Is it okay for my wife to go to a musical festival with a bunch of guys she doesn't really know?

Me being me I’d tell my fiance to go and have a good time… but bet your ass I’m going to show up there randomly too!

Her cheeks gettin clapped for sure pal lol Buy urself a red nose and big shoes cause ur a clown

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I think its time to move on

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You can’t stop her from cheating, but you can stop yourself from allowing shit to happen to you.

Go with her you’ll end up having an amazing time. Musical festivals are such a magical experience. I’ve been talking to so many people for over 3 years who I was so excited to finally meet at the musical festival I went to. You can make life long friendships in the process

Red flags go to a festival with a bunch of random guys definitely not okay

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No. And cheating aside, its not really safe to go hang out with a bunch of randoms off of Facebook :grimacing:

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She’s going to cheat again. A wife that respects herself and her husband would never go away for a weekend with men she barely knows, without her husband. It’s beyond disrespectful.

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I would NEVER disrespect my partner like that!!

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I mean pack ur bags n tell her I are coming also. If she doesn’t like it than leave her. I’d left the first time she cheated ims

Lol so you just gave her the okay to cheat a fourth time

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She’s garbage. And how does she know these people aren’t a bunch of psychos? Time to go shopping for a new girlfriend.

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Is your wife a child? Because this sounds like a childish move.

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Get her saying no to you asking to go documented in text message. Then divorce her.

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The fact that she’s ok going with you not going after she’s already had multiple affair she’s doing the same thing as before planning on being unfaithful again !!! If she goes just plan on changing the locks and tell her to enjoy her tent :ok_hand:t2:wow and ps she could get rapped or murdered kidnapped that’s the stupidest thing I have ever heard :woman_facepalming:t3:just wow she probably knows the guys and has a plan to do unfaithful things :disappointed_relieved: I would straight up tell her if she goes don’t plan on coming back! Change the locks get everything in text messages lots of evidence for divorce that way she can’t walk away with half your crap and file for divorce while she’s gone :ok_hand:t2:sorry but their a lot better out their I promise just cut ties now and don’t let her trick you into things this is how she’s proves her faithfulness and love it the total opposite!!! If she loved you and was faithful she would never and I mean never be ok with go threw with this or be ok with it in anyway !!! How would she feel if you did this with a bunch of women !!! Not ok I bet

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Ask her how she would feel if it was you and a bunch of girls… NOT okay at all. She needs to get her priorities straight x

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Tell she can go to the festival and help her pack all her things.

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Ehhhh this sounds really sketchy. Especially given her history of cheating.

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Im guessing he will be sharing a tent w her and thats why he pitched in

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Wtf? She has cheated on you 3 times? Dude……once was too many. Let her ass go.

She’s gonna end up assaulted but she’s grown let her go lol

She is STILL cheating bro

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Nope. No. Nuh uh. NEGATIVE. Please leave this woman. You deserve better. All sorts of red flags…
Personally I would have been done with the relationship after the 1st time she cheated, excuse me? Ha ! There will not be a 2nd, BYE. But that’s me. So.

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Those red flags aren’t advertising a carnival, although she is making you seem like a clown. Please stop allowing this woman to treat you like this… you deserve better. Find someone who will take her vows seriously.

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Excuse me
But fuck nooooo
That’s not proving anything

Nope nope nope

1.No not acceptable i’m not even married but I would never disrespect my boyfriend like that, and if he did that to me he would be living in that fucking tent lol
2. Shes already cheated 3 times her behavior clearly hasn’t changed. Did she even ask if you wanted to go?
3. Just leave or make her leave. Clearly she doesn’t want to be committed in the marriage
4. Married single divorced whatever going to a festival with a bunch of GUYS you don’t even know is just stupid LIKE WOW😳 lol

It’s absolutely OK. You don’t own her. If you want a woman that stays home all the time and doesn’t go out, then get a new girl that will.

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Doesn’t make sense at all , if she has cheated before there’s 2 options to either forgive her and let her gain trust back or not trust her at all , to me I don’t think her going would prove her loyalty at all

The fact that she has no reserve about a literal stranger is concerning let alone a history of cheating. She’s not going to listen to the music she’s going to do shady shit

Absolutely not. Would she like it if you went with a group of woman??

