Yes … You need to end it … You are not interested in him and he is living in a middle age man’s fantasy… He is being extremely unfair to his wife … He sounds like a douche …
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U knew he was married…shame on u! He already made a commitment to someone else! If u r so right wait for divorce unless you caused it. How would u feel if u were his wife?
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I mean it should have never happened. Married means married. Until they sign on the dotted line and it’s finalized, they are married.
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This is called… A homewrecker… 
don’t feel so blind if it happens TO YOU later on
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- You don’t think the world of his wife or you would have never EVER flirted back with the dirt bag. Stop lying to the people in this thread and stop lying to yourself. The two absolutely are related.
- Get another job.
- Tell the wife what’s up. The least you could do is give her all the facts so she isn’t left questioning herself. She deserves the truth and it’s not like you will have a friendship
with her to preserve. Plus, she should get all
she deserves in the divorce. - Learn your lesson. NEVER do this again. Marriage is something that is sacred and you should never allow yourself to be in the position to ruin someone else’s life/family. It’s disposable and honestly a terrible example to set for your own child.
- Once you do what’s RIGHT, by following steps to 1-4, move on. Forgive yourself and be a better person. You made some pretty terrible mistakes but you can change and be better in the future.
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You showed interest byflirting in the first place.Do not fall for the louse`s ‘‘getting a divorce’’ routine and even if so he is trouble.
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PSA: your married boss is not your soul mate, that woman’s husband is not your other half. If you need any indication on his character, being a married older man messing with you; a younger woman who is a single mother dependent on her income to support her child, vulnerable to his actions and behaviors, says a whole lot about who he is, and his integrity.
“You mess with fire, you will get burned.”
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Karma is going to make this very messy for you. New job and new man that’s not someone else’s. If I was his wife your’s and his life would be hell!
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I’m sorry but shame on you and him for doing this. He’s married. Its wrong.
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Ur a side chick to a married man
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You’re the woman every woman worries about at work being around their man. Brace yourself for your karma.
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Don’t chase married Men!
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How is this even a question? Smh
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Karma is gonna bite so hard with the both of you you wrecked someone’s marriage your gonna have to deal with the bed you made and the consequences you created
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You knew he was married before this all started so anything that happens you brought up on yourself.
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Well stop screwing a married man. If he was leaving his wife and oh so miserable he would have done it. Hope you’re happy with yourself. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you think he wont do it to you you’re wrong. You did a very wrong thing. Leave the job and move on. DONT SCREW OTHER WOMENS HUSBANDS
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Oh good grief get a brain and some respect for yourself. He’s married and you know this.
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Work relationships rarely work… Then when stuff happens you could lose both… Stay away from that is my advice. He is still married
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Why are you involving a married man in your child’s life?!?!? What??
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Stop it now. It’s a lose lose situation
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Take control now and end it. Protect yourself at all costs because when things go sideways I guarantee no one will care how you feel.
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He says they have nothing to do with each other. That is someone else husband and you need leave him alone and the wife needs to find out
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If you knew he was married,I’m sure you know it wasnt right to get involved!Even more wrong to put your son in the situation and worse that you think the world of his wife,Now if he left her and they were in the process of a divorce I’m sure it would be different circumstances,but from what I read that isnt the case.good luck.
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pssst… THIS IS NOT FLIRTING.
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Been working there for a little over 2yrs…boss has been flirting since then.
Yet still…he’s with his wife.
If he was leaving, he’d have left by now.
You’re gonna lose the man AND the job…
As soon as the “I’m gonna leave” excuse dies out…he’ll cut you loose. If you were gonna win against the wife, he’d have left by now🤷.
You’re the side piece, nothing more.
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I would hate to be in that mess but you have the power it’s in your hand
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Leave him and get another job and stop screwing married men. There are a lot of single men looking for a single woman.
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Duh YES. Have some self respect!!
