Once a cheater, always a cheater. It sounds like there are a lot of things going on as well. Everyone deserves better than that. I’d say free yourself now and wait for true happiness with the right person.
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= kick him to the curb!
What kind of treatment do you think you deserve and want? He’s controlling and intolerant of you not answering him immediately! Then he thinks it’s acceptable to cheat on you and lie to you! 
Wake up! EVERYONE deserves better treatment than he offers you! Why in the world do you think you need to stay with him? You don’t live together! Do you have kids together? What does he have to offer you? Read what you wrote as if it were someone else writing it! Then answer it!
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Sweetheart it is time to love and respect yourself enough to cut this P.O.S. loose and go’ NO CONTACT '. It hurts now I know to do so , but you will be happier for it in the long run.
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Wtf did I just read. Walk away right now
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If there where red flags before this incident I would say you where already having doubts about your relationship before this happened. I would say this is the nail in the coffin you need to finally love and respect yourself to walk away from something that isn’t doing you any good.
Get rid and be happy xx
Wait! What?? The woman works with you and ratted him out after being with him? What’s that about? Are they in some kind of lovers quarrel and she’s getting at him? 
Oh brother! I wouldn’t trust her one iota!
About him… he’s a shitbag and you know this already! Movin’ on…
Let’s talk about you. Is this your fault? NOPE! He made a choice! This woman made a choice! Do their choices hurt you? Absolutely! Staying with him = toxicity! You mentioned red flags… and continue to enable him. Lady: self respect! Self worth! You have zero or you wouldn’t stand for this.
Eyes are blind when the mind can’t see. Look out for you cause nobody else in this equation is. Not one of them has your back. Follow your mind in this situation and tell your heart to shut up! 
There are GOOD men out there. This is not the one!
Dump his ass man🤦🏻♀️
You said it yourself, a lot of red flags etc
Not worth it girl
DUMP HIM
Edit:
I was with a HUGE RED FLAG for nearly 3 years. He cheated with a lot of girls during most if not all of that time. He was also abusive.
I kept forgiving and taking him back. Until i had had enough and cut him off…
I’m so glad I did. It was hard at first and i felt like going back a lot of times, but i kept myself well surrounded and nearly 2 years later, I’m with someone who treats me like a queen and I am SO MUCH HAPPIER
It will hurt alot but, get out now, if you let this go ,and marry him please believe me it gets much worse , you will wish you listened
once a cheater…always a cheater
This is the one time where he got caught out…how many more times that you never heard of. How can you ever trust him again. He is a liar and a cheat. And of course the controlling behaviour of answer his texts/calls straight away and what other controlling behaviour…of course he will make all the promises under the sun…it has always worked before…he has no oroblem cheating because he expects the promises and the sweet talk to work again…and again. He understands you need him more that he needs you as you keep taking him back. Get rid. Move one. Find someone who respects you and treats you like you are special. You dont deserve the kind of crap your bf has been dealing you. Far better be single than live with that disrespect. Good luck 
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Nope he isn’t going to get better especially after 6 years… remember every lie every text every kiss every phone call every time he made a video or went to her house every moment with her was a chance to stop and he didn’t… he isn’t sorry for hurting you he is sorry he got caught…if y’all can’t live together after 6yrs bc of red flags and he can’t stop calling and texting and accusing you of cheating when the whole time he was…so he likes to fuck with you mentally while knowing he is doing all the cheating…please go it will only get worse from here he will do it again and again bc you took him back so easily…
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Everyone is sorry when they’re caught. Stick to your intuition its always right.
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6 years
A lot of red flags
Cheating
Is this a serious post?
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Dude. So what I just read was you have wasted 6 years of your life already on this bloke with all of his huge red flags which would make most woman go nopeeeeee buhbye
You haven’t even lived with him due to these flags like hellllooooo.
And you can’t pull the trigger on this relationship and be done even though his 52 year old ass cheated on you with a 24 yr old.
