Mind your business. Period
Stay out of this mess .
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Mind your own business!!!
Butt out. Not your monkeys. Not your circus.
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Yeah this sounds like something the two people with the rings on need to handle not the outside friend who doesnât share a bedroom.
U could make a case and point for either with the other halves of the story but as is it just screams stay in your lane.
Iâm confused of what this has to do with NAILS on a NAILS PAGE
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I donât understand why itâs so hard for folks to mind the business that pays them. Ever heard of my names Bennit and I ainât innit!!?!
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Stay out of it. No good will come from you meddling
Not your marriage, not your business. Youâve given your opinion, now back off.
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Tell him heâs got rights to know. Maybe who know they prob will work it out or get divorce but if it was the other way around I hope she does the same thing
Mind yo damn business!!! Before they all turn on you like youâre the problem
Just live your life and be happy and what happens happens, donât base your relationships off that one friend. She has issues that are her own, only she can make⌠just tell her you donât agree, and and want no part of it, if the husband asks, I wouldnât lie, let her sort this shit show out on her own, but still be there for her, what she does is on her
Your best friend needs to talk to her husband and explain to him that sheâs not happy and that sheâs bored instead of being a piece of garbage and cheating on him, especially if heâs a good man and takes care of his familyâŚ
Mind ur own business. Let it play our on its own. U are not in control.
So many sneaky people lol mind your business 
I would leave the friendship. I did 
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Mind your business sheâs grown
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Best friend or not Iâd say something. No one deserves that, Iâd let her know to say something before you do tho to give her a chance
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Try minding your own business !!
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I had two best friends one cheated on the other alot.
The other full out asked me if she was. I told him yes.
They stayed together and I lost them both as friends.
Next time. Iâll mind my business.
Definitely mind your business. Their marriage, their business. Whoâs to say the âgoody-seemingâ husband is not doing the same? MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
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Let her dig her own grave girl ! Iâve learned we canât help our friends who donât listen , reasons Iâm not friends with a girl that does that to her bf but says she wants to stay with her bf but cheats on him every chance she gets . Let ppl dig themselves out . They put themselves in that predicament 
idk maybe Iâm just a cold hearted bitch 
Get rid of her as a friend. You donât need that kind of friend. But donât mix in the marriage or say anything
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Honestly I would be saying something, Iâm sure anyone on here if there significant other was cheating they would want to know. Iâve done it to one of my best friends before, not one person deserves to go through that hurt.
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You mind your business
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What you say is NOTHING!! Not your business.
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Yikes all the mind your business comments blow my mind. Itâs called being a decent person and having morals. If that was my friend you bet your ass Iâd be chewing her out and telling her to do the right thing here. If she isnât happy with husband, she should leave him. She shouldnât be cheating and Iâd let her know that for damn sure!
i would stay away from both of themâŚif you say something and they reconcile you will be the bad guy and wont have a friend anymore
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I wouldnât give her any unsolicited adviceâshe wonât heed or appreciate it and your friendship will suffer.
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Mind ur business, if it bothers u that bad, stop hanging out with her but u have no leg to stand on when it comes to her marriage
Mind your own business. Keep your thoughts to yourself. Sheâs a grown ass woman and this is her life not yours. Be her friend. Donât judge. You donât know the life she lives or what she feels. This is HER ISSUE. NOT YOURS. This post makes me sick cause you went out of your way, to talk about ur friend to a bunch of strangers. Your not gunna have a friend if u keep this up.
Itâs none of your business! She is an adult and can make her decisions and deal with the consequences.
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Whereâs her husband I want himâŚshes being selfish. Itâs chicks like this who give women a bad rip. Thatâs why itâs hard to find a good home bound man.
Mind your business⌠stay in your lane⌠her marriage not yours⌠just be her friend listen and be there⌠people need to go through their situations to live learn and understand.
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Like kevin heart said. Mind ur motherfucking business Bitch .
