Want to lose a friend? If so tell him. Most likely you will lose 2 friends if you tell.
All you women are annoyingā¦ āItās none of your businessā but if it was your man cheating on you and your friend knew you would expect them to tell youā¦ āDonāt put yourself in the middle of their marriageā yet thatās exactly what her friend did when she told her about her affairā¦ Yall just donāt know how to be good friends because a true friend does not support your bad habits, they hold you accountable. What is wrong with all you no moral having girls?? This women supporting women thing is honestly kind of disgusting especially in situations like thisā¦ Because I know good and well that if this situation was about a man telling his guy friend about an affair, yāall would be saying heās a POSā¦ And so is this womanās friend
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Mind your own business
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Unfortunately your friend is an a$$hole. I had a friend like this once. She tried to use me as a pawn. Told her husband she was out with me until 4am. I told him the truth. A friend would never put you in a position like this.
Id Tell her how you feel honestly yet nicely. And say that you donāt agree with what sheās doing, so if it continues then you no longer want to hear about it.
Sheās putting you in the middle and thatās very unfair to you
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Stay out of it! Iām only talking from personal experience. Sheās a big girl.
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Well she seems like a total winner??
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Nothing !!!
Again, NOTH-iiiINGGGGā:rofl:
This is NOT your business. And you donāt know what or who heās doing or what status their relationship is on, maybe sheās allowed toā¦
Not you business or place
And there must be some sort of se*yak relations bc they have (2) children together 
Stay in your lane maamā:ok_hand:t5:
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Give the Ultimatum she tells him or you do. She brought you into her mess so now she needs to be accountable.
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Wow you are a shitty best friend 
thatās none of your business, what are you digging her old man? Smh hereās what you should do ā¦ MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUISNESS
everyone saying not to tell, would be pissed if the shoe was on the other foot and their friends didnāt tell them what was happening behind their backā¦
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I feel like itās your duty to tell the other party if you know someone is cheating. I would feel like a bad person if I didnāt. Everyone saying to āmind your businessā needs to understand that it is now your business because you know. In my opinion, you have a duty. You can get a better friend anyway.
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Stay out of it, mind your own business.
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Itās not her business but yet her friend told her making it her business? No question about it she needs to stop cheating and confront her husband about it.
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Well if shes the head winner shes doing something right lmao
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Tell your friend to stop being a t. w@tt.
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Not your business I would leave it alone
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Iām not about to snitch on my friend regardless of whatever Iām her friend not his 
but Iād tell her she needs to stop the affair & leave her husband. The situation could get very bad & quickly. Nobody reacts the same when theyāve been cheated on so she needs to chill. Not to mention if thereās no prenup, bye bye go her money. Also she made it your business when she told you so you do have a right to say something to her. Just be like hello b youāre putting yourself at risk.
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Quit hanging around your friend if you donāt agree with what she is doing. Once you drop her, the husband will wonder why. Let him do the questioning. If she does this thru her marriage & relationshipā¦ makes me wonder about your guys friendship. Is she really a faithful friend to you? If it was me, I would want to know if someone was cheating on me. Iāve been in this situation of not telling & felt like crap for not, because I could have saved that person so much heartache. How much does your friendship with her mean to you? If you not longer want to be her friend, then tell. But the moment you tell she will not likely be your friend anymore. So many questions for you.
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Some of yallā¦she not much of a best friend if she tells the husband. Best friends tell their friends the shitty not the friends husband. 
Ohhhhh I have a GREAT idea!!!
Mind YO BUSINESS
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Tell him he doesnāt deserve it, he deserves to know.
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You need to tell him, he doesnāt deserve to be cheated on no matter what!
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She told you cos your her friend your not her husbandās friend so if thereās anyone you should be loyal to its her not himā¦
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Everyone saying āmind your businessāā¦
Would you be okay with your spouses best friend knowing that they cheated and didnāt tell you, continued to smile in your face like things were peachy, meanwhile theyāre aware that thereās a side chick?
