From personal experience. NO! This man sees that you have goals, you have ambition and you have a desire to better yourself. Meaning he will just bum off of you like he does his parents. He wants to lock you down with marriage and kids as quick as possible to NOT allow you a way to escape him. There are SOOO many red flags already flown and thrown. We can all say it and see it, but it is hard for us ourselves to follow through with it, when they have narcissistic traits (like you have described to a T). Please continue your journey of growth, even if you have to do it single. Yes, being single SUCKS, but I would have done anything to not have made the mistakes I made with my ex, because I didn’t want to be single any longer. Stand your ground, stay focused, and please let that man go. He will “find a good job” but that will be temporary, then he will lose it when he has you where he wants you, and then “not be able to find a job again”.
Run, fast. Weird vibes, your life together doesn’t sound like it would end well. Save yourself while you can!!
He sounds like my babies father don’t do it this guy is manipulative.
Oof. You’re just a baby maker to this guy. Get out before he traps you
I mean right off the bat, you said he’s pressuring you…that tells you everything you need to know. You’ve been together a month ffs…run
If you don’t leave now it will end in a controlling relationship, you will be miserable . Leave before there are kids and marriage !
Some of these seem made up 
RUN and don’t look back
Am I understanding properly ?..youve met twice in a month and hes pressuring you to move, marry and have kids ?
Theres no shame in still staying with his parents or working for them. Especially if he will take that business over as his own one day…but you have a good life where you are…youre starting your own business. Do you want to give all that up for him ?
Only you can decide but it wouldn’t be me. Pressure from a man and not being willing to talk things out calmly is a big red flag for me .
If in doubt DoNot do it…
Major red flags, I would run
Tell him bye. You don’t want to take care of him the rest of your life.
Get rid, too controlling. Can you imagine what he would be like if you gave into him if he’s like this now? Your life would be a nightmare, you’d feel like you were in prison with no way out. I felt like that with my 2nd husband and eventually left him and he wasn’t as bad as this guy.
Move on and be happy with your life.
Please, DON’T ignore all of the red flags!!! I’m so sorry but he sounds like the definition of a loser and a douche. He already doesn’t respect your feelings about everything. He’s already showing that you guys are not compatible and want things in a different timeline than you do.
So, like everyone is saying…
RUN!!!
Save yourself the grief and don’t fall for his manipulation and desperation!
Run, Forrest run. 
Change yr number lol stop wasting your own time
Tell him to fuck off
You know nothing about this man after only a month and 2 visits. He’s o ly bring up marriage most likely because that’s the only way you’ll be intimate. If he’s like that after a month imagine what it’ll be in 6 months or a year or more. It will o ly get worse. Cut ties before you get any more involved.
If you have to ask, you already know the answer 
Walk away y’all are not in same place in life,he’s not the one for you.You’ll miss Mr.Right trying to make him it.Ask yourself if he is worth throwing your bussiness and the life you want away you will have your answer.
You’ve been together a month… why is this even a question.
Move. Change your phone #
Walk away fast, while you can.
This sounds like a zero drop everything get your hero you can find the right person out there they’re out there
Walk away change your phone number
He needs to man up!! It sounds like he wants a place to live and he sounds controlling. He’s not taking your feelings into consideration. I personally wouldn’t uproot.
Think about it !
Stay on your mission he is not ready, you will be the scapegoat to get away from his parents
Run. Cut all communication. That will turn into a bad situation.
Girl you need to get out of that relationship fast bc that’s just showing his true colors and seems to be a type of guy that likes to be in control of everything beings it’s only been a month and he is acting that way says alot about who he actually is
Omg leave him immediately
He’s not worth it. Dump him.
That’s an awful lot of red flags on his end. Also if the person is a good person that is stable and trustworthy, what would be the rush to marry them? They aren’t going anywhere. The partner I currently have, I’ve been with for 4 years and we still haven’t got married. We don’t feel the need to rush into it. When I wake up in the morning I fully trust hell be there, and be a good person for me, marriage or not.
If he’s pressuring you to get married after a month that shows he’s unstable, and doesn’t truly trust you either. Maybe even has ulterior motives. Him having no kids at all and insisting his partners do it a bit of a red flag to me, because he’s gonna use it to lock you down. Him having barely any income and the audacity to try to control you is another.
