i think you know the answer!
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You know the answer. Once you leave you’ll probably be more interesting to him. Never have a child to save a marriage…
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Girl you’ll never be able to trust him or see him outside of the light that he’s already painted for you as hard as it is you need to walk away now before you get attached to the fact of you and him having that baby together and things maybe getting better in the future but once he has crossed the line that he has there’s no going back girl he doesn’t deserve you no one should do that to the other and you’ll have no trust your whole entire relationship. You don’t want that
Get out before your son sees this is acceptable behavior to do.
Man, f*ck that guy. Leave.
You should find a place for you and your child to move to. Your boyfriend may be telling you one thing but his actions are clearly not sincere. You are settling for someone who wants to be with someone else, being unfaithful to you and deceitful. You deserve better!
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He isn’t ever going to change! You stayed and stayed and now you’re pregnant and tied to him for many years to come! Please for all that is holy leave!!! Know your worth and never accept less! Find out why you have poor choice in men (not an insult, but a self improvement tip as it took me many years to figure it out) and then choose one that’s just the opposite the next time! I mean if you had a daughter that was being treated this way would you tell her try harder? Sounds like to me he has this game going good… find a girl and get her pregnant so when he does his foolishness they’ll stay. Sure he will say he’s sorry or whatever he thinks he has to go keep you, but walk out the door and don’t look back! I know you wanted someone to tell you some magic say to fix it and stay, but honey he ain’t the one… move on now you’re just wasting your time and tears!!!
You’ll be hurting your kids in the long run by staying in an unhappy relationship trust me on that
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Oh girl, he sounds like a real catch. I’m sure you know it’s all your fault he’s cheating on you. I would stick with him just a little while longer, because you know he’s gonna change his ways as soon as the baby is born. 
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Give him 2 options get himself together and prove why you should be with him or leave. Nobody deserves that uncertainty in a relationship.
Girl leave , he’s not going to change
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You are seriously sitting here considering marriage to this man?? You’re ok with him being a role model to your child??
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Grow up and get rid of him and take care of your kids.
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Would you rather your son not have a dad, or have one who sets pure bad examples to him, and him grow up likely taking after those awful traits he has? Think about it.
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Jesus, leave him. Have some self respect. Your kid won’t give a shit after a couple of weeks, I promise. Kids and you deserve to be treated with some kind of respect.
Run as fast as you can !
He’s never going to change, if he can talk to another woman like that and be intimate with her he’ll do it again to someone else.
But You’re clearly not going to leave until it’s all you can think about and you grow to hate him for it.
As a parent it’s hard not having another supportive loving partner there but if you stay your son is going to think his behavior is okay.
Wouldn’t you rather be on your own and happy or stuck with a man who claims to love you but hurts you?
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Oh girlie many many hugs to you. But you need to leave, he is stringing you along when he says these things. You are more valuable then you think. At the end of the day your happiness and safety is what is important. Not only for you but for your kids as well. An unhappy mom is an unhappy kiddo
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Girl you better leave. There is no man worth catching an STD over or having to deal with all that damn cheating and lying. There is a man out there that will worship the ground you and your kids walk on.
This man doesn’t love you and this man doesn’t want to marry you and I know it hurts but you’ll find that man one day and you’ll be happy that you didn’t stick around with this one.
Leave him he isn’t going to change
LEAVE. He’s never going to stop
Why would you want to stay with someone who treats you as second best and fucks someone else.
You deserve better. You are cheating yourself of a better life. The 3 year old deserves better
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sister wife’s? Maybe he wants a bigger family than you know?
Sounds like my ex (narcissist). You need to let him go if he is cheating on you already when You have his baby he just doesn’t care about you or the baby. Guys like Him will never change!
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Is that even a question there love!? Easier said that done, I fully get it… but where he’s constantly doing it to you… it’s time to move on hun… you can’t sit and stress yourself out being pregnant… you guys need and deserve better… I get your son loves him, but is ir worth it?? You are getting a abused. Don’t stay bevaise the kid loves him… you are hurting your son as well… leave him and don’t look back… men tend to do that when it comes to their baby mamas because they were with them and they had kids with them and sometimes the love never dies between that relationship. So stop hurting yourself and just walk away and do what’s best for you. he keeps doing it, because you are putting up with it… but once you leave, that puts a stop to it all. He needs to realize he can’t keep hurting you. YOU NEED TO BE STRONF ENOUGH AND RUN AWAY!!
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He’s telling you everything you need to know with his actions. His actions say he doesn’t want to be with you. There’s a saying, “Don’t let a man tell you more than once that he doesn’t want you”.