If she was ur friend u wouldnât judge her. Ppl only see from the outside of relationship. Not the insideâŚ
Like they say.
Men cheat for sex woman cheat for attentionâŚ
Not your life, not your problem.
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Mind your business. What is done in the dark almost always comes out in the light. Find some excitement of your own because it sorta feels like you are looking for drama to include yourself in.
You people give horrible fucking advice.
Cheaters deserve to burn in hell and they get no sympathy.
People who knowingly keep this from, I guess you would call it the victim, are just as big an asshole as the person doing it.
I guarantee every one of you people would get pissed off if somebody knew that and didnât tell you
Maybe youâre just a bad friend looking to steal a man or a jealous friend because shes got 2 things going to your 0 things going on? I dunno 
but you sure dont seem like best friend material. Youâre a frenemie and not a friend.
- Not your problem. 2. If she loved him, she wouldnât cheat! 3. You will destroy a family & definitely lose your bff if you dont stay out of it!
Stay out of it ypull be only one who looks bad
Dont talk to her for a little while
If it morally bothers you I would just stay away. But in reality itâs no ones business. Her husband will find out eventually. If you like her as your best friend then just keep her in your lane and donât worry about who sheâs fuckin with. You could tell her to tell her husband if you want but I highly doubt she will listen.
My mom told me⌠stay out of other peoples marriages.
READ*It all comes down to one thing.are your morals stronger than your friendship? She wonât forgive you for telling himâŚbut will you be able to forgive yourself for not saying anything? You say things like this scare you.would u want to be the husband in this situation??
I agree with 99.9% of the comments not my business not my life not my problem and will continue to remain in My own Lane
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It canât remain this way. Someone is going to be so hurt. Most likely her husband. If you get to involved you will be caught in the middle. Your friend canât have it both ways. Itâs called selfish. Your friend may also be being used by the other guy. If she refuses to listen there is nothing you can do. The whole thing is wrong. Eventually it will end I am afraid not for the better. Pray for the whole situation and donât get to involved. It may help her to talk to a Pastor if she has one or if she will. Have peace it sounds like you have done all you can.
She will lose out of the Best part her family
Not your life so donât worry about it
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This scene is somebody elseâs drama. No need to give yourself a starring role in it. It will not go well for you. Perhaps you should send consider a better class of friend.
Say nothing, itâs going to end badly & sadly,without your input & you could loose your friendship or even end up being blamed some way
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stay out of it and mind your damn business
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I would just distance myself from her till she figures out what she really wants but as for what you do or say it is not your place to involve yourself in her marriage.
Best bet, is to stay out of it.
Ever hear the saying ânot my monkeys, not my circusââŚthis is exactly where that comes in. Mind your business and say nothing because you will end up being the bad guy either way so you might as well just play stupid since thatâs how sheâs treating you anyway if youâve already tried talking to her and she wonât listen.
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If she thought you were gonna run to her husband with her business she probably wouldnât have told you. Youâre HER friend? Mind you, not her, or her husband.
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I was put in this same situation. However I didnât say anything because it wasnât my place to say. Yes I was the best friend and should have. However, it wasnât my business. Eventually the husband knew about it. He wasnât mad at me for not saying anything because it wasnât my place to say. She has to be honest with her husband and tell the truth. The truth will set you free. God luck hun
Lol⌠girl code 101 MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!
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Mind your own business
Mind your business 
Well pretend like you donât know anything, Honestly thatâs none of your beeâs wax lol
You can lead a horse to water but you canât make him drink. I think thatâs how itâs said
But the plot twist to this sounds like you want her husband. Otherwise you would care less
And they say men ,cheat . Both ways feel sorry for him . He will find out and do what is best for him and his kids. Leave her !!!
If the shoe was on the other foot and it was you it was happening to would rather hear it then help cover the lies no one deserves this and you need to be honest and speak up he deserves to be with someone who actually cares for him
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Mind you own f*ing business! 
Drop!