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You knew he was married!! What ever karma hits you with that’s all on you smh
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Yeah he doesn’t have anything to do with his wife now because of you! You are the home wrecker! Open your eyes! A man will tell you anything to get in your pants, and they may even leave their wife for you eventually, but it makes you the bad person! She should be told what is happening. She deserves to know that you are a homewrecker and her husband is a cheater! Honestly you two deserve each other, but she needs to know what is going on so she can start her life new with someone who isn’t a big cheater and find friends who aren’t home wreckers like you!
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Flirting? One minute you say flirting and the next minute you are like you two are having a full fledged affair. I think the latter is true, which makes you a horrible human being.
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Known fact, if he’s doing it with you, in due time, he’ll cheat on you. Sorry if this isn’t what you wanted to hear. Best of luck.
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don’t think he won’t do it to you, too. 
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Unless he was already separated you have no right to be involved with a married man. Period. You knew what you were doing. Youve had every opportunity to end it. You deserve any reproductions that come your way.
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Might just be flirtatious person
You’re having an affair with a married man. You know how this will end. Just quit now and save your son from this hot mess that’s about to blow up in your face
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No you should have stopped it before it got this far. You don’t need a daddy
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Why are you flirting with a married man in the first place 
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How would he have gotten so close to you and your son from flirting? 
I’m confused… you left a lot of the details out… if it was merely flirting as you claim, you wouldn’t have anything to “end” except walking away from your job… and how would your son even be involved in this shit storm? 
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Tell his superior and look for another job. Just in case they find a way to do away with yours. Sorry to say but that is how reality is. There are plenty of jobs out there.
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WHY would you even put yourself in that situation? 
You knew what you were doing and where it would “QUICKLY” go. You were never innocent in this entire thing. You should NEVER “flirt” back with ANY man in a relationship, especially one that’s married AND your boss. You have now potentially ruined 2 families or groups of people (I highly doubt he has nothing to do with his wife. Oldest story ever). You ruined yourself (at your job and put your son in a sad situation) and you helped to mess up a marriage. Good job! If you’re looking for pity, you won’t find any here. You REAP what you SOW. Disgusting, BOTH of you.
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Tell him you’re not looking for that kind of relationship, wait to get fired or find a new job, this job thing is karma biting you in the @$$. Look on the bright side…you probably aren’t the first he’s done this to and you most certainly won’t be the last. Good luck. Hope you find a man that you can actually call your own instead of someone else’s. P.s. if I was the wife I’d beat the 
out of both of ya 
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Once a cheater always a cheater.
I was the wife on the other end of this kind of situation and it ruined my family. I am happy now but A word of advice on judging someone’s character; Chances are someone who wants an affair is a narcissistic liar with a moral compass that is off. This kind of personally is likely to do this again with another partner
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If you’re sleeping with your boss, it isn’t exactly “help! My boss is flirting with me!” It’s “help! I’m sleeping with my married boss and I know his wife!”.
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The husband always says that he’s getting a divorce or has nothing to do with his wife. They never say they’re just a cheater.
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You spelt ‘affair’ wrong.
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You obviously don’t think to highly of his wife and think the world about her when you’re flirting with her husband. Also why would you have his man that’s twice your age around your son that’s married at that and whine about getting out of the situation because the man is close to your son🤦♀️
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If he is divorcing his wife to be with you, he’s gonna cheat on you, if y’all end up together🤷🏻♀️
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I am sure you were aware of what you were doing and now want absolution from everyone.
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Men ALWAYS use that excuse!!! I’m in a male dominated workforce and they all try to pull that card on me. Run away gurl!
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Yeah you should end it. He’s married. You NEVER should’ve started it. You certainly shouldn’t have allowed this man to become close with your son. He’s a married man. Honestly, what kind of future did you expect with him?
