I would leave. Why stay when you get talked to like that, he obviously feels a certain type of way. You deserve better!
Why are you still there?? Pack you stuff, hold your head high and run out the door. Treat yourself right! It is better to live on the street with dignity then in and house with disrespect. God bless you!
Regardless what HE says, you deserve better and it’s time to go.
Honey just leave. He flips between wanting you and not caring if you were there or not. You deserve to have someone who wants you you be around through thick and thin. Sounds like he’s made his stance pretty clear even if he goes back on it and says he doesn’t really want you to go. Hold your head high and walk away.
You need to ask?? Run!
If he loves you when he’s sober, he should love you when he’s drunk.
Please leave…you deserve better! If he was truly sorry, he wouldn’t of said it in the first place.
So ya…you need to go! A year is long enough to be torn down by this schmock.
Know your worth and don’t give him anymore of your time. It’s much to valuable for him! 
I’d be gone the mind games “go …no stay” 
that’s just to much wishy washy bs for anyone to deal with. I would never put up with that for a year.
Sounds like you should have been gone a long time ago
That’s not love … he has issues and needs to address those before he can ever actually be in a healthy relationship. You’re not in the right place or right time in his life unfortunately. Do him and you the favor and leave.
Yes, you deserve better.
If you have to ask then you already know.
Leave and never look back he’s not worth the heartache. You shouldn’t even have to ask this question…
Oh that would be no question in my mind as to whether or not to leave, I’d be gone. I would get out as soon as possible. This guy is obviously mixed up and playing with your emotions. Move on and find someone that will truly love you, trust me you will have peace of mind and not have to worry about these mind games. If he truly loved you he wouldn’t be torturing you constantly by telling you to get out and then ask you to stay. He probably just doesn’t want to be alone and that’s too bad for him, let him find someone else. He’s obviously taking advantage of your good nature. Good women and men are hard to find.
You just need to run.
Buh bye. Not worth your time or stress
Yeah he’s told you over and over to leave and that he doesn’t care. Why stay? Leave and find someone better
Hes grooming you. Sounds narcissistic. Leave immediately
Girl he’s told you multiple times, listen to him. You deserve better
Run ! Don’t let him belittle and disrespect you like this. Have some bride and dignity. This man doesn’t care at all about you. If you love someone you never tell them to leave
good lord— pack immediately and leave
Please please go,never look back,cross him off.you deserve so much better.
Pack your stuff. Like you never should’ve packed it to move in with him in the first place.
I didn’t even read this but I always say if you question leaving then you already know what your answer should be
If its time to ask its time to go. I hated when my ex bf attempted that on me. Well I did leave i left with in 4 months of him telling me that sheet. Thats how long we lived together. (Dating almost a yr) I also got told I didn’t fight for domicile with my then two kids. His exact words why didn’t you fight hard enough for your kids. (Uhm excuse me I did the best I could. Quick back story I was going through divorce and I ended up homeless and living with friends, run down motel, mothers house ect so court sided with ex. I still have full legal custody/rights of my two oldest. They just live with him which what else was I suppose to do homeless?)
Grant his wish…you will be better off…no one should put up with that BS!!
Pack your stuff and go.
Stay, if you like abuse. Doesn’t have to be physical to be abuse. That will be next.
Time to go. Pack your things, and leave. I get that people say things they don’t mean when in an argument, but then he apologizes. If he was truly sorry, he would stop doing that shit because the best apology is changed behavior. You deserve better. If you love the man, and he just has flaws, you can sit him down and have a conversation. Tell him the next time he tells you to leave, you will leave and won’t come back. If I were you, I would wait until the next time he told me to leave, then I’d pack my shit, leave and not look back. Block his number on your phone and block him on every social media platform so he can’t fake another apology.
Pack up and leave, it’s definitely drugs and it won’t change unless he gets help
you should have gotten out the first time he said it. no man is worth you losing yourself.
Leave when he’s not there you deserve better no one should be treated like that man or woman go find true love
It was time the first time it happened
Definitely need to go!!
Girl leave, I’m in the same boat and I’m finally making that choice!
Trust your instincts. Dont belittle yourself just leave.
Why are you still there?
What part of “get out, there’s the door” don’t you understand ???
You already know what to do, stop procrastinating. The man doesn’t love you, he doesn’t want you, stop giving him chances.
Why do you even think you deserve someone who talks to you like that? That’s the question. Why do you think you deserve to be treated that way. Have higher standards girl.
Get O.U.T. don’t question it otherwise you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of misery and he will throw it back in your face that he told you to go on many occasions. He’ll NEVER E.V.E.R. change. The guy has got issues you cannot fix.
Nope leave. Without a doubt.
Wth leave, there’s no " I regret it, or I’m sorry" after he has said some many times… know your worth. You deserve better than that bipolar boy who can’t make up his mind… he is wasting your time.
How is this a question? How much clearer does he need to be?
Pack up I have spare room.
He’s probably doing it for the emotional reaction. Some people get enjoyment from it. So next time he says it do it. Don’t change your mind when he begs for you to stay. Just go.
That’s manipulative! Just leave. You’ll be much happier.
I personally dont play those games. Imo, that’s just his way of “controlling the situation” every couple fight but I absolutely refuse to allow someone to “have that power over me” or say stuff on purpose to hurt my feelings or “hold stuff over my head” (I’m a grown up, I dont need to be threatened with homelessness everytime he gets his panties in a bunch. Also, how do I know he is gonna change his mind? Imma look stupid the day hes for real
Should have left the first time he said it…drunk or not. My way or the highway people suck…and never change.
Yup time to pack up n leave n don’t go back.
don’t waste your pretty.
You should have been gone the first time he said it
Leave and don’t look back.
Why would you choose to live with somone that can be that nasty. He has issues and you deserve better.