It is a 50/50 chance. The window of conception is like 2 weeks I think, there’s no way of telling exactly the day you hot pregnant.
definitely get a paternity test.you can do them by court or mail even your family doctor they are cheap and/or covered by insurance. You should also concider an std test, to protect your child and your self in case of somthing. be more careful and use condoms.
To be sure hun mention it to both men explain to them they might be baby daddy and ask them to do a dna test when baby is born I went through the same with my eldest when she was younger xx
At a week apart you’re best bet is getting a DNA test done.
So many woman here saying to secretly ask the friend for a test so it doesn’t harm relatio ship with the bf. Good lord. Be honest with them both. The truth will always come out. You’re fucking multiple people at once and ended up pregnant, not there fault. Own up and be honest about it. Baby’s are permanent no matter what. Dad deserves to know.
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Just do a paternity test
Girl, tell them both and whatever they’re reactions may be, you got this with or without them. A child’s love is more powerful than that of any mans or even a family members. Just don’t keep the truth from them.
Get a perternity test done after the baby was born.
I don’t understand why people are being rude. This kind of thing happens! You’re hurt and wanna feel happy again for even a short time. I don’t think her friend took advantage. She said yes. Anyways, you can calculate all day but DNA is the only way. My ex had a tiny chance of being a father to a one night stand and a condom (broke for a second and was replaced) was used. Turned out to be his and the other two men didn’t use protection.
Honesty is key here. Tell the both of them. And the work it out once the baby is born.
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That’s so close it could be either.
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It could be either. Which one was the closest to two weeks since your last period? That’s usually the most fertile time
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Mmm that sounds like a question a paternity test could answer
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You can look up a reverse conception calculator on Google and just type in your due date and it gives you the date of conception and that really narrows it down to give you a good idea if anything
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Paternity test is the only way. Because you don’t know when you ovulated, so either could have fathered the baby.
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I say, just be honest and let them both know. Better now, than being let down after awaiting the birth of their supposed child or missing out on the entire pregnancy experience.
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You will see the resemblance when the baby is born
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If you have regular cycles, you would be ovulating 14 days after the first day of your last period. And usually its a few days so I count the day before and the day after. If you’re not regular then it could be either.
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Wow you waited a whole week…trashy
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Talk to your Dr. There can be paternity test done while pregnant as early as 9 weeks.
This group is literally so judgemental and disgusting. You females should be disgusted with yourselves.
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This sounds like a common core math problem. Honestly though you can reverse lookup with your due date but with it being that close just tell them both what’s going on and get a paternity test later on to be sure.
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Honestly its whenever u ovulate doesn’t matter who finishes inside u first. Ull have to figure out ur fertile week. A week apart should be enough to know just type in ur due date on a conception calculator and it will tell u the days. Sperm can last for 5 days inside you so its hard to know who’s the dad unless u get a test when they are born.
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So broken you waited just a week to lay up with your close friend 
Paternity test, there’s really just no other way. Hope they both don’t deal with you but choose to be there for the kid.
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Only way to be sure is a paternity test if it can be done early
Be honest with both men. Do a paternity test as soon as you can.
They can be done before birth.
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So track your last period. Go 7-14 days from the first day of your last period. Hopefully only one guy fits in that 7 day period
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I had the same problem. I stressed and stressed for 9 months. No point in trying to figure it out until the baby is born. I broke up with my ex and slept with someone a couple weeks later. I got pregnant the first night 
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Some of these judgemental comments are so unnecessary. Glad y’all aren’t my friends in real life 
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You won’t know for sure, until the baby is born and they take a paternity test.
Your best bet would be to get a paternity test done. Go ahead and let them both know and fill them in on the situation.
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Talk to your doctor??
Congrats either way…im secretly hoping it is your friend and not your ex! Keep your chin up…babys are wonderful. Definetly do paternity and get that guy on birth certificate. Someone is responsible.
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Paternity test is the only answer
First you need to let them both know. You need to let your obgyn no and they will give you dna options. It’s like 500 a piece to do after the baby is born it’s like 2500 to do while the baby is still inside you. You also need to figure out if either of them want to be in the child’s life if it does turn out theirs. If not then don’t make it hard on them it obviously wasn’t planned by you either. But you need to open all your options and theirs. You need to talk to your obgyn for sure and get a dna test done going off your missed period and stuff doesn’t work I no from watching someone try it in basically your same situation! Do not go off your weeks or missed period that shit is always off. And nobody deserves to think their a father and then get disappointed. So do everything with caution and with dna.
