I can’t believe these controlling men still exist…it’s abuse. Please find a way out
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Everything is wrong… leave
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This is not normal behavior. He seems very controlling. I’d leave with my children and never look back. He can do everything hisself.
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Is this for real???
Dude
RUN!!!
This isn’t the 1800s.
Do insert horrible things I’d get banned for to him.
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Wtf… i dont work and stay at home w our kid my hubby works his ass of to GIVE us everything we need/want.
GET OUT NOW. This is not healthy this is not right. This is fucked. Wow.
Get out of this relationship. Get a job and make him pay child support. Make sure you include the babysitter fee in child support!!!
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Longer you stay, the harder it is to leave.
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GPS is very fucking accurate
You have a super control freak on ur hands, Girl!!
Get you & ur kid out now!!
It will only get worse…
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I’d leave him he sounds like a control freak! He’s wrong for treating u like that
Girl that’s a bad relationship get out it’s only going to get worse!!!
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Find someone you trust to watch your child.
Go back to work.
Get everything together to live on your own and RUN!
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sad my wife never had to work I wanted a wife not a partner
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That my dear is called financial abuse mental abuse there’s lots of help for you out there leave his ass
Sylvia Sanchez 
I’d run
Run and don’t look back!!.. you can seek housing and financial assistance to assist your child. Please think about your child, u deserve better!!!
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Dear Heart,
Where to start.
You need to think about your future. Not a future with him, but YOUR and YOUR SON’S future.
This guy you are with is trying to control every aspect of your life.
Just because he is the bread winner in this relationship does not mean that you should be treated this way.
Know YOUR WORTH!! Which means know how much you should value your existence.
How happy are you in this toxic relationship?
You have to know that this guy doesn’t love or respect you. Even if you are having sexual intercourse, please know that sex does NOT equal love.
You really do need to talk to someone who can help you out for awhile while you and your baby find a safe and loving place to stay.
Please get into some therapy and regain your independence.
These are just a few things, but do know, YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE THAN THIS SITUATION YOU ARE IN.
Blessings
Honey get out of that situation! Get a job and pay your own bills and get him for child support.
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I read this to my husband and he said, “he’s basically holding you captive”.
Girl… RUN!
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Financial abuse. Run. And never go back.
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You do work, it might be unpaid but being a mother and taking care of a home is a full time job. (He is a contour super freak).
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Girl get out of that situation asap…runnnnnnn
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Pack yours and baby’s stuff while he is gone. Take all important documents (social security, birth certificates, court documents) if you don’t have a court order file an ex parte motion for emergency custody of 2yro and go stay at a domestic violence shelter. This is a form of abuse. Staying in a domestic violence shelter you Cannot Give him your location and it is one place that you DO NOT by law have to disclose your location to boyfriend about. They have resources and can get you help. Do this asap.
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This is a form of abuse.
This is not right.
What you allow is what will continue.
Leave.
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Are you actually asking if this is wrong? Please help yourself and your child and get out of there. You get a job and assistance and tell him to go f*** himself. You’re better than this. Stand up girl. 
No way in hell I would tolerate that nonsense even once.
Girl LEAVE!!! That’s a control freak and a narcissist and you’re being played!!
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The GPS is accurate and you should have never put yourself in that position to be dependent on a guy you aren’t even married to.
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Leave his ass NOW! He is controlling you. You work just as hard as he does, if not harder. Just because he’s leave the house and earns money does not mean all that money belongs to him and only him. The money is for the entire family. Girl get out now!
Wow…just wow. You need to get a job and leave him. He is treating you like a child, that is so incredibly wrong and toxic.
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Get out now. It’s not gonna get any better🙏
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Get away from him as fast as you can. He is a controlling, manipulating tyrant. You and your child deserve to have your necessities. Food, clothing, a washing machine. You are being held hostage by this evil man.
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He is a controlling SOB, your relationship is not about love for each other or your child. It’s about him controlling every single part of your life. Please wake up and find the groups, organize in your area that can help you and or trusted family members. I honestly fear for you and your child. He is controlling you this much how will he be with the little one as he/ she grows up? Think of your child PLEASE that’s not a healthy environment for you or your child. Get out, be smart and safe doing it.
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Please take your child and leave him
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Now this is one of the situations to where I will say it time to go. Can was all say RED FLAG 
AND NARCISSIST
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Are you paralyzed? You sound like you are? Get up and leave! Walk the hell away! Tell him to go work at a prison? That’s how he treats you! You need help!
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What are doing there?..….Run as fast as you can……he’s a loser.
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Run and don’t look back
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I’m sorry, but this is so very wrong of him. I’ve been a stay at home mom for 22 years. I do everything except the yard work, and sometimes I do that. My husband knows how hard I work at home, including homeschooling our kids. He has never treated me like that. You and your child deserve better. Hugs mama.
