Yes, there is such a thing. You sound very hurt, I would talk to him about you feel. If it doesnât change, you have to sit back and think about your options. Youâll have to ask yourself if you want to stay or if this is a deal breaker
So in my opinion, itâs a bit of a grey area. I am a man who has been married for 15 years and for the record Iâve never had an inappropriate relationship with another woman.
If Iâm out and I see a woman that I find attractive Iâm absolutely going to enjoy her beauty. That being said, Iâm keeping my mouth shut and not making a comment.
As to going online just to look at pictures and make comments I would say thatâs probably crossing the line.
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Is there such a thing as a man who only has eyes for one woman?
There is, all men arenât assholes lol
Two wrongs donât make a right though⌠dont stoop to his level.
Itâs normal for men and women to find other people attractive while they are in a relationship. To comment on their pictures online while in a relationship seems disrespectful to me. Tell him how you feel and if he respects you he will stop. If he doesnât stop he probably never will and I would think about if itâs something you can live with if not end the relationship because it sounds like it makes you feel horrible.
Typical of a man.
No excuses.
I donât believe that these types of men exist.
They exist. Mine certainly only is interested in me. I however donât care if he watches porn, likes a photo or something. Heâs not a prisoner. He is attentive, loving, absolutely not cheating. He respects the boundaries of our relationship that we have established as do I.
Sometimes I feel like some of yâall gotta stop trying to put put your partners into little boxes. It seems to cause more harm than good.
My man and I both look haha 
and we stir each other up about it. We literally donât care as long as no touching is done
Yes, they do exist. You just have to find him.
Mine canât be bothered to look elsewhere so only has eyes for me.
I think itâs really disrespectful obviously your going to pass someone or know someone and think they are attractive thatâs human nature but whatâs not is acting on it
I wouldnât say 90% especially because women cheat on men all the time too, hello thatâs why there is paternity court.
Thatâs so disrespectful in a relationship periodâŚ.
Unless your watching together lol thatâs different
Hypothetically speakingâŚ. After 1 year of marriage a âwomanâ is sleeping till 11am while her husband is in the driveway fixing her car. He finishes, goes inside and finds that she is just up and in the shower. He walks into the bedroom and on the night stand sits her cell phone that she usually takes with her. A gut feeling, which Iâve seen described as god talking to you said, look at the phoneâŚ. Until this day, 6 yrs into the realationship he decides to break his own rule, touching the partners phone. He felt so strongly about this that he had a conversation with his partner when the relationship was in its infancy.
When he punched the password in 1212 he almost fainted that it workedâŚ. On the screen already was a text message from 15 mins earlier. Itâs too graphic so Iâll paraphrase. The unknown texted writes âcan I ejaculate onto your face AGAINâ. And that same person who had to see that loved so deeply that he stayed until finally being asked to leave so that the 3rd affair could be done without the dirty business of lying and sneaking around 4 years later.
There were many times pleading for couples therapy only to be brought on deaf ears. Hey. We are all human. I donât hate this person. I actually love them. I feel sorry and am greatly saddened by the lack of empathy and emotion they possess. We all have to face ourselves.
The devil sometimes dresses in sheepâs clothing
You havenât been single since 12 yrs old
They do exist! Iâve got one!
That happens because in your culture most of you think and accepts that as typical male behavior.
sure do exist honey âŚi got me one going on 13 yrs strong 
As for a gaze, heâs married not blind. But when you choose to be married, you choose to forsake all others. Thereâs no reason for him to be chatting these women up. You are worthy and deserving of his respect.
My guy can look all he wants. Now as for talking to other women, I am not crazy about it. He can be friends with whoever he wants as long as there is no other woman out there who genuinely thinks they are together or will be. I have HUGE trust issues, and I fight those every single day so its not an easy task to trust him, but he hasnât given me a reason to NOT trust him and I canât hold my past against him.
Yes they exist. I do genuinely think everyone looks- women included. Not in the sense of looking to flirt/cheat/etc but quite literally just noticing attractive people. Thatâs normal and healthy.
Commenting, messaging and doing more is definitely not okay though. There ARE men who wonât cheat. But it is more rare than it should be.
We all look, itâs human nature.
Itâs only a deal breaker when touch is involved
They definitely do exist they are just really hard to find.
My fiance and I have been together over 10 years, and neither of us would ever cheat on the other. We may wanna kill each other but we would never cheat or be disloyal to one another.
Nope. Do u have eyes for one man. No. U look at hot guys. Itâs natural
Looking and doing more is 2 diff things.
Men are visual creatures, everyone including women look at hot people
Yes there is such a man, and I am blessed to be with one for almost 18 years now .
There is definitely men who only have eyes for one woman. I have one. We were Highschool sweetheartsâŚ27 years later, we are STILL happy as ever. My husband can look all he wants. Heâs human. I have found other guys attractive tooâŚIâm human. Acting on it is different. He can talk to women friends too âŚI donât own him, and vice versaâŚbut we both have 100 percent trust in one another. Talking as friends is non-issue.
Heck Iâm heterosexual, but I have told women how beautiful they are the same as I have told men they are handsome.To me beauty is not something male or female itâs just beauty.
When you see a pretty woman , do you look, do you appreciate her beauty. My mom always told me â if your husband isnât sneaking looks at pretty girls thereâs something wrongâ. My husband regularly looks at girls online, it has never once occurred to me that I should be worried, itâs called trust, without it you have nothing.
