My best friend is cheating on her husband, what do I do?

Mind your own business that is what you do!!!

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Do not get involved except to say what you have already said. Find another best friend. Sad.

Think about whatā€™s more important to you. Her relationship with him or Your relationship with her

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Mind your businessā€¦ Let her cheat. Unless u want her husbandā€¦ Cuz u should be down for ur friend

Mind your own business. Stay out of it.

I say mind your own business !

Say nothing and walk away from the friendship

Monitor your own life, be there is she falls BUT STAY OUT OF IT!

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Mind your own business.
Are you her true friend?
Or intrested in her husband?
This will end just how its ment too.
:woman_shrugging:t5:

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She should put children first

Iā€™d mind my own business to be honest

Stay out of it. Truth always comes out.

Watch and learn from her choices :bouquet:

Mind your own business. They will work it out or not.

Just stay out of their business cause believe me itā€™s gonna be all your faultā€¦

Walk away.Get a new best friend. She will have no more loyalty to you.

Stay out of it. Its not your business

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Just be an ear. God will guide her.

   the more you stay out of it the better off you will be.

She might just want your Husband

If she were your true best friend you wouldnā€™t be askingā€¦ā€¦ā€¦29 acres and a shovel right Missy Potter

Stay out of it. Itā€™s not your life itā€™s hers.

Who wants a friend who.puts you in this spot??? Would she be doing your boyfriend!!!

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Nothing. Itā€™s none of your busy

Not your business, say nothing , do nothing, pass no opinion, do not get involved

Mind your business!! You think you know everything but you don,tā€¦Thereā€™s things a person keeps to themselves no matter what

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It isnā€™t your place to get invovled

Shes bored and in ā€œlustā€. Donā€™t get involved. It will only make it worse and bring you down too. Back away for a while, tell her you donā€™t like it and avoid contact for a while. Let it run its course. Donā€™t make it your problem too. You canā€™t fix it.

Ask her how she would feel if it was her husband cheating on her, and remind her that the kids get the most crap dumped on them. Itā€™s now all about her she haas a family she needs to think about,and if all sheā€™s really wanting is to go dance and hang out then get some of her girlfriends together for a girls night out. Sheā€™s not going to listen and she is still going to be greedy and think only about herself and her fun, but at least you have tried to truly be her friend.

Have a male friend tell her husband if you donā€™t want too.

Stay out of it would be my suggestionā€¦

Who says he doesnā€™t know about her affair, and is quite happy with the situation.

You sound like you, like the husband. Stay out of it.

Best to stay out of otherā€™s relationships. Stay in your lane and leave their marriage to them. As for this being your best friend she will understand that you do not want to hear about her infidelity nor will you cover for her. Keep your hands clean.

Just mind your business. Many times women or men say they would want someone to tell them and yet when they are told they dont listen and the whistle blower ends up being hated by both. Not worth it.

Stay out of it! Eventually, the shit will hit the fan, and the only thing you Should do is be there for the children

Leave it alone and start keeping a distance from them.

Cheating in a relationship that has gone stagnant never works out. It just infects the relationship more and gives the partners reason not to even try to fix anything. No relationship is ever made better by cheating. If you are done with the relationship, and it has no life, then be a decent person as give your partner the respect they deserve by you. After all, you did love them once and chose them for a partner. End it if you must before you start another. Treat others ad you want to be treated, and I highly doubt she wants anyone to cheat on her. Respect your partner and yourself enough to do the decent thing. In the end you will be glad you did and can hold your head up high. As a friend I would advise her to come clean, and that if I was asked by her husband, I would not lie for her. It is very unfair, and in bad friendship taste to put you in this position. Good luck, because that old adage, "Donā€™t kill the messenger " is alive and well!

Say nothing unless you are asked then donā€™t lie

Tell him before she ends up pregnant and says baby is her husband.

He needs to know she dont love him anymore. Cheaters are assholes and no good at all. Tell him

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If you have talked to her about it thatā€™s all you can do itā€™s her life

Mind your own business, your be outside looking in,let her handel it ( I question your friendship!!!):zipper_mouth_face:

Mind your own business, or are you interested in her husband why you are asking advice about this.

Unfortunately she is being very selfish and immature this affair will probably blow up in her face and her children are young itā€™s really sad just continue to try and convince her how wrong this is maybe counseling love is so much more than just sex itā€™s commitment

I say mind your business unless she asks your advice.

Your friend is foolish! Even if sheā€™s the bread winner in the family that doesnā€™t give her free pass to cheat on her husband. I pray that she wakes up & mend her ways before itā€™s too late.

Ask her how she would feel if her children find out some day of how she treated their dad? How she left them with someone to be with him? She is being very selfish and it never ever ends wellā€¦Then just let it beā€¦ try staying away from this time in her lifeā€¦ as a best friend you have to keep your life safe and enjoy your family life.

