I just found out I was 12wks pregnant. I’m excited, but at the same time, I’m sad. Because of my family and the toxic mess that is my mother, I won’t have any support from my side of the family. My S/O’s family is supportive, but I wish I could tell my family. I’m writing this so I can share the good news with people that aren’t family but might be able to use it to see the good in our current day today.
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Congratulations!!! Take good care of yourself and baby. 
Best wishes, to you and your precious blessing.
What a beautiful 
blessing! Congratulations 
I am sooo happy for you!!
Just make sure to take care of you and the baby!! If your S/O side of the family is supportive and so is he, then that’s all that should matter!!
A new baby is a joy and I wish you a happy and safe pregnancy and delivery 
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Concentrate on the joy, not the shadow. Keep a journal to help you remember what a wonderful time it is. Do not expect your mother to change. Appreciate the support you have and above all, enjoy! 
I’ll be your family! Congratulations on your sweet! You’ll be the best mommy to my niece/nephew. 
Congrats to you momma. Worry about you and baby. I was in your same spot. I kept it. Best thing I ever did.
Congratulations to you xx
Congrats on your little blessing! Even if your family is toxic, you can shape your new family to not be toxic the best you can. My immediate family is super close and we have several toxic family members (like aunts and grandparents and stuff).
So exciting!! Congratulations and best wishes for a healthy pregnancy, safe delivery and healthy baby!!
Congratulations!! You should be happy!! Don’t let anyone take all your precious moments from you
Congrats!!! This is a happy time and a happy experience for you. Dont you let nobody take the joy of carrying life within you and becoming a mother away from you. Pick your head up fix your crown and continue to glow mommy 
You will be a wonderful mother.
Congratulations to you and your and your significant other! What a blessing. You are now on the way of starting your own family 
. Don’t know you but I am so happy for you
Congratulation and best wishes xoxo
If your happy about this beautiful blessing that’s all that matters.
Congratulations !!!
Congratulations. Sometimes you have to love yourself enough to walk away from your family for your own mental health.
That’s awesome
I’m in a similar boat. You’ve got this.
You’re going to be a great mom
Very happy for you. !! Such a blessing. Congratulations
Congratulations I am so happy for you your husband I am so excited for you and the gift that God bless you all Amen
Congrats! It is awesome news, an absolute blessing! I’m sorry things are the way they are but don’t let it get you down. Great things are ahead! 
Congratulations 
enjoy!!!
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations children are a gift from God !
Congratulations!!! 
Congratulations on your exciting news - prayers that this may help the toxicity leaves your family and they be able to celebrate this glorious gift given to you from God.
Congratulations momma!!
Congratulations! All the best as your family grows!
Your family is your husband and future children. Everyone else becomes second to that. Do your best in your life and God will take care of the rest. Take care and don’t get stressed out.
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A pregnancy is always a blessing. I was diagnosed with PCOS and was told I could never conceive naturally. I had two miscarriages before I got pregnant with mine and my current s/o daughter. I told my family. My dad was over the moon
My mom not so much. But, their opinion won’t matter cause they will soon come to love your little one.
Congratulations and I think you should tell them if you want to tell them. I knew my family wouldn’t be supportive either but I was happy so screw them. You can be happy for yourself despite what someone else feels.
I’m so happy for you💜
Congratulations on your new blessing
Congratulations on your new blessing All the Best
Girl!! Congrats! Good vibes, many prayers and lots of love and hugs to you and daddy to be on your sweet bundle.
Congratulations - you don’t need anyone’s approval- love you & just be you. 
You are not alone!! Be the best mommy you can be and move past the mess. I’ve been there. Not easy but probably necessary. Congratulations and best wishes!!!
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Congratulations that’s such an amazing blessing and you have every right to be excited those who matter will come around and if they don’t you and your baby will not need them anyways good luck to you honey
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congratulations mama!!! that’s so exciting. like a few others have said, i know it’s really hard but don’t let your family take away this limelight you’re experiencing! make the best out of it. just know you’re making your OWN family, that’s all that matters!
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Congratulations! This baby and your husband are what make a family, it is their loss
Congratulations. Maybe… a new life to think about is what your family needs to bring it together again. May God bless you in warming your heart as you warm others. Just open your mouth and speak after you pray.
Congrats! A baby is a blessing no matter what the situation may be. Stay healthy and strive for that sweet baby you’re growing!
There are truly amazing people out there who will love you and your baby. I have learned blood doesn’t mean much in today’s world, but if you look you will find people to love you more than the broken ones will hurt you.
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Congratulations that is wonderful!! I have a 13year old son and my family is like yours but I was so fortunate that his father’s side of the family was very supportive and loving. My mother in law was the best and always treated me like I was her own daughter up until the day she took her last breath. Just focus on your precious blessing and be thankful that you have his family to support and be there for you. It’s their loss if your family is too blind to see and change for the good they have in front of them, they don’t deserve you and your baby then!! Good luck, you’ll be fine. Just have faith and stay positive!!
You will do great with s/o family support maybe in due time your family will come around if not stay strong and move forward❣️
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Congratulations . Praying for a successful pregnancy and a blessed delivery 
Congratulations. Just think about you and your baby. We will support you. You can do it.