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You need to run away! That’s super controlling and toxic. Keep safe and leave. Stand up for you and your baby! You don’t deserve that.
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Too controlling!
Move in with a family member or find a babysitter for daytime and get a job.
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Umm you’re not his roomate. When someone shows who they really are, believe them. This is awful and no quality of life… get out girl! You and your baby can make it and you can go do anything that you want in this world. You only have one life to live! The first 2 years or so will be a rough adjustment but ask for help from those you trust. Also, you can request a case worker to help you find housing, get food stamps and job placement in the interim. You may even qualify for a daycare stipend.
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Oh h3ll no. I’d be having some WORDS with him! 
I’d go swipe swipe swipe the card on whatever I wanted after that , and then carry the stuff in and burn the receipt in front of him and tell him if that’s how it’s going to be you’re not going to be there.
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This is financial abuse.
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You are wrong because you are allowing him to control you. You have low self esteem and think you can;t make it on your own. You can!!! But you need to get a part time job so that you can go to school for some kind of training for a job. So that you don’t need an a hole like him. You could take training on the internet . Don’t you have any family that could help you a little until you get trained? Or how about a waitress or retail job. You need to get away from this guy, You deserve more than that.
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What he is doing to you is abuse. You need to get out and FAST!
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Sooooooooo MANYYYYYY RED FLAGSSSSSS!!! Girlll noooooo none of this is okay !!! None of it !!! He’s crazy!!! Leave himmmm !! So many men out there. I cannot believe my eyes. Like seriously what!!!
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My friend, this does NOT sound like a healthy or safe situation for you or your child. Please consider what’s best for you both, because this truly isn’t it. This is incredibly controlling behavior, and if you and your child are being denied basic needs because he’s refusing to release the necessary funds, that is flat-out abuse. Please contact local woman’s groups, churches, counselors, anyone you can seek advice and assistance from, and work to get both you and your child out of that situation. This isn’t safe or healthy.
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Thats not a relationship, that’s ownership, know your worth darling 
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Damn everyone done said it already… Get yourself out this lifestyle asap! You can be serious and save up and be out.
He is wrong. That is abuse. You aren’t his property, you’re a human being. My first husband used to do the same, and he’d put a keystroke logger on the computer so he could track everything I typed, passwords included. The best thing I ever did was get away from that. Run far away and do not look back. This man is garbage. Throw it out.
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You and your child need to leave his narcissistic arse.
Just Wow! Sounds very controlling. It maye be time to consider leaving. This is mental and financial abuse. Wishing you all the best. Maybe not do his laundry, cook for him or anything that you do just for him. He may realize then your time at home with your guys child is an important role as well. You still work . Taking care of a child is hard work. I have a 2 year old and its hard work along with trying to keep a house clean and have cook ready. Some days the house is up to my eye balls with things meeding yo be done.
Call daycares and line up job interviews.
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Get a job, find a sitter that will take what you can afford and save til you can Leave him! EVen if you were to pay for anything he is NOT GOING TO GET ANY BETTER. He’s lying to you and out doing things in bars and casinos behind your back on top of it. He’s treating you like total garbage and you don’t deserve it!!! Save and leave, or stay with a family member and find a job. Just get out of there. People do not treat each other like this, and people who love one another sure don’t treat each other like this!!! Ps…gps is 100% accurate more than 90% of the time!!!
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Wow! A real control freak. You are NOT a second class citizen. You need to somehow get away from him. Plan ahead. Find a job. Maybe you can swap babysitting with another single mother. (That’s what you are. A boyfriend is just that - a boy ). Check about child support. You can do so much better!
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Leave. Unless you have some crazy cable/internet company that charges by the hour, it doesn’t matter how much tv you watch in a day, it’s paid for regardless if you watch 10 minutes or 700 hours in a month. He almost would have an argument if he was worried about the electric, that at least fluctuates month to month with usage, but even that is obnoxious and borderline abusive.
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Buy a spare one with is money. Show him your not stupid. If that doesn’t work use your wifi of your phone.
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Run girl. Don’t walk BUT RUN LIKE HELL and never look back. This is abuse and it isn’t right. Please get you and your baby away from this man child.
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Girl he is TOXIC AF!! This is red flags everywhere!!! Controlling AF!! I’m sorry but how are you even allowing him to treat you this way???
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Oh girl…take your baby and leave this narcissistic a-hole while you can!
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My jaw dropped when I read that he takes the Wi-Fi cord and that you aren’t allowed to watch tv at night. And the food thing…heck no. That is abusive and controlling. I guarantee if you were to get a job, he would still behave that way. It will always be something…it will be that you don’t work enough or make enough or your job isn’t hard enough.
Girl, find you someone who values you.