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Ummmmm she’s going to get the D🍆!
She obviously doesn’t give a hoot about you!

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Say to her, “I was thinking I’d get a ticket and go as well. So we could spend some time together.” And her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

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Tell her she is very immature and disrespectful of you and your marriage. I’d tell her choose her nonsense or your marriage.

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Why can’t you go with her

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Omg! Get a clue! Absolutely not. Personally, though I’d let her go and give her the rope to hang herself.

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Divorce her!!! the first and second time was enough… then to turn around and cheat for a third time :expressionless: plus going back to where it took place!!! Now with a group of dudes she does know, but won’t admit it to you ,because no one in their right mind would go with someone that they do not know!!! She is not a child, but a grown a** cheating woman

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No she shouldn’t go anywhere with a bunch of guys she doesn’t know
Anything can happen

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If it was me in your situation, they would be getting served with divorce papers one back. She’s already cheated 3 times and is showing you her plans to do it again.

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Didn’t you learn the first time?

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She is gonna cheat again.

Jokes on you her side piece is taking care of what your not.

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There are a lot of kidnapping/murder documentaries on Netflix. Pull some up for her watch one before she leaves for the trip.

Obviously, she’s trying to cheat again. Probably with multiple men. If you’re okay with a deceitful partner and STD’s… I would say let her go do her thing. Otherwise, wisen up to the fact that she’s floozy and you deserve better. :clap:t4: There are lots of decent, beautiful women out there.

Obviously she has never watched an episode of Dateline :roll_eyes:

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Actually let her go, gives you the oppertunity to pack her shit and change locks file for divorce or seperation tomorrow.
If you gotta ask, you already know the truth.

That has red flags written all over it.

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:joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy: buy a ticket and show up with some flowers. :woman_shrugging:t5::muscle:t5::hot_face: The flowers will be used for 1 of the 2, 1 a cute surprise or 2 wreath’s​:joy:. Good luck

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NO… RED FLAG !!! Use Your judgement. If you’re married you’re in a committed relationship. If you feel it’s inappropriate… then no she shouldn’t go. And it would be vice versa.

Seriously? Let her go hire a private investigator. If she is proven a cheater file the papers without her knowing and one day while she is out pack all her stuff set it outside change all the locks and take all of the money from the accounts and blow it on a vacation/bang a thon. She is a hoe. Figure it out.

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You must be a special kind of stupid

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Hell no! That’s dangerous :flushed:

Nope, not happening unless she wants to come back to a door she won’t be able to get into. Those locks would be changed

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she’s takin the clean piss outa u mate
fuck her out with her tent and close the door behind her

Ummm, no. Not a good idea. o.O

Red Flag! I wouldn’t be with her if she cheated 3 times!! You Must LOVE LOVE HER to be that silly

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Wow! Please tell me this is fake or this poor dude is oblivious!

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“She cheated on me three times.”
Man you are a special kind of dumb. I’m sorry. Lmao

Why aren’t you going with her?! I go to a country music festival every year, my husband prefers to stay home because he doesn’t like crowds and his bedtime is 7 pm lol but I don’t go with strangers, or only men. I have my brother cousin and a bunch of girlfriends. I would go with her, even if it’s not something your into. My hubby might even come next year, just to sit in the river and drink with us all day! Lol I’ve also never cheated and never will. You have every right to be suspicious and if she doesn’t get that, you might have bigger problems then a weekend concert! Gotta have trust, without trust, relationships rarely make it!

Sounds like one needs to call his attorney

If she’s cheated 3 times…let her go and make sure she don’t return TO YOU !!!

Don’t be an idiot! 3 times? Get rid of her ! Her plan is again

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That would be an absolute no for me and I would never put my husband in that position either

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Let her go then pack all her stuff while shes gone

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Sounds like it’s time to put your foot down with her and if she still tries to go it’s time to dump her ass

Let her go and while she is gone move the heck out or change your locks. You deserve so much more respect.

How does going to a concert without you but with a bunch of strange guys prove her love and especially her loyalty??? Think about that

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Do you think it’s okay? No? Then it sounds like you set boundaries and she should respect them.

It is not ok! Especially barely knowing them. Asking for trouble!