Asking for myself.
Yāall sound foolish. If it were me, Iām cutting her off if she doesnāt come clean. Say what you want. Blatant cheaters lack morals and I donāt claim them as spouses or friends. 
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Just stop hanging out with her. This shits going south with or with out your help. Stay out if it
Iāve been through this with my best friend. She told her husband eventually after we had talked and she didnāt want to hurt him and left him for the guy and then spent the next 5 years crying to me over the loser she picked over her husband and then ended it with him to get with a narcissist and manipulator and cry over that to now sheās single again. Weāll see what the next saga is.
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Mind your own business
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Figure out a way to talk with just him. Make up a fictional married couple friend and ask him for advice with this fictional married friend thatās cheating. Tell the story and ask him what he thinks you should do. If he suggests you tell the fictional friends husband heās being cheated on then come clean and tell him itās his wife thatās cheating. If he says to let it be, then donāt do anything. Some men prefer not knowing others want to know. Let him decide without knowing heās deciding.
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He deserves to know.
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Tell the husband. Itās dirty to sit in someoneās face knowing their spouse is busy betraying them.
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Nothing ā¦ if you tell him and they work it out youāll be the bad one !!
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thatās your best friendā¦its ok to feel bad and even tell her but YOUR LOYALTY LIES WITH HER NOT HIMā¦I would never do that to my best friendā¦I would give her my opinion and thatās itā¦thats what a bff is all aboutā¦
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Iāll snitch on a stranger when it comes to cheating. If she didnāt want ppl in her business she shouldnāt invite a side dude
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If my beste Friend of even my sister told me something like this i would tell her she has a week to tell het husband If Not I would!
Simple as That! That is Something I would never help you With Our keep secret! You dont cheat, you dont disrespect your partner like That and think I support you!
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Umā¦if this is ur BFF then just b a frickn BFF! Stay tf out of someone elseās marriage for 1. N 2, b a friend! That means listening n keeping ur mouth shut! Express ur concerns TO HER! LET HER HANDLE IT! STAY TF OUT OF IT! Ur not bn very BFF goin behind he back talking shit rn eitherš
Unless ur into her husband n willing to lose ur friendā¦ cuz fr thatās what it sounds like n thatās evn worse! 
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Why is it your place to say anything at all?
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Sheās an adult she can do what she wants donāt get involved just listen if she wants to talk to you about it but other than that itās not your place to say anything
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Youāre not her best friend. Itās none of your business.
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You can advise your friend, but you should NOT tell her husbandā¦simply because you are her friend. There shouldnāt be any breach of trust at the outset.
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Honestly I couldnāt be friends with someone whom would do such a thingā¦however youāre not a fly on the wall so step away and mind youāre business
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I would tell her husband it not right what she doing she doesnāt love him if she did she wouldnāt do it she hurtting her kids also by doing this so sad
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WOW! Youāre the kinda friend that woman need huh!! Mind your fucking business! And walk away from your friendship with her YOU are NOT her friend!! Smh
Be a friend to her when her world comes crashing down. She already knows you donāt approve, but you canāt stop her from doing this so like I said, just be there to listen when it all blows up.
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I am sorry but itās none of your business they are adults and can manage their own business stay out of theirs
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Not your place to tell him, encourage her to do the right thing and be loyal to your friend. Encourage her though, itās her burden not yours 
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If you want to loose her friendship then go ahead and tell him, but if you donāt then keep out of itš¤· very simple. Alls I can say is that she should tell him that sheās not happy and then go live the life that she wants instead of stringing him along.
Mind your own business.
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Iād say mind your business. Sounds like your kind of into her husband though. Honestly, if sheās your best friend like you claim, stay loyal to her and let her figure it out. It sounds like she may be going through a mid life crisis or depression.
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Not your business or place. Carry on with your life, what people do behind closed doors is between them.