I mean girl. You do you. Nothing I say or anyone else says is gonna change a thing at this point. Considering you’ve clearly given him no boundaries he can’t cross and you will forgive him from. It will happen again. And no it’s not worth it. You’re better off on your own or finding someone better.
I seriously wanna call this post trolling because it’s like you can’t be serious.
You already said you have other red flags and now you have concrete proof that he is deceitful and a lying cheat. Why would you stay for more?
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Some men, or in your case a 52 year old boy are so flippin stupid. Let her have him. Shell get tired of his old balls.
Trade him in on a younger model .
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I agree with Elisha. Run. No kids together. No excuse for this
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You’re gonna do what you wanna do at the end of the day. But you should leave and never look back if you know what’s truly best for you. ESPECIALLY if you don’t have kids
Get out while the getten good. He did you a favor get rid of him
Good thing she let you know because he NEVER would have. Let him go to be someone else’s headache coz you know he’s gonna do it again… Insecure people cheat.
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No way 52 he knows better,kick him to the curb…he will do it again,once a cheater always a cheater.Let him go bye bye
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Yes she sure does and if he has done it once he will do it again .
You already know the answer or you would not be posting here. Time to move on…without him.
He’s crying cuz he got caught. Listen to yourself…do you think you would want your daughter/son putting up with that same behavior? If your answer is no then don’t allow that for yourself either!!
Damn if he was able to get and satisfy a 22 yr old give him a cookie and show him the door
Your heart needs to bow out. If he did this now, he will do it again, again and again if you marry him.
Someone once told me you can’t miss a slice out of a cut loaf
He digs needy chicks that can’t see red flags worth AF.
Give him the boot 
out the door " no more taking his lies " once a cheater always
A cheater "
Red flags everywhere…AND he cheated… you answered your own question, it’s time to move on. It might be hard at first, but it will get better. You deserve better
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Tell him to take a run and jump
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What does that young thing see in that old man?
Kick him to the curb. You deserve better
Nope he has got to go!! You already said tons of Red flags from this guy! So what is the point to let it continue. Now he cheated. What else are you going to let him get away with? Do yourself a favor you deserve way better. You sound very responsible and good head on your shoulders. Let this guy go. Get out now!!
Kick his but to the curb, you deserve better
Just ask yourself is this the kind of LIFE style you want. He’s just trying to prove that he get anything and SHE needs a sugar daddy Leave NOW
If you already saw red flags, this is just another one. Value yourself more.
Hes a grown ass man. Move on.
Who cares if you’ve been together for 6 years or 8 years or 10 years…he is 52 years old he has his ways set already he isn’t going to change now its time to let him go so you can live your life and you can be happy
I’d say dump him! Once a cheater always a cheater
Oh hell no girl run far & fast, don’t look back!!!
Running with you sis…run away !!!
Nope idk why this is even a question of what to do. You have nothing to lose besides your time. There is no trust and no respect. Case closed.
Forget him, lots of men looking for a good woman !!!
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Definitely move on. Look to brighter futures
Kick him to the kerb now
Once a cheater always a cheater move on especially at this stage of our lives
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leave…there will never be trust in the relationship again. It will always be…" where is he? What is he doing? Who is he with? "… save yourself the stress
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He’s old enough to know better the trash took itself out let it keep going also the fact he went for someone so young and she someone so much older WITHOUT LOVE BEING A FACTOR PRIOR TO CHEATING tells me neither of them are very mature
once a cheater always a cheater proof is he denied it but at same time he was with her while denying it nope tell him to kick boulders bare foot
Why would you even ask strangers on fb??? if that guy makes you happy then you deserve to be together. Its your life honey.figurenit out. If you have to ask strangers you have bigger issues
Just move on his fantasy of young girls is to much sorry but been there won’t get better.
Once cheated on, shame on him. Twice cheated on, shame on you
Boy bye
out
Go find yourself
Did I see the ages correctly??? 