Iā€™m disgusted at grown ass women saying mind your own business so youā€™re all obviously happy being friends with a woman thatā€™s a lying Trollop if this was a guy in reverse youā€™d be saying what a pr#ck he was ,the woman should know better grow up and be truthful and it seems the poor friend has morals which is clearly lacking in some women on this thread.i didnā€™t once read and think the friend was interested but maybe sheā€™s been cheated on before and has morals and doesnā€™t like whatā€™s happening.good on her!!

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If you tell the husband, she will hate you, he will hate you and youā€™ll end up the bad guy. Stay in your lane tootsšŸ¤£

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Not your place to say anything to the husband, but it is your place to tell your friend how absolutely disgusted and disappointed you are in her behavior and you will not be present to watch her continue. Walk away.

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Mind your business! Y do you think you must do anything? This isnt your life but hers. Your her best friend not her husbands, your loyalty is to her.you will never understand her unless you were in her shoes. You can only give advice, hope for the best, and stay out of it

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You need to mind your own business. She is probably unhappy at home because he is not taking care of her needs. An she is staying with him because of the kids. So let her live her life and u live yours. You donā€™t know what she is going through

I think u should mind ur own business the only reason you would wanna tell her husband is because you have your own intentions keep it real , ur loyalty as a so called BFF is bs

Yes yes yes my 18-year-old son and me a living on our own without his dad because his dad is a chronic liar he has cheated many times which is why weā€™re not together when I was introduced to him I was told to be weary because he 90% of the time doesnā€™t tell the truth so to the dilemma of this woman who knows what her husband is like everybody that my ex knows he will tell them things like sheā€™s a bitch etc. etc. if I call him weā€™re still friends we share a car but if he happens to be on the phone with somebody he knows he will make them think I am the worst evil person in the world which I donā€™t really care because the people that he associates with there are some crack there on pins there on whatever you can think of another reason I donā€™t stay with him my son and I will not live that kind of life so he gets homeAnd he makes me out to be that this bad person I said my prayers I talk to God Iā€™m like I donā€™t care what it is and I donā€™t want to categorize them white trash people that are shooting up doing crack and smoking and buying drugs I donā€™t care what they think I donā€™t care this is why Iā€™m not with you so I kind of feel that who knows even though the husband sounds like heā€™s a goody goody who really knows what sheā€™s going through

Mind your business. Stay out of married people affairs. Because if they make up and get pass this you the one looking like an a**.

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My ex was a cheater & a few friends found out way before I did. They didnā€™t tell me. I wish I had known alot sooner. If you are prepared to lose the friendship over this, then tell him. If not Iā€™d just let her know how you feel & tell her you dont want to know any more about it . PERIOD.

Iā€™d say find out where the wife and bf will be and let hubby ā€œfindā€ them there. Might be the best way to save his dignity.

Your friend is awful for cheating on her good husband. Her husband is content with home and going home and she cheated? Sheā€™s an awful selfish human. I wouldnā€™t be friends with trash like that :woman_shrugging:t4::100:

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You should pull back on your friendship, itā€™s not going to end well, you donā€™t want to be caught up in her nonsense :see_no_evil::hear_no_evil::speak_no_evil:

Mind YOUR own life, her life will sort itself out in its own way.It is not your story,story, your life.

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He deserves to know and sheā€™s not a friend you are better off without her.

You shouldnā€™t do anything, but mind your own damn business!!

Stupid womanif she loves her children she should stop now

Stay out of it not your problem!

Shes the head winner all right

Do nothing, not your business

Mind your own business

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Just mind ya own businessā€¦

Itā€™s nobodyā€™s business

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Mind your business, distance yourself from her, sheā€™s toxic and itā€™s affecting you.

Stay away from such friends she end ur friendshipā€¦

Karma. What goes around comes around. :woman_shrugging:t4:

Thereā€™s nothing you can doā€¦or should do.

Not your place to say anything, let alone share it on Facebook.

Keep your mouth shut and mind your own business, you could get somebody killed.

Mind your own business

Mind your own business

Sheā€™s a POS. Find better friends.

Mind your own bussiness

Pray for her and him.

Mind youā€™re own business.

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Let them figure it out.

dont get involved mind ur bussiness

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Do you like the husband

tell him let him be free

Stay out of it and find a new friend. She is a bad example of a friend. Tell her to look up adultery and repent of her sin and move on.

Learn from her mistakesā€¦

mid your own bussiness

Mind your own business

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Fucking wheres have it all and throw it away for sometime fling

Mind your own business

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Mind your own business

Nothing. Thats your bff fool

Nothing if you want to stay best friends

Keep your mouth shut ā€¦her problem.

Mind your own business!!!

mind ur own business.

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Mind your own business