Listen to your own mind and heart, not others opinions.
Get out before itās to late once a cheater always a cheater once they see they can get away with it let him go to her she only wants wha ever he has in assets
All They see in this situation is kiss and makeup sickness. See that you clearly have a problem, especially in co dependency that you need to go to therapy forget about staying or going because you clearly state still want to be with the a-hole there is no confusing there cycle. Start working with you problem!!!
Why continue to waste anymore time on someone that isnāt going to give you what you deserve? Drop the fool, hold your head up high, and realizeā¦ he is the one that messed it up. Not you!
I think you know the answer
Ditch him! Insecure mid life age crisis
Dont tske him back once a cheat aleays a cheat ! U deserve better xx
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You need to tell him to hit the road. Once a cheater he will always cheat and lie.
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You know that you should dump him. Just do it.
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Sis leave his trifling lying cheating behind ALONE!
These red flags arenāt a fancy parade, they mean get the hell out of Dodge.
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No No .No. once cheater he will always cheat. May not do.it for months or years but sooner or later it will come around.
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It will happen again. It will be hard at first but you will get over it and move on. Donāt feel sorry you will find yourself always feeling that way.
You already know thereās red flags. Thereās your biggest one. Youāre better off without him. Your heart will heal faster than you think. 
Good luck!!
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Hey fellas. Youāre being awfully quiet! Why would that be?
If a 52yo man is cheating, he aināt ever gonna change his ways. Chuck him to the sharks
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You need respect for yourself n if you stay with him heāll rob you of it,heās a cheater n heāll never change so before itās too late say adios n donāt look back good luck !!
Obviously you have no self respect so let him do whatever he wants
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Definitely so true 
Just walk away. Your heart will heal
Leave . You deserve better !
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Move on! NEXT!
You deserve better than that! Give yourself some credit! Just like the movie. Let it (him) go!!!
Let her have and keep your self respect and dignity. You deserve better!
Out the door and donāt let him come back
After the first sentenceā¦break up.
Didnāt read anything else cuz itās irrelevant. Leave him.
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Canāt be trusted!! Kick him to the curb!!!
Say goodbye and donāt look back. He wonāt change.
It appears youāve wasted 6 years of your life. Iām sure this is not the first time heās cheated and it wonāt be the last timeā¦ leave him.
there is no decision to be made!!! donāt let the door hit yaā¦ if he is 52 and still upset you canāt take his calls while you are at work, and sleeping with other people, you donāt have a relationshipā¦ you are foolish if you continue being disrespected.
Run donāt walkā¦new number who dis his cheating ass!
Why are your standards so low?
U already know your answer the minute u had to ask the question. He will never change and it seems your coworker is not going to leave him alone either, if she told u everything and yet has him there now then u need to kick him to the curb and dont look back! Find someone who will love u and only u.
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Leave and stay goneā¦not worth your time and heartaches
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You deserve so much better! Quit wasting time with him youāre too precious!
Donāt give him
Another chance,you said you already have red flags, strike one you are at work and in meetings, you donāt answer his calls, you fight about it, strike two he cheated, strike 3 he was caught and lied about it, Heās out! Of course your heart will say give him a chance, you invested 6 years into this relationship. It doesnāt matter the age of the girl he cheated with, he cheated and you deserve better. What would you tell your daughter ( if you have one) to do, my guess is you would say leave.
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He will always be cheater leave
Heās no good. Get rid of the old cheater.
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Ouchā¦ You should probably put that in the rearview and move on.
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Heās controlling and a cheater. Leave him, donāt give it another thought! The relationship will never change.
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We all need our own time to get fed up, and trust me you will. The question to yourself should be āshould I leave now or wait until Im fed up?ā Usually when you wait until then your heart is exploding with pain but nobody can teach you what you already know. You have to face your demons honey! Its up to you when you doā¦ Prayersš
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Well I agree with some and disagree with others, In Gods eye he donāt like divorces, I went thru it dear, it is devastating, deceiving, destroying your heart and trust. The love is still inside you, Itās the pain and ugly feeling your feeling for him now. Counseling could help, Try to save your marriage, work things out, maybe a few months of separation for you both decide which road to go down and to clear your minds. And if it wasnāt meant to be, move on with life. Life is to short not to be happy. Your Soul mate is out there, Pray about it dear, I will say a prayer for you. Itās a feeling loss and lonely feeling right now, But remember your not alone God is there to catch you when you fall
Walk away your choice
Leave and donāt look back. He will do it again. The pain isnāt worth it. No trust anymore either
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You know what you need to do. You just donāt want to. I went through that for 9yrs. The sooner you do it. The sooner you will be happy.
If that is not the biggest red flag of your life I donāt know what will beā¦.
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Heās 52 ā¦ heāll never change heās going to cheat again leave him
You said he was there now. No new chances heās gonna continue. If you allow it once he wonāt ever stop.
Leave fast. Don t look back
Leave him in the long yard plenty of pebbles on the beach 
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Alot of 
and that was before he cheated and still questioning what to do???
Waitā¦what!!! Heās there now? As in with her? While begging you to put this behind and give him another chance? Oh hell nah!