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I’m not gonna be like 90% of these judgemental fuckin twats. Be honest with both of them and then just wait until the baby is born to take a DNA test. I heard you can during your pregnancy but also heard its very risky. Don’t stress about it. Shit happens.
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You will have to get a paternity test after birth to know, partners were too close together.
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I have always herd to add 3 mnths to your due date that gives you the mnth then minues 7 days that gives you the date.
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The decent thing to do is be honest with both men and have a DNA test done once the baby is born and go from there.
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Tell them both. Then when the baby is born take a paternity test.
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Who cares who the father is, enjoy your pregnancy men are freaking headaches.
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Sounds like your problem not Facebook’s 
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Just wait for the baby to be born and have a paternity test done. You won’t be able to know who’s baby it was if you had sex the same week with both of them. All you’ll have is a best guess. Most doctors will advise you not to do it before hand as the procedure can be dangerous for mom and baby if there’s no medical need to. Let them both know and try not to stress about it.
Google tells me this…
Yes, you can get a paternity test while pregnant with the safe and patented Certainty Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity test from DDC. This advanced DNA test requires only a blood sample from the mother and a simple cheek swab from the possible father, and can be performed as early as seven (7) weeks into the pregnancy.
Hope this helps.
It’s best to be truthful now to save both parties in this heartache and missing out
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Only tell the friend, and have a paternity test with him. If it’s not him, then you can go to your ex.
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Shew…The questions people ask on Facebook
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Count around 14 days since your last period and that should be your ovulation date , with a 4 day window. This is only if u have a regular 28 day cycle if not paternity test, download a period/pregnancy app it can help too
I swear these fan questions are something I live for. It’s like Maury for facebook.
With that being said, be honest and everyone is saying FROM LIKE RIGHT NOW.
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Try to go by your ovulation period. If you need help, you can message me. No judgement here and ignore any harsh comments.
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I would just be honest and straight forward with both men. Let them know what’s going on and the possibility. Then tell them what you’d like to do about it. I would let them know once the baby is born and is healthy you all can begin the process of finding out the paternity. The most important thing now is the baby’s health, your health and the truth. No one can use the truth against you as long as you accept the truth. Things happen it’s what we do with those things that makes all the difference.
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It would be helpful if your periods are regular and you would know day tou ovulated. An egg can only live for less than 48 hours after being released from the ovary to be fertilized.
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probably not your long time boyfriends tbh the baby is probably your long time friends,…fate works in mysterious ways.
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So much perfect people in the comments
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Wow, I’m glad this is a safe place to come have a question answered!! First off if she was a male, no one would bat an eye if she slept with someone else the next night. Second, babies are a blessing no matter who the dad is! I would tell your friend and explain the situation, if they are a true friend they would understand. I wouldn’t involve the ex until after a DNA test says it is not your friends. Just let all that drama behind, you have other things to worry about and enjoy during pregnancy! Congrats on your Blessing!
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Damn someone didn’t waste any time…
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i would say Bf’s but honestly could be either ones…just tell them you’re unsure and go from there
Tell both of them so it’s out in the open ! Honesty is the best policy. Then as soon as you can arrange to get a dna done 
Be honest with both and take a test after baby is born. Its too close together the be 100% unless you know the exact dates of ovulation. And even then it would depending on when those dates landed in the time line of events. Trust me its better to be honest with both up front. When I got pregnant with my 1st child I was in a very similar situation.
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The girls talking shit need to quit being judgmental CUNTS. Sex is normal it’s natural and what she chooses to do as a single woman shouldn’t be judged because i bet the ones judging are the very same ones who go out and do the same thing. She comes here asking for ADVICE not to be bashed! Don’t even bother commenting being bitches for no reason. Save your breath.
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It’s a blessing either way! Let them both know. They deserve that much then let them decide from there. Hope everything goes good and congratulations 
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I have questions are you back together with boyfriend? Do they both know about the pregnancy?
