The 24 Yr old has done u a favour… run as fast as u can away from that … u have already wasted far too much of ur life on that controlling idiot… he gets insecure because he is doing exactly what he fears u are doing … drop the dead wood … and go find someone that appreciates u and won’t be a sad pathetic man.
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Dump him immediately
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She has nerve – I’ll say that… To send you all that in a text…
Girl no you deserve better especially after 6 years nope
No honey you got to go. 6 years together and you don’t live together there is something way off about that. Your everything should be telling you that you deserve so much more.
Considering u guys don’t live together I would say move on…and it’s just gunna get worse now ur gunna be stuck thinking all the time. U deserve a man who is obsessed with u and only u
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Reread what you just wrote …. Would u want your daughter or friend to date someone like this , I think you already know what u need to do. Be strong
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You do not need a man to define you - live your life and do the things that make you happy!
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Move on. Sorry this has happened you.
Wow fuck that. Leave his ass. God gave you away out. And best you need to run. He just showed his true self. There is no unseeing that.
You deserve better!!! You have the pics and proof but he continues to lie.RED FLAG. Lace them shoes up and run!
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t think you’re enough? He doesn’t respect you, thinks you’ll believe whatever lies he tells you. You are worth more! Find (or be found by) someone who values you and respects you. You can do better than this !
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Let him have her!! Once a cheater Always a Cheater
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Girl…you already know. There isn’t a text in this thread that is going to make you choose the right decision, you’re going to do what you want to do. He is not going to change. Period. End of story. Girl, level up. You deserve better.
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I won’t say leave. Just put yourself first. You deserve so much more than you’re allowing yourself to have. It’s not easy tho
Don’t even think about it. Block him on everything and just live your life
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Gross 
I would never speak to him again
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You’ve been with him for six years, but there’s a lot of red flags? He’s probably a narcissist and you’re probably co-dependent. You know the answer is leave him, but you won’t until you’re ready to. I’ve been there. Find your strength. You deserve better.
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Just leave him he no good
Kick. Him. To. The. Curb. You. Deserve. Better.
Pack he’s bags n tell him to get the hell out!!!. Once cheat always a cheat.
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MOVE ON! (As in Pick up your skirt and RUN) He picked someone so young becuSe of her naivety which means he is a PREDATOR.
Does he not work. WHY would any GROWN A** man be expecting you to pick up when its NOT an emergency while you were ar work or in a meeting ??
Get a REAL Man, a benevolent loving supportive one.
Run girl. You don’t even live together after 6 years and you said there are “red flags” so this would be the best time to just get rid of him. He wil probably do it again if you take him back.
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Kick him to the curb. Trust is broken & can’t get that back. I wouldn’t have trusted him to start with but that’s another story
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You know there’s previous red flags before this….why continue. Boy byeeeee
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Walk away. Head held high. Don’t look back.
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U are better than him do your own thing
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Soooo how many more red flags do you need untill you realize the universe is showing you the red flags and you need to listen to them and move on
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You already got some many red flags you can’t live together how many more do you need 
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Kick him to the curb. Don’t take him back. He’s manipulating you into staying with him.
Leave and block all contact !!! He’s not going to change. Yuck what a dirty cheater
He doesn’t deserve you. He’s using and abusing you. You deserve better.
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Dump him he just a man thank God for red flags. Put God first he will send you someone better
Out the door put him
So long fairwell. Say goodbye.
Start by loving yourself more and telling yourself you deserve better. Stop settling for less than you deserve. Ultimately, it’s up to you and no one can make that decision for you.
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Nope. Cheat once and you’re gone. Deal breaker for me.
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Leave him. True once a cheater always
You wasted enough time with that guy, once they cheat they always cheat dont take him back
I would not give him a 2nd chance. He doesn’t deserve it.
Shes probably not the only one hes cheated on you with … sounds like a easy clean break,not married no kids,dont live together its a pretty simple decision here!
Nooooooooo!!! Don’t go with your head, go with your heart!!! You don’t deserve that! You’re a whole supper! Not a side dish!!!
Let that loser go… there’s so many other men in the world that would love to treat you like A QUEEN! Move on, he doesn’t deserve you. And you deserve much better!!
Leave. You will never forget or trust. No matter how hard you try or live him. Speaking from a couple relationships I went through and continued to forgive and they continued to do it. Its not a worth it. Move on find a good man when the time is right. 
6 years of red flags and now solid proof?
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If he’s grown and did this… it’s no mistake that is who he is… that’s 16 year old stuff. Run.
Do you have a curb close by?? Use it!
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He doesn’t deserve a loyal and forgiving you… especially when he’s not returning it. You deserve better mama 
Not only did he cheat with someone more than half his age but he lied about it? He only admitted it because there was no way out. Are you going to be able to look at her everyday? Are you going to be able to stomach him everyday? If you’re going to forgive, you have to be done with it. You can’t forgive someone then constantly bring it up. These are all big decisions
At 52 and red flags… he’s set in his ways! Run! Stay gone! Find someone YOU DESERVE!