Congratulations 
but for your sake and beautiful angel you are bringing into the world take your off your family its not healthy to stress when your pregnant I would hate it to bring complications in your pregnancy best luck 
you got this momma head high
Congratulations, the most important person right now is you and the baby. You did not remove anyone they removed themselves. so take care of yourself and your unborn baby, all the best
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congratulations on your precious baby… I promise you this is only a temporary feeling. Once you see your baby for the first time, nothing else will matter but the happiness of you and your baby. I have a toxic mother and I felt forced to think I needed my kids to love her and for her to love them back until one day I realized my boys didn’t need anyone else but mom and dad. My husband and kids are the most important thing in my life and everything else is second. Enjoy your pregnancy hun, and know we are rooting and celebrating this with you <3
My mum dosent even know she has a grandchild and his 4 this year havent spoke to her in over 20years and never will again. My hubby family my sister and brothers and my dad are the best and thats all i need to have in my sons life
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Congratulations. Enjoy your future baby and spend your time with supportive family and friends. Those that truly care will reach out to you
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Congratulations hope you have a safe and healthy journey into becoming a mommy
Congrats mama!!! Don’t let a few bad apples in your life ruin this time for you! Be happy!
Congratulations I no what it’s like not to have family support but believe me u are much better of having just a few friends that truly have your back xxxx enjoy your bump and stay strong xxxx
Congratulations i feel for you but enjoy your pregnancy with people who truly care for you. xx
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I was in the same place my mother is loving but not supportive with anything like this and never was or will
Be so I want to let you know I am here if u need to talk or want to be happy and tell someone I’m happy For you it’s a blessing a miracle!! I had 3 miscarriages and never had that experience even when I had my children it was like never a happy moment being pregnant sharing that joy so it’s ok just know it is a happy time and God gives us this time to continue life praying for you and your baby!
Congratulations to you, I’m old enough to be your mumma, I’m a message away, and will support you 100% x
Why does that sound like that would be my post:sob:
I feel you …but congratz on your baby:heart:
babies are such a blessing im currently 13 weeks too:heart:
Congratulations it will be wonderful. You will have everything you need you a precious baby and the people who come forward to share their love and support.
Congrats. Family are those who love and support you. Lean on his family. It takes a village. Best of luck mama. Congrats
Sometimes family isn’t blood related.
Congratulations love.
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Congats talk to us anytime we’ll be your support prayer and love
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Congratulations! My daughter is 24 weeks pregnant!
Congratulations. You’ll do beautifully…
you’ve learned to reach out. You’re stronger than you think. You’ve got this.
Congratulations but 12 weeks and u didn’t even feel sick?? Lucky
Congratulations! Don’t let your family bring you down
Good. Easier to cut them out now rather than whenever your child can remember them. I finally had to cut my mother out due to her dangerous husband and I’m 36 weeks with my son and my daughter is 17 months old.
You will find people that support you without all the mess attached to it:green_heart:
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Congrats! Enjoy it all to hell with everyone else!
Congratulations. You only have to worry about you and your baby
I didn’t announce my last 2 of 4 at all to my family, they knew I was pregnant when they saw belly but they didn’t dare to ask. And they knew my kids born by FB post. 
I didn’t have my family or his family support. And I didn’t need it, thank God.
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I know it sucks to not have the support u want but remember… They dont pay your bills and they dont put food on the table for u. Congrats to you and ur S/O injoy ur bundle of joy and if anyone brings toxic ur way drop them out of ur life u dont need that around u or ur baby. Sending u good vibes and a virtual hug
Congratulations you’re baby is such a blessing!! Welcome to Motherhood. It’s a great club. Those that are happy for you, will be. & the ppl meant to be in your life are. Just because someone is blood. Doesn’t mean that you have to have a relationship &/or keep them in your life. Furthermore, in your baby’s life too
First things first congratulations I’m so happy for you hunny. I totally understand that shit. My mom passed away 2 years ago and my 2 siblings stopped talking to me and when I found out I was pregnant last year all I had for support was his family and they made me feel so loved it was amazing. And than it turned out I was pregnant with my little sister and we reunified at like 14 weeks. And we were one week apart. And were still super close. My older sister just started to talk to me at Christmas ( its a start) half glass kinda full.
But if you do decide to tell your mom set your boundaries hunny and stick to them. This is your baby and your rules you know.
I hope this helps
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Congratulations God bless you
Congratulations my kids are my best friends
God wi make a way…Just pray…CONGRADULATIONS…
Congratulations! God chose you to be a mom to a miracle !!!
Congratulations girl just stay calm for you and the baby sake
Good luck momma, wishing you the best
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Congratulations 
your going to meet the absolute love of your life and THAT is the best feeling regardless who know ur family might surprise you and be excited:woman_shrugging: who knows xx
Congratulations such a blessing
Congratulations,!! So happy for you!!
God loves you and your baby
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Congrats remember you are loved
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Congratulations and God Bless all of you.
Congratulations what a blessing.
Congratulations hunny 
Congratulations you focus on you and that precious child
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Congratulations. I’m so happy for y’all!!
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Congratulations always a listening ear if you need one
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Congratulations 
Babies are exciting. Find your people and get rid of others
Congratulations !!! Healthy and happy pregnancy!!! 
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Congratulations!!
Babies are such a blessing!
Congratulations don’t let no one take away your happiness good luck enjoy your baby
Congratulations . .
Congratulations 