You need to get help mentally honestly.
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I can only say one thing how stupid are you
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I’m sorry but so many red flags here you deserve better . Know your worth hon . Takes more than speed to be a good dad . You can do this piss him off girl . Any man that lays hands on you ain’t a man
Sounds to me like your chasing the Rainbow. You know there is NO POT OF GOLD AT THE END. I hate to say it but honey your just an easy place to land when he has no other place to go. Kick him to the curb. And as for him pushing you around, that’s only going to get worse and probably more violent. You don’t need to put up with that crap. If it’s ok for him to see others, then what’s he going to bring home to you one day ( std’s ). And if he has threatened you if you see anyone else, well girl he thinks he owns you ! And by God you belong to nobody !!! Cut your losses, change the lock and get a restraining order put up. He sounds like the violent type. You need to put a stop to things before it stars. Good luck and Congratulations on the little one. Good luck with the birth and have papers for visitation. You will be in my prayers 
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He physically abused you by pushing you down while you’re pregnant. There’s really nothing to question here. He’s mentally and physically abusive. Get a protection from abuse order. Change your locks, your phone number and don’t let him back in. Period
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Uhm. RUN BITCH… Acts like he can do whatever he wants and you just have to suffer his consequences. Hurts you physically and mentally from what I can tell … Fuck that. Lock your doors. Get a PFA on his ass.
Sounds like my ex. You need to file against him if he wont leave before it gets worse. Talk to other domestic survivors and they will tell you the same. He thinks he owns you because its his kid… nope.
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He’s straight up acting that way cause, hate to say it, you let him. He knows he can get away with it. Put your foot down, change your locks, and tell him he doesn’t deserve even your time, if he wants to say baby than make him pay child support. Sounds like he’s on a control kick and once he loses that control he’ll probably go nuts and then realize the way he’s acting won’t get him anywhere
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Wow. Ok. So you know what I do here. Leave him, call the police, and get a RO against him for you AND THE BABY. If hes willing to hurt you while you’re pregnant he’s willing to risk his child LIFE, whose to say he wouldn’t hurt the baby after he’s born? A judge will give a restraining (protective) order for both you and the baby once the baby is born. He sounds like total trash. I had a man like this once. He was terrified of commitment and made me pay for it. He wanted me to himself but he could do whatever he wanted. He was abusive too but not like this. He lived with me and slept in my bed every night but told me.he was single. He called his money our money. He loved me in his own way and he wanted to be with me but I had 4 kids and he just couldn’t handle that. He was no father figure. At all. He had other women but he couldn’t stand the idea of me having another man… He liked having me do wifey duties for him, cook clean, take care of him, blow jobs, sex when he wanted it… but he never wanted the label. Were had a much better relationship when he had his own apartment and I had my own house. When he moved in it went downhill fast, like 30 days fast… You know what ended up happening? He left me when i needed him the most and he didn’t give one shit, I dropped him completely, wouldn’t take his calls or texts, stopped playing his games of being there for him when he wouldn’t be there for me or my kids. I moved on. Im happy. I have a great life, great kids, a great man. You know what happend to him?? He’s still alone, bounced from one girl to another and never found any connection like we had and never any girl that would love him like I did… hes old and alone now… addicted to drugs and living a sad tired life. He will never change. That type of guy isn’t any good for anyone. You deserve better. Your older kids deserve better. Your baby deserves better. I promise you he will never change for you. He will never he what you want or need him to be. Cut him off now before your baby is born. If he can change and get help for his anger then he can have a relationship with his son but not until then.
Run on sentences make no sense!???
Leave him get a better man or be single or be single til you get a new man even if that takes long or short doesn’t matter. Try a women’s refuge shelter for support and if you need to flea away from him for a place for your kids and you to stay if you own or are renting a place make sure you don’t let him in and tell law enforcement and have a safety plan . You deserve better you’ll get better for you and your kids 100% wish you well and you and your kids the best 
why you ask? because you let him, you let him walk all over you , he wants the benefits of a relationship he just doesn’t want the resonsibility of one. he is using you for sex, food and a place to sleep kick him to the curb and by the way start respecting yourself your whole onus should be on your kids by letting this guy walk all over you you are neglecting your kids love yourself first and foremost, love your children and stop having kids till your responsible enough to care fully for them
This guy is a fucking loser
He does it because YOU ALLOW him to he’s not gonna stop if you keep putting up with it he’s already abusive and it’s only gonna get worse
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He is using you bc you are letting him…move on.
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Girl there’s so many red flags here for him. You need to get an OP on him change your phone number & run like hell the other way. He’s already proven what kind of person he is
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What are YOU in love with? He sounds like a asshole
Kick him to the gutter!
Please just let him go, it will get worse if you continue to allow him in your life and in your childrens. I’m sorry you’re going through this. 
This is not how you should be treated.
Move on… yal were friends with benefits (he benefited more than you) and you got pregnant which caused him to “fall back”. It’s going to be very hard and emotional, but I’ll just co parent with him. The fact that he stays most nights, washes clothes, go and come as he pleases, and don’t help financially says enough about his character.