I dont believe him for one minute. Liar liar pants on fire.
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I donāt think he exactly cheating being strip club but I think he might be a āhigh rollerā there and addicted to strip clubs, getting private dances etc if itās actually a legit Gentlemans club they might have to make reservations with certain strippers for private dances etc.ļæ¼
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As a former dancerā¦ I never gave my number out to guys. UNLESS 1) they paid me well. And I needed them to come in to the club bla blah or 2) I was very attracted to them and actually interested. As a dancer you know not to give ur number out as ur asked a hundred times a day. So theres something going on that he has her number and shes calling him. The cop story is bologna. Also, we dont like drama at our work. If you came in and asked me I would personally lie to you and deny everything to protect my ācustomerā and save my money. This isnt how I handle my āpersonalā life but just letting you know from experience with this you would be wasting ur time going down there and getting a false story. I wouldnt trust him. 
Iām sorry ur going thru this.
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Iād call her & tell her you are his pregnant girlfriend and you are just wondering why she called.
If heās lying give him his walking papers. Make it clear to him itās over if he EVER cheats.
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SCUMMMM BAG 100%!! Sorry honey but you need a new MAN!!! Just because heās a cop does not mean that he is a good person OK newsflash there are asshole cops cheating cops galore OK so just because he wears a badge does it mean that heās perfect so donāt fool yourself!!ļæ¼
U didnt just answer the phone annoyed at the time!.. u set up all this recording stuff 1st and knew how to do it already and quickly!! U already dont trust him from more than just this one call! Trust ya gutā¦ dig more dirt if u really need proofā¦ but no trust no future!! Even if he not lieing this time!? There is trust issues!! Xx
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Why not just call her and ask? 
Just so weāre clear, you donāt have any in laws. You have to be married to have in laws. And, for curiosityās sake, if you decided to have 2 kids with a guy who wasnāt important enough to marry first, why is he so important now that heās talking to strippers? Youāre sending a very confusing message. Perhaps heās also confused. Maybe āJanetā (terrible name for a stripper, btw) is stripping to put herself through college to be a relationship counselor and heās talking to her about all his confusion during their āsessionsā. lol
Thatās probably what it is.
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One of you is stupid and itās not him
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Seems off to me lay low and keep an eye on it youāll catch him soon
Keep your sisters out of it. They arenāt married to either of you. Sit back and study this in context. Has he done this before? Often? Time unaccounted for? Is he with his bro often? Do they run around on their women? Youāre going to have time on your hands, so donāt let hormones and moods and worry cloud your thinking.
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Sounds like heās cheating
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Ugh yea i dont believe that AT ALLā¦im sorry. Ive been there alsoā¦
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All I know 4 sure is Iād b super pissed n heād b praying 4 death.
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Its obv he went to the club got a dance and got her numberā¦
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My husband is a retired police officer and Iāve heard so many stories of spouses cheating. His excuse is very shady and I agree you need to contact her and ask whatās going on. Trust your gut and donāt let him get away with it.
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You did all that and he came up with a excuse that you can except or not . I say whatever it was isnāt going to threaten what you have.
Yes you should. And heās a lieing piece of crap. Lose him.
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Great if he is guilty and did this to his pregnant girlfriend and already born child imagine what type of cop he is! Great character for someone in a position of authorityā¦ If heās guiltyā¦ 
if heās not guilty well then itās still kinda weird Iāve never had a cop give me his direct cell number over an incident reportā¦ 
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heās cheating on you. leave.
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Heās lyingā¦ same thing happened to me when my youngest was 3ā¦ I found out my ex who was 42 at the time had been having an affair with a 25 yr cocktail waitress/lap dancer who worked at a local strip clubā¦ the liesā¦ betrayal & cheating with multiple females went on for another 3 years until I had enoughā¦ best decision I ever made was letting him goā¦
Firstly breath. Getting worked up is not good for you and bubby right now. If you have her number when the Dr give you the all clear, Calmly talk to her asking if she is having relations with him (if not ask her not to tell him you asked her) If not let him know itās a little upsetting that he goes to strip clubs and if itās for his brother could he please try to steer him to less x rated venues.
Personally Iām ok if my hubby went to a strip club as long as he didnāt touch. In our 12 years together he has been once for a bachelor party.
#1 take care of you. Forgive but donāt forget. Be aware of what he might be up to .with 2 babies you need to think of them and let him know he doesnāt want to loose them or you
Trust your gut! Thereās a thing called womanās intuition, and you need to beleive in it.
Seriously?? You already know the answer smh. Itās now your fault for staying and using the excuse im pregnant and he said he will change and Iām helping out my homeboy BS.
He is a lying cheating dog donāt trust him
If thereās one thing Iāve learned from multiple cheating partners is they never admit it. And even will deny it if you have solid proof. Which seems pretty clear you do. Yes, it hurts. You build a life, you get attached, you āloveā him. Itās really just habit. Break the habit and leave. People always say it because itās true: there are plenty of men out there wanting to treat a woman right. Donāt settle. You will feel better sooner than you think but invest in yourself and create a life you want. Itās not easy but itās worth it.
This would completely terrify me! You have no idea who those girls do things with on a nightly basis. I absolutely would not touch him. I would make him get tested if you stay with him, and tested again 3 or 4 months later. Things donāt always show up right away. A bar is not the place for someone that has a significant other to ever be at. I would never allow that. I am so sorry that you are going through this, but seriously you have a little being to live for now. People cannot just go out and cheat these days, especially with a damn stripper. You might get more than you ever bargained for. If you stay with him I would set him up, and if he fails I would leave him. You have a lot to live for. 
I canāt even believe that you are on bed rest and could possibly lose your baby, and he is putting stress on you that you are not supposed to be having. It makes me sick. 
Call the number and ask questions.