Run … that crazy … unplug the tv ?? Wow he’s crazy find a real man !!
Wtf??? Girl… leave… why even ask this question? And kinda dumb when it’s the same bill whether you use it 24hrs a day or 2. Just buy yourself a extra Wi-Fi cord. You’re allowing it to happen.
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Gps is accurate. He’s lying. He’s a control freak. And in a dangerous way. You need to get a sitter, get a job, and leave. Like tomorrow! Before he hurts you. Before you end up an episode on ID.
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Yuk! That’s one unhealthy relationship. He is just controlling you. Get out of the relationship, that’s just an awful way to live! I couldn’t even imagine my partner doing something like this and thinking it’s reasonable or ok. Please get out of this situation 
You are in a bad situation of dependency. If it were me, I would find a way to make money and save for myself and my child or you will have a long road ahead dealing with this. Go donate plasma, work from home, start babysitting other peoples kids anything you can do to earn some money if your own. If the decision was mutual for you to stay home and he was fair that’s one thing, but from your post it sounds like he is controlling everything. Best of luck to you and I do hope you find a way out, or you are not breaking this toxic chain for your child.
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Haha, go get child support on him and pay for the child care that way so you can work. That’s literally the dumbest shit I’ve read today. You are doing a job. You’re raising y’all’s child so he can bring in money to pay the bills.
Wow he sounds like a real jerk
Please leave. This is so sad to read.
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Hell to the NO, run! Control will only get worse the longer you stay!
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Leave now I was in that relationship for 12 years, i finally left I have extreme ptsd now
Omg how old are you??? This dude is a major control freak listen when he controls the damn TV there’s a serious problem and you need to wake up it’s only gonna get worse and you need to get independent real fast and get your butt outta there ih and gps pretty spot on usually so yea he’s in the bar and yea he’s at the casino wake up and get out
Financial Abuse,
Please call
800-799-7233
Or text
88788
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Girl u are not his door mat you and ur baby needs to get out of that house and move on . U can do a lot better on ur own then a piece of junk like that
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That is NARCISSISTIC behavior, I dealt with it for 8 yrs, Now I’m living my life the way I see fit as not under someone else’s thumb !
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Leave him but I’m sure you already know what you need to do
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Plan and leave his butt! That’s Abuse! No man worth that! Take your baby and go!!
Go to work! Pay for the sitter, get to earn your own money. Finances are hard so just quit being like “can’t leave my kid with anyone” attitude.
Leave! Thats controlling
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Run and don’t look back. You’re getting controlled. And that is going to lead to so much more bs. If you give any crap about yourself. Get out. I’m sorry to say it like that. But run
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Wow just wow!! Who is he your daddy? I don’t give a rats ass what he’s paying for! He’s a low down dirtbag and yes the GPS is right! Don’t believe one thing he says and quit acting so naïve . You should fig. Out what you need to do because he’s not gonna change. And please don’t let this man degrade you you are a strong woman act like one💕
Oh honey… you gotta get away as fast as you can. Do you have family you can stay with or a close friend who will help you get on your feet? Run baby girl.
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Girl those red flags are BRIGHT RED 
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Ohhhh noooooo take your child and run
Wow. Why aren’t you gone yet? When are you gonna open your eyes & stop being in denial?
Leave him he sounds abusive and controlling screw that if he doesn’t respect your title as a stay at home mom clearly then move out and get a job and you can qualify for childcare assistance as a single mother and go after him for child support, there is no way in hell I would ever want to depend on a man like him that sounds awful,
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What the actual fuck?! How could you remain in a situation like that??
You’re an adult.
Please reconsider the life style you live currently…! he has you on lockdown isolating you away from the world by financially abusing you among many other things you’ve stated! this is not okay. Please reach out for help, please please find the strength.
This is not a healthy relationship.
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You need to move on. Being a financial hostage is abuse. There is nothing to love here. Find a job, find a sitter and borrow money to pay the sitter for a couple of weeks from family or friend and get out of this situation.
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Have you watched “the maid” on Netflix? If you haven’t you need to. It’s a huge eye opener and it might give you some idea on what you can do to get out of this situation
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This is abuse. Oh my. Please find a way to get out. Figure out a long term plan if you have to.
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He is wrong. If you have any family you can stay with temporarily while you get on your feet. Leave him.
A womens domestic abuse shelter may also take you and your child. If they will -leave him.
What he is doing is abuse. It will only continue and get worse
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Wow definitely not normal behavior, you need to make a plan to leave him ASAP.
