Men are visual creatures hell let him look ive been with mine 16 years and I couldn’t care less because hes gonna do it anyway honey trust me im just happy knowing at the end of the day he goes to bed with me! Remember why he chose to marry you if you feel beautiful and he thinks you are beautiful let it be!now I will say this if it starts to lead to other things then theres a real problem
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If it’s someone he knows absolutely not if it’s porn doesn’t bother me.
Calm down all men do that.
I think it’s just in their nature to look 
as long as thats all it is and you trust him. He’s not hiding the fact that he looks from you so maybe that’s a good sign ?
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Imo if he was trying to hide it from you then it may be an issue but since he’s open about it he’s only looking for the sake of looking. Men are visual and before the internet you used to get Playboy magazines but nowadays you get it free through Instagram, Snapchat, etc.
This seems more of an issue with yourself and self-esteem. You need to remember even though he’s looking at these pictures it is you who he loves, you who he comes home to, you who he sleeps next to.
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Not atall exceptable, no respect for you or your feelings, get rid:wave:
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I’m the type of wife that points out a good looking women in the street to my husband so it doesn’t really bother me , half the flipping time he likes to show me anyway lol 
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Personally it’s not something I’d be happy about but that’s just my opinion. Not every man does it but maybe tell him how it’s making you feel
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Some ppl are jealous some are ppl are not …I’m not at all the jealous type …my beast friend on the other hand holy hell she’s such a jealous person and my cousin to I can’t wrap my head around it I’ve come to the conclusion in my own head that ,thats just who they are as ppl they are very jealous people and I’m not at all but I can understand where there coming from and even be like yea ok maybe I should be jealous over that some something’s are so petty to me …idk everyone is different and baby girl if you don’t like it say so and don’t hide the fact that it DOES bother you!
It’s your relationship and your boundaries. If it makes you upset, let him know. The least he can do is respect your feelings
That’s always been my moddo. It’s natural for everyone male or female to look… look can’t touch he’s married to you… like he said look all you want I know your coming home to me
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That fact that you told him it hurts you and he doesn’t care is the real problem here 
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He likes big butts and he cannot lie! No seriously…if you live together why does he feel the need? Wrong! X
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Men are visual. They pretty much all do it. My husband does. Especially butt pics. It bothered me but I got over it. It’s just pictures. 
If he is breaking your confidence down leave his sorry ass and let him look all he wants to.
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Nothing wrong with window shopping just as long as he doesn’t buy anything…
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Sounds like incompatibility and a lack of respect for boundaries.
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at the beach or walking down the street might be ok but to have it on his phone is not ok.
never seek advice on here communicating is most important and tell him how you feel.
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If you don’t see any signs of him cheating or trying to be secretive then I wouldn’t worry about it. People try to control other humans too much and get mad when they don’t “obey”.
Did you watch magic mike if so get over yourself its ok for you to watch that and swoon over topless aqua man then its ok for him to do the same
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Men like to look at boobs and bums… if its total strangers it’s his business. If it’s the neighbour…
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So is he really saying that ur butts not good enough to look @ why he goes elsewhere to perv. He’s an idiot & some people are plain unappreciative of what they have in front of them. It must make U feel rejected😞
Get rid of that fucking loser
Show him pictures of half naked men lol
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That’s disgusting and is cheating. Get rid.
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He is a man. Let it be. If he is just looking be happy he is not a cheater.
Curtain girls hold up ill brb……
Manuel De Los Santos does too. He thinks I don’t know lol oh we know. We see everything… but if that what guys want then that’s what they would chase after. And on top of that, I’m pretty sure they know that girls like that 1. Don’t want their asses 2. I’m sure the guys know that most of that is photo shopped… 3. Men are stupid
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Sounds like he’s an ass man 
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No. They all do it.
They all d*ck heads
Ya gotta deal with it 
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Don’t look on his phone and you won’t ever know.
I see nothing wrong with looking and my husband feels the same. If this hurts you, talk to him about it tell him how it makes you feel. Communication and both partner’s understanding each other’s needs and feelings is more important than anything.
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He has an addiction. It’s very difficult to stop however it can be done with determination.
It does dishonor you to continue to look at those types of images.
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That’s disrespectful a real man wont look at that bullshit
I’m so glad my man doesnt have snap chat or tic tok or any of that new crap and neither do I. The internet gives to many options for infidelity. I say ask him to give it up before he loses you. If he doesnt he will show you his choice in his actions. Best of luck to you.
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I don’t know what the answer is here. Would I be comfortable with a guy looking at that much every day? No. I don’t think it’s wrong either. Just not my thing, you know? Incompatible personalities.
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Totally disrepectful- my husband was a big time player but when we got together I said I didn’t want or need a man in my life who is fixated on sex, and the opposite sex. He immediately stopped looking at women on the phone. Of course he still masturbates and he needs visuals for that but when not engaging in the act he doesn’t look at other women. This sounds like a problem with op, and her not being firm with her boundaries. I suggest either a divorce, or an affair.