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Anyone who is flirting with a married man should be mindful of the pain it can cause and Vice versa for the husband … a work environment should be that … WORK… many men will say leaving their wife to to Taste the other side and may have no intention of leaving … or maybe he will and then one day your the next woman who he leaves . Cheating men /woman are lost … they don’t know how to deal with issues and seek a way out without doing the hard work … Marriage I believe is death do us part… and if you want to have a happy life I believe you layout your path with good vibes … not seeking to involve yourself with someone who already took their vows… Marriage is hard enough as it is and you’ll find out one day … but hopefully not with this person cause it’s a pattern of behavior … People need to respect Marriages again and know that this is a sacred space … those who interact with them and the one that is married should have some decency and good character
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Listen honey karma is a bitch. You can choose to do the right thing and walk away. RUN
Once a cheat always a cheat.
You showed disrespect for his wife and marriage the moment you accepted his flirting and started flirting back and let things get too far. Not saying the blame is fully on you because he disrespected his marriage and wife the moment he started flirting, so no she can’t really be mad at you but she kind of can at the same time because you knew in the beginning he’s married. Wether they’re in a good spot or not……you should have left well enough alone, knowing full well that he’s unavailable. How desperate are you for a relationship? And showing your child that it’s ok at the same time?
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You should probably start looking for a new job, because the wife is bound to find out and your going to be out on your ass 
Wow you are an idiot and you will be charged with adultery just as well as he when judgement comes. No he is not going to get a divorce and this is something he actively does you are not special and to think you are is even more atrocious and then to allow your son to be apart of that is just absolutely appalling and shows your true character and now you bring it here for people to feel sorry for your disgraceful actions. Sad part is the wife has been the only one dealing with this for yrs. You like her but you will f her man. Get a grip. I pray for your soul
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Why start it to begin with?
I hope you are feeling shitty. Let me tell u what will happen, you will both wreck havoc on other people… In 15 years time you will be bored and lonely and with an old man and u will be unhappy. I get totally that he started this, but you are a mother so you have been around the block, you are looking for a father figure for your child and security, l get that also, but be careful what u wish for. If he really is the love of your life you would not be posting this. Expect alot of backlash when it all goes south, and you will deserve it totally.
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Never take away what feeds your family ( your income). Sounds like homewrecker to me. U know about the wife??? He ain’t leaving. And you won’t be the last.
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You dont think much of yourself.you knew he was married. U did this to yourself and another woman. Shame on u. He won’t be faithful to u either. And u would deserve that.better yourself end it
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You would think she had committed murder with all you innocent people that have never done anything wrong
It will happen to you too
If he cheats with you, he’ll cheat on you. And honestly, you should’ve never involved yourself with him KNOWING he was married. I would end it immediately.
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Your right on it never should have gotten that far, matter of fact you shouldnt have been flirting with a married man at all. You need to shut it down quickly, and probably start looking for a new job.
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You should not of entertained the flirting to begin with I’m sorry. He was always married and if you respected his wife like you say you wouldn’t be doing that. I’ve had bosses hit on me and it’s really easy to say keep it professional or I’ll quit. If you hired me just to hit on me I don’t want to be here any damn way.
He isn’t going to leave his wife to be with you. He would have left long ago if those we his intentions. Nobody is going to stroke your ego here. You should have shut the flirting down when it started. Now the wife and your son are the only 2 going to get hurt.
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so you think highly of his wife let you slee0 around and fuk around with HER husband:thinking:
Divorce his wife…… I don’t think so. He is too comfortable having it both ways. If you feel so much for his wife, why would you even consider it!!
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If you have to ask this question, you already know the answer.
Don’t feel guilty or remorseful now, whether you break it off or not you will be the one that invaded a marriage. I HATE women like you.
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You got in this mess get out of it
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You need to leave him along,u just remember this,if u get with him,he will do u the same way,and you will deserve ever bit of what u get. Also your just hearing one side of the story, yoy aren’t anything special to him,truthfully he probably knows you’re just a easy piece. Can you not find a single man?
Just know you aren’t special,that alot of people think you’re trash. You shouldn’t of started flirting with him in the first place, u knew he was married, he doesn’t deserve his wife,she’s probably to good for him.
How you get ‘em is how you lose ‘em.
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Leave. And get a different job.
