I think you answered your own question.
If your gut is telling you that you canât be happy with this man, even though youâve tried your best to save the relationship it has to be a 2 way street. If he doesnât pull his weight it wonât work no matter how hard you try you wonât be happy x
Narcissist, he will never change find someone else. I understand your situation all to good.
Your a maid and babysitter basically⌠You said it yourself, you donât know IF you want to spend the rest of your life with him⌠Your right it will never change⌠You deserve better and only you can make that change⌠Do you want your child growing up thinking that is what a real man is??? Our children repeat what they are taughtâŚ
Pack his stuff and show him the door, happiness is priority, get out while you can x
I was married to a jerk who had no time for his own children and was always âsorryâ when I called him on bad and selfish behaviorâI left and my counselor told me that to continue a relationship with him is enabling him to continue his behavior. GET OUT NOW
The way I see it, you have two choices: decide you can live with it and stay because heâs never going to change or walk away and find someone who treats you with respect.
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UhhhâŚWhy are you his fiance? Youâre opting for a world of hurt.
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You do not and you already know that. So leave and concentrate on your child and your self. You will be alot happier
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You ask for advice take life is short love your child and run the clown
Heâs got two kids. Let him fish 
with them
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Youâre better off alone by yourself then alone in a relationship
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Your last statement says it all⌠You donât know if you want to spend the rest of your life like that. Why should you? Do you feel loved? Appreciated? Are the kids happy with this man acting as if he doesnât care? You deserve better!! And so do the kids!!
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Sounds like he doesnât want a relationship with you! He wants a second mom for his kids so he can do what he wants! Leave be happy with your little one. Believe me this life is to short for BS!!
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get rid what a prat 
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He is showing you who he is. Believe him. Leave and donât look back.
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Leave now before itâs to late
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Donât know what youâre moaning about
When you see red flags pay attention to them . You deserve someone better and hopefully you wonât wait till your old and wasted your life with this person. But be careful itâs crazy out there
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Youâre boyfriend isnât rude. Heâs just not your boyfriend. Itâs clear if you think this is a relationship, you need to be in your own to learn what a real relationship is about. Thereâs no love, understanding, clear communication, thoughtfulness, care, togetherness. Nothing. No elements of an actual adult relationship.
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You know what to doâŚget out
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Should of left him last year when he acted that way.
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I know you wonât listen, but here goes. Dump him. He is a selfish loser who will never change. You will be starved for affection and attention that he will never give. He will NEVER change, so YOU have to. Do not delude yourself into making the HUGE mistake of marrying this ass clown, thinking he will change. He will NOT. And this will fuck up your kids, too. Get out, get a life, and find someone who will appreciate you, and treat you right. You deserve better.
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Your last sentence is the answer to your question why would you want to stay with that person
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Kick his ass to the curb before it starts affecting your mental health. This man is selfish and Psychologically abusive.
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Sounds like you already have your answer. Heâs not treating you with respect or like a partner. Get out now.
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End it today and start a new real life, you are wasting a valuable life of you and your child and you are not a very good example for your child to follow
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Get rid of him girl, donât settle for that. You deserve better
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I have my own troubles, leave me alone
UhmmmmmâŚthis one is easy. Tell him you want out. You already know how you want to be treated. Anything less than that would be a good reason to leave. Dont spend your life unhappy! You deserve more. Especially after 7 years. Dont waste another day.
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Dont do it âŚdodge a bullet love âŚhe will never change âŚhe sounds like a pig
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Time to ditch him. You can do better or just be better off withOUT him.
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Why would you put up with that?
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Si tĂş quieres vivir asĂ todo tu vida! It ok. Pero si tĂş quieres ser feliz! Junto a ĂŠl no lo vas a ser . Suena como que el estĂĄ contigo por lo que tĂş puedes dar. CocĂnale , atenderlo , cuidarles sus hijos. El no te quiere como tĂş a ĂŠl. No cometas el error ahora que estĂĄs divorciada de casarte con el. Ese hombre no sirve. Eres independiente. Sal de esa relaciĂłn pero ya. VerĂĄs que a la vuelta de la esquina aparecerĂĄ un hombre que si te valore como tĂş te mereces. 