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Not your monkey and not your circus!!!
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Dont interfere at some time she will go shit I have 2 do something about my relationship with this guy, its him or my hubby.Dont worry she will get caught out then boy shit will hit the fan so just let her deal with it and you just be her friend 
Its none of your business. Be there for your friend and donât go after her man because itâs obvious youâd like to.
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Are you just her friend or his aswell because itâs a hard one everyone telling you to mind your own are not right as a friend you should be telling her what she is doing is wrong and that you wonât be no part of it if she continues and will walk away a good friend wouldnât be telling you and putting you in an awkward situation if you are his friend aswell then you also have a duty to him to either tell him or become distant from them both xx
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Personally âŚI wish someone had told me. It will probably affect your friendship but id have no respect for a person who would cheat rather than work at their marriage
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same old story,âcheaters never winâ
1.) the hubby is no prize
2.) mind your business
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So, I was the person at home pregnant, being cheated on⌠taking care of the baby, being cheated on
I didnât know why my ex had friends that wouldnât come around ⌠Until a year after I left him
They knew he was cheating, didnât want to be the ones to tell me but didnât condone it either.
Years later, I was the friend to someone cheating on a good guy. I encouraged her to tell him, we argued, I ended the friendship
You donât have to get involved but it speaks volumes about her character and do you want to stay friends with someone whoâs clearly a liar and untrustworthy. If sheâll do that to her family, what will she do to you?
Just tell your bestF to tell the truth to her husband and then let them handle their personal situation themselvesâŚ
Cuz I honestly think no one deserves to be cheated onâŚexcept if itâs the devil we taking about
Iâd tell her husband to be honest and then Iâd tell her to eff off.
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If your friends with both thats a tuff oneâŚ
Its non of your business so mind your business.
Youâve told her how you felt and how wrong so let her be and distance yourself from her.
Everything done in the dark will eventually come to the lite and its gonna be an ugly situation.
But at the same time that man needs to know and he doesnât deserve whatâs happening to him.
If you strongly believe you should tell him then go ahead just be prepared of whatâs gonna come with it
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If the roll was reversed and it was the husbandâs friend wanting to tell the wife youâd be telling him to do it. It may not be her buisness but he has a right to know instead of sticking around on someone whoâs going to keep cheating on him
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I went through a situation like this.I told the husband which was a good friend of mine and every thing backfired. Now the both of them donât speak to me.They even let me know at the end of the day ;they are husband and wife.So lessons learned donât meddle in other people buisness
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It is I suppose âsnitchingâ but if your significant other was cheating on you , wouldnât you hope someone would tell you?
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There are always at least two parts to a story. If you said your peace, let it go. Itâs her mess, her consequences.
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Tell her your opinion & then mind yr business
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You see not all two opposite attracts works , itâs not your business to interfere but out of your conscience , you can only deal with it through your cheating best friend , advice her , tell her off that , her husband doesnât deserve it and she might one day will regret doing him wrong , as a best friend , you have a right to tell her in her face that her actions and behaviour is not acceptable and you canât allow to tolerate it , tell her that you care about her but you feel sorry for him for being treated like an idiot , be honest with her that if ever her hubby ask about her questioning her faithfulness , tell her that you will not lie and will cover for her , even if it means breaking both of your friendships , your fear of being in a relationships makes you realise that , it can be on both gender that even if the person say they love you , there is a big possibility of them cheating and canât resist a temptations in front of them , it makes you feel that , being single can keep you in control of your emotions , keeping that peace of mind and mental and emotional freedom from having to carry the negative energy and toxicity from the wrong person that you might end up . Your not there yet , your not with someone yet , you already have a phobia and on guard that it will never happen to you . I can understand that , I do t blame you for that
I would simply tell her to tell him or you will. Nobody deserves to be cheated on. I only wish someone had of had the balls to tell me.
If your going to break off the friendship anyway screw it and go out with a bang and tell him. He deserves to be happy as well.