Good ones are either taken or like us and say screw it
We all look. Now to to Google and look up Travis Barker Nudes. Youâre welcome.
Biologically speaking i say no. Some are just better at hiding it ( i am speaking on checking other women out, not cheating). I was taught women do not go by physical attraction, but by phermones. So subconsciously women are smelling men out casually mention how wonderful some man in the store smelled and he should subconsciously give you a reaction and be subconsciously be pissed and it will bother him bc he will be having these negative feelings and not quite understand why
I look at and flirt with other guys, plus Iâm Polyamorous, so I emotionally love a few other guys other then my husband. And my hubby and I look at other girls together and talk about them, nicely tho. My hubby is mono, but trying to see about trying to figure out poly. But I just donât see him able to live or love that way. Like Iâm able to.
Honestly, I personally have no issue with looking. Hell, we look together as I also like women. I also look at other men and talk to other men. He knows and doesnât care as he trusts me not to cross boundaries. I donât care that my man talks to women as friends. I trust him not to do anything to disrespect me and his family. He never has. I think everyone looks but everyone has boundaries for their relationship and itâs wrong to disrespect those. If you canât trust your man to respect those boundaries, why are you together?
My husband and I have eyes for one another. We have five boys. We still date like we are in high school. We sext all the time, we make out in the hallway as we pass by each other and pray that one of our kids doesnât catch us and immediately start in with the âEWWWWWW MOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMâ We hold hands, we cook dinner together and have conversations about things happening in the community, we make plans and goals for our future. We support each others hobbies even if they arenât something we enjoy. We donât nag, when we do something wrong, we apologize and correct the behavior. We own our bullshit and we arenât afraid to say sorry. Some nights we sit next to each other cuddled up on the couch while we play games on our phones, other nights we gather around the dinner table and play board games with our kids. We do projects together. When we are in the car, we donât just listen to music we talk. Our relationship is healthy because weâve worked to make it healthy. Your blanket statement about women getting married only have eyes for one man is a little false their. People are people and some are more apt to check out other people, whether itâs a man or a women. Lots of people cheat. There is a lot that goes into making a marriage healthy and fun to be apart of. We are only getting one side of your story and we all know there are 3 sides to every story. Yours, his and the reality of the situation. What are you doing to grow and cultivate your marriage, together? When was the last time you flirted with him? When was the last time you made him feel handsome and irresistible to you? Men like to feel wanted and needed just as much if not more than a woman does. When they feel that way, they tend to reciprocate the treatment; maybe he just feels you arenât that into him. You two should try going on a date, having a nice long conversation about the needs and wants of your relationship and find out why he is looking for satisfaction in other women? Share with him your idea of what makes a marriage healthy and fun to be apart of. Maybe youâll find you both have different ideas or thereâs just a little laps of communication. Work together, youâll figure it out. Good luck.
Try it, and see how he reactsđââď¸then if he donât like it then tell him you donât like it either so Stop.
Best advice I got from my mom (her and my âstepâ dad have been married for 26 years, together 31) is that they all look, itâs human nature. If you trust your boyfriend/husband looking and even being friends with the opposite sex isnât a bad thing. As long as clear firm boundaries are in place, both parties accept those boundaries and respect them, and thereâs no hiding anything, trust your man. If for any reason a boundary is blurred or just plain out ignored, sit down with your SO and have a conversation about that boundary crossing and how it made you feel and how to make it better and how to not let it happen again
Theyâre around just hard to find. I donât have to worry about my boyfriend having âwondering eyesâ because I look at the women too, we enjoy doing that together.
That is a terrible view to have on men and women. Men can be just as faithful, and women cheat just as much 
Grow up
I am married and I still notice good looking men. Who of us doesnât like Jason Mamoa? Who said women donât look ? We do as much as men.
My husband and I both check out girls together. I think I do it more than him, lol. And if Iâm not mistaken I can recall a time we both agreed a guy was good looking.
I love my husband very much, but Iâm not blind. Granted I donât go lookin for or like menâs pictures online. I would recommend sharing that it hurts your feelings and explain why. My husband is not blind either but heâs not blatant if another beautiful woman walks by.
You seriously donât know the answer to that? Youâre head is either so far up your Tukkus or youâre just being a facilitator of chatâŚ. Itâs whatâs between your legs! If you line up 10 average men and ask a woman with full confidentiality who if any sheâd sleep with I bet the average would be 20%. Letâs say 2 out of 10.
Now do the same thing with a guy picking from 10 women with average to sub average looks. Youâd find that the number would be probably 80% if not above. Itâs freaking NATURE! hunters and gatherers! You ever watch a caveman documentary?? Do some homework
Men were given testosterone and women were given estrogen. Enough of the speculation. This is science. I personally know a man who had insecurities stemming from childhood about his size and strength. What did he do when he was capable? Started taking synthetic testosterone supplements. If anyone has been following along I think we know how this story ends. The added testosterone which ironically enough was probably a big part of him being attractive to his mate was the thing that destroyed them.
The biggest difference between a man wandering in a relationship and a woman is that a man can detach and have it be purely physical, almost animalistic. And also ironically enough women absolutely love that attitude. Women cheat for emotional fulfillment. My friends wife didnât just have intercourse she carried on with a relationship⌠in my eyes this digs quite a bit deeper.