Ma’am. He thinks you’re his maid/caregiver. Move on. That is not a healthy relationship.
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Not to be harsh but you’re an idiot.
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Leave him to wallow in his own filth.
You need to leave. He’s ungrateful and sounds like a piece of crap. He can clean up his own mess, you’re not his maid.
Okay I’m 24 and I’d be b*itching him tf OUT that’s in no way right AT ALL. You need to get out while you still have some sanity left. If he wants to be a dirty man let him sit in his filth. Or leave for a week, let him do shit on his own he isn’t incapable and hes being controlling as hell. You need to leave now and not look back!
Time to find someone else. He is not worth it
Ur just a roommate to him don’t sound like a 50/50 relationship when ur putting 100 in
Just get rid of him he is just Plaine lazy
The nerves of him! He’s a scum leave him asap!
(Get you a place lined up Incase)and tell him you’re packing your bags and rolling out if you don’t start cleaning up after himself he’s a grown ass man tell him your cleaning up after people is over if you have to pay half the bills he’s got to clean up half the mess
Why are you accepting less than you deserve?
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I would be using that $400 on a house payment that I could call mine!!!
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Why are you still there
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Damn. I’m sorry you’ve wasted 2 years of this man child. Please leave. Know your worth!
Why are you not running right now… 
Sounds like he needs you more than you need him
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He’s using you for a place to stay and money.
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Sounds like you’re already alone. Take the final step and be on your own! Far less mess and you’ll save more $!
I’d leave as in run….he wants a maid that pays him not a relationship. You deserve happiness.
He is home he can do it.
Girl, all you had to say is you are raising a child! Lucky for you, he’s not your responsibility and you can run… so run… fast 
Ma’am 
what you allow will continue smh would you find this acceptable if it was your daughter being treated that way? Smh 
You need to leave he is taking advantage of you
leave & get urself something where u dnt have to live like that.
He sounds like a lazy dirty pig leave him
I don’t believe this is an actual question, “ is he in the Wrong”. Why are you even associating with this kind of person? He sounds like a real catch.
Girl you need to lay it down or leave. This is ridiculous behavior and life is too short for his bs.
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You’re his roommate. You’re not in a relationship.
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Run and don’t look back
You are basically the housekeeper, get out of that prison
Girl, get out! Nobody has time for someone that useless and lazy.
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Get your own place with the 400 month money leave him don’t look back you will be better off
You’re being used.
Sounds like he has no value for you at all.
Do you really want to live there?
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What is the attraction?
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Why is he your boyfriend? Get the hell away from him
My questions is why are you even sticking around with that grown nasty man child. Leave and be much happier .
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You need to move out NOW! He is expecting a mom, servant and slave and you my dear are not that.
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Girl leave!!! Don’t be his doormat!!!
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Why are you still there? You’re worth more than you’re giving yourself credit for. Your boyfriend is a taker and a user. Time for you to take yourself out of there!
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why are you staying there? if you wanna be with him fine but find ur own place
Leave get your own place. Then you answer to no 0ne
Leave his ass he should help out also
Pretty much a landlord not a bf 
work in a nursing home hun you live in one of u have to do it there too
Sounds like you have a spoiled Child you are taking care of. Get out.
Hell nawwww to the naw naw nawww! Choose yourself. He’s lazy and clearly has no pride. Plenty of BETTER fish in the sea 
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is your bf mentally challenged? you don’t need someone to tell you to carry the world on your shoulders,you should have someone wanting to help with the weight… what does he do that makes you happy & contribute to your happiness?
Leave, just leave
You work too hard to deal with this, he is using you
Girl, get rid of that bum ass man, you’re too good for that shit and will do better on your own!
You need to find a man you have a child
Run! Leave! Live your life!
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Oh honey move on ASAP. Not healthy for you.
Hey I think I would move on you deserve better 
Seems like your doing it all… might as well leave! You deserve better, and it might be more beneficial if you moved closer to work
Get the hell out of there!!! Why would u stay with that??!!!
Why are you still there!?
Just leave … Red flag 
everywhere.you’ll be so much happier on your own 
Unless you want to be his mother and maid with being controlled by a man child… leave NOW
Girl you already doing everything alone you minus well be alone. No need to live in that filth under demands
HELLLLLL NO. leave, you deserve much better.
Get your own place and leave
Throw it and swat! #GritBall
Time to leave his butt
Why are you staying with him .
