Is it weird people call their dogs kids?

Uh! Mine are exactly like this. These are my babies, I will risk it all for them.
If I die before they do, they will have enough money to be taken care of.

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I have children. And our dog is our fur-daughter. She would attack for me. She is loyal to the end. I understand what you are saying but what each person does in their family has no affect on you. My fur-daughter acts better then the children 100% of the time.

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Yes it’s weird. I have 3 dogs, 1 cat, and 1 daughter. I’ve had people tell me their 1 dog is so stressful it’s like having a kid and the proceeds to explain how a dog is a kid. I told her how stupid she sounded.

Yes my dogs are my family but definitely not kids.

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People act like their pets are their kids bc they can’t have kids. I get it. BUT i can see why it would be annoying to have someone comparing taking care of them being as hard or harder than taking care of actual kids

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Can’t leave your kids home alone while you’re at work lol. That’s what I always say to people who compare

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U are weird my dog Is my kid

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I use to feel this way until I had my own dog, he was definitely my child he was our baby and when he died parts of us died too !

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Some people are unable to have children and their pets are their children.

They’re my babies , their not just dogs , I have 3 children that are grown but my fur babies are just like children

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You know what’s weird? That people are so triggered by someone else’s actions, that provide that person with joy to the point they feel the need to make a post on Facebook. There could be numerous reasons. Maybe she can’t even have kids. Maybe she had a shitty childhood and doesn’t trust herself to raise children. You should learn grace.

Why do you care what other people do that has no impact on your life?

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Um I have a special needs son, a 5 yr old and a 4 month old and my one year old puppy is by far the most difficult to take care of, and considered to be my 4th child

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I have 3 kids…and 2 dogs… They are all my children…dogs are family ( so are other pets) they get scared during thunderstorms just like kids…they need you to make them food…just like kids…play with them just like kids…clean them and up after them just like kids…yes my dogs have sweaters for the cold…when im handing out treats they get in line like my kids…they are like kids

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Animals are better lol they got a year or two of being ass holes. Babies keep you up for a year or two and then become ass holes as time goes on lol

Does it affect you in any way? Then why are you so bothered by what other people do or say? When you open your heart to an animal they become family.

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My family loves our dog he has two beds in the house and blankets, toys, snacks,fancy collars and we celebrate his birthday every year why because he’s party of the family. I have 2 kids and a fur baby the joys of my life. Please focus on yourself and leave others living there life.

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I have alot of “babies” my farm birds, my dogs, my horses etc. I also have 2 children. They all depend on me for survival therefore they are my babies, so no it is not weird. I buy them clothing, feed, toys etc. just like i would my own children.

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yea OP you’re weird . my dog is my fur baby. always will be

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What do you care? If it makes her happy what’s the big deal? Her dogs are still dogs not kids.

Does it affect your parenting in any way? Dogs when taken care of properly are alot of work and they are her babies…

Weirdest part is you being so hung up in what someone else does. :wink:

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I think its hella weird, pets are family yes… but not babys or kids and people are not mummys to pets in my opinion :rofl: and to compare parenting to being a dog owner is just :woman_facepalming::woman_facepalming::woman_facepalming:

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Weird flex but okay. Um, I have a 12 year old son, he’s spoiled and so are my two cats lol my old lady is 11, and the other is 3. They are like my children too. I think it’s weird if you don’t treat them like your children and apart of your family :face_with_raised_eyebrow:I screened my deck in so the cats can come outside with us. They are my babies too, tf.

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Why does it matter to you how they refer to their animals. Does it really affect you that much that you have to judge what they are doing in their life?

Our dogs have always been family ! My moms youngest kids are teenagers now and the dog is totally her new baby ! Doesn’t hurt anyone else , just means that dog is getting so much love!!