A GPS can mess up once or twice. But it’s not going to continuously “accidentally” put him at the same bars and casinos over and over
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The advice I’m giving to you is the same advice I should have token with my ex and that is RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN.He is going to get worse as time goes by and I’m sure you have already seen it.PLEASE GET OUT what he’s doing is abuse and he’s a narcissist and will turn into your worst nightmare.This is not love I’m sorry to say any of this but it’s true.What you also need to know is what he does to you he will eventually do to your child…DONT put you and your child through a life like this…Keep Texts,emails, voicemail of everything for proof just in case.Tell someone of what’s going on be honest so there is a record of you telling someone.You may think me and others are exaggerating but we have lived it and it and we’re able to get out please take this advice.Get all the information you can and send it to someone and have them keep all the texts you send talking about how he’s treating you and your child and how your feeling about it.Erase those texts so he doesn’t see them.GET OUT ONCE YOU HAVE THAT DONE.
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Very very abusive. It will only get worse. Trust me it WILL.
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That is 100% financial abuse and is not okay.
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What can you do? Get a job and leave his ass!
Giiiirrrrlllll… leave
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Why are you even with him? And don’t say love because he obviously doesn’t love you. Leave, on a freight train, on a boat, on a plane, or in a canoe just leave!
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Girl he’s literally abusing you. Take your kid and leave while he’s at work, literally do it when he’s at work because he absolutely will not let you leave. Gather family and trusted friends to help you get out safely and as soon as possible. He is 100% abusing you!
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Is this for real? You’re literally being emotionally and psychologically abused…daily. Why would anyone put up with this? Find another stay at home mom you trust…ask for childcare help and get a job…any job and get out of there…like yesterday 
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Omg leave him and file for child support sorry but that’s crazy
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Jesus…
RUNNNN
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Sounds like he is doing everything to try to get you to get a job.
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Girl take your child and get OUT of that relationship… yesterday! So sorry you’re dealing with a POS like this!
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Get t f out, pffft he is shady as f, narcissist, abusive, for ur sake and ur child’s u need to find a way to leave.
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the fact women and men deal with these abusive relationships is so sad. private message me and I will buy you clothes!
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Leave that man now and don’t look back. If that means getting a job then do it…but if you have somewhere you can go get out now. The red flags here are so scary.
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Get out Please I put up with it 15 years, 2 kids ( & 2 miscarriages) Narcissistic Asshole!! Had me so messed up, 
NOBODY DESERVES THIS!! I WISH I HAD THIS GROUP TO TALK WITH YEARS AGO:pray:
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Please take your child and run. Please.
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I read all of 3 sentence and don’t even need to read the rest to tell u he’s a controlling psycho and unless u want to get stuck in hell for yrs like.me, leave now
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This is a hard fucking no. He’s controlling and this is abuse.
Hes a controlling narcissist. Run now
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Take your baby RUN!!! As fast and as soon as you can pack up your things and the babies things and leave!!
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Umm no. I’d be damned 
You know this is bad that’s why your here posting this! You know that you need to get out! EVERYONE on this post is telling you it’s clear af!! It will only get worse!!!
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Spent your night, while he’s working, packing and moving, you and your child’s things out!! He’s a control freak and this is not right!! This is abuse!! Do not allow this!!
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Run. Run fsst its sbuse. He is isoclzting you. It wont get better
You have 1 of 2 choices. 1. Leave like everyone is saying. 2. Get a job, find a sitter you and your child can trust. Save your money then Leave when you are ready to leave.
It’s never easy getting out of any kind of abusive relationship. It takes time to plan safely. I know from experience.
Get yourself together and take control over your life. Stop walking on egg shells around him. Stop relying on him altogether. If you decide to stay and continue to put up with this living situation, then you set the wrong example for your child and you may/may not consider yourself dead.
Don’t let him figure out about you working. Use a different name. Explain your situation. They will help you. If you have family to stay with please do.
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Sounds to me like financial abuse. You might want to reconsider your living arrangements
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He is controlling and he is wrong My second husband was the same exact way Get out of all that
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This is flat out abuse… sorry girl 
please find somewhere safe for you and your baby.
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That is control and abuse. Please get yourself and your baby out because it only gets worse and more aggressive.
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Get you a job and work on getting out of there
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Call a woman’s refuge and get out!!! He is a controlling abusive man , making you trapped at home giving you no choice!
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Girl you should get out of there like yesterday
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This is financial abuse. Also kind of mental with the way he toys with you by taking the wifi cord. Is he fuckin 14?! Jesus. Your poor child is going to get a really unhealthy ideology of relationships if this stuff continues and when it escalates, which it always does.
Get out, asap.
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Get out of this relationships
You are being used,get out,take the baby and go to family or abuse center. They will help you.Get a job,get some training,take care of yourself and your baby. Don’t ever depend on a man again.
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