Not that it actually matters, but are you younger also?
Just be doneā¦.
6years living seperate lives says the relationship was never going anywhere anyways . no excuse for cheating or even him trying to be controlling which is abhorent , but as all above comments just get away from the bloke he simply is not the one.
Listen to your head. Hurt hearts have broken ears.
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Dump him now . He using you for money and security. 24 she willnot look after him lol lol let her have him. Once a cheater always a cheater. See you later and live your life girl. Travel. Gina
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doesnāt take a scientist to figure this one out!!!
Oh hell no. Heās too old to be acting like that. And involving you in some drama with a girl that young, thatās terrible
You already know what to do. You have to ask yourself why you havent done it and wasted 6 damn years on him
Say good by and goodridence
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Absolutely done with???
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the age difference screams pedophile
i would be more likely to forgive if she was like 40 or 35ā¦
but this is gross and I would divorce based on that he is being grossā¦ that age gap is gross.
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I was with my ex for 7 years and he fucked up with my ex bf from college who was like a sisterā¦ Cheating is cheating it took a lot for me too regain my strength because I put in so much of myself into that relationshipā¦ I had to walk in had to regain myselnse of self starting over was hell but well worth it because I regained my selfworth, confidence, I discovered my sense of wanting to do things for meā¦ It took 3 years before I felt comfortable letting in my now hubby to try again but I wanted to focus on me first it the time because I put too much of myself out for everyone else for so long on my life that I had to put me firstā¦ Its not selfish to refocus on yourself to reevaluate, rebuild yourself. ā¦ You absolutely matter Hunā¦ If you ever wanna chat im always openā¦ Hugs girl
Why do you even have to ask? Send him on his way.
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Donāt waste another second on him
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Wtfā¦say bye and move on.
Just move on. That she difference says alot. And honestly once u go younger u canāt go back. Them young people are gymnastic beings. U will forever Be in a competition in your Mindā¦
Sounds like youāre staying for one of two reasons, youāre afraid of being alone- break ups suck I get it. Or you have low self esteem.
You are worth more than that crap. Him getting mad over you not answering, thatās him being afraid you found out or heās afraid youāre doing it too, guilty conscience. You originally said youāre not living together because of a lot of red flagsā¦. It makes it easier when youāre not living together. Dump his sorry a$$. You can do better
First sentence? Get out immediately!
See you later . He is never going to change for you or anyone else. You deserve better!
I would not be able to ever trust hom again!!! U deserve so much more!!! Run!!!
Really?
You didnāt have trust issues wards? Iām sure I would have. I do not how a relationship can weather a cheater
Girl let him go. Move on once a man or a woman lose the fear of cheating itās a wrap. Once a cheater always a cheater. You can change the color of a tiger but never itās stripesā¦ ā¦
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why do you stay with him?
And you are still with him ?
You canāt always listen to your heart.
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Girl 
why are you asking when you know better? You are not gonna listen to us.
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Let him go hunni! Its not easy but its the beat thing to so
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Run, donāt walk.
Bye bye
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Itās time to let him go! You donāt deserve that.
You deserve better donāt settle you can be happy move on leave him be to trust again might happen but it might not and you will be putting yourself through alot of crap thinking if he is cheating again or what put yourself first and know that you deserve better and can do better than him.
Donāt go BACK THEY DO IT AGAIN
You deserve so much better and to be respected . you will never find the right boyfriend as long as you are with the wrong one .
He does it once he will do it again
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Run donāt walk away from this situation. He is asking for another chance because he is losing his control over you. You already said you werenāt living together due to red flags. Listen to your gut and your head on this.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If you take him back, you are condoning his behavior/morality and making him more likely to cheat again because you are a pushover!
They always think the grass is greener on the other side ā¦ when they finally realize the younger one is going to leave there old ass and cheat on them ā¦ Karma is a sweet bisssh !
When you hurt a woman who loves you and break there heart and wings ā¦ Because she will find better love , stronger love in the future ā¦
Leave him once a cheater always a cheater ā¦ā¦.
Take your PROBLEMS TO DEAR ABBY!!!
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Do NOT give him any more chances. Glad you arenāt living with him. I donāt know your situation, but if a restraining order crosses your mind, get it.
That guy will continue to manipulate you. Donāt go back please
It will happen again, and again, and Again!
Once a cheater, always a cheaterā¦
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Life is short make ur self happy enjoy life while u can do what makes u happy
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Kick him to the curb or accept it and live with it. Get yourself a squeeze too.
Get rid of him and move on!
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Heās 52 and sheās 24ā¦Grosse! Heās a cheater! Leave!
Seriously?!
āWhat should I do?ā
Is your question?
Well if you really donāt know than youāll learn soon enoughā¦
Run as fast as you can
I donāt understand how thereās even a question of what to do. He cheated. You fight a lot. Donāt live together bc of āred flagsā. Move on.
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You said you donāt live together because of red flags and now his cheatedā¦ you know your answer but no matter what anyone says youāre not going to listen until youāre done with being taken for a mug
If there have been red flags and a lot of fights, not to mention the cheating, he should have been gone a long time ago. Itās way past time to do something different/better for youself.