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Iād be telling him or atleast post a note through the door, imagine if he was doin it you would tell said best friend instantly.
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Mind your business 100%
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Tell her husband so he can leave her and then quit being her friend
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Do you like her husband? If you donāt have feelings for him I donāt see why u canāt mind you business and giving this that much thought
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This is not your story to tell! If you feel the need to talk about talk about it with her and her only.
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Stay out of it carry on with your own life
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I mean if you HAVE to get involved then go ahead and tell the husband. I wouldnāt say anything in this particular situation though.
Stay. Out. Of. It. This will not end well.
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My best friend will whoop my ass if I did that, just as I will hers.
Weāre like sisters, 27 years of friendship. But then again, weāre not cheaters so I canāt give much advice. Just try and convince her to either leave her husband or cut ties with the other dude. She canāt keep this going, itās definitely not fair to the poor man.
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. My best friend is cheating on her husband, what do I do?
I cut friends off for cheating or friends that mess around with married people ā¦ for me I donāt need that toxic crap in my life
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Stay out of it. People go through phases in their lives. Itās normal. Itāll work out the way it supposed to
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Get rid of the friend she has no morals and clearly only cares about herself!
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I canāt believe how so many of you seem to think this is ok . And I think by telling her friend to ignore it is saying itās ok fir her so called friend to carry on behind her husbands back ā¦ so disappointed in this
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She is not a friend! Sheās an acquaintance. A friend would not have put you in this uncomfortable/unfortunate situation. Start distancing yourself from this so called friendship. Iām not saying be rude but start excluding yourself. Do not get caught up in anyoneās drama.
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Yeah, nope. F thatā¦ she shouldnāt have told you thatā¦ itās not right putting that horrible knowledge in you when you probably didnāt want to knowā¦ thatās a tough call but I would seriously just ask her how she would feel being cheated on??? Cause she needs to admit to that and stop leading them both on
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If you want to be her friend ā¦ tell her you donāt want to hear details and keep you out of it. If you think you canāt stay out of it. Walk away and get a new friend. Thatās the only decision you need to make. It really has nothing to do with you and getting involved can only hurt you and others.
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Stay out of it. You told her your concerns now there is nothing you can really do except maybe strongly encourage her to get counseling for herself and/or with her husband and end the cheating. You said there are no plans to divorce her husband and āno plans to move forward with this guyā. Sheās an adult even if she is making poor choices. Looks like everybody is going to get hurt in this scenario, unfortunately.
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Itās not your life and itās not your business, so stay out of it. You should tell her you do not want to hear anything more about what sheās doing.
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You need a new friend whose morals match your own. She is not marriage material and I know several cases where a spouse adapts to what their manipulate spouse wants only to be called boring later and is an excuse for them to cheat. She sounds like a narcissist to me. Itās good you are single because she would be the type to want what you have. Dump her as a friend. If she tries to smear your name youāll know if she has a personality disorder and definitely tell her husband so he can prepare himself for what is ahead before she sucks the life out of him even more and that is probably why he is low energy.
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Stay out of it. It never ends well for the person that tells. Try talking sense to your girlfriend if it makes you feel better, but do not tell the husband or threaten her with that.
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You could say , Iām having a hard time dealing with you seeing some one else other than your husband . You both donāt deserve this because I love you both dearly . You need to figure out what your going to do . If you donāt figure it out and do nothing I will be telling your husband , you canāt have it both ways . Your children and you and hubby either need to work it out or separate . Iāll give you one month before I tell your husband
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I have a friend who is involved with woman cheating on her husband and i have mo respect for her. Hurt coming for everybody no respect for this woman
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sounds like youāre more interested in her husband than she is. it sucks but leave it alone.
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Thereās nothing you can do, itās her life. If itās a dilemma for you and it sounds like it is then tell her you really donāt want to hear anymore about it. It doesnāt sound like sheās asking for your advice.