Bottom line … he is still married. Whether he says it’s over or not, he is still another woman’s husband. If asking a social
Media platform helps direct you into a moral decision, it’s time you grow up.
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Shouldn’t be messing with a married man in the first place. Go tell his wife what you have done and kick this man to the curb. You shouldn’t have ever put yourself in this situation especially with a child!
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Next he will be telling u that they are separated and have not been happy for years. That he never loved her but he loves you. Move on.
If he wanted to leave her he would have. He just wants to play you for a fool. He has done this many times Im sure. Gross that you would let your child get attached to this man. Get some morals and leave the married men alone.
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First off, your hashtag is wrong. It should say #relationshits
Second of all, you’re a terrible person. Why? He’s married. It doesn’t matter what he says, he’s a piece of sh*t. And you’re an idiot. His wife just might be amazing. Spending her time raising babies.
Woman up. Go see his wife, tell her what you two have done and walk away. It’s both your fault.
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Your should be ashamed play with fire
Your just as guilty as he is. Both of you know better. You did this now you want someone else to provide answers for you because it’s going to be real messy! Give me a break. What’s worse than a cheater, a cheaters accomplice. Not sorry!
I think you deserve each other, I just feel sorry for your son.
Karma will literally hit you if you don’t walk away at least a that’s what I’ve seen happen… good luck with that.
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If he’s doing it with you, he will do it to you. If he even actually leaves, they rarely do. You’ll deserve everything coming to you. Stop messing with married men. Why would you even think to bring him around your son. Sorry I’ve zero pity for you.
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If he cheats with you,
He will cheat on you!
And secondly… they’re always " getting a divorce "
Which I’m sure his wife doesnt even know about.
If you’re happy being a side piece, well, that’s down to your conscience.
Which, you seem to be lacking…
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You let it go on for this long and now you have a problem with it?!? You should of known from the start that it was a problem. He’s married man why should you entertain him. Also for you to say you think the world of his wife is a slap in the face.
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By entertaining it to begin with you are half of the problem. You should’ve never let it get that far. Best to end it now. For the wife and your sons sake. If you don’t it just shows how much of a Homewrecker you are and you didn’t care about his wife to begin with. Sorry not sorry ive been “the wife” and women like you disgust me. YOU should’ve told him from the get go to go home to his wife or had a chat with the wife not her hubby. You literally are no better than him.
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She’s obviously trying to find a sugar daddy to help support her and her child. I just had to comment again because I can’t believe someone would see themselves as a victim in this. As an adult YOU created this situation your in and for some messed up reason brought your child into it 
I can’t, I can’t I can’t!!!
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Get real good evidence and go to the wife
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You should of told his wife. What if you were married and your husband was messing around with a young girl and her son? Do they have kids? Bc if so that’s really not cool. Idk. It’s easy to become fond of someone etc but you really should of at least denied his advances if not letting his wife know. And I’d of left the job that’s not even worth the trouble of wrecking a marriage and getting in an entanglement
He will just do the same thing to you. Leave and find someone who respects you.
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You never should have started it if he was a married man you’re thirsty ass should have left him alone you should end it before you ruin a family if you haven’t already
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Girl bye… you are old enough to know when a man says “I’m getting a divorce” that his ass is lying.
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If you knew he was married why flirt with him in the first place? He too should know better seeing he’s married, potentially getting divorced or not still doesn’t make it acceptable
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Well it was kind of shitty of you to flirt with a married man to begin with . Good job 
.
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If he was actually going to leave his wife he would’ve done it instead of cheating on her. He clearly thinks he can get away with it and you’re allowing it. How would you feel if that was your marriage/your husband cheating on you? And as tons of others have said, if he will do it WITH you h will do it TO you. Quit enabling him! do yourself and your son a favor and find someone that actually knows how to commit to a person. Have some dang respect for this woman you “think the world of”
If he were going to get a divorce he would have, he’s saying what every cheater says, find another job, get away from sneaky snake he’ll only hurt you and your son
If you play with fire you might get burned, don’t flirt with men for fun