Friends don’t let friends be bad people. Speak your mind to her, if you think this is disgusting behavior then say so and don’t mince words. Don’t tell him unless you think that’s what has to happen. But make it clear that you are not the person to complain to when she ruins her life.
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Tell her she’s an asshole for not being honest.
Mind her own business…ignore them
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Tell her she not only cheated on her man but she cheated on her kiss and she’s a dumb dog and you don’t want to know about what her cheating, lying arse gets up to.
Mind ur own business that’s what i say
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Stay in your lane and mind your business !!! Not your problem …
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You do nothing, it’s none of your business 
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I would want to know if I were him. Then I would want this bf to take a hike so I could handle the business of this. Bf would have to stay far away. Wife started this crap she is the one to pay the price. She brought it on herself. Woman up wife
Stay out of it, but in the same instance don’t cover for her either.
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you are single but you have best friend so enjoy your place and space ,be supportive
Speaking from somewhat of personal experience, I would honestly be pissed and extremely hurt if someone even kind of close to me knew something my husband was doing behind my back, and didn’t tell me. Your friend made a crappy choice and she needs to deal with the consequences. Her husband deserves to know.
Don’t do anything let her handle her own situation she’s a grown adult
Mind our own business and STAY OUT OF IT! Row your own boat!
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MYOB,Her Life not Yours,thake care of your own, Hope its not with yours ,lol
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Ya ever heard of keep your nose out of other people’s business? Speak your mind if asked but it’s really none of your business .
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Not your problem…stay out of it
Be there for your friend!
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You gave her your opinion and that’s all you can do. Either stay out of it or figure out if your loyalty is to your friend or her husband. If you tell him I can assure you that your friend will no longer be your friend. Personally I would stay out of it.
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Stay out of it. It’s hard but it’s their relationship not yours. You can advise your friend on your opinions but you can’t let it affect you. I’ve been in the same situation many times and getting involved turns the situation into you and No one will thank you for it in the end.
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These comments are insane if this post was a man cheating on his wife all hell would break loose 
but because its a women she should stay out of it that poor husband
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It’d be a dealbreaker on friendship for me. If she’s willing to do that shit to her husband, what else can’t she be trusted with?
She should have known not to be unfaithful to her husband without asking for your counsel. Bottom line.
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I went through this situation instead my boyfriend cheated on me with a woman from his job that is married for 12 half years and everything came out in the open. Guess what she left her husband kids house everything for my ex. And my ex is a boring guy in which I tried thought that he would change and nope. Personally I would continue to tell my BFF she is wrong for what she doing and it eventually will come out in the open and keep like that do not tell the husband your loyalty is to your friend not him no matter how good of husband he is. Trust I got a hold of the husband let him know and that man put her on a pedestal untill i did a three way with the husband and ex on the phone the husband heard it from horses mouth. Then I was done. Advice when it does come because it will she will slip may not now maybe 1 yr from now but it will just stay out of it.
There are some things you don’t really want to know !
Some of you are gross 
“mind y own” okay HUNS!!! Remember you’ve said this “advice” won’t you. It’s not about being nosy or ruining lives (don’t you recon her mates doing a good enough job of that already) she literally can’t be trusted as a WIFE she can’t be trusted at all! Xx
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Leave her to it lol none your business just sit back and wait for the fireworks
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Not much of a friend if she put you in that position. Do whatever your conscience tells you to do.
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It’s not your business. Mind your loyalty
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I would Stay Out Of It. It will all come to light. You will get hurt in the end
I lost someone as a friend (no big loss) because she was cheating on her husband, and I helped him figure it out. My ex had cheated on me, and she was the first one to say how despicable cheating is.
She still says I ruined her marriage. Umm, no, letting that creepy guy into your pants ruined your marriage, disgusting a-hole.
Nothing 
Mind your business.
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The comments prove just how morally bankrupt the world is.
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This post is bullshit
Would U want to no if it was you being cheated on
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Tell him. Tell her she has to tell him or you will. Be up front with it if it’s bothering you. He deserves to know. Playing with someone’s heart is a disgusting game
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Some won’t believe it til they see it don’t waste your time or friend ship 
whats in the dark must come to light 
I had a friend like this and although not married she was in a longterm relationship With a guy who is a absolute twonk and having his children too, She has children from previous relationships too, She’s cheated with more then one man over the years, I even questioned The paternity of one of her children. She asked advice once I told her she needs to stop because it’s not fair on the children but left it At that and distanced myself from her. It’s nothing to do with you so Just keep out of it as harsh as it sounds don’t insert yourself into Drama
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You mind your own business. You know nothing. That way you can not be dragged into the mess. If you put your self in the mix you will be the one the shit falls on. I have seen it happen many time.
