Uhm… You are too damn grown to be asking for this advice. You should know better. No one should tolerate this. You wouldn’t want your daughter to do this for a man. So no.
Say goodbye and don’t feel bad
I’m sorry but I would leave him … that’s ridiculous
Move and let him do it all . Sounds like he just using u. I would just tell him it’s not working out. Or save up then leave
Girl if you even have to ask then maybe you have a disability
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Find a new place and a new guy
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Get the hell out of there !
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Y’all are roommates only
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Get out while you can. If he doesn’t have a physical disability that keeps him from helping around the house then he needs to be doing half the cleanup if not all since you are the one working. Leave!! You don’t need that!
You are a fool to do all that time to move on good luck 
Ummm you should have left the first time he made it seem like you should have to do everything and also pay him $400 a month!! I am living in my fiance’s home and I work, but I would be LONG gone if he thought he was going to charge me rent!!! You are his significant other and he obviously seems to think he’s your boss! I wouldn’t be cleaning up after him if he is deliberately making messes and then wants you to clean it up! You need to RUN and Never look back
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You can clearly take care of yourself, so move out and move on! Take the 400 you give him and put it towards a new place now!
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Leave honey you don’t deserve this!!
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Well clean up the rat shit and have the place exterminated if u r going to live there… didn’t u say u were in health care then u must know how unhealthy it is. Leave his sorry ass he is using you frfr.
Wow leave your old enough to see the difference stop supporting him and his grubby state he wants to live in and look after yourself
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Yall are roommates…just leave man
He’s all kinds of using you, you should leave
Get out get ur own place and u will b at peace
“I feel like he’s wrong to demand I do all this”?? Of course he’s wrong and u’ve put up with it for 2 yrs now?!?! I feel like u should of ran a long time ago!!
Run. You can do better
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I would say if you want to be with him and not fight over this stuff get your own apartment if he is ok living in filth let him do that by himself
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Run as fast as you can!!!
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Uuummmmm??? Bye Bitch!
Sounds like you need to move on.
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Sounds like he needs you, not you need him
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Life is way too short to remain unhappy sweetie, he has no respect for you. Leave him with the mice and find a better place for yourself.
Move girl. You can do so much better than that.
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TLDR but Sis, leave his ass.
Say good bye and good riddance…you got time for all that mess.
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Like hell if my bf demanded me to do all the cleaning on top of worming full time!!! Move on
Sounds like the two of you are just roommates unfortunately and he expects to much of you… I think it’s time you find somewhere else to live, I can’t live with bugs nor rodents so I would’ve left a long time ago if he can’t pick up after himself! Your supposed to be his other half, not his mother… good luck with whatever decision you chose to make but if I were you I would leave!! You deserve so much more!
Can u afford to live on your own? If so I would leave him!
My “gold diggin” ass could NEVER!!! ugh youre too old to be putting up with this. You should know better by now
You are in abusive relationship. He does not deserve you at all.
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Demands??? Are you a child???you not a girlfriend you the personal slave/maid…a person will do to you what you allow…
You need to get out of that place. He’s a piece of shit. And you’re in his web. Pack it up leave and dont look back.
He doesn’t want a girl he wants a maid . Leave u can do better . Let the mice care for him
Get the hell out !!! You don’t need the stress your a health care worker it’s hard enough.
Hes a user. Leave now. You can do much better
Get out you deserve better
You are paying him to be a room mate and a maid…not smart
Tell him to kick rocks
You got an at home, abusive patient, you don’t need that. 
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Umm…what the heck attracted you to this “man”?! He sounds like he’s using you! Please leave you will much happier with someone who respects you or even feel better alone rather than treated like that. He’s a lazy bum! Sorry to be blunt but I think you need to hear it
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Honey your being used
you call him a boyfriend?
So you are a mature well educated professional woman…you already know that answer to your own question. Change your address with a quickness.
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Girl you should leave him. You deserve so much better 
Leave him… he sounds like a controlling dickweed! He has no respect for u at all
You need to leave him!!!