I’m saying this from the perspective of a woman who married a man who turned out to be abusive only a few months after I met him. Not taking the time to learn about him was one of my biggest regrets, because given the time, I would have learned he was awful.
Find a new guy that has his stuff together job, own place to live, car and isn’t a control freak and will love u just the way u are. Kids are precious but it doesn’t sound like ur ready for that. Ur getting ur life on track with work and getting ur own business. That’s great!!don’t give that up
Classic Narcissist. Run now!
You got your problems you don’t need his you think!
One month. You’re smarter than that
Narcissistic personality at its best. Run and do not look back.
Marriage after a month?
Sounds too controlling. If he was serious about you he would respect your views and give you more time. If he wants to live nearer to you perhaps he should move.
You’ve been single for too long and that has made some confusion if not poor decisions on what your perception of “ he’s a great catch” is.
He’s NOTa great catch!
Red flags all over that relationship!
Any man who wants to get married very quickly is extremely toxic and controlling. Beside the fact that he’s not respect you life plans and he still lives with his parents with no car.
Just run away! Don’t look back!
You seem to have received some good advice.xoxoxo. think about it.
A month ago?! Lmao Girl, hell no.
I wouldn’t commit to anything. I would take my time to get to know each other. He is in a big rush for a reason. Bet the having children is a line of do do.
Run fast and run far. All this after a month of dating? He is looking for a way out of his parents without doing any work. Run. Run. Run.
Run for your life. Many red flags!!!
If I was you id dump him, block him and move on, so many red flags here!
You deserve better than that
You better run away!
Seriously, follow your gut. You have instincts for a reason. I went on a first date with a guy that sounds like this and I’m glad I listened to my gut because he turned really stalker-y when we didn’t continue things and it scared me
If you are already seeing flags, it’s time to go. Looks like he wants a pregnant sugar mama.
RUN DON’T look back. Don’t even waste another second.
Run lady run. Seems to be immature and spoiled.
…… don’t even have to read it. 
You should go ahead and forget about him is my opinion.
Now imagine being tied to this kind of person for the rest of your life…please take advantage of seeing this gigantic red flag!
No no no girl you better get away from that one. Run Run
It’s been a month. Just stop contacting him, none of this is reasonable
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RUN!! Don’t look back!!
Tell him screw this im going home
“Besides this he’s really sweet and loving…” of course he is, if he showed all his red flags upfront you’d run away! If there’s this many already though, when he’s still on his good behavior, I’d be afraid of what red flags he hasn’t shown yet. No rational person that brings nothing to the table is in such a rush to marry and have kids with someone they just started dating. Sounds like he sees you as a cash cow, he sees that you have a good, financially stable future ahead of you and he wants to ride your coattails.
I would walk before it’s to late
Run and don’t look back! He does have a home, doesn’t have a vehicle, doesn’t have $$ or a healthy saving and he’s in his mid-30s?? Hell no, run girl run.
How is money tight for him ? He has no car , no house ? Too many red flags already.
Didn’t read it…. get out
Run for the hills he sounds like a nutter
Runn MAJOR
He is needy, you are not!
Don’t him pressure you into marrying to soon finish what ur dreams are first, when you think ur ready then get married and have a baby 
don’t rush into doing what ur not ready to handle babies are cute,but it’s a really big responsibility, if he really love’s you he will be patient, wait til ur ready good luck
He’s Not marriage material at this oiint
Run away quickly, very quickly
No more momma boys for me…he wants a person to take care of him and he has never grown up…he needs to GROW BALLS
I’m just concerned that maybe I read this wrong , a month together and only 2 trips ? But yet the talks have already turned to marriage and kids .
Obsessive possessive behavior disorder
Going to have it must have it bring it here give it to me it’s mine
Run as fast as you can
Get out. Now. I understand when two people are madly in love and both want a permanent relationship. But even then, 2 months is not enough time to learn about each other and how you are as a couple. If he’s pressuring you now, you need to realize that things will not be better down the road. I married my best friend, we’ve been together for 24 years. But things get tough sometimes. We’re still learning things about each other. Please don’t even consider this. Being alone is far better than being in a relationship where your needs aren’t considered. I wish you the best. Stay strong and believe in yourself. You deserve to be happy, safe, and comfortable in any relationship.