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I love it when ppl ask questions they already know the answer to 
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Fool me once - shame on you
Fool me twice - shame on me….
Leave his ass. No amount of justifying this is going to make It ok. By staying you’re allowing this to happen over and over.
That man has 0 respect for you or your children. Pack his shit up and be done with It
Is this a serious question ?
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To the people laughing… shame on you. To the person who posted… stop allowing his behavior and leave. That is not a healthy relationship for you nor the children involved.
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Nah you need to have more self worth babe kick him to the curb.
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I do not usually comment on these posts, but i think you know the answer as to what you should do or you wouldn’t of asked. You need to do better for yourself and your kids. Leave and get the best life that you deserve. There is NO WAY i would ever stay with a guy who cheated.
Tons of red flags… I’d dump him…
Right we all get it that you don’t want to leave but you need to because if he’s a constant cheater one of these days he’s going to bring something home like a ( sexual disease or illness) can cause you haunt you and your baby if you still do have sex with him while being with you… I’m not going to beat around the bush about this conversation when women and men cheat they know what they’re doing they do Love thrill and they love being hurtful towards others and they just want to be known as a scumbag… these people are literally like narcissists sometimes
Stay and keep getting cheated on or leave because you deserve better. This is really sad that you had to write a post like this.
Just leave. You can prevent him from cheating
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Some HARD TRUTH MOMMA. You are teaching YOUR son that is how to treat women. Get yourself and your kids together and leave or kick him out if that’s an option. You are basically a glorified babysitter to that man.
EVERYONE deserves better than that. And your kids deserve a mom that is happy.
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Girl you deserve better and if hes gonna cheat on you why stay and make yourself miserable cause then it’ll make the kids miserable
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DON’T STAY FOR THE KIDS!!! I’d rather be single and have my kids see me that way than seeing me in a shitty relationship where I’m getting cheated on. Is that how you want your kids to grow up and think that kind of relationship is right and what they should strive for. If your answer is NO for them it should be a NO for you! He’s done it multiple times you’re just letting him and yourself accept that it’s OK for him to do it.
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You already know what you need to do… leave and enjoy your life… what you allow will continue. Best of luck to you
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Seriously this is a question??? 
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Girl… he will never be faithful. Sorry but you are wasting your time with the wrong person. Dump him. Get ready to be a single mom. You will be okay.
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Sometimes I wonder if these are for real…… For real? He cheats on you and thinks you’re trash…… Do you need a bigger sign? Like what would make you leave if this isn’t it?
Run, girl. Pack your shit up and get a life. You’re just placeholding someone else’s life.
Why not just lay down in front of a door and let him walk on you… stop trying to justify and find reasons for this to work. It’s never going to work and it’s better to get off that road before you even go down it.
Too bad he doesn’t love nor respect you. Sorry, but it’s time to let him go back to the girl he thinks he really loves. Whether or not he says so, you are NOT his one. You are just another girl he got pregnant. Time to go. Find somebody who WILL love you.
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Send him packing to his ex
Leave & don’t ever look back, you & your kids are way better off without him in yalls lives.
Your son is young. He will forget him and so should you. Do this for yourself. Leave now.
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I’m sorry but if you really had to ask with you already knowing he’s cheating on you more then once… your a fool
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Your kids deserve better than that, that’s not a loving father at all chick.
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To start with … I’m sorry there are people finding this funny. You need to go, make sure that you are financially stable and leave with your boy and baby. Good luck Mama, what ever you chose 
and I am sorry that you are going through this xx
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Run and run fast. If he cheated on you repeatedly why would you get pregnant by him? You do not want your son thinking it is okay for a man to treat a woman like this.
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Seriously?!?! He’s already left you he’s cheating on you and has been and you’ve known it and then your surprised about what you found in his phone. Sorry girl but he’s using you. Do what’s right for your kids and yourself and leave him your kids will bounce back
The cheating & wanting to get back with an ex is all you should know to leave. What you mean you don’t know anymore? 
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Wow - run fast and far
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You’d only hurt him if he cared… but it appears he doesn’t.
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Stop allowing yourself to be abused. You are showing your kiddo that this is how to treat people. And how to be treated. No no no. Help yourself help your kids.
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Do you hear yourself? Leave and never look back! You deserve better and so do your children!
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Wow. Facebook should really let people take a stupid test LOL
We accept the love we think we deserve 
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Been there, it’s hard but you need to let him go. It’ll take some time to heal but he will never change and your worth more then that. Your child will find a better man to love him.
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No ma’am. You need to run. Yes, it’ll hurt you and your son but absolutely not.