Well I have a dog and he is my 4 legged son. He has gotten in-between my 1yr old and a nasty looking German shepherd before. (My son got to close to said dog I was redirecting him that we didn’t know if it was friendly or not. We were still every it of 5 feet away from it when it bared it teeth and growled at my 1 yr old and kilo jumped in between and kept that dog away from his human). My “dog” will lay his life down for me or mine. He is every much one of my children as the 3 boys I carried in my womb and gave birth to. He still needs me to exercise him feed him water him groom him. All things I do for the two legged.

Weirdest part is you don’t think they need their own bed :upside_down_face: like what.

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I have two kids (8&2) and 5 dogs. Our dogs are part of our family. They are like our children and are by far the most difficult.

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You haven’t known love until you’ve had a dog that deserves to be referred to as a child.

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I’m not here to bash or judge but I think if you have a strong love for fur animals it’s not weird! I myself don’t,they shouldn’t be hurt or anything

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I don’t care what people do as long as its not hurting anyone. They could be beating and starving their dog instead. Pick and choose your battles.

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FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT THANK YOU!
Cool, so I love animals growing up, wanted to be a veterinarian, and back then I did love my animals a lot, I didn’t however refer to them as my children, guess I wasn’t that hardcore. But now I have 4 children, I think it’s weird because first of all they are are human off spring, but anyone who has has a child from birth will tell you it’s WAY HARDER to take care of actual children. And I agree pet’s are family, but people who take it too far puzzle me completely

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I have a friend like that, I just let her do her, no matter how ridiculous she looks

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Not everyone can have children. So their dogs ARE their children. No problem is bigger than another. It’s just a problem. No lie is worse than another. It’s just a lie. Just because they don’t make since to you don’t mean it don’t feel just as real to them. You know what it’s like to parent a child . They will never know that. But they know how to parent the closest thing to a child they will ever get. Remember non of us are the same. But we all feel things. We all want love. And just because your problem seems worse in your eyes does not mean they dont feel their problem is just as bad in their eyes … we got to loose this hate for each other. We all just want something to love and to be loved. That shouldn’t bother anyone. I understand being jealous dog moms could have more freedom that people with actual children. But we all live the life we get. Non of us are better than the other.

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Until you experience unconditional love I believe you’ll never be able to understand parenting at all. I have a son & my fur babies! & I treat them all the same, besides being able to leave the dogs by themselves… that’s pretty much the only thing I do differently. :woman_shrugging:t2::v:t4::purple_heart:

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Mind your business. Not everyone can or wants to have human kids.

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No I happen to like my dog better than my child sometimes lol

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I’m a single mom to an actual human child, but I also spoil my fur babies just like I do my daughter. I work in vet med and refer to pets as kiddos because a lot of the time, they’re just like kiddos to their human parents. There’s so many other things that are much worse to worry about instead of people treating their dogs well. Pick your battles. It doesn’t affect you at all, so why worry about it?

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You’re not alone. I can’t stand it when people who don’t have any kids, say it’s just as hard having dogs as it is having kids. Sorry hunny, no it’s not. It’s far from the same.

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Some ppl can take it a little far. But those r normally ppl who can’t have kids or the kids have moved out. Pets can sometimes fill a void in someone’s life or just add more to life. I know I would be kinda lonely without my cats and dog when the kids r in school. They keep me company. Isn’t that why ppl get pets?

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Dogs do need beds. You sleep on a bare floor

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I have always done that with my pets I treat them like their children what can I say

I don’t have a stroller for mine but…

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then you would think I am weird asf as you say. I love my dogs crazy love. My kids are grown so these babies are mine. My house is their house we just live there. If people do not want dog hair on them or to be loved on then they need to stay away .

I was told Happy Mother’s Day one time at work then they said oh wait you don’t have any kids. I did have fur kids. They were my children before I had my son. It’s hard to lose your fur kids. You know when you have a pet they will only be here for a short time. You spoil them while they’re here just like you would a human child.

I was told Happy Mother’s Day one time at work then they said oh wait you don’t have any kids. I did have fur kids. They were my children before I had my son. It’s hard to lose your fur kids. You know when you have a pet they will only be here for a short time. You spoil them while they’re here just like you would a human child.