It’s time to move on. Please read the comments you asked for. Excellent free advice. God Bless you🙏
can you just leave him. first of all aint no one want a damn disabled ass man second of all leave 
Run don’t walk, why are you still there, where is your self pride your self respect, go and don’t look back
Move out and get your own place
You sound completely insane to even think this situation is remotely acceptable…
Time to find another bf?
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Wow
You work hard and he sounds like one ungrateful individual. Please value your own worth and leave!! He’s not worth it… you are!!
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You’ve put up with this for 2yrs!!!
Sweety… you need leave 
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Time to pack your things and get out. He is using you like a dirty mop. Time to take care of you.
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Don’t walk RUN away from this relationship!
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You d be happier alone. Move on girl!
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Leave that in the dust. Wash your hands of that! You deserve better & are gonna get burned out!! It’s a real thing called caregivers fatigue !! Look into it please. You deserve someone to take care of you!!
A relationship is both parties giving their all. He gives zero and demands much of you in the way of maid service. That’s a dictator not a boyfriend.
IFyou want things to work sit him down and have a conversation about his demands regarding cleaning after him. Tell him simply NO. You are a girlfriend not his mother or caregiver. He needsto pull his weight in this relationship and he can do it himself or hire a maid with the money you give him. Also he needs to either pay for you occasionally or you are going Dutch when eating out or doing things until further notice. You are not his ATM.
Honestly I’d tell you to leave as you deserve a King that treats you like the Queen you are…not someone that treats you like Cinderella.
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I would say get out get your own place. You don’t need to get sick from the mice and you also are not his maid when you work your ass off. Sounds like he prefers mice to you anyway. You don’t deserve that mess. He sounds gross. I would not tolerate that situation one more minute. How are you able to live there if you can’t actually “LIVE” you can’t really be comfortable there. If your living there even if it is his house it is your house too because your living there. He sounds awful. Get your own place. Be free of that. Liberate yourself. Be free. Let him rot in his recliner then. Hopefully that will make him get off his butt.
You deserve respect and love. Sounds like you are going neither of those. He wants a maid. Not a partner or someone to love. By staying you are telling him you are ok with the way he treats you. Stand up for yourself bc no one else is going to and you owe it to yourself. You can do it!
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So you need us to tell your 50 year old self that you deserve better. That you should dump him and move out… well since you need a sign and his treatment isn’t enough…here is your sign… LEAVE. HIS. ASS!
Red flag …see ya got to go !!!
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Wow! He’s definitely not contributing! His house?! Let him live in filth and RUN!
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I’d be gone u can do better by ur self. Sounds like he wants u to pay n be his nanny or momma nope. I’d let him know I’m out he can live like that by himself
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Move gf. You are being used.
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Chunk up the deuces!!!
Ummm why are u still with him??
Not to be rude but you’re his sugar momma,what does he pay,he is using you go with the wind,and leave him in his chair and filth,and mice.
Leave now, you deserve way better than that, he treats you like a roommate and a maid.
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Honey you would be so much better off on your own…not to be a Debbie downer but this relationship seems totally one sided from this post alone…you need to leave his sorry ass right where you found him & move tf on…I’m an agency travel aide myself & know all too well the pressures of the Healthcare systems right now & if he stays home all day then baby he needs to be rubbing ur damn feet having a hot meal on the table & calling you honey & baby & all that shit that you gotta come to the internet for from some random ass stranger like myself (not personal…I’m just from the south…lmao) but Lord child…leave his sorry ass behind you!
You deserve way better than that!!!
How/why did you even hook up with him…are you from another country and he promised you a home? I feel really sorry for you…
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Pack, Run and never look back.!!
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Leave while you still have sense
B’bye boyfriend… get your own place, and possibly a roommate to split chores and expenses. Maybe in looking for a place- something to reduce your commute?
Please leave this terrible relationship, you deserve much more.
Uhhm sounds like you should have your own apartment. You’re job is not just physically demanding but emotionally tolling and your down time is well deserved. At any adult age no one should be demanding on your time. Life is short, lose the ungrateful bf because sounds like he’s getting more out of this relationship than you are. Better to be alone than I’ll accompanied
Your his “momma”….
Leave asap
You need to get out and take care of yourself. My feeling is that if someone can’t make my life better and work with me, I don’t need them.
RUN and don’t look back!!!
Why are you still there?
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You can do bad all by yourself. Please for the love of self, leave him.
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