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Now if the tables were turned and this was a man cheating on his wife, you’d all be saying to tell the wife so she can leave that scum bag …… he deserves better, those kids deserve better…
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Get with her husband since you’re so concerned about him & their relationship that has nothing to do with you.
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As much as I want you to tell him because cheating is sooo wrong, if she is your girl, your loyalty is to her . You can let her know how you feel and tell her all about it but in the end it is her decision.
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Same thing with an ex friend. Told me she is just bored and it is just for sex and does not want to separate with her husband. My husband works in abroad, i dont want him thinking and worrying i am like her. In the end she got caught and beaten badly but since she is the breadwinner of their family, they are still together but according to common friends it is very toxic and i am glad she is an ex friend.
If you get involved you will loose this friend I knew some one who was doing until she died I do not think her husband ever knew it saved him from being unhappy although it wasn,t right.
If you’re asking advice on here then it’s obviously eating at you. Do what your conscience tells you to do. A friend wouldn’t put you in that position. No matter what it’s a lose-lose situation. It’s not fair to anyone to sit at home and think everything is okay when it’s clearly not.
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Keep well out, because when it kicks off and it will, you will be in the firing line…
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Let her crack on and be there for her when it all fails to pieces. She’s your friend, your loyalty is with her. I’d tell her how you are feeling but that’s as far as I would go.
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Not your relationship not your business
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Easy fix stop being her friend it’s her shit not yours.Maybe then she will realize is it worth losing a family and a good friend over a whim.Her husband may realize something is wrong cos you are not around .Get out before it backfires on you completely knowing that you know.
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None of your business. Live your life.
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I wouldn’t be her friend anymore - tell her exactly what you think and then walk away.
I wouldn’t tell the husband (these situations rarely end well for the messenger) but I also wouldn’t lie if he asked 
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Stay out of it, best thing you can do
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Personally I’d be more upset that the person didn’t tell me I was being taken for a ride
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Mind your business!!!
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It’s none of your business
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Stay out of it. It will all come out in the open in a matter of time. Cheaters always get caught.
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Hope her husband does find out and leaves her lying cheating arse. No one deserves that.
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Although your concern is s good thing leave her to the guilty and what ifs
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My advice is mind your business.
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As everyone has said leave it alone and stay distant from your friend, then no one can say you covered for her etc.
You need no part in this drama so stay clear
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I would wanna know if my partner was cheating on me as long as you have hard evidence then I would wanna know.
She’s obviously caught up in the excitement of it all. Let your friend know you can’t be there for her if she continues to do that. It will all come out, when it does you can be there for her, if you choose to be but otherwise you might need to walk away from the friendship. If the husband asks I wouldn’t lie.
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All you saying stop being her friend obviously don’t have true friendsin your lives.
Tell her exactly how you feel, that she is wrong, that she needs to stop cheating for her children’s sake and if she don’t you keep telling her that you do not agree , but always be there for her . Not to cover for her cheating make sure she knows that too.
Good friends tell each other the truth how ever hard it is but are always there when shit falls apart
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Sounds like you wanna fuck him so get on with it and ssssshhhhhhh
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Been in this position… Told her I wasn’t cool with it but not my business… But also told her if he asked me about it I wouldn’t lie for her about it. Maybe the husband knows.
Not your relationship not your problem. You’re creating problems for yourself by getting involved. You gave her advice, now she can either take it or leave it. If you’re really concerned for the husband you’d tell him what she’s doing. Anything less and your just involved to be involved and you’re gonna look just as much to blame for being involved and not saying anything to him. Especially if you’re close with both of them
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Honestly, I’d be very conflicted if this was me. I’d probably say something 
if you’re really my friend, you wouldn’t put me in the position to know this awful, crushing thing you’re doing to another person who loves and cares about you. I can’t handle these situations. Last time I was in one of these, I grassed and still I’d do it all over again. I lost a friend, but I gained new ones that truly appreciated me. I will never cover someone’s dirty laundry for them again. It’s not your business no, but she put u in that position… I’m not by any means a shitty friend, but my friend gotta be damn shitty person to be treating other people like that, especially one she claims to love herself, then expecting me to cover it for her too? Nah… I don’t wanna be the bitch she kicks off at because SHES doing things that most would not agree with. No, I’m not judgmental. But I have my morals and I’m not afraid to stick to them. My friends wouldn’t put me in a situation like this, and if they did, they should know me well enough to know I’m not hiding them abusing their loved ones. I’m not OK with that. I will speak up and then I will walk away. And if ur not OK with that, do your dirty without telling me about it 
Keep your nose out let her pick up the pieces when he finds out
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She doesn’t love the husband end of story
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Drop an anonymous letter in her mailbox to hubby.