Your friend is just trying to find a way to relate :woman_shrugging:t2::woman_shrugging:t2:

It’s actually more weird to me that it bothers you so much you made this post about it…

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Some dogs want to go outside but can’t walk far, they definitely do need beds, and who cares if they dress them up, some need it cause they get cold.

It’s definitely not as hard as raising human children but it’s not weird for ppl to call them their children lol if they are a part of my family, they are my babies.
I feel like this is a troll question/post though :rofl: who actually worries about what other ppl do with or say about their animals if they’re not abusing them?!

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I have 2 sons… I also had a family dog who I spent over 7g on because he got got hit by a car and required lots of medical attention… dogs are similar to kids because they require love, discipline and there health is important to. They are part of the family. Dogs are just as loyal as any family would be… To each there own but in this particular post your judging & calling names all because you have a different outlook on animals.

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I think you should mind the business that pays you- why does it matter to you how folks treat their dogs? Cats? Dogs ARE kids and seeing them treated well vs poorly, pleases me to no end. Here’s my proposal- when you start paying my bills you can tell me what to call my dog- but not before every animal has a good home. You just worry about keeping your human children out of prison and off drugs honey

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They are making up for the emptiness in their life. I get it. My kids moved out and I need something to take care of. I’m not driving my dog around in strollers and dressing them up though. My dogs know they are dogs and I’m the boss. That’s how you train them to behave.

I would give my life for my pretty girl. I don’t have any kids and she is my baby. My world.

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I treat my dogs as my children they are my children

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Nothing wrong with people treating their dogs like kids.

However, it’s so annoying when people say raising dogs is harder than kids :joy: It’s not. Dogs are easy. Kids are so much harder.

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Personally… my dog and two cats are my babies, as well as my son. My dog has his own bed, the cats sleep wherever, though there is a cat bed too. Some people struggle to have babies, and fur babies are all some mums can have. It does, however, grind my gears when someone tries to compare having an animal, in a way of caring for and looking after a child… that’s a no from me. Each to their own :woman_shrugging:t4:

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I treat my dog just like I do my kids.

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Life is to short for this get a life this is them find your on hobby

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Maybe think about why it bothers you. And let her do her :woman_shrugging:t4:

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Yes it is very weird when people treat animals as children

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You are on your own. If thay is what makes someone else happy, then who am I too judge them. I have many friends who cannot have children and their pets are their “babies”. There’s nothing wrong with that, and I’d never tell them otherwise.

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I have children and a dog and a cat. I love my fur “babies”
I spoil them with love, and affection just as much as I do my children.

Animals have feelings, and emotions. They deserve the best life possible too!

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When I had my dogs before they passed away, I treated my dogs just like they were one of my kids 

Same here @we have 6 grown kids our dog sleeps with us has his own his own toys blanket

Not one thing wrong that she or anyone treats there animals like kids.

I think it’s weird to mind someone elses business.

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Once you hsve kids I think it is in no means is it even remotely close clothing strollers just stop I hsve dogs I love them but my kids are my kids my dogs are my dogs

Lmaoo I get where you’re coming from. Some people can be all extra, stroller is a little excessive too :rofl::rofl:
But dogs are not easy to take care of… they need our attention like kids do

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I don’t call them my kids…but they are my fur babies, and I spend as much time with them as I do my kids!! Sometimes I get to spend more time with them, just because they are not as self sufficient as my children! Some people are super maternal ( like me) and I am going to overly take care of ANYTHING around me (even my plants) Lol! I think it’s great that our world still has loving, compassionate, people still in it!!

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My kitties are like that to me. But I also got 3 kids too lol :laughing: and by all means no they aren’t harder but with dogs they also shouldn’t be home for long periods by themselves and still require lots of attention but harder no.