You need to stay out of it. If you canât be her friend, then end your friendship. Her husband will eventually find out and that is between the two of them. Donât be a messy chick.
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Mind ur business,I say mind ur businessâŚ
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None of your business you arent her mother
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If sheâs ok with blatantly disrespecting her family (kids included) for a piece of assâŚsheâs obviously a very immoral selfish person and donât think for a moment that she wouldnât do it to a friend if it was good for herâŚI had this happen before and I told my friend you either do the right thing and tell your spouse or we can no longer be friends because I cannot be friends with someone that could do this to the very people who she is supposed to love and protectâŚshe is not someone who would have anyoneâs best interest at heart but her ownâŚshameful! (as for her saying âshe loves him??? You donât purposely hurt or deceive those you love or anyone for that matter) friendship like this just brings drama!
I disengage with people like this friend. My SO had an affair and I told her wife after I found out. People who still come and tell me about them being cheats thinking Iâm going to be quiet and accepting Tell. I would want someone to tell me
Mind your own business if you value your friendship with either one of them. You get involved and down the road, none of you will be friends.
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Thatâs your friends issue and not yours.
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You have to allow her to make her own mistakes. People like that are too hard headed. She has to learn the hard way. I feel sorry for her kids. Shame they didnât get a better mom that thinks less of herself and more about the people that love her. She will pay for her self-centeredness but not before everyone around her does. She needs to fall smack on her face and learn a hard lesson. She doesnât deserve the man or the kids. She is too immature and needs therapy to deal with her issues.
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Stay away from them. Everything in darkness will come to light. Go and take care of you. Leave them alone. Dark secret have a way of becoming exposed
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We live in a society that doesnât accept that sexual and romantic needs are complex and IMO very important for a satisfying life.
When people hit a point in their relationship where they donât feel like their needs are being met, it generally isnât safe to discuss this with their partner.
A: they canât force their partner to meet their needs
And
B: if they tell their partner they need it elsewhere, it will end up with the partner feeling insecure and likely a breakup.
The solution is to suppress the needs, which in and of itself is unhealthy, or cheat to get them met, in order to âpreserve the relationshipâ.
Often the relationship is amazing and they very much are in love but they simply arenât getting a need met.
To me thatâs hardly worth throwing away the years of love and friendship and all the good things the relationship has going for it.
I decided I while ago that I wasnât going to live like that. I have partners I can safely say âI need to go get this need metâ and I can find someone who wants to meet that need without any breakups or anguish. We all agree that a fulfilling sex and romantic life is important and suppressing our needs is unhealthy.
But most existing couples are trapped in an âall or nothingâ scenario. And having a âhey I love you but I have some needs not being met, and itâs ok if you donât want to do them, but I want to have these needs met stillâ conversation is terrifying and likely will end badly instead of as an opportunity for the couple to grow together.
Sadly cheating then happens.
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All you can do imo is to state to your friend what you think of it and that her husband doesnât deserve to be cheated on & ofc she should be honest and tell him but as for you id say nomore and stay out of it.
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Stay out of it. It will only end badly for you.
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Mind your business. That is not your relationship nor does it effect you in anyway shape or form! Even stressing and posting on others business says I need more of a life so I donât have down time to be involved
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Geez! Iâm torn with this one. I feel for you because this best friend of yours is not worth having. Obviously she is a coward and and didnt take her vows seriously. She has taken the easy and very selfish road not thinking of her husband or her children. Number one I think I, as her best friend, would let her know how wrong she is in straying from her marriage. Maybe suggest that she tell him and go to counseling. Just because she is the bread winner doesnt mean she gets the right to be a cheater. I would have a chat with her and tell her your feelings and give her time to tell him. If she doesnt I would. He deserves to know and not be made a fool of. Either way your friendship with her would be over until she does the right thing and admits her wrong doing and makes things right.
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Mind your business she can sink her own ship
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Mind your own business
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