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Dude seriously hell nooo

She cheated on you THREE times(that you know of) and now you’re asking if we think it’s okay to let your wife have a train ran on her UM I mean go away with a group of men?:thinking: You know what, I’m sure it will be totally innocent :unamused::woman_facepalming:t4:

Hahahahaaaaa, you poor man… do you need a brick to the forehead?

Well real question is why are you still with her when she’s cheated on you three x already. You are basically giving her the green light to treat you like complete garbage and keep staying with her so. Of course it’s not okay for her to go with random men she supposedly doesn’t know but then again I bet they know each other rather you want to admit it or not.

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That’s extremely inappropriate and irresponsible.

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No. If you were encouraging her to go because trust has been restored, that’s one thing…
But if she’s pushing and you don’t feel comfortable, trust is not on you to fix if she broke it. The burden for making you feel confident in her actions is HER taking ownership of making good decisions. This is not a good decision at all.

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get rid of her…whats wrong with you she cheated 3 times and shes still there hahahahaha ok

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Nope she’s married She shouldn’t be going with no other man.

You casually strolling :woman_with_probing_cane::woman_with_probing_cane::woman_with_probing_cane: by them red flags
I make friends everywhere I go,don’t cheat and I wouldn’t do this… think she’s playing you. No woman would go to a festival with a bunch of guys and camp with them. Date r@pe drug etc… choo choo all aboard it sounds like

I would tell her you want to go let’s buy the tickets.

No that doesn’t make sense, leave , don’t look back

No. Would she care if you went with group of women?

She’s for the streets

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Red flags everywhere… Sounds like a gang bang to me :smirk:

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No. Let her go and move her out. Change the locks. Serve divorce papers. Pack her stuff nicely and put into storage, leave key in envelope on door. Take half your money, hide it.
Or…
Show up and spend weekend with her.

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Nope! She is cheating 100%

She’s doing this because you allow it. Set boundaries and keep them.

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It might be ok if it didn’t bother you but it clearly does and you clearly have a good reason for it. Also it sounds sketchy as hell.

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Have you any brother s that’s as easy going as you :joy::joy::joy::joy: if she cheated 3 times already she will do it again first time was a mistake maybe a mistake is something ya make once anything after that is buy choice. Cheating is the worse king of deceit ever to any relationship run for the hill s. An find someone that actually cares about ya full stop :stop_sign:

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How about you go too? That would put an wrench in it!

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I think you mean ex wife, bc DEUCES! Hell to the naw. Especially with her history.

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No absolutely not. If she goes then end it because she obviously has no respect for you or your feelings. the fact that she thinks that its ok after she has cheated on you multiple times shows you exactly what kind of person she really is. She has shown you her true colors, actions speak louder than words and her actions are disgusting to say the least. She has cheated on you multiple times and has got away with it she thinks she can keep doing it because you won’t leave. There are millions of other women in this world that would not treat you like shit I suggest you go find one and stop wasting your time you only live once. By the sounds of it shes everybody’s girl not a wife.

I don’t usually comment on posts like this but…that’s a hard no from me. Did she invite you to go? (I’m assuming also a no) She has a history of cheating and is going with a random group of guys she does know. If she chooses to go alone, I’d really consider what’s best for you. And what’s best may be leaving her. I don’t know you but you don’t deserve this.

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Sure, and while she’s gone move out.

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:raised_hand:Cant make a wife out of a hoe

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She is bad news and you need to drop her immediately.

If she’s cheated 3 times and sees no reason to change her behavior then she has no intention of changing. She should be doing everything to prove to you that she will never cheat. She’s evidently addicted to the attention. Sorry dude she’s a manipulator and you need to decide if that’s how you want to live because she’s calling the shots on your relationship. I think you should let her go and while she is gone file for a divorce and change to locks or load up and leave.

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I have a bridge for sale…

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She’s a narcissist. Run dude🏃🏼‍♂️

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So when do you go on your “weekend trip” with 4 women you met online to lets say the exotic dancer covention so they can learn advanced pole dancing techniques? continuing education is important

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You should definitely leave her… she doesn’t care about you

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Get tested for STDs & chat with a lawyer. Divorce her or put up with cheating behavior forever. There are better women out there for you.

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Yeah she’s playing you for sure, sorry to say

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