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If you are not safe and happy with him what you are waiting forr ?! Its you fu**** life enjoy it !! Id rather stay alone instead living this life find someone that deserve you !!!
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He has not changed in 7 years hes not going to find some one respects you and wants to have fun times as a famliy
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Been time to go, Tell him to hit the road Jack!
He promised heâd change but he didnât this is so common donât believe another word he says leave and make a life of your own good luck
Life is too short,move on with your life.
I feel like this is obvious, but just leave. Heâs an asshole and most likely wonât change. He thinks he can get away with it, thatâs why he hasnât changed his behavior. Quit wasting your time and DEFINITELY do NOT get into a marriage with this man. That will only solidify the fact he can do whatever he wants and you wonât leave him. Really everyone deserves better than this. Iâd rather be alone than treated like that and not have a partner appreciate me or the things I care about doing. Best of luck to you. Know your worth, and your kids worth. They deserve more than someone who couldnât care less about spending time with them and doing the fun things kids want to do.
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You just got divorced and want to get into another relationship? Be single for a while and enjoy your life. Heâs just tolerating you because he needs a mother for his kids.
Believe me you have to see your worth first before anyone else. If you value yourself then you should know that if you donât then neither will he or any one else. You take a good look at your self and say does he value me and my child or am I better than that and can find someone who truly loves you and wants to be a family or just someone whoâs there when he wants them to be. He selfish and doesnât stick to his word. You have to make the choice. I was in your shoes and I took a good look at myself and said I deserve better than this. Love is a two way street. You also have to consider yor children do they deserve this. Good luck! and prayers for guidance for you and your children.
7 years? Damn! Find a new, better version of a boyfriend. He wonât ever change. And do it soon, the children are watching.
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Leave his sorry ass at the fishing hole. You deserve better!
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If you so unhappy get out
Relationship are work . Itâs not all flowers and sugar. You made your bed now sleep in it or get a new comforter
Part ways, you need someone who treats you well and makes an effort for things that are important to you and your family. Be happy in life, find someone who makes you laugh, life is too short
Hell no. Get out now asap. Not worth it. Go be happy!!
Leave they do not change or put up with
You are worth more then that , dump him , xx
A leopard does not change his spots no matter how much you try. You must be true to yourself, your hopes , your happiness, and ambitions. You have a child who will see and remember your trials, tribulations and successes. God bless !
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Dump him and move on.
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Hun ur seeing alot of red flags so its time to leave if u still have to be questioning his behavior
I think you answered your own question with your last sentence 
Heâs toxic just leave soon you will be depressed thinking you arenât good enough because the way he treats youâŚif he cared it would have been a change on his own not a constant reminder from you⌠leave and never look back good luck
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I think youâve said it
Hes not going to change x
Get rid. Sounds an ass hole.
Itâs not healthy to be in a relationship like that get out and meet someone eles
You deserve so much better let him go he wonât change
You got your answer you now have to make a choice ether way you have to live with it we can only adivise
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7 yrs fiancĂŠe donât wanna go out with always pointing finger at you. Girl get up out of there nothing will change. You got too much life to live and love to give its a waste
Move on you deserve better
Is there anything good that youâre getting from this guy? Doesnât sound like it to me. Youâre not married. Cut your losses and move on. It sounds like he was shopping for a babysitter not a partner.
Sounds like a yank shoot him. 
Red flag 
are waving and they are saying run run as fast as you can this is how how you should be treated or how a relationship should go
You just said it! You donât want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that, you donât want to put your daughter through that so move on and make a better life for both you and your daughter 
âWhat Iâm getting at is I donât know if I want to spend the rest of my life with someone like thatâ
Babe you just answered your own question⌠throw him in the bin and realise your worth
Hello; you really need to ask??? your choices of cement is no home builder. Scheez!