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You are in an abusive relationship. Time to leave.
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He is holding you hostage. Run!!
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I’d find a baby sitter get a job and leave! 

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Yep get out! It will only get worse
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Yup financial abuse is a form of DV. All about power and control. Please do your research and reach out to services in your area.
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Leave! Like yesterday!
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That whole paragraph is just a big ol red flag. He doesnt trust you, he’s controlling, he’s not being a fair or caring partner, please re-evaluate if your relationship is worth the misery and make an exit asap. This type of situation is abusive and will get worse.
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Does he lock the front door when he leaves too? Jeepers.
It doesn’t matter how much he pays for, it doesn’t mean he can treat you like you’re just a live in nanny.
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Get away from him , sounds borderline possessive, abusive , this sounds like a start to a controlling atmosphere, there’s help for daycare , take him child support court you can afford daycare get assistance , get a job , and get away , you should be treated as a equal regardless.
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Have you tried throwing the whole man away?
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You’re putting up with abuse… First thing is to find a job and tell him yes you’re hiring a babysitter… You sound like you’re in jail… Tell him time to level up and you’re not tolerating it anymore…
He’s full of crap, sneak and yes of course gps is accurate…
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That’s abuse. Control. Narcissistic. Leave him!!
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Notice you said boyfriend, not husband. Never rely on a boyfriend to support you. Get a job and get out.
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He is wrong. He is extremely controlling and ungrateful. It’s time for you to make a plan and get out of there.
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Honey you are in an abusive relationship and need to get out. Your are being controlled and I’ve been there. Find a shelter for you and your child to go too. Get out before it gets even worse.
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My fiancé is the only one who brings in any money and pays and we get almost no help at all. He’s never taken the WiFi away. Not saying we haven’t had our fair share of arguments about money and needs but at the end of the day he still gets what ever we need for this house and if we can’t get extra things he stresses it but has never made me sit with nothing to watch or do. You need to tell him he’s got to change. You need to leave if he doesn’t. That’s horrible to take things away from you and your child
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He is controlling you and that’s not how a relationship is, not a healthy one
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Omgh you poor girl, run, run and NEVER return!!! Unfortunately your circumstances are going to get worse and worse until he sees you as his equal, and that will NEVER happen. Plz take our advise, and plz take care, good luck God bless
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Wow girl run as fast as you can!!!
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You’re not wrong at all! This is abusive and wrong of him. Wow. I dont even know what else to say to you honey. But this is wrong and it will get worse.
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I’d pack my stuff and never look back again
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You need to pack up your child and get as far away from him as you can. He is financially abusing you and trying to control your life. I’ve been through this, and I promise it will only get worse and eventually turn physical.
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Omg get out of that relationship, the nerve to treat u like that meanwhile u have a baby 
it won’t take u long to get off your feet
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Girl 
(Love yourself, for you and your child)
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Girl leave. Major red flags
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Girl run. Run far and fast
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I wish a MAN would I stay home with me and my fiance’s 3 kids and he works Everytime he gets paid he gives me at least 160 a week if not more to get the kids whatever they need and whatever I need or whatever it may be he pays the bills but I’m home taking care of his kids which is harder then most jobs 
and to take the cord so even the baby can’t watch cartoons that’s real low down like he is basically using you as a free babysitter and his slave you better leave or put your foot down but of you like that treatment then so be it
This is financial abuse. He is trying to make you feel like you don’t contribute because you don’t have a job you leave the house for. But being a stay at home parents is a full time job you never leave. And him doing things like taking the wifi cord is absolutely gross. You need to find a way out for the sake of you and your child because this will not get any better. And as for the GPS location, it’s pretty accurate. If he had nothing to hide he wouldn’t have a problem with you seeing his spending. You need tonreach out to family, friends, or a women’s shelter to get help and get out. It’s financial abuse now, but it can turn really quick.
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he may not be putting his hands on you, this is still abuse- please leave that man.
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This is considered a form domestic violence! Financial abuse is real. Please find resources in your area that can help! Be safe and and be careful 
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You gave him too much control over you … girl get you a job & babysitter… then leave him … people treat their dogs better than that … you deserve better 
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You need to leave. He is a narcissist with full control. He is financially, emotionally, mentally and verbally abusive to you. If he can’t give you what you need to care for yourself and your child then you need to leave. Pack up and move out. He is only going to hold you back more an more to the point that you won’t be able to do anything without his permission. Get out now!