You can’t tell like that. Unfortunately you will have to wait and do a paternity test
You got pregnant two weeks later than you are weeks pregnant. Date of conception is generally right around two weeks after the first day of your last menstrual period. I’m 23 weeks pregnant, but actually conceived the baby 21 weeks ago.
So broken … A whole week alone
If u were a guy I’d say wow it was so hard for u to keep ur Dick in ur pants for a whole week huh??
Sorry Hun but in all honesty it’s probably ur “close friends” baby.
Karma has a funny way of fucking u like that, pun intended.
If u really loved the dude u were in a relationship with u wldn have been fucking someone else a week later. I hope you learn a lesson and make better choices in the future.
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Kinda weird and pathetic how women are put down for doing whatever they want with their bodies, but say a man did the exact same thing as this woman. None of you bitter ass females would bat an eye. You’d all say “that’s what men do” or “guys will be guys”. Why can’t we have the same nonchalant attitude for a grown ass woman doing what she wants with her vagina??? I feel so bad for anyone in any of your lives, so judgey and overall rudeeeee.
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It depends when your last menstrual cycle was and depends when you may have ovulated. Sperm can live in the vagina up to 5 days. From the time you ovulate and if there is any sperm in the vagina, it takes about 2 weeks for conception and for the bundle of cells to attach to the uterine wall.
Because there was sex close together, I would tell both of them and get a non invasive paternity test while you can.
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No judgment from me here. I was in the same boat 16 years ago.
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Just face the music…it could be either. The only way u could possibly know, if you are regular and know when you ovulated. If you don’t, then it’s a guessing game. Tell both potential fathers and a DNA will have to be done. Doesn’t matter what anyone thinks, it’s about your child.
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Well, u got urself in a lil situation here. It could either, TBH.
I would be honest and upfront with both men. It is what it is🤷♀️
You cant change it. So just handle it like a woman, and be careful next time.
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What I can advise you as a child from such a situation is that you tell both men and have a test done as soon as the baby is there. By accident, after 26 years, I had to painfully discover that the man I thought was my father was not my producer. It was one of the worst moments in my life. My father had to receive psychological treatment and my mother now has to pay him back all child support with a court order.
Sorry if it is bad english, i have translated the text my language is actually german.
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It isn’t “judgmental” to say the facts. Sleeping with another person after only 5 days of being broken up is a HUGE red flag. Be very careful how you deal with your pain because you’re only setting yourself up for more pain in the long run, also the risk of STDs. And that guy was obviously not a “close friend”… All you can do is have a DNA test done.
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There is no answer you will find here. Your going to need a paternity test to figure it out. Shit happens, don’t let the judgey bitches get you down.
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Here’s an honest idea. Tell both men and get paternity tests. Live with the results.
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Well you could drive yourself crazy for 9 months or you could have your close friend do a DNA test via blood samples. This can be done while you are pregnant and is easy. Expensive but easy. If its not the friends, then guess you know who your baby daddy is.
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Inappropriate & Unfiltered - exactly what some of these comments are.
All y’all judgemental Nancy’s need to go stuff a cabbage. You are so rude and the exact same people that go to church on Sunday because you believe in Jesus. I think y’all need to read that Bible again. As for the OP. Don’t listen to the Nancy’s. Just be open with everyone around you. Wait until the baby is born and test one first. If it comes back negative then you know it’s the other. You got this momma.
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Youll simply need a paternity test. There’s no other way to really find that out. You are in a predicament but the best thing to do is be honest. You shouldn’t feel ashamed or anything. It seems to be like an honest mistake. If you’re having this baby, you’ll have to just face the music and be honest with both of them.
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I hope all of you walk on fucking water with the way you’re judging this woman. How about we all STFU with advice she didn’t ask for and answer the actual question?? Or maybe if you can’t bring yourself to do that mind your own fuckin business and keep scrolling. 
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I do not understand how woman are not more responsible and show more respect for themselves…now there is a child and pick on who the father is…no we don’t have to shut up…when people put their dirty laundry out…expect it to be sorted and washed…if you loved someone you wouldn’t be banging your buddy week later…morals?
