Get out while you can.
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Tell him see you later
And you are still with himâŚwhy? Leave & make a life of your own.
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Run nowâŚhe wonât change
You actually know the answer to your question. It wonât get any better y are you still there for what thinking he might change that ainât gonna happen and lastly life is toooo short to put up with other peopleâs crap and BS
Can you find the door? If yes then walk out with your daughter & donât look back.
Run!!! Did u hear me RUN
Clearly you are miserable as the relationship is not what you want. Walk away - life is to short to be so unhappy
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If youâre unhappy & thereâs nothing left to salvage by all means, leave!!! Abuse is abuse whether itâs physical, verbal, psychological or emotional itâs STILL NOT RIGHT!!!
WHYYYY are you with him? Ask yourself that question, it seems as if nothing he does fulfills you.
I donât think anyone here can give you solid advice based on only seeing one side of the coin.
Leave⌠he wonât change.
Do things that agree in unity
Consider the price you sell your happiness for. Half the rent? Utilities and a couple drive thru meals a month? Help with the housework? Whoops, just the ability to pretend you are not alone? Whatever your choice the worst option is to lie to yourself.
Get rid of him, heâs not changing.
Leopard doesnât change his spots
Get rid of this guy asap. Youâll be relieved.
Leave him heâll never change. You deserve so much better! Good luck!
Walk your ass out that door
Thats more than rude⌠its neglectful and hateful⌠and dam right uncalled for.
Leave and donât look back. You owe that to you and children.
You need to walk away from that toxicity
How many RED FLAGS do you need???
Show him the door you are his door mat .
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Time to really rethink donât you think?
Leave him, being alone is better than living like that.
I would be walking away, if he hasnât changed by now, he isnât going to!!! And I could not spend the rest of my life with a selfish ignorant person!!
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Youâre not in a relationship,.you have a roommate. Time to go
Iâd be moving on to greener grasses lifeâs too too short 
You just said a whole mouthful that answers your own questionâ:roll_eyes:
I see no reason to stay with him
Get rid of him⌠your not married. Get out while you can
It wo t Get better I promise!!
I was in one exactly for 2 1/2 years and never allowed to functions with his kids but was always with my kids but when my family would drive up 5hours for visit he always caused a fight so he didnât have to go be around my family. Itâs a toxic relationship that you need to get out of asap they dont change it just gets worse⌠prayers sent and strengthe for you to leave and get ur kids away from this evil man.
Let him marry with fishes. Move on
Nope what are you staying there for
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Get out now
Find someone that wants to be with you
Because he doesnât
It will only get worse
What the heâll is wrong with you? Get out now!!!
Loka loka lang ang magtitiis sa ganyang treatment. Wake up girl!!
Ah but you do know you donât want to spend the rest of your life with him or you wouldnât post here. Youâre not a tree- move your feet!
Get out, heâs not going to change
You donât you already been through one divorce. Move on
To the curb with him. You can do better
If you are unsure, donât do it!
Get out. Not much fun, sounds like a bit of a dick.
Hit the road jack and donât ya come back no more
You actually di know what you want and its not what youve go
Run donât walk. Get away from this toxic man.
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Leave him as fast as you can.
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Kick him to the curb-
You and your daughter deserve better; She sees what you put up with and will choose a man just like him or worse
Dump him fast cause he wont change
It is quite simple. Donât .
Why are u asking start walking
Its noones decision but yours
No you donât get out now
Get out while you canâŚ
Simple leave him he sounds like a jerk
Iâm sorry, is this for real?
Leave him. If you donât respect yourself enough to expect people to treat you better, no one will.
That shouldnât be hard to decide. DUMP HIS ASS!!
Find a place to live
Take your child and leave.
RUN and donât look back. Jerks like him will never change.
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LEAVE if itâs possible, donât waste your time with the loser,will never change. Thatâs all
Why are you with this bum? He treats you like dirt. Leave him or throw him out.
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Move on and leave his sorry arse behind.
Kick em to the curb you can do better
A Gas lighting narcissist! You need to except the fact that heâs toxic and no good. Donât find reasons to stay and except his emotionally abusive ways. Before you know it, youâll have spent another 7 years in the same place you are now. It never gets better⌠Youâll just find more ways to turn a blind eye and stay.
If they are emotionally abusive, they usually are abusive in other ways as well! RunâŚ
Do NOT waste any more of your life on this looser. LEAVE! The sooner, the better. Youâve been there about 6 1/2 years too long now. Think of who you could have met during that time.
Move on and leave him behind!!!
Donât be an idiot leave him⌠why would you ask what to do, itâs very clearđ¤Śđ˝ââď¸
Tell him or let him go if 7yrs. And not even married he a Dick. Let him go. Itâs enough. Heâs not for you and your Family.
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I just want to ask youâŚwhy are you still living with a useless person like him?
Why are you still with this jerk??? Leave!! You deserve better!