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Leave him! You’re wasting your time…
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I’d be worried about get an STD from him and it would affect your growing baby! You need to leave. He’s not going to stop. You need to protect your and your babies
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He has shown you who he really is …
Believe him the first time! We teach people how to treat us. It’s up to you how you want to live, right now you sound unhappy and you have every right to. Leave quietly with your children and important papers. Best wishes to you
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If you get out now you wont need an attorney, if you marry him and endure more of this treatment (which is certain) you’ll be hiring one
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Girl. He does not want you. You are a convenience for him. Pack your shit. And take your kid and leave. File for court when your baby is born. Don’t go back to him. Your kid will get over it and will survive.
You know he’s cheating on you - leave him. It won’t change.
First off. You don’t even really know that man. So your child shouldn’t be calling him “daddy.” He’s proved to you time and time again he doesn’t love you so when are you going to believe him?
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Make him not your boyfriend anymore…
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Dump his lying cheating arse
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Omg girl why?
Respect yourself and your kids
Just leave. You don’t need a man to help you raise those kids so just stop looking and take care of yourself and your babies.
Might I suggest an IUD as well, after the baby is born.
FFS.
No Way, you and your kids deserve better, and so much more!
Leave it’s that simple it’s not rocket science
Kick him to the curb…it will only get worse
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I think you know what you need to do. Staying longer will only make things worse and more complicated. There are men in the world who will treat you appropriately and this dude isn’t one of them.
Just leave. It’s only been 2.5 years
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Honey, just leave please. That man is using you. Just save yourself the heartache now.
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If that’s how he treats you now and has been the whole time. He doesn’t love you and in hindsight is only using you
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Get rid of him!! He’s not going to change!
If you’re asking what to do in a bad situation, YOU KNOW WHAT THE ANSWER IS!!
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Leave. It really is as simple as that. Even though it sounds hard. That’s not the role model you want your kids taking after. And believe me, kids see and feel everything, including the tension you don’t think they notice.
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I mean I don’t know what advice you’re looking for but you absolutely won’t fix him or change him. It’s literally leave him and throw him out where he belongs, or stay and be cheated on and disrespected when you’re worth so much more than that and your 3 year old that calls him “daddy” is worth more too because he will grow up thinking that’s normal.
My sons 10 and doesn’t have a dad but I’d be damned if I’d let him see some idiot cheating on me every 5 mins for the sake of having a father figure.
Boy bye 
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Phe doesn’t deserve you & it’s hard I no but you need to. Walk away once a cheater always a cheater good luck
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If he is consistently cheating on you then why are you consistently staying with him. He is doing it because he knows he is getting away with it and you won’t leave him which you are proving him right.
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You already know the answer! LEAVE! You saw all the red flags and still decided to get pregnant, shame on you. Now lay in the bed you made……
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I’m reminded of the saying, “What they’ll do with you, they’ll do to you”. My advice is to want better for yourself, and for unborn child. Good luck.
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Take your kids and leave his a. Butt
This is a pattern he’s setting up. And it will continue through your realionship. He’s also future faking .So your not going to leave him .My advice once a Cheater always a Cheater !!! Get out now your son and baby don’t need to be raised this way. Your stress levels affects your unborn child.Leave him !! I believe your already Trauma Bonded also .Best of Luck 
Hug’s 
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You either need to leave that man and take that l as a single mom or let him cheat in peace and cheat back, cause that ain’t your man that’s a roommate at this point.
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25 yrs, no commitment, kids outside the relationship thru cheating & you’re at a loss? umm, wake up & move tf on… 
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Get some self respect girl…. Ditch that lying cheating waster and go find someone worthy of ur children’s love!!! Ur going to mess up their lives if u continue with that idiot… u put the kids first NOT HIM OR YOU …
He is going to leave as soon as his ex says yes to another go or he finds someone else… u can make it on ur own… ur children deserve better!
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Grow some balls and leave his ass.
Move him to the trash… you and your children will be much better off. Do you want your son to be like him?
Leave him or get petty & cheat back 
but do it better.
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Why would you let your 3 year old call a man daddy who cheats on you? I’m sorry but imagine the heartbreak you’re feeling times a million. That’s what your child will feel. It’s one thing to lose a partner it’s a whole other to lose a parent. Hes just using you incase ole girl dont work out.
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He’s keeping you as a backup, he will never stop this behavior. Staying with him will only hurt you and your children. It’s time to leave, it will suck, but when you look back you will be happy you did it.
You know the answer girl. All the advice will be the same
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Move on. Nothing will get better
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Seriously there is a door leave