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Since everyone (mostly) is being so damn mean, what’s a “respectable” time to wait after a breakup? Sounds like this woman and her ex broke it off pretty good. Are us women just supposed to sit around waiting/dwelling for the man to come back? Or vice versa. If I got broken up with, I sure as hell wouldn’t sit around waiting… for what? She had sex it’s normal, she wasn’t cheating. Y’all are just haters. Fuck.
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Y’all. Check out the name of this page. Everyone chill out lol
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Really depends on ovulation. You have a higher chance of pregnancy 1-3 days before your ovary releases an egg. And a decent chance the day of. 24h after an egg is released, it’s pretty low chance of pregnancy that cycle. So if you go 2 weeks out from your last period, assume 3 days +/- that day and see who was within that range. Sperm can live for up to 5 days waiting around for an egg to fertilize but since the encounters were 7 days apart, it really boils down to who you were intimate with closer to 2 weeks after your period. As suggested, the only tried and true method for paternity is to get a DNA test done. And i just wanna point out that there’s nothing wrong with being a sexual being how you handle a break-up is your own business. It doesn’t mean anything for the relationship you had and doesnt lessen the love you may have felt for your ex… so just make a decision to get a paternity dna test or to just leave the fathers name off the birth certificate until they both do a dna test to prove paternity. Although if you’re going to ask for a dna test, I’d recommend going with the person who wants a kid the LEAST because they’re usually more willing to rule themselves out.
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Wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test ran. The child will deserve to know who it’s father is, and you owe it to yourself. You can usually order one for your own peace of mind or one that is court admissible. I know that has to be a stressful situation, but you can not change any of it right now, so try to enjoy your pregnancy and not stress, because stress is not healthy for you or the baby. I would recommend letting both men know the situation and try to prepare them for needing the DNA test. When I worked for a lab, we used to do them by swabs back in the day, but that’s been a long time ago… I don’t know if they perform them the same way these days or not. You can go ahead and probably call and find out what the costs are going to be so you can prepare financially for that. Good luck and congrats on your sweet baby.
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Unfortunately aside from a paternity test there isn’t a “for sure” way of knowing. You can have one done during pregnancy via an amnio but I don’t think insurance covers it typically and it comes with a lot of risk; after baby is born would be safest.
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Best be honest with both and do tests soon after birth as possible
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If you would have waited another week to sleep with someone you have known the answer to whose kid it is 
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Take a DNA test… that way you know for sure.
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To close to tell, could of caught at the start or end of ovulation an that with the sperm survival rates make it near impossible to work out 
even the delivery dates can be off so that just adds to the inaccurate guessing game. Id definitely inform them both. Could destroy a man if they believe there about to be a dad. Hope you get it sorted 
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The egg travels for 24 hours before is implants onto the uterine lining. From there, it takes 3 days to fully implant. So really you are only talking about 4 days
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Since there are some real messed up people in the comments heres some advice that isnt rude. Tell your partner about it. He deserves to know if there is a chance its not his, he needs to prepare. Get a dna test when you are available to.
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God you females are so damn judgmental… Men use sex as a god damn coping skill. It’s cool if men have one night stands and use sex as a coping skill but not females.? Bye. Girl, just keep pushing through and be honest with them. It’s not going to be easy but you got this!
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Hey hun im sure u can do a dna test or something during your pregnancy try remembering the exact dates if you can. Hope everything works out for u xx
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Best bet would be too have a paternity test done after baby is born.
That’s what I had to do for my first born.
Your situation is exactly how mine was 8 yrs ago. The end result for me is my son ended up being fathered by my friend. Which we have an awesome cop parenting relationship and our families communicate well and we all love and raise our son together.
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When was ur last period. That how you can get an idea who may be the father
When did you ovulate. That egg isn’t good for a week. 12-24 hours max.
Take a dna test & stop guessing your babies life is at sake
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Maybe not sleep with multiple people in a week…
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I love all the women “stooop judgingggg Herr” but talk shit about dudes who sleep around. “Man whores” “womanizers” like y’all keep that same energy for women. Have a bit of class and self respect. That ain’t hate that’s just me finding all these hypocritical comments COMICAL
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Honestly, if I were in your position, I would get a paternity test if/when you do a blood test done for gender. It would bubble up inside me not knowing & the actual father would probably be more willing to support you throughout the pregnancy knowing for sure you’re carrying their child.
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Have you seen Bridget Jones’ Baby???