Choose wisely, treat kindly. Sounds like you have t chose wisely. He sounds like he has emotional issues from childhood or something. You willing to stick around another 7 years to fix him? Yâall arenât even married. Iâd be gone
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You deserve better. He is not treating you with respect, which your children see. Do you want your kids growing up not respecting or women?? Itâs trash day, get rid of him. Itâs better to be single and happy, where you might meet a nice gentleman. Than to be unhappy and treats poorly in a crappy relationship. Itâs basically like you have an extra child.
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Is this a joke?
Are you seriously asking people if you should stay with this dumbass?
Good Grief woman !!
Get rid of that selfish, self absorbed, loser immediately.
Get counseling for your low self esteem.
When you get better, you will find someone better.
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Why are you with him? Low self esteem? Afraid to be alone? Alone is better than being with a a man who disrespect you and verbally abuse you. WALK AWAYâŚQUICKLY!
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Eh? And your asking complete strangers for advice how to change him or whether or not to get rid⌠Duh no brainer yiu canât change a grown arsed man to suit your needs. Heâs got kids off his own if he doesnât grasp the concept of mutual respect by now then thereâs no hope.
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This already started out bad and is getting worse, now you know why his EX kicked him to the curbâŚyou canât fix a self absorbed JERK that doesnât see his own faults. You already knew what you needed to do before you wrote this post. And your AND HIS children do not need to be indoctrinated that his behavior is normal or acceptable. Get yourself and children out of his mess.
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This guy is an asshole. He sounds like a selfish, narcissistic jerk. Itâs not going to get better. Not with time, not with responsibilities, not with a ring. You already know what you need to do. Listen to your gut and run. Run away fast in the opposite direction of this guy. You and your kids deserve more.
Dump him, as a couple the both of you should be able to tell AND listen to each other, it sounds like to me heâs selfish and does not wanna take the time to hear what you have to say, and if he constantly belittles you, he has insecurity issues or heâs just down right angry with life, heâs worthless , move on
Young lady
Think again obviously the relationship itâs not working out in lines of happiness
You need to get shot as he seems selfish and wants a roof over his head
Be strong and get him out
You deserve better and no doubt find better
Sister, your picker is broken worse than mine. He is a selfish, self centered scrub that doesnât like you, and he doesnât like his kids or yours. He gives you nothing and gets free sex and a cleaning woman, cook, and bottle scrubber I am going to say this very plainly. RUN! DONâT HESITATE, RUN!! Otherwise he will make your new ex-husband look like a freaking saint.
Nobody would those are red flags not a carnival leave for your own peace and your daughter is watching you on what to except in her life if you wouldnât want her with someone like him why would you want someone like that for you
For real lady use ya noggin get the hell away for that relationships you donât need that rubbish in your life. Your kids would be seeing itâs OK to treat others in that manner 
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Well if you want to be treated like poop all the rest of your life by this loserâŚStay.
If you care about what your daughter will be seeing in that toxic relationship then leave.
Easy peasy. Put your big girl panties on and get a real life.
You are not someoneâs mop!
It really doesnât care about you he just worrying about what he can get off of you as long as you keep putting it out heâll keep treating you like s*** and I told a girl one time you donât measure a man by his height about how hard he hit the woman
He is selfish and could care less or has a side chick. No matter you deserve better than that.
Canât believe your still with him. What are you waiting for? Please donât say, but I love him; if thatâs the case you deserve what ever he dishes out. There are so many nice guys; go find one and get on with your life.
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Sounds like itâs time to
Move on you deserve better than that and so does your daughter
Leave his dum ass a learn to love and respect your self remember is not the end of the world if you move out of a toxic relationship your soul mate no reach in your life yet
Dump his sorry arse and donât marry the bastard for goodness sake . You would be so much better off out and away from him and the sooner the better. And donât fall for his bullshit or pathetic attitude!!!
I donât understand why women will accept anything just to keep a man in their lives. I tell you that is brtter be alone than to suffer this kind of abuse.
You can either get a divorce at 37 years like I did and try to start over at 62. Cause my ex was the same way no matter how much money I brought into the marriage. You will suffer âŚsuffer and you already know that. They flat out donât care. But then they give you the money to pay the bills
GirlâŚseriously? You should have been gone. Youâre not his mother. Heâs making zero effort and it will only get worseâŚtrust me. Stop wasting your life and you and your child go live a happy life! You deserve someone who brings to the table what you doâŚa reciprocal relationship. You donât need to be his mother and his therapist. You and your child deserve better. Start saving and make a plan. Youâre his fiance for 7 years? Come on now. Wake up. Heâs not marriage material. Heâs not even relationship material, unless you think you deserve crumbs.
Leave his ass if he did that to you before and doing it again he ainât going to change and you let him do it with out really getting on his ass thatâs why he is doing it again
There are so many warning signs here. Please leave before he hurts you.
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He may be cheating physically or emotionally , Iâm not saying he is but he shows signs from what ur saying
Why even ask? Run 
he is not a partner. The predictor of future behavior is their current behavior.
Deleting this entire post.
Asking such a question on a public forum is like jumping in a fishing ice-hole in Alaska and wondering if it will be cold. You ALREADY KNOW YOUR ANSWER.
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Your wasting your time with this guy. If itâs been 7 years and there is no engagement ring or wedding date. He doesnât plan to marry you.