Leave it alone it is her family, her business. And if she would do that to her husband and children WATCH YOUR BACK!!
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I find so many of these answers messed upā¦ if it was a man cheating on a woman it would be āshe deserves to knowā!!!
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Girl bye Mind your business sounds like you might want him!!
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Lady just mind your business.period
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She has no idea the heartache that lies ahead!!
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Yeah just let her do what she going to do. Stay away
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That chit will backfire on youā¦.been there done that 
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You do nothing. Itās not your business.
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It is not your problem she will get caught let her be
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Just seen this on another page?? Leave her too it. Youāll be damed if you do or dammed if you donāt! Itāll all come out in the wash sooner or later 
I would video tape her bragging about it and send it to him the bitch deserves it
This is a question of what you feel you should do me personally Iād tell my friend what a jackas* shes being and to get her shi* together especially since this effects her kids. Her time to be selfish ended the day she made them. Iāve been in this situation and I was friends with both parties. I told him what she was doing. I dont stand with cheaters. Iām willing to lose a person who is so selfish.
Are all of you people saying mind your business thinking about the kids in this? Iād give my friend a reality check rather than sit by with this info.
Get on with your life. She isnāt worth the concern!
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Why are you posting this?? Jealous? Mind the business that pays you!!! Smdh
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Unless it affects you directly then donāt get involved.
Just keep on being her friend.
Thats her business, sheās an adult.
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Not your place to say anything to the husband, but it is your place to tell your friend how absolutely disgusted and disappointed you are in her behavior and you will not be present to watch her continue. Walk away.
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Your best friend is your best friend you donāt have to decide with her if you have a problem you can look after her lazy ars husband
Best friend, read again, best friend, What as she kept to her self during the friendship x
I would not condone her behavior by any means but she is your best friend and therefore your loyalty lies with her not her husband, butt out and mind your own
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Single people can give good advice too and married people can give bad advice so your marital status shouldnāt matter but in this instance you need to back off and let your friend make her own choice.
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Iām pretty sure this is one of those she is me moments so Iām going to go off that and tell you to do whatever the fuck makes you happy because Iām the end youāll regret not doing Sox
Not my circus, not my monkeys. If it were me, I would stay out of it. It sounds like thereās a communication breakdown within their relationship and itās something they need to deal with 
If you feel it is unacceptableā¦then stay away from her. But donāt meddle
That is not someone I would call my best friend
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As hard as it is to find a long lasting love it never ceases to amaze me how people just throw it away.
Why are you blasting your besties personal life all over social media? 
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Slap ur bestfriend lol
Non of your business
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Sounds like a planā:person_shrugging:
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If sheās willing to hurt her family like that for her own selfish desires, then she cannot be trusted. Sadly, sheāll end up hurting you too! Iād walk away from the friendship.
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Although her behavior is appalling you really should mind your business. It is not your place to say or do anything.
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Get proof, show him. Let him deal
Not your place to tell him, but ask her how she would feel if the shoe was on the other foot
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I personally wouldnāt be friends with her anymore. It will inevitably blow up in her face and youāll get dragged into it because you knew.
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Donāt get into the middle of this. None of your business.
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You do nothing, it is none of your business. Water your own grass
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End the friendship with her and let her know what a lowlife cheating scumbag she is!
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Just mind your own business. Her business is not your business.
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It is none of your business. Butt out.
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MIND YOUR BUSSINESS. Itās not your problem! Why BLAST her personal life?
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Itās not your issue or business. Let her/them figure it out. Sheās your best friend
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I would tell her because you love her to tell the truth and not ruin her life because you care, and if she refused then I would end your friendship with her. I could never be friends that doesnt share the same morals as me and your going to be the one that has to pick up the mess when she ruins her life and comes crying to her about it, a good friend tells the truth no matter how it hurts, sugar coating does nothing for a person by any means.
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If you were honestly her bestfriend you would let her do what she wants and support her no matter the decision, but can always tell her your opinion about it. If it bothers you that much than stay out of it. Itās not your buisness.
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Let her get on with it, walk away and donāt look back, if u tell her hubby it will be you that gets all the shit. So just distance yourself and let her stew in her own shit when this all blows up in her face
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Simpleā¦ Distance yourself and stay out of it.