At the Beginning of our relationship, My husband did the same thing. I had when he talks with him and it took a few months but he stopped. I’d let him know how much it hurt me and how it made me feel insecure and in adequate. I may take a little bit of a conversation and maybe a few times because basically it’s addicting, but it’s worth having the talk if it bothers you.
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This is how addiction starts. Soon these pics will not be enough and he will search for more revealing and on and on til it becomes hard core. Now this is the true problem…it contributes to ED(Erectile Dysfunction). This is true. Look it up. He then has to quit the looking and work to redirect his brain to try and overcome the ED. Just saying…
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If it hurts your feelings, he should take that into consideration before looking at those girls. Just because he doesn’t see a problem with it doesn’t make your feelings wrong.
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My husband is addicted to porn, the only time it bothers me is when he pays for it (only fans)
As they are real people and personalised.
Would he be ok with you looking at half naked men? I personally think it’s inappropriate. He is capable of controlling himself unless he isn’t then you already know what to do.
He should consider your feelings.Speak to him again and again.Be firm about YOUR WISHES.If he does not comply then tell him your altimatum.
After all it is your marriage.You want to be the love in your hubby’s life.A marriage between two partners should not be crowded with strangers bums and boobs.
All the best.⚘
Someone said “the internet gives too many options for infidelity”…. The truth is that people that don’t want to cheat, will NOT cheat no matter what. That being said, do you want him to close his eyes when he sees other women? Do you want him to get off social media?
He’s a GUY!!! Even when you think he’s not looking…he definitely is!! We’re all human…I look all the time and as a matter of fact I point out big booties to my hubby all the time.
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No it’s not okay. I don’t care if I’m the only one on here that says it. No women should ever feel insecure or like they aren’t good enough. You need to make it clear to him.
nope, nope, nope. That is not acceptable & if he won’t stop, he needs to go.
If it makes you uncomfortable then he should respect your feelings and not do that shit.
Well then it is time for you to start looking at half naked men when he is around to see his reaction. I mean he said he doesn’t care. Also try sending him some sexy pics once in awhile.
If you have expressed your feelings about it to him and he still continues to do it then I would be really reconsidering my relationship. It used to bother me a LOT when my boyfriend and I first started dating that he follows half naked cosplay girls on Instagram but I was just super insecure. Now I’m just like meh whatever dude. Plus I mean I watch sexy men on TikTok all the time so I can’t really anything anymore lol
He says that to u because he knows u won’t do the same thing
I think it is one thing to just happen to scroll but constantly subscribing and looking for it is way different. I actually had this problem with my husband and no matter how much I asked for certain behaviors to stop. I didn’t want to take it all just some boundary crossing things. It just goes dormant for a while and never stops. He told me he promised to stop doing certain things just so he didn’t have to hear me tell him how it hurt me anymore. From my experience I would say ask him to stop if he doesn’t then he probably isn’t worth the rest of your life.
You should see my hubbys facebook,insta twitter and tiktok nudes everywhere im not fussed about it now
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Do it urself and make it known arnd him that u do and ill bet he will have a whole different outlook on it. If it in fact doesnt bother him that u are oggling other men and with him knowing about it, i honestly wld let him be, cause seriously its just pics of an ass. Lol seriously it is simply a pic, and as long as hes faithful, pick and choose ur battles. If u want a relationship to work, u have to be grown up and pick and choose ur battles sometimes. Seriously hes not trying to hide it from u, i dnt see a problem myself. Im 51 and it tk me all these yrs to see things this way. Hon sit down and look at the pics with him, that will excite him or turn him off from looking at them altogether. We really have to pick and choose our battles in life or its gonna be a miserable one hon.
Stop. Complaing About The Porn He Watches. Act. Like Ít Dose. Not Bother. You. Bé Extra Sweet To Him. He Will Relize Whảt He Has
Plan A Get Âway Out. Of Town . With Some Friends. Dont Tell Him. Go To A Beach House. Make Him Wonder Where You Are & What Your Doing. Make Him Worry For A Change
less pervy options for women but no doubt you all watched 50 shades or magic mike and enjoy looking at good looking men we men do the same thing except women shake their asses and tits in video for us to perv on my mrs just the other day was looking up jack grealish no harm in that I’d say
He’s being disrespectful. Fact.
He is doing it in front of her and that might be a very big psychological thing that he’s doing to her because he either, wants to make her jealous or he wants to make her give him more sex in the way that he likes it…so she’s going to have to look into that, and decide if she wants to go with the game or step off, out of the game. Let’s face facts… Men are visual creatures they like to look at beautiful and sexy woman… especially in woman, want to see something that arouses them so they know that they’re still MEN…help him out he’s your husband you married him for better and for worse. You Still Love Him Right? I’m not being sarcastic and I’m not being rude I’m being very very realistic. Please your Man…Whatever you need to do…wether it is shaking your butt in his face or Making yourself more desirable to him… In my psychological opinion he’s looking for your attention that’s why he’s doing that in front of you!! Go ahead girlfriend and you give it to him give him your attention shake your butt move your money maker in front of his face LOL and have yourself a grand old time with the man that you married the man that you want and the man that you said through thick and thin till death do us part.
If you’re on a diet, you can still look at the desert section. no?
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