Walk away. You said yourself that you don’t think you should be with someone like this for the rest of your life.
Leave him doesn’t sound like he even wants to change…
Why would you want to be in a relationship if doesn’t care or respect your feelings
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My ex was like that and that’s why he’s now my ex, 12 years of that too long, we’ve been separated for over 2 years now and he’s still begs for another chance, but no. We have kids together so there’s that contact only
You have a problem if you cant see he is a user and loser. Time is valuable. Get gone, get therapy and start realizing you drserve morr
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Sounds like you already know what you need to do girl! Leave his ass.
7 years is too long . You are late in walking the hell out of there. I would of left his ass within 3 months
If you ever have to say “I don’t know if I want to spend the rest of my life like that” you already know the answer
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Why you still with him?
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This can’t be real life
You’re still with him?
Somewhere in the world is a man wishing he had what you offer to someone who takes it all for granted. A man won’t change.
Dump the jerk. It will only get worse after marriage
What are you doing in a relationship like that?? Leave hun you deserve to be happy!!
Why have you stayed with him this long
If you stay with a man for 7 years, you have given him permission to do whatever he is doing.
Have more respect for yourself and your children… Walk away and don’t look back.
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You teach people how to treat you!!! Your tolerance makes the behavior ok, you should take this as an opportunity to recognize what you don’t want and leave do you can be free to find the person that will honor you and your child.
Laissez le il ne changera pas et tu gaspille ta vie
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Drop that with a piece of s***
Dating someone is all about finding out if you can love this person for who they are completely & if you can spend the rest of your life with them. You deserve to be happy. My Great Granny always said" you get what you settle for" & she also said " never settle for less than you deserve". Life is to short to not be happy.
you know what you should do–you just don’t want to do it.
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Leave. Hes not the one.
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And you’re still with him, why?
Girl he don’t respect you. Leave.
He sounds a right w⚓ leave whilst you can if I were you
Your intuition should be telling you everything that you need to know; listen to it!
Get custody of his kids or get some nice family members to take his kids because hes a piece of crap and them kids dont deserve to be left with him then you all leave his butt
That’s all the signs to move on without em girllll
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Is this what you want for your daughter?
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It’s not about you or him . Your job as a mom is to do everything you can to provide a loving environment for your daughter .
Do what you like but the choice is still stay and endure or change your circumstances….
Please don’t take this the wrong way, but it sounds as though you already know you don’t want to be with someone like that forever. You just need a little reassurance. He doesn’t sound like the man you or your family deserve.
Some of these posts lately are just pathetic! We know good and damn well, these women that ask a bunch of strangers advice, isn’t going anywhere. The women know it too. If you need to vent, just say that!
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After a 7 year engagement… dump him. He has no intention to marry you and if that’s how he acts…… why would you want to marry him?
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It won’t change. You may not have seen it in the beginning but I’m a firm believer people just have to gravitate towards those that have the same morals and values you do. If family time is valuable to you and not him, then that is an issue. I had the same guy before but funny he always found time for the people HE deemed important. Needless to say he is an ex😁
Go on with your life he sounds like a Looser
Dump his ass. There are better men out there. You are not being crazy or dramatic for expecting common decency. He clearly doesn’t want the same type of life you are looking for. All it’s going to cause is arguments and undue frustration.
What’s the question. Leave. Thats the answer.
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he is not ready .just let it go
Is this a serious question?? Umm you and the kids are being disrespected. I wpuld not have lasted that long with him. After this long if you are feeling like this and he just goes back to his old ways then leave. Or you will be in the same boat 10 years from now. Respect you and the kids more and move on. I was in the same boat. Don’t put up with it
Get out of this relationship because you deserve someone who will treat you better. If you stay you will have a life of misery. 
ninja kick the fucker to the ball sack and tell him to pack the bags and do the Harold Holt
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First of all why are you seeking advice on social media? I mean come on you know what is right and wrong? And if you wanna leave him then do it this is not the place to make up your mind this is your personal life so know your worth!
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Sounds like you know what you have to do because this guy is a walking talking red flag. There’s no respect from the sounds of it.
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Just let me borrow some cash. Then you won’t have to worry about him. You can just worry about getting paid back!!! 
I would get out it sounds like ur convenient for him
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Omg I only read the a few lines. Get rid of him
He’s not going to change… he doesn’t seem that there’s a problem. That’s how you know he’s not going to change
i think you already know the answer to your issue – leave him. this is not a good environment for your child. you must put your child first and you are only teaching your child that bad behavior is rewarded, not punished. you deserve a whole lot better than this loser. he is just using you for a babysitter to his kids. better leave now – he won’t ever change.
You answered your ? How he treats you is how he feels about you.
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If he hasn’t changed by now he never will so you need to tell him enough is enough you can’t be with someone who is rude and can’t be arsed to do anything with his own kids never mind his own you cant be with someone like that especially when you have a child you need someone fun and out going to tell him enough is enough he will never change so you need to end it dont let him talk you around with the bull crap that he will change as he won’t
Red flags…Drop that zero and go find a hero! He’s not for you the way he treats you. You deserve more.