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Mind your business when it comes to her relationship butā¦maybe self reflect. Do you want to be friends with someone that has morals that donāt align with yours? Does her lifestyle bother your own inner peace?ā¦if so, then act accordingly and move away from her friendship.
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You warned her , all you can do know is be her friend and wish her the best
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End the friendshipā¦ also think about it this way, would you want your spouse to hide an affair on youš¤·āāļø how would you feel if his best friend knew and never told you
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All of theā¦ itās none of your business is not correct because her best friend made it her business when she let her in on what sheās doing. She burdened her best friend with her secret which wasnāt right. This best friend is not her best friend and she needs to see this and end this friendship before her best friend messes up both of their lives, along with the husband and kids.
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Stay out of it itās not your business
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Unfortunately this is none of your affair its best to leave it alone. Thier marriage is obviously doomed. You donāt want this person in your life cause letās just say you decide to commit to someone this lady could decide to try n mess up.your new relationship.there are people in this world who are just like that, please just move on good luck
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Mind your business. Not your monkey 
not your circus 
.She is an adult. Cheating is a choice she has made!let her live her choices. Probably the husband knows or he will know in due course. Heart tells !Is it you?
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This is why good single women cannot find a good man! They are sitting there with someone undeserving. There are problems in all marriages you do get bored you do think the grass in greener on the other side.
But I have to wonder what she would do if it were him doing it to her!
I could not remain friends with her for the simple fact that I do deserve a man like that and I had a friend do the same and it made me sick.
I never told him they went on with life but every time I see him I shake my head cause he did not and does not deserve it!
How is this even your freaking business???! Get a life!
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Sounds like you want her husband lol
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Distance yourself from the situation , if you donāt, before you know it you will be drug in the middle of it !!!
Myob and put some real space between youā¦seems the husband is cool although in the dark, but donāt be the friend that knows all her āsecretsā. Itās a terrible position to be in when it blows up, especially if you hang out with the family. Nothing like knowing a betrayal while staring the āvictimā in the face, that is two-faced and wrong.
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In all honesty I would tell her exactly how you feel and say Iām not going to lie about it. The stay out of it itās not your business became your business when she told you about it. Personally if her husband asked I would tell if he doesnāt Iām not going to start shit but Iām not going to lie to make you feel better about shit that isnāt right in the first place! My husband would disagree and say stay out of it but if asked Iām not lying period. If it makes you uncomfortable either way remove yourself from the friendship and leave it at that! My so called bf cheated on her bf in my bed and got pissed at me because I wouldnāt sleep with other guys when I started dating my now husband ā¦we are no longer friends because she expected me to be just as dishonest as her and she didnāt like it! Plus a multitude of other things
How can she mind her own business when it was her friend that told her?! Her friend put a burden on her by telling her, so now she is stuck in the middleā¦ Either she can tell the husband or walk away from the friend until her friend can get her shit straightened outā¦
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If ur her Best friend then you will mind ur business and donāt give advice unless she asks you. Otherwise keep ur mouth closed
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Everyone is so willing to just sweep it under the rug when they have information like this. This husband is living a lie and doesnāt even know it! I would want to know!! This is not ok!!
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Why are you so worried about her business? She better watch you and her husband!!! 
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Not your business. Your her friend she wanted you to listen.
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Let her choose the side piece so he can cheat on her too and take her husband and donāt be single. Clearly they are total opposites. Jokes aside I would tell him.
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If I were him I wouldnāt even take the wife back she lost a good thing something solid something ready to commit to be a family man and to live his wife and children and conditionally is something that you cherish you can always have fun with your husband you just have to create it and put a little work into it the other guy doesnāt seem like he wants to commit sheās going to lose everything sheās going to lose the other guy and her husband all at once.
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Stay in your lane. It will eventually blow up in her face. It always does
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What do u do?? MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!
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Wow! Best thing I think as a best friend is to pray for her before she loses her family and be there for her in the out come of conclusion of the matter
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First off ā¦ Iām trying to get over * sequel and * head winner ā¦ seriously though ā¦ this is between your friend and her husband . Stay tf out of their relationship . Itās not your place to say anything to the husband ā¦ wash your hands of the situation , that means losing that friend .
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Whatever you do, DONāT GET INVOLVED!
