAL break-up. That being said, if he thinks babies/children are gross, heās basically saying that a bond with you current child isnāt open for option. Relationships are established on TWO receiving ends and heās not receiving your daughter And donāt want to. Dude, donāt want kids. You already have a child so youāre clearly not āmeant to beā
If heās not bonding with your childā¦thatās a no from me.
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Iām a mother and I think babies are gross. I love my kids but babies Iām not a fan.
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Sounds like you both have different life goals. So heās saying it like he doesnāt like babies or children in general. Babies are gross but thereās so much more that I love about them that I donāt mind the throw up or diaper changes. They get super messy when they get older exploring and getting into things you were sure you had put up. Lol.
But definitely donāt be with someone who doesnāt want children when you do.
So I didnāt even finish reading your post but yes some people think babies are gross. I even think babies are gross but I still love my babies and would do anything for them cuz well babies are gross.
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he would. be gone in a minute cause children are a blessing , even though they r gross
I have 3 beautiful girls and love all 3 but heās correct, babies/kids are gross. 
I think he will completely change his thoughts on this if he had his own child. No its not exactly normal to think babies are gross. But it sounds to me like heās saying that as a defense to cover up his fear and anxiety of thinking about having his own child. Clearly he is not ready yet. He sounds young and that mindset is something that young men will use when they feel they have to cover up any feelings that show weakness or vulnerability. Iām sure its a defense to hide how he really feels. No one could really look at a baby and think they are gross. Thats just not even possible. I would shelf that conversation for a while longer. Definitely donāt rush into getting pregnant. Its something you would want to revisit but for now i wouldnāt press him or hold it against him. He doesnāt know how to tell you heās scared of babies so it comes out that heās grossed out by them. Some men canāt admit anything scares them fo fear of looking weak but they can admit something is gross and feel just as strong and manly.
You already have a babyā¦ Is him ā¦ A forever baby.
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My child comes FIRST and if after 3 years he doesnāt have a bond with that child itās time to GO. One thing I WONT DO is sail my child short !
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As a mother of 4, I agree kids can be gross at times.
Iām trying to figure out why youāre worried about having a baby by him when you already have a child that he hasnāt bonded with in 3 years. You need to get your priorities straight. The child you have NOW is a priority. There shouldnāt be anything to rethink. Even if he did bond with his own child, where does that leave the child thatās already here?
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I would not want to have a relationship with anyone who cannot form a bond with my child. Thatās not up for negotiation.
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Immature as fuck I wouldnāt want him
āis it normal for men to think babies are gross?ā Asking that is your answer. Kids are NEVER gross!!
Nope dont do it, do not entertain him, my soon to be ex husband said he doesnāt like babies because they do not respond, he left us several times to the point i got back to my home country. After we had our second he told me he wasnāt ready for a family a few weeks later he asked his mistress to move in with him with her 2 kids, of course is easier bc they are not his kids so he doesnāt do anything for them
LOL. Babies are not gross. Toddlers are gross. They play with their poop and eat boogers and you could put them in an entire bubble wrapped room and they will come out sticky. The real question you should be asking yourself is why you are asking a bunch of random women about this? Instead of sitting down and having a real conversation with you SO about weather or not he wants to be a father. It may not be what you want to hear, but at least you will know right off the bat instead of making assumptions because he made a random comment about ābabiesā.
Iād break it off tbh. Men tell you who they are, women jst make the mistake of thinkin itāll change. Chances are if you get pregnant with his child, heād make you do all the work bc ābabies are grossā . & If him & your daughter canāt form a bond it might result in her being uncomfortable around him. Kids come first
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The first thing to worry about is them not having bond after 3 yearsā¦ Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. My son and him are stuck like glue!! My boyfriend has said he doesnāt like kids and im like why do we have kids. He has a 13 yr, my 5 yr, and we are 32 weeks pregnant with our 1st together. He simply said he doesnt like other people kids because they donāt listen, have respect, etc. but loves our kids. Which i totally understand that. I love kids but if they are disrespectful and donāt listen i donāt like them either. So ask him if thatās with other people kids or if that would be with his kids as well. Im 23(about to be 24)and he is 33. You have to have communication with him.