Cuz apparently he likes younger girls
U probably not in him age range liking anymore
Excuse me for judging
But he’s a pedophile
A perv
Run
Run away
6yrs together
He cheated with someone younger than you.
You’re 24
He’s 52
Do the math
He’s a pedophile
Periodt
Dump him. He wont change. He will do it again.
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Leaveeeeee…new &better opportunities awaits
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Wake up! Now is the time to be done with him!!! He’s in his second childhood!!
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Dump him. He’ll do it again…
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No way in Hell!
Once a cheater always a cheater! And a 52 yr old man with a young 24 yr old??? That in itself is WRONG!
SERIOUSLY, You are questioning this???
Respect yourself !
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Get out while you can.
There can be lots of reasons why sometimes a partner cheats … and depending on the reason, sometimes … rarely … the relationship can be saved.
I don’t believe this is one of those times.
If they cheat once, they will do it again, you are better off with out him.
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Wake up girl, you can do better.
I am just going to say this-you are stupid, this should not even be a question. You started out saying a lot of red flags, do you need to be hit in the head to realize this relationship is going nowhere?
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Let him go and move on.
Do you really need to ask???
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Unless you want your bf to constantly have a mistress then break it off… you may love him but he doesn’t love you
First off, y’all are not living together. Second, you said there are a lot of red flags. Third, he cheated. Got caught red handed and is still denying it. Leave him.
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I’m begging you to see a therapist if you have the ability to. Seeing this many red flags but being willing to dismiss them says that you have some work you need to do to get to a healthier place. Please, leave him, and work on yourself. 
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DUMP A CHEATER THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE , ONLY GET WORSE. Believe me…,.,
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If you’re dumb enough to ask this question then you might as well just stay
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Leave, you haven’t given any logical reasons to stay 
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I think you know the answer…
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So it can keep up with both of you at work. Drop his azz and find you somebody who will treat you right.
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Ditch his trifling ass . You deserve better
Love him from a distance while you focus on loving yourself. Become the best version of yourself-everything you want to be. Then you will know your worth.
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RED FLAG. Read your own words 
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Dump his arse,good luck for the future,
Run and don’t look back!
At his age he would have loved the younger model. However, the control shit would be the reason I’d dump him. Sounds like a very moody friend with benefits partner.
What should you do? Depends, you want to worry about being cheated on, have someone where you are always fighting, who gets angry because you are working and can’t answer texts right away so you have to worry about him getting mad, have a relationship that is going nowhere? If so, stay with him. If you want a healthy relationship where you are treated with respect and there is mutual support , leave. He is not going to change don’t know why you would want to put up with that man child.
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Grow up an have some respect for yourself allowing this behavior.of him he will not change quit being his pit stop an get out of this.you don’t deserve.it.take pride of your self
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Be done with him, once a cheater, always a cheater, speaking from experience!!
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Once a cheater always a cheater
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Say goodbye you don’t need this once a cheater always a cheater
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Stop rereading the last chapter of the book, see what the next chapter has in store for you.
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Your heart may be all in but his is obviously not. For your own sake, hope you find someone who treats you better
A leopard never changes his spots…. I learnt this the hard way by my ex husband
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He is controlling and a cheater. He won’t change. You know what you need to do. Run. There are good guys out there. You deserve better.
Bye! Never look back. A real man doesn’t do these things. Lose the dead weight.
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Leave while you still have some respect for yourself.
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You know what to do!!! Once shame on him, twice shame on you…. Who can ever trust a lier & cheat. If not caught he would still be playing you for a fool
You started off by saying you don’t live together bc of red flags… umm leave him…
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You already know the answer, you’re just hoping someone will tell you, you should stay with him. You said it yourself, there’s many red flags. Get out while you can.
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Girl hes having a midlife crises. Time for u to let it go, u dnt deserve that dumb shit. Let him have his young bitches, u move on to someone bigger and better than him!
Girl do the right thing, SHIT CAN HIM!! ONLY GOOD IS AHEAD FOR YOU!!
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