No… but generalities are generally inaccurate. All night? If he’s willing to turn off his cell an hour before bed, that’s an indication there’s a chance but other than that one of you should go.
Emotional cheating is real and leads to physically cheating not mention hiding it …oh yeah that’s a problem
Nope. My ex did that. Even chatting right after sleeping together with her when I had a shower. Week after we split they went on dates and trips together.
I think the worst part is when you bring it up to them and they act like it’s nothing and don’t stop
Snapchat deletes things automatically. So if it’s just there it’s the app. If it’s other messenger places like Facebook or something? Then I’d absolutely be skeptical.
I don’t know how to do that anonymously but it’s wrong.
Do people really not know this isn’t okay?? What are y’all accepting in your relationships??
No why delete it if you have nothing to hide?
Speak to your spouse, if he’s being evasive take it from there and decide what’s your next move.
First concern of mine would be why would some one who has a partner be up all hours of the night chatting to anyone?
No, find out why and go to counseling together.
No that’s not ok I would be having a talk to him about it and setting some ground rules
Absolutely Not Ok At All …Dump his butt…
Hell no its not ok hun…thats how I found out my ex husband was cheating on me
Not a great sign if they delete everything, but doesn’t stuff on Snapchat disappear anyway? Not adding up that.
Nope if he’s keeping secrets and has a locked phone there’s more going on.
Why not spend time with your husband or wife? Something wrong here.
unless it is his sister or cousin then no
Red flags obviously if there deleting shit there hiding something
Hell no, your first time dating?
Ya I’d leave that’s just me too many warning signs. Unless this is a serious relationship I’d walk right away.
I don’t touch my husband phone and. He can talk to anyone he wants to
The chatting is fine in my books. The fact that they hid it from you and deleted everything is a real problem. Very sus and you have every right to be upset. I chat all the time with all sorts of ppl. My partner knows and he is more than welcome to read my chats. He never has bc he trusts me.
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Deleting and hiding are bad.
If there was nothing to be ashamed of, he wouldnt hide it.
I talk to anyone. Hubs doesnt mind. But my phone is never locked…
So theres that…
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Why is this person even asking? This is absolutely a no. The fact they only found out by having to see the unlocked phone even further solidified it’s not ok.
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Of course not under any circumstances!!!
Nope 
sorry to say but he’s seeking attention from her and seeing where it goes.
I don’t think it’s OK something is not right there
Nope, no, no way, no thanks, nein danke, it’s a no from me!
I think you know the answer to this.
No. It is a slippery slope.
Time for one of you to ‘hit the road’ … sorry to say.
If he hasnt cheated already he will. Cheating always starts with sneaky conversations
If I’m doing this? Yes, I’m an asshole. And the significant other is no longer significant and should do what I apparently lack the courage to do and end it. Why play this out, when the end is so plainly in sight?
All night? He’s se*ting and sending pics tbh thats how relationships break up next thing you know he changes around you dumps you and suddenly they are dating…no surprise there…so maybe just leave him first cause obviously he has issues
No it’s cheating. Deleting is an admission of guilt.
No it’s not ok. At all.
Fuck that…your better than that, you should be receiving all his attention at night especially…
Why are you not enough. He should be paying attention to you
It’s over. Move on with your life.
No that’s emotional cheating
First of all… talking all nite with someone else is wrong… he and the other woman are taking away your time with for you and him to be together… there is no 3 wheel in a relationship… this is the beginning of cheating… if he can be transparent with you about her then hes doing you wrong… period… dont put up with that crap.
I agree with with Brittany Bliss, your gut instinct is telling you, listen to it. My answer to your question…NO.
Yeah they’re cheating or about to cheat. Cut your losses sis and move on.
If they’re deleting,
they’re probably cheating… 
It doesn’t smell right!
No they have something to hide
That’s still called cheating.
No fucking way BYE BYE YOUR SHIT IS ON THE ROAD
It’s the deleting that sealed this deal lol. Leave sis.
Take it from experience fuck no it’s not OK
No, it really isn’t ok.
wow, are you dumb or what?
There are more important things in life…
Something fishy is going on
I wouldn’t have a problem then talking to somebody of the opposite gender as long as it was completely innocent and they weren’t ignoring me. But the fact that everything was deleted screams it is not innocent
No… he can have a friend of the opposite sex however if he has to hide things lock his cell and so forth …somethings up. I believe you let people go before that line is crossed. It’s called respect and that’s one thing he seems to lack.
Also, my fone is locked only because that is required to setup fingerprint password bypass. My being a slut, the majority of my female companions won’t get into my fone cuz they don’t wanna know.
No. It creates feelings that are harmful…
Not good. Why hide it if it “innocent”
Interesting that the majority of responses are reading that the “S.O.” is male.
They’re waay more than “just cool”
It’s always the cover up that gets them;-)
He’s a cheater, and if he hides and deletes, locks his phone he’s cheating, dump him!
Screw that he can throw out those hoes if he wants me.
I do not tolerate that, if she’s a life long and long distance friend communication is fine but appropriate hours.
I don’t do my man like that I expect the same.
Umm fuck no. Not ever don’t matter night or day. Very disrespectful and inappropriate he knows that.
That’s some toxic ass relationship shit. Get out
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Just kick him to the curb
Next. No time for drama.
Are these real?!?! 
Walk now, it’s finished period.