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Ask her, if her husband was cheating on her, would she want YOU to tell her, if she says yes, tell her, that her husband probably feels the same way
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I would love to say tell her husband but I know that is not the best thing to do. I am saying that from experience I wish someone would have told me!! But really I say stay away from her. 
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I was put in the same situation years ago, I was very angry with my friend for putting me in the position of knowing and feeling very sorry for her husband, I didnāt say anything but I slowly distanced myself from the friendship.
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STAY out of It because you will make three enemies Nothing is hidden in the dark that want come to daylight shes committing Adultery Itās ashame sheās a grown Woman and put her Children through this and donāt care no more about her Family than that and sleeping around with someone that doesnāt even care sheās lying not only to him but to herself,and how do you know if sheās a true Friend to you I would closed the door on her and say goodbye before she gets you in a mess of things
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Stay out of it when it ends if your in the mix itāll be your fault been there done that lost friend both him and her
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You do or say nothing. Stay in your lane. If you feel you cannot support her lifestyle, then you exit her life there may be an agreement between her and her husband that you donāt know about. Itās really none of your business to involve yourself in her personal affairsā¦ no pun intended. The only reason I can see involving yourself is if you want her husband
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Not your business to share. If you are uncomfortable with the situation, then start to put space between your friendship. If she asks you whatās going on, simply tell her you do not wish to be a part of her indiscretions, lies, & secrets. So you are completely removing yourself from the whole thing
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Stay out of it. And honestly if your even considering getting involved she is not your best friend. Your job is as a friend is to walk beside someone in life not to lead them through it and not to drag them down but rather to be apart of there journey. If you donāt like the path she is taking sounds like you need to go your own way.
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Do nothing. Youāve done enough giving her advice. Itās her life, not yours. Concentrate on you and your fears and live YOUR life. She doesnāt need you to save her or fix her. You do you.
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I couldnāt be close to someone like this our values just donāt match
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Hopefully the husband finds a better person than a disloyal wife. They might of well get divorce and he can take half her shit.
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Tell her she should tell her husband, at least she should have guts be honest with him. It pisses me of when women and men do this to their partners and canāt be honest to their partners. If you think what she doing is wrong then tell her if she doesnāt tell her partner you will. Donāt you think he has right know.
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I see alot of women saying mind your own business, but what would you do if he was cheating on her ?
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Not your monkeys not your circus stay out of it
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There isnāt anything you can do but be there in case she needs to talk. I tried talking to my good friend to get her to stop but the only thing that happened is that she stopped talking to me. Tread lightly.
I would stay out of it honestly. Itās something she got to figure out herself.
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Do you envy the perfect man one who is content?
If she plays with fire the truth will come out, and not by you.
If she is bored and wants excitement advise her to take up hobbies not a man!
In a relationship 2 must work together maybe counseling?
Maybe she loves her husband in a caring way, but not in LOVE with him, really not your call.
I wouldnāt get involved with that at all, except to silently Pray for their āSuccessful Resolution of Their Livesā.
Stay out of it. Examine your own personal boundaries and decide whether being friends with this person is a positive thing and aligns with your personal values.
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Yall saying not to be her friend lol whatās that got to do with it?! I would stay out of it though. You donāt want to be the pot stirrer in case it flips back on you. Good luck.
If would be very difficult for me to remain a close friend to someone that made this type of choice. I would simply tell her that you canāt support her choice or be a party to her cheating (keeping her secrets makes you an accomplice) and I would distance myself until she changed her ways.
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Mind your business. Sheās your ābest friendā and you can tell her your displeasure with the cheating but not come in between her marriage.
You need to tell her what she is doing is called adultrey and Gods not pleased with her and she needs help.
From my past experiences with trying to help friends .your better off just staying away and stay out of it.its there marriage on the line ,I know your trying to help .but it might not be good for you to get stuck in the middle when he fines out. You donāt want to be accused of breaking there marriage apart. Sheās not making good choices but I would just walk away.its sad your a good friend. But donāt get caught up in it.