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Not sure why you are so bothered. Of course there are no morals , and young children are involved but in the end you can be a support to your friend but ultimately you truly canāt change it.
Mind your own business
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People are so rude saying āmind your own businessā um thatās her best friend??? And she confided in her about this. Clearly sheās not going to āmind her own businessā god do I hate you judgmental Mfers!!!
If you canāt help the person on the post , why even comment at all!!!
I say that she should just be there as support even though it is a fucked is situation. She will realize hopefully sooner than later that what sheās doing isnāt right. Especially if she has two little kids.
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If she confided in you, donāt say anything. I was in the same situation and I couldnāt even come close to telling her husband what she was doing behind his back. Do I wish I did at times, yes but still til this day I dont regret not telling him what really happened.
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Babe, your stake in this should be zero. The way itās worded rather throws a shade on you more. Stay clear of this mess thatās not yours to begin with!
How can she mind her business?? The best friend put her in the mix?? She just asking for advice! U guys asking like she did something wrong!! Dam!!ā¦ā¦. Girl, sheās not ur friend. Distance urself. This is gonna blow up & itās not gonna be good. U will get dragged into the middle of it.
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I wouldnāt get involved in the marital issuesā¦ BUT, I damn sure would NOT continue the friendship! If she doesnāt value her vows and institution of marriage, what makes you think she is any different with friendship?
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If thatās YOUR BEST Friend you ride with her . No brainer !
Mind your own business and hopefully she gets a new "best friend "
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Stay out of it itās not your concern just quit talking to her
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You mind your business. Exit the situation from all angles
Itās none of your business. Stay out of it. Youāre not going to fix anything by saying something. Let them be. They will figure it out. Sad that the kids are the ones that are going to suffer cause of her poor decision.
Mind your business .Make sure your house is spotless
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What do you mean what do you do? You stay out of it.
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A person who is in love doesnāt cheat.
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Ask yourself this- If you were dating/married- and your significant other was cheating on you and your friend knew about itā¦ would you want to know?
Also, I would definitely find a new friendā¦ 
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Yup mind your business
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Lol everyone saying mind their own business 
saying the wife confided in her friend. Iām sorry but no. Why would you dump something that serious on someoneās conscious? I hope she tells the husband. Yāall excusing this is just really weird. And I pray it never happens to any of you 
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And the spouse is always the last one to know. Wish someone had told me but hey ,eventually I found out.
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Mind your business. If your morals do not align separate yourself from your friend, but still mind your business.
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Ask yourself wheter it is possible that she might me cheating on you too. Usualky people who misuse trust, donāt limit it to this situations, allhough there may be a rational reasion. That he knows for instance. Anyway U would try to find out.
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Please donāt wreck her home because I know your next target now is her husband. Pray for own man and leave this your friendās hubby alone.
Sounds like a good poly relationship to me
This isnāt your secret to tell so mind your own business.
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We each have enough sins of ourselves that we answer to God for. In Godās sight there are no secrets. I prove that every day so I would suggest just go about your life the best you can.
Wowā¦she is no BFF if you canāt be real with her. Whatās wrong with speaking up and telling her that she is in the wrongā¦if she was a true friend she would appreciate your honesty and frankness. And if she doesnātā¦she was never your BFF.
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I see alot of people here that are probably cheating themselves because only cheaters defend cheatersā¦
That being saidā¦ If you have definitive proof show him!!!(messages between you and her about it or photos of her with said other man)
- If she TRULY loved him she wouldnāt be cheating.
- If you absolutely know and you donāt tell him you are just as bad as he is.
- He deserves to know, there are no ifs ands or buts about it.
- Sheās not a very good best friend if sheās asking you to keep her infidelity and her immorality a secret from her spouse.
- You are not a true friend if you donāt call her out on her crap, FRIENDS tell each other like it is weather they like it or not.
- Ask yourself āIf I was in his position would I want to knowā
Also just in case donāt break code do not get with the hubby should they split
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Stay out of it bottom line.you wanna stay friends,stay out of it ,bottom line
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I canāt tell you what to do but I can hope and pray that your choice is best for you, and you can be happy with whatever you choose.
mind your own business,in the end you will be blamed for the break up.stay in your own lane.
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What ever you decide , you have a different set of values and you need to get a new beastie. She is selfish and if she will hurt her spouse like that she will hurt you too.
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