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Please leave immediately
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As long as you allow bad treatment, he will continue to do it. There’s always a way out, you have to be strong enough to use it.
You either need to keep dealing with it or get a job. He has made it quite clear that you should have a job.
He has complete control over you.
Gaslighting like whoa.
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The gps we have is very accurate. We use Life360 though, and I know exactly where everyone in my family is. (Pic is my husband right now). This relationship sound very very toxic!!
He’s a control freak narcissist. Get away from him
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Leave run thats abuse
This is not a healthy relationship and you don’t deserve the ways he treats you 
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Ummm get out of that relationship. That is toxic. I’m a stay at home mom and I have access to EVERYTHING and I can spend what I want (like hardly nothing ) and I get things that we need for the family. Talk to him and say if he doesn’t change then you will leave, he is treating you like you aren’t equal to him
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Honey, this is so unhealthy. If you’re able to, leave this guy. Go live surf family, get on your feet and never look back. I’ll be praying for you
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First off that financial abuse just leave him hes got red flags
You need to leave!!! Get out while you can
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That is all completely wrong. I’m a sahm and my partner clearly pays everything. I don’t ask for money, I am simply given it. You’re raising a child, you’re also doing work. You shouldn’t have any type of control tactics used against you. And honestly, I’d get a job and have someone close to you watch your baby so you can leave. This is all pointing towards a very bad future for you and your child.
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Get you n baby n go…don’t think twice…don’t look back you’re strong get away fast…prayers 
This is domestic abuse hun, he doesn’t have to hit you to be abusive. He is breaking you down piece by piece and controlling every aspect of your life you need to reach out for help and leave. I know that’s scary and hard but the alternative is worse. Please think about not only yourself but your child too, don’t let them grow up thinking this is the norm that this is what a healthy relationship looks like and ask yourself how long before his narcissistic abusive behaviour is turned towards your child.
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Leave you know damn well this is abuse….you’re not stupid.
Omg to even ask this is so sad hes controlling you so bad that is disturbing ,get out of there your agrown women not A child
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Ohhhh my dear. You can be a great mom prioritizing your children and never deserve this treatment. Please know this is abuse & control. No matter how many times you forgive it please know that many women with experience are truly trying to help you see this is Unacceptable. I pray you the strength to make a plan for you & your child.
He’s a liar and that’s abuse. I’d lose his ass
Hell nah. Leave him. Get a job. Get any assistance you can get including childcare. File for child support. Agree on custody\visitation however you need to and be done with that! That is a form of abuse whether you know it or not. He is controlling you. Not ok. It could also get much worse. Get out now. If you have family or a friend you can go stay with first thing even better. And throughout the years, he is going to try and bully you, scare you and anything else he can do to get his way and still have some type of control over you as the mother of his child. Don’t fall for it. Don’t let him do it. Stay strong and stick to your guns. Eventually find a good man that will treat you good.
He’s financially abusing you, leave him, it’s a way to control and belittle you and you deserve better than that. Getting a job won’t fix it because I’m sure the abuse will then manifest in another form. Leave, look into daycare assistance for your child, get a job, and move on with your life.
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It’s called financial abuse.
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Girl he sounds like he is being,mean and selfish. Go to work and make your own income, because if things don’t work put and he leaves what will you do? My mom said you should always have your own money. And he wants a dxmn receipt for groceries and dont won t you to work and don’t wont to pay for a babysitter. It sounds like he wants to keep you in one spot asking him for money from him with his cheap azz.
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Financial abuse , get outta there
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This is abuse. Run. Get your child and run. Far away from him.
Um, I’m sorry…WHAT?!?
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This is financial abuse hun. I’m sorry but you can’t let this go on, it will only get worse.
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Get out of that trap now!! Call 211 for help with rental assistance
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Girl leave him! That’s so wrong! Everything he does to you is wrong period! Leave!
Uh what the fuck. That is absolutely ridiculous. Girl u need to take ur daughter and go find someone who appreciates u
Watch Maid on Netflix, that is if you can hide that WiFi cord from him…
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Run. Run far, fast. Just go. That’s insane. Nope.
Someone please tell me this is a fake post because I can’t even imagine this is happening in RL
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My hubby was the sole provider for the first two years of my youngest daughters live cuz sitters wanted 200 just for her and another 100 for my oldest. I would be working just to pay sitter. My hubby never took any wifi cords or rubbed anything in my face. He made sure we were all taken care of.
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Seriously. Take ur kid and run. How is this even a question. Know you worth girl. He’s abusing his power
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