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Whatever you do…def ask a bunch of “online experts” what they think…I’m sure that will do the trick! Btw since you asked, I’d say get in the kitchen, get to cooking, when that’s done, go clean the house! If he’s still acting this way then go ahead & come over here & rinse & repeat! 
Ditch him and move on, plenty other fish out there
Didn’t you just divorce for the same reasons? There are worse things than being alone … like getting stuck with another dud. You don’t need the aggravation of raising him right at this late date. Let that boat sail away and wait for the yacht you’re entitled to… it’s on the way. Believe it and claim it. You will never have to wonder whether you are right or wrong with the right person. He’s not the one.
You don’t… Move on… Its time to go inside of self and repair and heal. Fix whatever in you, so you do not attract another him. Blessings in abundance:muscle:t4:
Get rid, bloke is a bum.
Sounds to me like you do most things on your own any way hun. If he can’t make the effort to have family occasions or to share moments with you as a family then is he really committed? He’s om to do things like fishing which to me is selfish if someone genuinely loves u they will make an effort to spend quality time etc. If he doesn’t want to be seen in public ect then maybe he’s up to no good doesn’t hinder ypur feelings you maybe feeling unloved an thinking he’s ashamed of you your not the problem here hun he is. He has issues he obviously isn’t discussing etc this is no way to live you only get one life be with someone who makes.you happy and gets involved in things be yourself around. He should be accepting you as you and not trying to change you
Leave him when it time someone will find u and treat u better
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schmeiss den raus …besser ist
If he’s treating you like that he prob has a chick on the side already and why would u wanna stay with someone who treats u like nothing
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Dont stay in a relationship thinking they will change, they wont ! Get out while the gettins good !!!
Boy this sounds familiar
If he’s going to be treating you like that might as well stay by yourself you work what do you need him for.
Out tell.him.donr.let door.hit but.put.him.out
If you’ve already gone through a divorce, then doesn’t some part of you recognize that you won’t tolerate a miserable situation. Misery comes in many shapes & sizes and you deserve to be completely free of them all. Focus on you and your kids. Period.
You already know you don’t. Time to move on.
Leave lifes too short to put up with this shit wtf
I think you already know the answer.
Leave him. Its not worth it.
He was ok for a time in your life, but now he gotta go. Pack your stuff and bounce.
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He do not want you, Get the hell out.
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Do you want to live in HELL with your children? You made another bad choice, STOP NOW.
Run girl and run fast .Do not subject your children to that…And You’re teaching them how a woman should be treated. That for sure is not the way…
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So why are you still with him then
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Leave him where he’s at cause if you dont your gonna be miserable and the kids will be to.
God will send you an awesome husband but you gotta let that scum bag go first
Life’s too short to waste your time on men who don’t deserve you! Trust me its better being single!
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You can’t change someone who doesn’t want to cha ge
Girl you have the answer leave him alone l you could do better than that come on there’s more fish in the sea .
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If you see the red flags enough to ask questions on social media, then it’s already over hunny. Best thing you can do is take you and yours and move on or kick him out. He sounds narcissistic and like he already has a side piece and you’ll start seeing it now that you’re not distracted by the divorce.
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No way. Run while you can. Let him find another caregiver.
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My ex was like that. They don’t change. And the longer you put up with it the worse he’ll be. We never went anywhere together either. I was never appreciated. I say you deserve better. I now have a man who adores me. The grass is greener I promise
I don’t understand why females are not taking charge and getting on with their lives wo an ass in their lives? Why post on social media ranting and complain… to play a victim roll? You are choosing to deal with this situation by staying in it. You need to start making an exit plan. Start with cost of living and find a job to get that met. Since you don’t have but 1 child not w him for now that is an easier route to exit and not have to have that person around any more. May I also suggest a codependent therapy. Be surprised by how much that will set you free and in charge of your own life and decision making skills.
Get rid girl wtf why you taking this bs wake up get some time for you and then god will bless you with a real man
You just answered your own question:roll_eyes:
Leave him love more stones down o the beach
How long have you been engaged. Because to ME that seems to be his shut you up game. Why buy the wife when you get the maid for free
WALK AWAY NOW. You will become a shell of a person. If you already not. I have been there.
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I feel like you already know the answer. If you need a sign, this is it. Leave him
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I had a relationship like that minus the step children. I’d leave now he’s not going change. Treat yourself and your child to the life you both deserve.
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After 7 years and you haven’t learned anything, A hobo would treat you better
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Marriage won’t change him. . .you can’t change him & he doesn’t appear to want to change
So leave him & don’t look back. I don’t understand what or why u are even on here asking? Just do it already & move on.
Make a plan for leaving and stick to it
Then don’t. Don’t waste anymore time with this dick
He is a Narcissist get out while you can
You don’t have a boyfriend, you have an activity partner. Stop wasting your time. Being single is fine.
His a wasteman me I would put him down
You don’t trust me walk away. He will never change.
Either put up with it or dont. It’s not a hard decision.
I feel you already know what you should do. If you say your child in a similar relationship what advice would you give them. I think you should leave. Being single can be boring but being with someone who treats you mentally breaks you down.
We all teach people how to treat us by what We Choose To Accept
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