Get out while you can.
get away now he wont change
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Doesnât seem very affectionate or friendly, you deserve to be happy too x
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Stay single for awhile.focus on yourself & daughter
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No mama , leave while you can . You have no strings right now , donât wait for one to come out . You can find someone better that will treat you better , that wants to spend time with you and your girl 
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If you donât want to spend the rest of your life with that then why did you make this questionâŠleave him. Kick him out. Whats the issue.
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FiancĂ© for 7 years. Yeah yâall arenât getting married.
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Heâs no good to you. Run and donât look back
If you have to question it then you already know what you have to do, do whatâs best for yourself and little one
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You deserve so much better,he is being disrespectful towards you,you are better off just you and your kids x
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Get rid of him it doesnât get better it gets worse!
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He doesnt respect you as a woman, he thinks he can treat you like shit and get away with it, it cant work without communication and if hes saying youâre dramatic everytime you try to talk to him then thats not considering your feelings before his actions, or feeling remorse for when he hurts your feelings.
Theres no romance in your relationship, ans you dont need to settle for less than you deserve, let him be somebody elseâs problem. You deserve better!!!
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He does not sound very nice,if he wonât do any family oriented things with you or the children,then he really isnât worth your time and effort.
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Rudeness once itâs nature , it becomes their personality , sometimes the only way to put them in their place is , a harsh blunt honesty in a way of an insult
Fump him he will never change
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Leave him.
Fact you wrote this tells me that you know what you need to do. Neither your ex or this man is suitable for you . A man that loved you would have been over joyed at your divorce and would want to go out on days out with you alone , and with the kids
He sounds 
âŠstay on your own a bit find yourself, then you will find someone that you deserve.
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Exit while you have a chance. Donât appreciate you or relationship! Life is to short to put up with bullshit.
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Get rid of him. Do what is best for you
Counseling. If he refuses I would be moving me and my kid out. You deserve better and so does your kid. Life is short donât waste time with someone who treats you like that.
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Hun, youâve already did the divorce thing. Why do it again? Leave!
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Leave sooner than laterâŠ
I only got half way through ur postâŠleave him!
Why are you even with him?
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Leave he is not worth the pain he is causing you.
Naw too much trouble stay single then you dont have to put up with others bs
I wouldnât stick around.
Move on girl you deserve so much more
RUN, why stay when your obviously not happy ??
Why are you still with him? Run far and run fast.
Nope! My ex was like that, too! Then he found someone who would take his crap and kicked me n his 4kids out. If he isnât kind and loving as your partner and a father, why bother?
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Run now save yourself
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Just get out now ⊠While you can ⊠No one should be treated like this âŠso sorry you are dealing with this ⊠I pray you find happiness
Donât. Pack your things and leave. The âIâll changeâ thing gets said way too much, and never happens. If you want someone who is going to do family things, he does not seem like the guy for you, he only seems worried about what he wants. And when you tell him what he is doing and he tells you that you are being dramatic or whatever that is gaslighting. Go, go, go!
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Time to put yourself first and set an example for your child â Itâs time to go.
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Um lady you arenât happy ! Tell him you are going to leave or have him leave. Thatâs not cool.
Heâs literal trash. Like an all around shitty person and you should seriously find someone better than him
Why do you tolerate that nonsense?! Bye Felicia!
Ruuuunnnnnnn Girl R.U.N. THATS IT THATâS ALLL. You can keep talking and talking and talking his ear off . A man will change for the woman he wants thatâs the truth find you a man crazy about you 
You WILL find him those amazing men are out there .!
Leave! They only get worse (I know it doesnât seem possible atm, but they DO)
Donât entertain this shit, leave.
He said it himself, leave him alone. Donât put your kids through his mess.
âRest of your lifeâ? Why are you even thinking that far ahead, you should question why you want to even spend the rest of the week with that waste of time. Grab your daughter and get the hell out of there.
you canât change him only yourself, leave before you have wasted any more time being unhappy, he doesnât care but you should, love yourself and take care of you
Plain and simple, leave.
Of course you know you donât want to spend the rest of your life like that
Drop him like a hot potato. U donât need that aggravation.
Get the heâll out you are better than that.
Do you have a child with him? If not, move on. People ignore red flags thinking they will change. 7 years is your lesson not a blessing.
he sounds like a narcissist and if u marry him itâs just gonna get even worse. i say leave now!!! why would you wanna live w somebody like that and especially make the kids live through it??? i know itâs hard to move on but itâs just gonna get even worse love. 
I didnât want to spend the rest of my life with someone like that and I left him 6 years ago. I still had to deal with him because we have a kid together but I didnât have to put up with his bullshit.
Words not matching actions is called manipulation. Refusing to be held accountable for it is called gaslighting. Probably best to leave.
you do not want to spend the rest of your life like that.
Narc. Throw the whole man away.
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Find better, it wonât be hard lol
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He sounds like a child. I would leave. Get the heck out of there as fast as you can!
