This should be a no brainer. That man deserves to know he has a daughter. You may have carried her but she is still his baby too! Your boyfriend can still be a father figure to her.
Good luck, wish everyone the best.
Please, tell the father!
Be honest, do it for your child.
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Has it ever occurred to be people that some "biological " fathers are really just sperm donors. If the relationship was abusive to the mother, shouldn’t the Mother do everything she could to protect her child. If another man is willing to love, provide, and protect a child, that earns him the right to be called a Father.
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I would tell the truth. It’s ok for the baby to have it’s real father and a step father. It’s not right to withhold that information from him!!! Give him a chance!!
The CHILD deserves to know where she comes from. Not her fault if parents can’t get along. And if the boyfriend stays around & treats her right she will know he CHOSE to be her father. It takes a village. It’s what’s in the best interest of the CHILD not the adults.
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Let your boyfriend know that baby needs to know who fathered her but that he can be dad as long as he keeps loving her! One day he will in anger say “ she ain’t mine” because that’s how men are
Once you have a child with another person, you will be tied to that person for the rest of your life. You can decide to leave him out of the picture or you can go in with the knowledge that you will make it work for you and your child. You will definitely find out what kind of man your boyfriend is by the way he handles this bond you will have with your child’s father.
Tell the father its the right thing to do for him ,daughter and you
truth hurts but always the best way to go - it will hurt worse later.
Time for honesty, you are jacking up 3 lives by not being honest, your life, the baby life, and your ex… are you divorced or are you done, we all get depressed, the guilt is doing more damage than the lie that you are perpetuating. Time to get real with it. The Boyfriend wants to be the father figure, and he wants to raise her in a lie, do you see the glaring, red flag. Get counseling, maybe the child could be the impetus for healing and restoration
She will find out and the damage could be irreparable.
You should definitely tell your ex, it will come out eventually and all he’ll will break lose.
He has a right to know he’s a father!!
To him or the kid. What a mess!
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Tell her the truth about her dad she needs to know that
The biological dad deserves to know. Your child as age grows up deserves to know.
The ex has a right to know he has a kid and let him decide if he wants to be in her life and if not then go from there.
Sounds like you know the answer if you feel guilty.
Current Boyfriend needs to stay out of it, the pregnancy is between you and the Sperminator!
Step up and tell old boyfriend he’s a father. Besides, current boyfriend may walk away and leave you looking bad. TELL YOUR EX!
He needs to know he has a daughter. He has rights to her. She should know who her biological father is as well. That seems to be an outrageous request from a boyfriend
Don’t lie to your daughter. She will want to know her bio dad not just the step dad x
Tell him because it’s the right thing to do.
I wish i hadn’t told my first sons father about him. He turned my pregnancy and my life into a living nightmare. So the true question here is how toxic is he? Will he embrace this as a dad? Will he accept it but not get involved? Or will he make every living moment after hearing the news a complete and utter nightmare for you???
I cannot help but have irrational fear over telling a toxic ex because of my own experience BUT realistically you know him. If the news isn’t going to have your car rammed, you stalked/threatened or abused…he should know.
You need to tell him!