Iâd like to know how long heâs been this way. If heâs always been like this, heâs never going to change. Get out. Be happy with your daughter. Hopefully youâll find someone a lot better in the future. Good luck!
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Donât make it 8 years
Heâs cheating on you heâs a narcissist donât waste no more of your years on him if a man love you or anyone loves you itâs not hard to comply itâs not hard to make you feel good itâs not hard to communicate itâs not hard to join in with his family heâs there for your benefits and your benefits only he doesnât go out of public because he doesnât want his side piece to see that heâs happy or heâs doing something with you that he said against you look at this signs look at that actions pack your clothes and leave is start your life and find someone that loves you wants to be with you and wants to make a honest woman out of you. If you got to ask you already know!!!
You answered your own question, âYou donât know whether you want to spend the rest of your life with someone like thatââŚThat right there is your answer, I would call it a day unless you want to spend the rest of your life unhappy and believe me you can start over no matter how much you think you canât you really canâŚ
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Heâs just a boyfriend get the hell out unless u like being treated this way donât say I canât afford u will find away if u want out
Get rid of him. Heâs a self serving narcissist. Is this what you want your life to be? Heâs doing those things because he CAN.
you already know the answer to your question
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Let me help you out with the answer. No you dont! Get rid of him! Find a church and start going. Get right with the Lord. Everything else will work out fine
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You know this is not good i can tell by your post and its not going to get any better so my advise to you is walk like now or put up with him treating you like a floor cloth but then you cant complain coz you have give him the ok to do it ive walked in your shoes you only have 1 choice believe me
Sometimes you have to know when to move on. Now is THE TIME.
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Sometimes your heart knows itâs not right âŚif you have to ask complete strangers what to do youâve already answered your question⌠You deserve the happiness and love you are willing to give find the person you so deserve 
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Why Do You Continue To Punish Yourself ???. Relationships are based on Truth & Trust & Respect !!!. Why would you settle for less ???. You canât Love enough for TwoâŚDoing The Same Thing Over & Over AgainâŚAnd Expecting A different ResultâŚIs What ???. 
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DONT life is too short to be with a Miserable piece
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Think of your child as well like they are saying you know the answer
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Bin him hes a knob head
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Get rid of him for goodness sake
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If you read this written by some one else ⌠you would shutout hes toxic will never get better or change get shut now before he drags you down, believe me I have been there and it will get worse and that shit is not worth it
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Get out now! I lived like that for years and Iâve now finally met my prince who treats me with the utmost respect and loves me unconditionally. There are good men out there so donât settle for less. Good luck!
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You answered your own question. You just need the push and somewhere to go.
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Heâs not going to change! Either you except it or say good bye!!
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Get out while the gettins
ditto get rid of him
Heâs not going to change, move on, you and your kids deserve better
You state you both work. Do you have separate accounts. If you are considering leaving, make plans. Have your own $. If youâve been living together for 7 years how are all the children going to deal with another break up.
If he is not violent with you or the children, get counseling and see if there can be change if not try to work out an exit strategy.
Hun my first thot was âget ridâ. You can do so much better for yourself even if itâs being by yourself. Reminds me of my ex. Ie. Came home work one time and was talking about mi day. His response - i donât want to know. Well I tell y now I wish I had known instead staying for 16 years. I donât believe they can change but maybe thatâs just me. You stay well and take care xxx
You already know the answer. Now you need to close this chapter and start a new one. Listen to your mind & heart.
Fuck him right off the prick 
You answeredâŚsay good bye, have a nice life and then get on with your own life,
Get rid of him you want to live the rest of your life like this
Hell no! Been there done that!
When you star talking about the situation is because you know the answer!! Move on !!! Next please !!!
Leave him then pretty simple