Get rid of him - you donât deserve to be treated like this
Leave⊠Focus on yourself. Self love is so important!!! If your man is not hyping you and making you and your child feeling love and supported there is no reason to stay. Its going to be tough on you for leaving but focus on your happiness and your child. I been in your shoes and i feel 10x better loving myself then being knock down and unwanted for years
No you donât chuck him out the door
Youâre NOT married to himâŠstay that wayâŠ.
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You already wasted 7yrs n im sorry but 7yrs as a fianceđ€Šââïž he wont change no matter what, leave n go find happiness, even if your by yourself itâs gotta be better than wth you got now
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Marriage counseling might help and if it doesnât at least you can say you tried.
Heâs showing you who heâs always going to be, believe him.
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Iâd move on. Life is to short to be unhappy. Walk away with your head held high and and a beautiful smile on your face. Enjoy your life. Good luck.
Think about if that was your daughter and she came to you for the same advice. What would you tell her, then follow through. Sheâs watching. Sheâs learning. Sheâ may end up thinking its okay to tolerate because she seen you stay
Nope leave it doesnât get better but will get worse
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I always say⊠if your daughter was in your shoes⊠what advice would you give her? Take that advice and run with itđ
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7 years, I think it is time to leave
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i would have left a long time ago hes never gonna change because he dont want to change 
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CounselingâŠâŠ relationship counseling⊠does he drink or smoke? Maybe heâs doing something that is altering his state of mind?
You are barely finishing up a divorce from and ex and have been with the next already 7 years⊠Huh?
Maybe it would be a good idea to take some time for yourself and to be by yourself rather than focusing so much on being in a relationship? 7 years is too long anyway to tolerate being treated any less than a queen.
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your kids and yourself do not deserve that treatment. get out with the kids before they see worse
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Again??? Divorced recently! Why!? For Godâs sake! Leave! But you wonât! Your the rug heâs walking on! Make up and have made passionate sex! It goes on and on! Ugh hey just leave him!
Life is too short to be anything but happy
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Run like HellâŠyou can do bad on your ownâŠyou donât need any help with that.
Donât marry him, open your eyes, youâve been with him 7 years, heâs not going to change, if you cannt get the courage to leave for yourself, do it for your daughter( show her thatâs not how a man is supposed to treat a woman, if she was being treated like this Iâm pretty sure as a mother you would tell her to leave) you deserve better!
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Have a baby with him, marry him. Itâll change him 
whatever you do get pregnant by this prick.
Move on. Heâs not worth your tears.
I feel like I say things like this when Iâm upset, but when Iâm not upset, I see all the good in the relationship. The good should always outweigh the bad and only you can decide that.
You already know the answer.
You really want a lifetime of that? What advice would you give your best friend?
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I read the first sentence and was like NOPE! Please donât waste your life.
Is he the only man in your city? Sounds like a dickâŠ
I would of said no to the proposal if he was acting like that 7 years ago as well. Please donât waste anymore time or energy on him. Time to go 
LEAVE HIM. Donât live your life like that
You decide what you are worth. When you allow men to treat you bad, you are telling yourself and showing your children his verbal abuse is acceptable, and it is not. YOU are worth WAY more than that!!! Know your worth! 
Good luck!
Leave. You do not want to spend the rest of your life unhappy.
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Why is he your fiance if he acts like that?
You DONâT KNOW if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that???
Youâd do well to move on. He sounds like a jerk.
Take your daughter and change your life, do for you & your daughter & leave that life behind, was your ex as bad? Start anew it wonât get better with this one by the sounds, heâs not going to change.
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I think the obvious answer is to leave we all know that much. The real question you need to ask yourself is why have you stayed? Itâs always easier to tell someone to leaveâŠbut when youâre in the mess itâs easy to justify the âgood daysâ, âgood momentsâ the ânot wanting to have to start over with someone new feelingsâ. Once you are strong enough to know that you will create better days without them, amazing moments and youâll realize starting over with someone new who will actually appreciate you is the best feeling. Only you know when it is time to leave. Once you do youâll ask yourself why you stayed so long. You got this girl 
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âwhen people show you who they are, believe themâ
Itâs ok to leave people who disrupt your peace. Itâs ok to live by and love yourself. You have children youâre molding and this is not something they should see. Yes people change, most are all talk. Itâs very rare for someone to change and because youâve allowed him to treat you that way heâs got a pass to continue to treat you that way. I hope you leave.
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LeaveâŠheâs not changingâŠhe wouldâve done it alreadyâŠlife is preciousâŠyou should live it happy with your childâŠ
You know u need to walk away. So just do it.
Is this a real question? Heâs been your fiancĂ© for 7 years but you recently finalized your divorce!?! If he is not want you want or need in a guy or then get to gettin⊠The only person that can change things is you! Donât wait around for someone to change, you will be disappointed every time!
Whatâs the question here? You have NO reason to stay
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Girl, you said nothing good about him in the entire post. Just ask yourself, would I want my child with someone like this? You need to remove yourself and your child from this unhealthy relationship.
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Stop that. Leave him. Thereâs someone sis. Seriously
He sounds like a selfish prick. Who wonât change for no one! Babygirl run with your daughter
Heâs toxic and wonât change obviously. Save your time and energy. YOU DESERVE BETTER!!