Once a cheater always a cheater . Let him go . He is trying to feed his old ego with someone young enough to his
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This is an underlying issue with him that will continue no matter who heās with. So you can either leave or stay. Do what makes you happier. I would personally leave a toxic person. Lifeās to short but hey the balls in your court.
RUN!!! Find a man who really loves You!
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U Tube Dr. Lisa Ramini.
RE; NARCISSIST. Very Toxic.
I think you already know what you should do.
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If you go back to him honestly at that point I donāt feel bad for you
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You need to ask this on face book ugh leave or stay youāre choice ugh
Disrespect only gets worseā¦ he sees youāve tolerated it till now, it will continueā¦ do not walk run.
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No brainer, get rid of him.
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Leave him he clearly wants to act like a child leave him u can do better donāt forgive him change ur number and leave him
Age is just a number but once a cheater always a cheater
Donāt waste anymore of your time on him!
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Age of that that girl is irrelevant. Or where she works. A 6 year relationship if he wanted to be with you shouldnāt consist of him cheating on you. Seriously, bye 
donāt let your heart tell you otherwise cause youāre head is telling you right
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I think you already know the answerā¦ lifeās too short to waste going down dead end streetā¦ good luck with your decisionā¦
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Once a cheater always a cheater
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So, if you have been together for 6 years, but canāt live together, he clearly doesnāt trust you AND he cheated on youā¦what exactly do you have left to hold on to? Run. Run away now, and donāt look back. I have no doubt you will find someone who will treat you well and knows how to stay faithful. Stop wasting your life on someone who clearly doesnāt care if he hurts you.
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Not living together because of red flags, and found out he also cheated? You know what to do, say goodbye and move on.
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What you allow will continue.
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Do you like being a second option?? Ask yourself that
How many red flags are you going to collect before you realize you deserve better?
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Once a cheater always a cheater
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Once a cheater, always a cheater
If you forgive him now, heāll know he can do it again and again until YOU have had enough. Donāt waste your time. It rarely goes the other wayā¦ Speaking from experience.
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Once a cheater always a cheater been there hurts hugs
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Thatāsā¦ That was never your boyfriend. He got caught with this oneā¦ Just leave cause baby there is more
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Follow your intuition. You deserve better! Nobody has time for that shady bullshhhhh.
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If he is 52 and acting like that, he isnt going to change.
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What? Why?
Do you not know your worth?
Do you like being cheated on?
If notā¦run and do not look back.
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Girl get out of there!
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I left itās been hard but we where together for 7 years and even got married 3 days after we got married he cheated so I left and Iām doing okay have alot of self healing to do but Iām making it
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Donāt waste another minute on that.
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I would leave the relationship
Cheaters almost always are the ones freaking out about not answering calls and text because they are cheating and think everyone is doing the same. They think this is normal because its normal to them to act this way. Donāt walk run and go find your peace. You deserve a happy relationship even if its only with yourself!
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Forget he exists. Ghost him.
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Once a cheater always a cheater. I have read your statement. I feel like you have made up your mind already. You just got a peek at this beautiful car, and we tell you it runs great but needs new engine,or tranny. But it sounds like your going to buy it anyway. should you buy it? No, and Hell No!!!
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If ur not living together. Then wash ur hands of him and never turn back
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Donāt waste valuable time that could.be spent on improving yourself, instead of being let down by someone undeserving of you.
He cheated, nooneās fault but his own. He was disloyal to you. He is fully to blame. Break all ties possible and move on.
If there were red flags before you found out he was cheating than why are you still with him?
Leave!! He will do it again because what we allow the first time will always continue. He doesnāt respect you if he can do that
So you know there are all kinds of red flags and moved out because of his controlling craziness, etc and then he even cheats and you ādonāt know what to doā? GIRL. Yes you absolutely know what to doā¦ donāt waste another second on that waste of space man 
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What the heāll is wrong with your self worth as a womanā¦obviously he does not respect you and if you okY with this heāll you show him you donāt respect you eitherā¦so why should heā¦
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52?! Holy hell Iām sorry I just saw the age. Wow. Wow. Heās a dirt bag
Run and donāt look back!!!
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He is not for you move on. 6 year boyfriend and he is staring at 60 wow cheating wasted time
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Whatās there to think about? RUN! You deserve better! He sounds like a child. āRed Flagsā āCheatedā ā52āā¦ No brainer. Never listen to your heart. Listen to your gut. Forget he ever existed
Girl you can do soooooo much better! Have love and respect for yourself and move on. I know itās hard because of the attachment but there is someone else who would love and appreciate you! 
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Donāt waste your time, he tried lying again until you had proof. If you stay you will regret it. Stay classy and split, it will drive him crazy
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You said it yourself in the beginning āred flagsā.
Leave. Leave. Leave.
Donāt just leave, run 
Walk away with your head held high. You deserve better.
Walk away an donāt look back this guy is not worth your love ,
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Donāt marry or move in with him. Just leave him for something better. If he has no consideration for you now. He will never be the man for you. It will just get worse over time and it will make your heart break even more
You yourself said alot of red flagsā¦ Go with your gut not your heart. Plus love is blindā¦ Your eyes arenātā¦ Youāve seen what he is like now leave.