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Nope cause he’s gonna keep doing it you deserve better
If it hasn’t worked out in 6 years and he’s cheating right now it’s not ever going to work out.Hes on you about not answering because he’s out cheating he has a guilty conscience so he tries to blame you for things so he convinces his self he’s doing no wrong when he is. How disrespectful to cheat with a girl at your work place like he couldn’t find one out of your job.Your heart lies to you because you love him but your brain isn’t because it’s trying to tell you be smart about this.6 years and not living together because of red flags that alone should tell you he’s not for you.Girl life is to short to spend it with a boy that clearly doesn’t want to be committed to only you.Love only means something if it’s shown with action or it’s just a word.Anyone can say I love you but do they show it?I can say I have a billion dollars but do you SEE that I do LOL HELL NO so don’t believe what some one says believe what he shows you and by what your saying he’s not showing you love.It sounds like your just the girl he keeps going back to because all the other girls won’t put up with his cra&.DONT WASTE YOUR TIME ON A LITTLE BOY WHO JUST PLAYS GAMES YOU DESERVE A REAL MAN WHO SHOWS YOU WHAT REAL LOVE IS.YOU WILL FIND THAT REAL MAN BUT ONLY IF YOU LET THAT LITTLE BOY GO.YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER DO NOT BELIEVE HIS LIES 6 YEARS LATER AND STILL PLAYING GAMES.NOPE RUN AND RUN FAST
Look at it this way, if you was on the other end reading this what would you say? Deep down you already know the answer. It takes years to build trust, but only takes a blink of an eye to break it. You will drive yourself crazy moving forward with the relationship questioning what he is doing. Cheating is a choice. It’s not worth it no matter how much you love someone. You deserve better. Don’t settle for someone that cannot give you the same in return.
Leave. No need for that heartache and being used and played. No need to stick around for that
Sure give him another chance but don’t be sad and crying when he cheats again. You already said your self why you don’t live him but if you like this life you’re living keep going at it.? If not then make a change
Sorry move on and take care of yourself
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end it. it’ll happen again.
Leave his ass in the dust
Sorry to put it this way…but you’ve gotta wake up and smell that coffee…this is toxic and downright appalling behavior…once the 24yr old gets fed up with him, he’ll be onto another one…a leopard does not change its spots …sounds like you’ve dodged a bullet by not moving in together…
Run as fast as your legs will allow!
Throw him away. And go live your best life!!! I wasted years of my life on a cheater.
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Say HOOD BYE let your heart heal and love again
Why would you give him anther chance to disrespect you? Just be find with him. Once a cheater always a cheater
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Tell him bye, he will do it again.
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Kick him to the curb
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I think only YOU can make this choice.
You know yourself and him.
BUT 52?! I feel like that’s a little old to be doing things like that. Everyone has their own experience maybe and opinion on this topic like I said I believe only YOU can make the choice that is for YOU.
But, I think he’s well after that time where people are growing up and making mistakes…
Plus, 6yrs together but not living together is a whole other level of red flag sis… how did you even go on like that for so many years lol I couldn’t do it. You deserve better!
Once a cheater always a cheater.listen to your head not your heart save that for someone worth your time
So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye
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Goodbye have a nice life. You don’t need him.
The fact that he was jumping you for not answering his calls and text seems like he was guilty and/or controlling right off the bat. Then he is 52 and still doing that kind of stuff… you deserve better
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please don’t give him another chance… he’s just gonna do it again because he knows you’ll forgive him. put your foot down, block him, & move on
Omg… no don’t “put it behind you”. He’d manipulating and gaslighting you to believe this is OK. You deserve better and there are better. Let him go. Sounds like you’ve given him plenty of chances. Seriously youbdont even live together because he’s shown you its not possible and he’s showing you its definitely not healthy to continue down this path. He’s 52! This behavior is never going to change.
Have you considered throwing the entire man away?
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Tell him bye and don’t look back
If you already don’t want to live with him because red flags, then there is no future here anyways. So why waste time? There is someone out there that will not cheat. And he will again. The fact that he tried to continue to lie about it after you confronted him is proof enough. He would have continued it, just like hr will again once things settle down. Sorry girl, sometimes you gotta love yourself more.
Ew. There’s not even a debate in this. He’s got to go. 
I’m honestly not even gonna read your whole post. The first sentence says it all. Leave. No need for any explanation. Leave.
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It will always be in the back of your mine even it you tried to make it. You will always distrust him. I say cut him loose and move on to better people.
Once a cheater, always a cheater . . …no second chances
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Girl, turn and run… as far and fast as you can! Red flags already is why you’re not living together?! If he’s not the man you’re wanting to marry, ditch him! There’s someone better for you, who will treat you the way you’re supposed to be treated
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Doesn’t matter the age… leave
Why do you even need to ask? Just. Leave.
You no what you have to do first step already yr on here move on shut the door be the stronger one and show them all you got this chin up and don’t answer calls goodluck
If you stay in this relationship it won’t be the last time this happens to you .
Reread what you wrote! You know your answer. You’re looking for reassurance and confirmation from complete strangers.
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Get rid of him. Once he has done it he will do it again. You can have better. God will bring you the right one if you wait.
Say goodbye so long adios see ya BMF be strong
Absolutely not. A 52yr old BOY you have there doll. After 52yrs he doesn’t understand right from wrong? You still don’t live together? You just said yourself there are too many red flags… his whole self is a red flag, leave. Yes, it’s easier said than done but you can do it! You clearly deserve better!
Your going to just put yourself through more emotional stress and trust issues if you were to stay than if you were to just break it off. Im sorry.
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Throw the whole man away.
You better run away from him once a cheater always a cheater they like the young ones
He cheated, lots of red flags…walk away and don’t look back!
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No way what a horrid person… no he’d be gone.
Throw him away. He ain’t the one, sis.
I highlighted all the reason you need to run far away. Far far away.
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Re-read the first line you wrote. That alone says why you don’t need to be in that relationship.
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Walk away! Let him be a lesson learned!
You do what you need to do to protect yourself. It’s not about age. You deserve better. Let him go and find yourself a man who will treat you better
As fast as you can, toxic! 
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You know the answer your just scared. Do what you know is best.
Say good bye and move on. Block him on all social media and your phone
Man… Sounds like u need to get rid of his ass. He living in a fantasy w a younger girl. You deserve better. And can do better than a man that goes after women less than half his age. It shows his mentality and yeah… You can do better.