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You are being used and you need to leave
Honey. Your are being used
Sounds like you need a new boyfriend 
Dump hie ass you deserve better
Leave and move closer to work! He seems to think you are his maid!
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Ma’am, if you can afford to live on your own, please do! That’s another job that you’re paying him to do, not the other way around
I’d work on gettinf your own place! That is a man child not a man… He has no right to demand anything… He needs to get off his lazy a$$ and take care of himself BY himself… He aint worth it sweetie
LEAVE fast…let him get another patsy…U lady are better than that…that dude is big time loser…
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You need to leave that sorry SOB. Life is better than that.
Time to change boyfriends
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Not at all he should clean up his mess
Why do you need this man? You don’t need to be anybody’s doormat and punching ball
It’s time to leave. He is taking advantage of you and your allowing him to do so. Never settle for less than you give to someone else!
Go get yourself a nice lil place by yourself x you do not deserve to be treated this way , you’ll find yourself in such a clearer head space after leaving xx
He sounds like an entitled narcissist get out while you can
Why are you still there?
Wow really you have to ask.
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2 years you say . Lady you must go on your own ! Sounds like you can! It’s tough in the beginning. Loneliness and alone .but do your self the best for you. Prayers to you lady . Be strong
You’re paying him to clean his house for him? What? Damn. I’d tell him you’re taking that $400 and hiring a maid. And if he doesn’t like it, which he won’t, tell him to kiss your ass because you’re moving out and he can wallow in his own filth and mouse shit. That’s nasty.
I would 
!! He has no right to treat you that way. Get out ASAP!
Wouldn’t you be happier if you had your own place?
I’d be getting my own place!!
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He needs a maid not a gf and you need to find your worth. You could be doing so much better on your own.
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I don’t get people… why is leaving this scrub even a question 
Oof! That’s awful! He’s very selfish. I understand being on disability makes life difficult but he’s totally taking advantage of you!
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Honestly you can do so much better & deserve better & respect you need to find you’re own place asap if you can you will be do much better off & less stress for you & will always be clean & you won’t have to pay him money or for him when you go out let him live in his filth Hun honestly get out he is using you sounds like he wants a house maid if that’s what he wants he can pay for one you don’t deserve this or to be treated like this you are not in the wrong at all he should clean up after himself that’s disgusting what he is doing & expects from you . X
Send him on a long errand and while he’s gone…
Move on honey life is too short for all that. Think of your peace and quiet.
OMG get out of that abusive relationship now!!!
You need to get out…that’s ridiculous
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OMG! Leave him. Hope he can pay all his bills and stuff for 850 a mo. He won’t be able to afford a maid so he will have to clean at some point. Report him to the health department, welfare and disability office also. I’m sure he isn’t telling them that you live there and are giving him money and he’s being a lazy pos!
Bf only, y you need to take his instructions… you own him nothing…Be yourself and be happy…
Leave now , that is not a healthy relationship!!
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Omg!! There’s just so much wrong with this!! Your a human being & you deserve so much more!!
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Forget him, life is to short to be treated this way.
Sounds like your boyfriend needs to live where you work.
And you are there, why? Your crazy, leave his ass!!!
Sound like he is using you… I would leave or put my foot down and make him clean up after himself…. He is a grown ass man and should clean after himself
You need to wise up and get out he will never change is this the life you want ? I would run as fast as fast as I can you need to smarten up hate to say this but you’re a little stupid for putting up with that crap
Time go move on; he’s a narcissis looking for a mommy
Pack your bag girl. He is taking advantage of a good thing…
Is his disability preventing him from cleaning up? If not you should get your own place.
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Honey, imagine if he is like this the first two years, he will get worse and worse…You don’t want to be wiping this mans ass like a child right?
Why are you even with someone like that? If you’re working, you should have your own place. That’s your first mistake right there.
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Why are you still there?
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Hes not a boyfriend hes a roomate
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Dump him and move out‼️. He is using you😡
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Run.You deserved so much more
Fuck no! Kick his lazy ass to the curb! Get out fast!
GET OUT of this Situation