My 15-year-old got upset we do not have money for his allowance: Advice?

Well said Cassie Nicole Pence

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As a 15 year old he is mature enough to understand household requirements. Have a quiet discussion with him explaining expenses and your current predicament. Treat him like an almost-adult and ask for understanding. Let him know the difficulties of raising children and job loss.

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Iā€™d tell him doing his chores are his contribution for being able to live in the house. It is not an obligation to you or your husband to pay him. Thatā€™s a privilege to get an allowance. As a matter of fact Iā€™d start teaching him to do his own laundry, doing the dishes cleaning up around the house. Also Iā€™d look into getting more support from his dad if possible. $80 for a teenager isnā€™t very much at all and Iā€™m sure heā€™d like to be able to do other things like sports. My ex-husband paid $200 until my stepson was about 14, then the ex wife had it ordered for $675. My ex-husband liked to have had a fit. I told him that if she had taken him back every time she could it would probably be more and to just pay it. It is his child and it is his responsibility.

80Ć·4= 20. Why canā€™t he have his allowance. Ask him to choose between.play station and allowance.

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somebody call abe lincoln! someone needs out of slavery

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Tell him he doesnā€™t pay for for or room and board so whatever chores you give him pays for that.

does he want a playstation subscription or does he want allowance?

He can get a job or choose what he wants to be cut so he gets his allowance
He is old enough to understand responsibility he should understand how things work
You provide him with so much
You need to take his biological father to court to pay higher maintenance $80 is really nothing to be honest

Publix hires at 15, just saying!

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Tell him to fuck up :joy::joy: get a job mate

GTFO. Youā€™ve had him since he was 18 months old and single him out? Iā€™m pissed too.

As long as your biological kids are getting no allowance itā€™s fair. Heā€™s old enough to get a pt time job. Teach him RESPONSIBILITY thatā€™s why we have a lazy generation. Thereā€™s lots of after school jobs he could get earn his own money. He then could be proud of that. I donā€™t think I would charge him gas money unless itā€™s a long trip. The father is getting away with 80.00 is REDICULOUS

This is a no-brainer. If he really wants money, then I suggest you get him to go and get a job. When I was that age I was turning in bottles and caddying at the local golf course and I certainly didnā€™t get 15 dollars a week. It was 15 cents a day and I had to do chores. It sucks when theyā€™re at that age and getting rebellious. Any chance you have a lawn mower? Teach him how to use it and make money with it with a stipulation that if it breaks heā€™s paying for it to be repaired. Hope this helps.