Tbh I think alittle bit of jealousy has crept in! Keep outa it tbh ok
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You simply mind your own business, it’s not your responsibility to involve yourself in any of it.
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If you are her friend be her friend . None of what u said is your business. Seems like your friend confided in you - as a friend you say your opinion then leave their relationship alone. You seem to be focusing on your friends situation and how it effects you. Because of your last sentence you really seem to be projecting your own experience on to her. You’re not married you don’t understand how marriage works unless you’re in it. If you can’t be a good friend to her then you tell her that and walk away from the friendship. It really is none of your business. Focus on your own life and relationships because one day you may need someone to confide in the same way your friend thought she could confide in you. But you need to leave their marriage alone. All I get from your message is you are more concerned with the husband - you seem to like him so,
Process why you care this much and why you went so far as seeking advice from complete strangers .
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Anyone ever thought about how hard this must be for the friend? Everyone keeps saying mind your own business but the cheating friend made it her business when she opened up to her! Was she just expecting her to say I support you?? No way would I, and if it was my friend I’d be the same as the girl asking for advice. Dam right wrong what ever the situation is!! And to involve 2 young children too… disrespectful! If it was my friend personally I’d lay it all out on the table and say I will support her BUT she has to decide what she wants. It’s either she has her family at home with husband and kids or throws it all away and leaves it to go with her fling. Messing with far too many people’s life’s!!!
If someone is going to cheat, they are not happy in there relationship , the best thing to do is let her get on with it , she’s a grown adult , who should know better .
If your not happy end your relationship end of .
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Been there done that. We are no longer best friends. I never told her husband. I lost all respect for her.
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Just be her friend. Support her whatever. It’s her life. Don’t judge.
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. My best friend is cheating on her husband, what do I do?
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All I can say is no one truly knows what happens behind closed doors & not all people are meant to stay together. However, I hope she tells her husband the truth because cheating and lying isn’t fair.
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i feel the husband has a right too knoe
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Not your story to tell. Stay out of it
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U playing with fire. If u tell the husband he may snap and hurt her. Do u really wanna live with that?
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Not any of your business
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Stay out of it… trust me…
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Tell her husband. This is disgusting
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Watch your own bobber
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If you value your friendship. Look away
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Not you business stay out of it
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That sucks. But I honestly feel like he deserves to know. Thats really messed up
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Seems like you might be interested in the husband. Stay out of it.
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No one has the right to judge unless they know what goes on behind closed doors. Cheating is not okay in my opinion, but whatever her choice is is her choice. Free will is a human right no matter if you agree with it or not.
You can tell her husband, or you can keep her secret, or you can be an ear to her if she’s hurting or upset, but you have the free will to choose as well.
In my opinion I wouldn’t get involved. No good deed goes unpunished, and it’s not your responsibility. She’s a grown adult, he’s a grown adult. Their marriage is their marriage.
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I couldn’t be friends with someone like that.
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Not your best friend
Not your business
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Not your business…she honestly shouldn’t have involved you at all.
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The only person you should share your feelings with is her. Beyond that, it is her life…you really don’t know both sides. There are going to be people in our lives who do not share the same values, if you disagree…move on.
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Tell her how disappointed you are in her and that you can’t be friends anymore hopefully this will plant the seed and she will stop
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Not your circus not your monkey’s, not your lane so stay out of it and simply not your business to tell however you want to put it
She should be honest with her husband. If she wants to stay with her husband, they should talk…alot…& go from there.
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Playing with fire she is , sadly I hope she finds herself soon . Things like that never turn out well. She needs to move on so it’s better for all involved . At some point she is not even thinking of her children
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If you tell him and they end up staying together, then they’ll be mad at you! Always happens
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It costs zero dollars to mind your own business. If you don’t approve of what she’s doing then cut her off
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Mind your own business
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