Not a problem. It’s your job. If these issues cause personal problems find an alternative career.
Lol you’re getting paid for a job you willingly agreed to. It doesn’t matter what your employer is doing or who’s going to be home. Either do the job or quit. Your man being mad that you have to work isn’t the parents problem. That’s something y’all need to figure out and not drag them into it
I could see the problem. I would not put myself in that situation. Can you maybe take then your your house?
Absolutely not! Wow… and it’s a typical day in your job, his wife and him have the money to pay you for him to have a day off what’s it any of your problem or your fiancé he sounds like a controlling baby! Hope you enjoy being controlled I promise you married will only make that behavior worse… more like a property then a spouse.
Think you are over reacting!
“I have a JOB” if you’re being paid then do your job.
This is why sometimes it’s not good to work for or with friends
No, you have a right to feel the way you do, it’s a job yes… But if your a parent being a parent is more important than a video game period… That’s not working or running errands your baby sitting for him to play a game and btw Friday Christmas Eve . Shouldn’t be working if they are there. Period
Over reacting. It’s your job
As long as your being paid there shouldn’t be a problem.
It’s your job
Yes you are overreacting!! From past experience, your fiance has got a problem with you being in the house with another male and your fiance has managed to convince you that you think the same. You are getting paid to do a job so do the job or resign and let somebody else earn the money!!
This is why you don’t work with or for your friends.
If your finance is a jealous man,trust me,do NOT marry him!!! Your in for a lifetime of misery!!!
I mean yes and no. yes because the dad should be a DAD video game event?? Cmon now. I could see it being reasonable to have you if he were on his death bed. But your husband should trust you and not be a psycho.
If your still getting paid to do it then it shouldn’t be a problem. It’s your job, your getting paid. End of story. Point, blank, period.
I don’t see what a big deal it is. When you are in a video game event, and for the fact he took time off work, then yes you should accommodate them especially if you are being paid. Look at it like this husband is attached to his video game, and knowing how important tournaments are, he can’t just get up and move. Boyfriend is being controlling and don’t give him your power.
You are a babysitter and if they choose to be home but still need you then so be it. They may have stuff to catch up on, have a day to do nothing, etc. I babysat in Germany for women who needed a mothers day out. No biggie
I would be asking my bf/soon to be husband, if he is going to be paying me my daily wage for that day, since I can’t go to work due to his insecurities…just my opinion though, because if he’s not willing to do that, then I’d be taking my ass to my JOB. Js.
You’re upset cause it’s your job and you’re getting paid?
Sounds like your fiance got trust issues…and are you “upset” cause he is? Or you upset you have to work?
I’d be beyond upset if my husband was home for the day, and especially it being Christmas Eve and didn’t want to take care of not only mine, but his children as well! And was trying to pay for a baby sitter when it’s beyond irrelevant because he wants to play a video game. If he wanted a day off to himself, take the weekend, while the mother tends to the children and whatever else, but I personally think that it’s ridiculous.
It’s not really your business what they’re doing. They’re paying you to babysit and you already agreed to that day anyway. Doesn’t matter if he’s a shitty dad, not your problem.
So if it was a favor yeah I would be upset or if it was automatically expected yes I would be upset but if she asked and you agreed to the terms I mean it sucks but I have take finals for college and paid my sister to come over and watch the kids (granted I was still trying to care for the kids ) but I paid her
If your getting Paid what’s the issue? If your not getting paid, don’t go. Ever.
Okay all you Karen’s saying her husbands controlling are the exact reason married people don’t excel and argue. In no way shape or form is he controlling by looking out for his wife and expressions his feelings towards an issue that they both agree on. Bye Karen’s
Babysit that’s why you’re there.