I have two human kids and 5 fur babies. I can’t for the life of me understand why how I or anyone for that matter, treats their pets affects you? Unless it’s abuse then it absolutely should matter. Like really tho… Who cares what she does. If she isn’t hurting anything, move TF on. :woman_shrugging:

No, what’s weird is treating animals like crap. Some of us realize how intelligent and sentinel beings they are

In my opinion, I don’t mind when people say fur babies but calling them actual children :roll_eyes: don’t compare your dog or cat to my kids thanx; & yes I have kids, a dog, & a cat & they are not the same but I do spoil them all​:heart: this is also an opinion I usually keep to myself but since someone asked lol

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My pets are my family. A pet will love you more than anything even themselves . I would not hesitate to save my pets before I would most people in a dire situation. So if anyone treats their pets like it’s their child… I understand completely

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It does bother me a little bit because it kind of takes away from the hard work we do everyday to raise our kids. But damn a dog should be able to have a bed & if the owner wants to put clothes on them who cares, doesn’t hurt you or your pockets.

It doesn’t bother me. Everyone deserves something to love and spoil.

I don’t do the clothes and strollers but my dog is 100% my kid. He is my baby.

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I used to think the same way as you. Then my son died and all I have left are my dogs and his dogs. So yes I understand how you can take that love and give it to another being. I don’t have a stroller for them but they are my babies. CarlJr4ever25

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Some people who can’t have children or have lost a child, will call their animals their children. You don’t know everyone’s story, so to judge someone because of this COMES OFF as petty. :person_shrugging:

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I think it’s sad that you feel this way. I had a Frenchy that was my best friend for 14yrs.Yes,I felt like I lost a child and a piece of me,the day i lost him.If you have never loved a fur baby,you will never understand because people only understand what they have been through in life.They can’t relate to others pain.

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I have a 12 year old, 5 year old and 6 month old. Our 1 year old black lab is family…and he is definitely one of the kids lol

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I have kids and I have 3 dogs , 1 cat a turtle and a fish… and I love them all very much …

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I def call my animals my kids… I have had three miscarriages and no living children. I also did foster care for several years. While itnis different you dont know her story while u may not like it, it costs 0 to be nice and mind your own…

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We treat our dogs as family we call them our fur babies our children call them brother and sister’s nothing wrong with it ppl that can’t have babies animals are the next best yes when their puppies their a 24/7 job just like human babies

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Very strange indeed.

Some choose not to have children and thats ok. So what if they want to love them that way? I think that’s perfectly fine also!

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A random lady gave me great advice as a kid…. Before you have kids get a dog. It is basically the same if you treat them correctly. The lady doesn’t have kids and these are her babies and what makes her happy. I never said I was a mom before human kids, but it doesn’t bother me that others do.

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I think it’s weird for someone to get a pet if they’re not going to make it their baby

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If you aren’t a pet owner you don’t understand. But, if it’s not hurting you in any way, why do you care?

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I think it’s weird that you care. Live and let live :woman_cartwheeling:

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The only part that rubs me the wrong way is comparing raising animals to kids. I love my dogs and cats… But raising my sons is completely different. But I have both animals and kids. My dogs are a million times easier.

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My dog has clothes amd he is my baby.He is spoiled like my human children.He had manners,and is a good boy.Most days,he listens better then his human siblings lol.

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Why do you care?? Worry about yourself. You have no idea of other people’s lives. So many infertile couples that would love children…so they love their animals. It fills a void you are lucky to not know.

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I have kids and dogs and they are all my babies.

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Maybe she can’t have kids?

If u think about it, when u get a puppy it’s not potty trained, it’s a baby, it pees and poops on the floor, they cry all night, they tear stuff up, get in the trash, make a mess. You have to potty train them, feed them, love them, care for them, clean up after them. They are like kids if you treat them the right way.

Well obviously you don’t have any animals because if you did your animals do become your children.

I do agree that training and taking care of dogs is hard and exhausting but kids require much more care. Although I am a mom of 1 it does sometimes feel like I have 4 children because sometimes my dogs act up just as bad as my son.

I don’t find it crazy. Not everyone can have kids. So them dogs are their baby’s.

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I am weird, mine has 2 beds and a stroller. Do I care?

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