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How old are you? Cause you sound like a teenager. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater, most of the time. Run and save yourself, stay and watch it happen again. Heās just going to get sneakierā¦
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Not worth it. You deserve a better man.
Once a cheater always a cheater
6 years and you donāt live together because of a lot of red flags? Those same red flags stopping you from moving in with each other should of also ended it. You know the answer here.
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Why would you want to stay with that?
He has got to go! You deserve way more than that.
Go and love yourself!!!
You already know what you need to doā¦KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB!!!
You started off with cheated and then a lot of red flags?? Iāll tell you what we are all thinking, you are wasting your time.
Dump him you will find better.
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Honey what does your gut tell you to do itās messed up that he cheated on you but especially with someone at your job how messed up is that thatās low as low and he was meaning to be caught. Iām srry your goin thru this it sucks when someone cheats on you. But in my perspective Iād leave while you can because If not heās gonna think itās okay to do it again especially you taking him back.
If he cheated on you, and you no longer live together because of a lot of red flagsā¦ I think youāre answering your own question here lol leave him.
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Walk away ! Once a cheater always a cheater
Girl run. Forget that noise you deserve bette
But we all canāt tell you what to do we can just give you advice itās up to u to take it or not
6 years and you donāt even live together? Red flags? Cheated on you with someone you work with? BOY BYE
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I donāt think a single person, in their right mind would tell you to stay! You know what to do, you donāt need us to tell you. Things havenāt been going well before this, you should have let him go ages ago. Donāt let your self sufferā¦drop him and feel free for yourself!
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If youāre together 6 years and not living together that should tell you all you need to know
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Heās A nowhere Manā¦You can do so much better!!! Dump his Sorry.Lying you know whatā¦ IMMEDIATELY!!!
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They will do it againā¦
Get rid of him, or set yourself up for more disappointment 
Leave him!!! I gave my sons father a 2nd chance after he cheated and guess what he did it again. You deserve better than him.
Simply end the relationship. Cut all ties. You will eventually be Happy with the decision when all of that chaos and emotional turmoil is over.
Better pay attention. If your boyfriend will cheat on you, so will your husband if you stick around.
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If your asking you already no what to do the heart ack not worth it leave him to his sentence start your own happiness with one that respects what u do and understands the reason of being ay partner.
Girl, move on. No man, no partner, no significant other is worth your sanity or your dignity. We donāt NEED another person to complete us or to make us happy. Every bit of peace and joy in life starts within ourselves. Love yourself enough to protect you and tell that man to get lost. If he cared about you he would not be even entertaining thoughts of other women much less acting on them.
You deserve better!!! As hard as it is going to be leave and never look backā¦put yourself and your self worth first and foremost!!!
Leave him and move on with your life there are plenty of other people out there that will treat you right and not cheat on you.
Walk away head high and move on, youāve answered the question yourself too many red flags and cheating too.
Um. So, youāre heart is wrong. Way wrong. You literally said you didnāt live together because all the red flags. And I can guarantee that that young girl is gonna tell everyone at your job how dumb you are if you stay with him after showing you all the proof you need to move on with your life and DO BETTER
When someone is jealous of you, 9 times out of 10 theyāre the ones that are guilty of doing something wrong! Your life but the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over but expecting a different outcome!
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Get rid of the fucker, not worth youāre time
A cheater is a cheater always, youāve said you donāt live together because of ā red flagsā you already have ā¦. Walk away, life is to short!
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Heāll always be a cheater, and I doubt heās going to stop messing around with her.
āWhat should I do?ā I mean do you REALLY need us to answer that?
1- if you want to continue to get cheated on, stay.
2- if you donāt want the cheating, leave.
I mean folks aināt really that dumb are they?? 
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Run, donāt walk away, RUN! Donāt look back, Donāt give any more chances.
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You already know your answer
Iām just amazed of how many women even ask the question āwhat should I doā he cheated! He didnāt love or respect you enough to be faithful so what else would you do? LEAVE!
Leave his ass YESTERDAY. he will continue doing it. You deserve better.
People do not change for the most part. Find someone who isnāt a whiney little baby that gets mad at you you because your not feeding his narcissistic ego!
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Kindly give the man a chance ,he deserves atleast one last chance.pretty sure heāll get it right on ya 7th year.
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Sounds like a waste of time, not just because of the cheatingā¦but after six yrs and yous still canāt live together because of āred flagsā the cheating with your co workers says right there he has no respect for youā¦that should be the cherry on top of the pile crap youāve been served, for youā¦I know it can be difficult to walk away but youāll be better off and that empty spot makes room for someone with actual potentialā¦lol.
Yes end the relationship heās not deserving if your love he will do it again youāll be more hurt
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Would he give you a second chance?
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Girl you know your answer already. Leave you donāt live together just dump his ass
Run as fast as you can and never look backā¦Been there and its no fun it want changeā¦YOU DESERVE MORE AND BETTER