Iād probably just dip to be honest he doesnt seem to be the type of person Iād want to be with
The fact that he and your daughter werenāt able to bond would be enough for me to walk away tbh.
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Not everyone likes kids
I have five kids and I love them all very much but the first year of life my God it is gross you get vomited on three to four times a day you get pissed on a lot you get s*** on often like yeah Iām siding with him I have five kids and they are gross I love them all I would not change any of it but honey babies are gross I love them I wouldnāt change anything putting that out there multiple times so people donāt think Iām a bad mom but yeah getting peed and pissed on and vomited on every day is not something I would have signed up for but I did and Iām not changing it my children will always come first but yeah they can be a little gross
I mean, they are gross lol kids are gross period then teenagers get even more gross. Shit. Some adults never grow out of being gross lol
Him not bonding with your child is my bigger concern. That would be enough to break it off. His statement imo makes it clear youād be doing all the work if you were to have a child together. I joke about how babies and toddlers are gross all the time though lol.
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He may just be saying he wants a family because he knows thatās a dealbreaker for you if he doesnāt want kids?
If he isnāt great with your child thatās a big indication of the type of father he will be. Since you already have a child. I would move on and find someone who wants to be a part of the family youāve already created and wants to have more children with you.
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Yes, itās normal. Some people think children are angels and run the world with the their little adorable sassiness and inquisitive nature and are drawn to love and protect them and only see them as the most adorable things on the face of this planet. Other people donāt like them at all. They canāt stand their noise, their messes, anything about them really and thatās okay too. They donāt have to like children. Imagine, you going into the relationship, full on knowing that heās indifferent to kids of his own and thinks they are gross. You think itās just a phase; he still hasnāt really formed a fatherly relationship with your existing child and you decide to get pregnant, thinking heās going to come around and he doesnāt. Now you are upset that you have to change all the diapers, you have to get up with every cry, you are solely responsible and you have 2 kids now instead of one to look after; are you going to get angry at him for not helping because lets face it, he was honest with you and something in your brain thought he would be different. He can be a great person and just because you walk away doesnāt mean you donāt care for him, it means you wish him the best in finding someone else that aligns with his values while you search for someone that aligns with what you want and are looking for in a partner.
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The thing that would have put me off is him not having a relationship with the kid I already have. Iām not saying he should be a perfect dad to her but after 3 years there should be a Solid bond or at least the beginning of one. Babies are gross, I know I have 2 kids so itās normal buy most people donāt say it out loud. Who really wante to wipe a Poopy butt
Itās not just a man thing. I hated kids up until I had my own. I like them most days Still not a fan of other peoples kids tho. I wouldnāt bank on having kids with him changing his attitude towards them. He might not like his own either. If you want more and want someone to really love your child that you already have, Iād move on.
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i do not think his attitude will change but if you are strong enough to handle this forever , go for it but dont expect it to change
My husband thought babys were gross tooā¦ 6 kids in and he wants another one.
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he doesnāt want kids, there is nothing wrong with that, He is letting you know ahead of time, so you have the option
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Time for him to go completely bye bye
I am a mom of 2 so lets start with that. I didnt NOT want kids until i had my first. Kids ARE frikin gross man. They cough and hack all over you, sneeze on your food and will stare you dead in the eye after they do it, backwash like hell! And they are just gross in general but they are kids lol thats just how it is. Now that being said, if he TREATS them like they are gross thatās different though. If he acts like he is disgusted by them then I wouldnāt want him around.
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Babies ARE gross. Theyāre disgusting. and that ābabyā smell so many love makes me want to puke.
Have you talked to him about the bond? Is it really not there or not what you want it to be? To be turned off by a realistic viewpoint is asinine. If you canāt get over a simple difference of opinion, leave the man alone to find someone worthy of him. You arenāt it.
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I love babies im about to have number 4 BUT babies are kinda gross xD.
Thatās a lot of coming and going for her to handle.
I meanā¦babies are gross. They spit up, poop/pee on themselvesā¦mine likes making out with the dog 
thereās nothing wrong with pointing it out!
Kids really are gross. I have three boys and omg some times I gag, lol. Idk if he would change his view but heās letting you know ahead of time. You can try to stay and have a kid maybe later on but donāt expect his view point to change.
If he canāt connect with your kid then you need to leave
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