Listen to your instincts. This man does not want children and you cannot force a bond to happen between your child and this man. Walk away
I mean, babies and kids are gross, they are messy, smelly, always fighting baths, picking their noses and eating their boogers, or sticking their fingers in things they definitely shouldnât. Youâre awfully immature if a person thinking kids are gross is wrong or a deal breaker. 
and yes I have a child, and have helped raised no less than 10kids in my life starting at 11, so I am more than aware how kids are. You can still love your children, or other kids and still think they are gross.
Break up completely and find someone more in tune with you and what you want.
No brainier.
He sounds like a teenager! I would say good bye and find a real man
Lol yep babies are gross. Luckily they grow up.
They are gross! I never wanted to sit for any of my cousinsâ kids until they were in elementary school.
Babies ARE gross. They poop, vomit, and pee constantly. But thinking theyâre gross isnât the same as âI hate babiesâ.
Well 1st of all if the man I was with and planning on marrying and starting a family with, wasnât absolutely 100% crazy about the daughter I already had, Iâd kick his fucking ass to the curb⌠thatâs all
Move on. Heâs lazy and not worth yours or your daughterâs effort. Only cruel men intentionally push children aside.
I would dump him in a heartbeat. Your children will thank you
Should ask him directly if he honestly wants children. As far as his remark, I have heard lots of guys say that, including our son and son-in-law. Both of which love their children very much. Think more just a dumb thing guys say. Donât over think it
When someone shows you who they are, do yourself a favor and believe him. Your daughter doesnât need this asshole and neither do you
I think youâve answered your own question get rid of him not for you
Kids are gross, honestly.
I agree babies and children are gross.
Bruh. Babies puke, crap, and pee all over you. Babies ARE gross.
Keep it movin Sister!
You will be a single mother of two kids if you get pregnant with him. How can you be thinking of having his kid when you canât live together and heâs unable to bond with the child you already have? You are not being responsible to your first child. Maybe take a break and find someone who takes the 2 of you as a package deal.
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Itâs definitely normal. Stop 
normalizing parenthood