My boyfriend will not get a job and we have a newborn: Please help

Get out go back to your family

Do not turn your back on your family
Leave him he will not change

Leave him and go back to your family

Please get out on your own for u an your baby, if you are the one working an paying for everything . What do you need him for, you will be fine if u let ur family help. Im sure they love you . this is just my opinion. GOOD LUCK!

He obviously doesnt genuinely love you back. Know your worth!

Why do u love him??? Sounds like nothing to love.

Run, you do it alone anyway. He is baggage.

That is not love… you can’t help him if he can’t help himself! Always remember you can do bad on your own, you don’t need anyone to help you! Might sound mean but get you a real man instead of a leech! A real man is going to bend over backwards for you and love you in ways you could never possibly imagine! Good luck❤️

WTH are you torn about. Your kid comes first. Get a lawyer!

Get out now! You need to do what’s best for your baby. You will get over him and you will be able to provide a better life for you and your daughter without him.

Leave that lazy bum worrry about you and your baby

Leave now and don’t look back.

WTH is wrong with women, you must have some real self esteem issues. Don’t ever settle and hello live with a man who doesn’t work😡

Go home with your baby and forget about him…

Why you still with him? Buh-bye!

NOBODY MAKES YOU DO ANYTHING!
Unless he held a gun to your head!

You already know what to do! Why are you asking any of us?!

Go home and take your baby with you.

Leave him. Your child should come first

Run home n dont look back. Thats not love honey. Its lust. Get out Now.

Suck it up and do what you need to to take care of your child. Swallow your pride, apologize to your friends and family and kick him to the curb

RUN… He is your boyfriend not your husband. He will not change if you dont leave. And tbh he probably wont if you do🤷‍♀️ If iv learned anything on that journey your on is
LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. I know we can be all wrapped up in emotion and we love them so much but I PROMISE this will effect your child tremendously!!! Go back home or to a safe, healthy environment. Please… you dont want to be years and years into it and your child have issues over it because I will definitely happen. He is not your husband. Baby or not. If he tries to marry you👀 Still Run unless he shows you what he can do before you get married. To many of these lame excuses for men in this world😡 I can say it cause iv been there. I finaly did it right and got the Man I always wanted.

Move on honey ! Find a real man

You may love him but he doesn’t love you. That’s called narcissist abuse. Please get help and get away

are you crazy or something. Ditch the bum

Get out while you can

Get the fuck out of there. Now.

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Get out now, you can do bad by yourself but you will have peace of mind

Get out lady while you can!

DUMP HIM… do not teach your daughter to settle like that…

Get as far away from him as you can

If you are posting this you already know the answer. Get out.

Kick his ass now or this will never change

Girl u just answered your own question. Just leave. I would. Fuck outta here my kids future is more important.

Leave for you and your daughter

Leave him. Take care of your child not a grown ass man

Sounds like you need to get rid of him find you a job and take care of that baby on your own

I would have done been gone

Get out now. Ive been there. Leave now.

Sounds like a case of classic narcissism

Bail out he will not change.

Run fast! IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE!!! I can’t stress that enough.

Go back home. Take care of yourself and that baby. You don’t need it

Walk away as fast as u can

Run fast as u can away

Dump him. You know you can provide for you and your child alone.

Ditch the bum, he will never put you or your child first.

He’s a narcissist. Classic signs. GET AWAY

You need some one to love you and baby

Run!!! And never look back!!

Get out and kick him out.

get out of that relationship it wont get better only worse

Sounds like a narcissist to me.

Go back 2 ur parents,U deserve better ! :+1:t3:

kick him out he is a no good lazy bum and move back home

Best advice is LEAVE HIM, CUT CONTACT FROM HIM, GO HOME( your parents home)
Unrequited love is NOT love

Its not going to get any better, take it from experience.

Go home to your family

Wow easy get away from him

Go home to your family.

Leave thta is so toxic

wake up he is bo good get rid of him

dump the no good pos wjs

Kick his ass to the curb

Take those babies and get the hell out.

See ladies… this is whats sad. Who ever wrote this post seems smart, but wasnt wise in picking the father of her child. Even in the stone-age, women would pick the man that was able to provide for them, the one that brought in the biggest kill, the one that knew how to hunt. What are the qualities that women pick nowadays that makes them say, “Gee, this man would make a good father for my kids”

No man is worth that! Yes, love is blind, however, your reality sucks. Let him go because he’s worthless. He most certainly doesn’t love you or your daughter! Cutting cobtact with friends and family will lead to all kinds of abuse both mental and phyiscal. You have to do for you and your daughter. Dump the lug and go back home to your family who really love you.

Go back to your parents. Leave before it’s too late!

Your dumb. Your daughter should always come first. You need to get back with your family so you can have support. Lose the boyfriend. Take care of you and your daughter and that’s it. Good luck

He’s giving you nothing call your family go back home and then file for support

maybe the courts can get him off his lazy ass look on bettering yourself for your daughter.

Kids are always number one becides God… You don’t want her to think that that kind of relationship is ok.

Leave. You might love the guy, but he’s a loser. You have a child to consider at this point.

Leave as fast as you can. Go back to your parents house.

IT’S NOT LOVE that your feeling. You need to leave him go back with your parents. He will NEVER change. I’m sure you can find someone that will love you and your baby and support you in life. Don’t get stuck with the dirtbag

Sounds like you already know what you should do. A man that is able and won’t work is a worthless man. I use the term man loosely because a real man will take care of his family.

Go back to your family.

Maybe it will wake him up if you leave him. He’ll either bust his ass trying to get right or does the same ole thang of being lazy! Your daughter & you deserve better.

He sounds like a controlling, lazy, useless, toxic bastard. Leave him for you & your daughter. You both deserve a great life, & if you stay with him you’ll never have it.

If he is being ugly to you, get out. You and the baby need better than that.

Call your parents go home he never going to change he is abusive man please i saw some get beat up all most dead from her boy friend

Go back home to your parents he will never change

Please go back to your family. It sounds like he is trying to control you. I know someone who didn’t leave soon enough and now 30 years and 3 kids later is having trouble getting out of a relationship

I think you should know the answer to this. You and your kid move back in with your parents who seem to care for you. Get a job of your own. File for child support from the lazy basturd.
Are you fucking stupid when he treats you like that. :roll_eyes:
I’m going to assume you have insecurities because your letting a walking garbage can dictate your life. Get your big girl panties on and run! Because if you can’t say you would want your daughter to date someone like that then the answer should be very crystal clear.

Get a job. Take care of yourself and your baby and stop wasting your time on him when clearly he is a selfish loser

You need to go back home to your parents and quit staying with this loser

Go back to your family and live for u and your daughter you both deserve a better life

Really?!!! You don’t need advice. You know what to do! Dump that loser!

Get rid of him go move in with your parent’s with the kids and leave him

Sounds like a control freak and he’s a lazy bum. Dump him.

Kick him to the curb and move on.

Get rid of the loser .you deserve better than that.

Love is BLIND get out NOW!! He will NEVER change. He is a loser. You and your daughter are better off without him.

Protect yourself and your daughter- leave. This is toxic

Dump him like a hot rock. You and your daughter deserve better.

Leave the loser and go back to your parents! Focus completely on the welfare of your daughter!!

leave his lazy ass !!!

Girl go home to ur family forget him

Dump him. Go back to your family

Go back to your family.

Leave his lazy ass. Plain and simple

Call Mom and Dad !!! Have a long talk and move back in so your daughter has a chance at a normal life.

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