Do you go with him?? Why not ?? That should put a stop to it
They have a kid together….he’s seen every square inch of her body. How she dresses means nothing because he knows what she looks like naked. Women can dress how they want regardless of who is around
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From one who has been there, find another boyfriend. This one will stress you to the max.
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I’d ignore. She wants a reaction from y’all
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Her choice how she’s dresses
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Saying “this thing” about the mother of your boyfriends child just shows how immature you are. She’s in her own home, dressing how she wants? The unimaginable horror 
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You start showing up or say something to display some sort of “dominance” and you’ll end up looking like you’re as insecure as you sound.
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He’s telling you this stuff knowing that it upsets you? Sounds like he’s enjoying your jealous reactions. He should be more considerate of your feelings.
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If she dresses skimpy to impress him she would probably still dress skimpy to make you jealous or irritated. I’d go & act like I could care less. Why give her the satisfaction of showing your jealousy or irritation.
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Thoughts?
- Grow tf up
- dont let what other women do with their bodies irritate you
- hes the only one who owes you any loyalty she doesnt, it’s weird hed tell you that she “said that” and he sounds like a lil
B!tch
If she wants to walk with a thing only ,it HER house! He is honest with you and you shouldn’t be bothered and force him to cause problems. Obviously he isn’t interested
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Sounds like she has low self-esteem.
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So what he’s with you. Also why does he visit them at her house? Is he not allowed to take them for him time with them? 
How do you know she doesn’t dress that way all the time though? & Honestly, the fact that he can’t just get his kid and go without taking note of what she is wearing and then feeling the need to report it back to you is more concerning than her wearing clothes.
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You seem very immature and insecure, she can dress as she please, if you or your bf don’t like it is your problem not hers
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Same situation. Ex is the same way and my husband will tell me or we go together to exchange the kids. He tells me about it but i don’t think she has ever said anything about me getting mad. Honestly we just talk shit about her and laugh it off. It’s about trust. I trust him enough to know I have nothing to worry about. No, not because I’m better looking. On the contrary, she has a way better body than I do. I just wouldn’t be wearing anything out in public or in front of my kids where my ass is hanging out. She has a flat stomach and I DO NOT. Do I look at her and wonder what he sees in me body wise, sometimes. But he reassures me I have nothing to worry about by making me feel sexy and loved. He has never done anything to make me feel or think other wise. So in the end, we don’t worry about it. But we do laugh about it.
Blow that match out right now
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Continue to trust him.
If he won’t say anything then he obviously likes it for one and for someone to say “continue to trust em” my egg donors cheated on my dad cause she dress skimpy infront of his “friends”. Get rid of em
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Bitch, he wanted to fuck her he would and wouldnt come home tell you about what she was wearing. Smfh
Go along for the pick up.
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You have no right to have him tell her how to dress. If it offends you who cares. It’s her body and her choice to dress how she chooses. If he’s telling you, then he’s not interested in her. Don’t be the insecure girlfriend calling his baby’s mama names. Its just tacky and honestly pathetic.
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He’s being honest with you and he may be doing so to show you respect.
Sounds like you got low self esteem and need to work that out with yourself. You or bf can’t tell her what she can and can’t wear. He ignored her anyways and he’s with youZ im curious to know what your definition of slimy and sleaze is. If you can’t pull whatever the hell she’s wearing then mind ya neck and do you sis but that doesn’t means she’s being slimy or sleazy.
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Its her house, she can dress how she wants. By you telling him to tell her to stop, you are showing HER that she is winning. Shes doing it to get under your skin. Dont let her, girl. Hes not with her anymore for a reason.
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I wouldn’t worry about her. I would wonder about him. I would go with him to pick up the kids. And just say hi. Stay in the car and be a lady.
You trust him, BUT… so you don’t really trust him. Just tell the truth.
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He is telling you so you don’t need to worry … She has autonomy over how she dresses whether you like it or not… He is going to see his kid so don’t make a drama where there isn’t a need for one… This post actually says more about you than the situation…
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If I said what I’d do to her I would be banned from facebook but I urge you to use the most colorful imaginations you can.
He picked you for a reason, he’s being honest with you maybe join him on the pick ups?
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Go with him and show her you’re not bothered 
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on pick up days go with him - great idea! Fight fire with fire!
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A real man won’t be afraid to hurt another woman’s feelings for his woman.
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Look If he wants to cheat on you it’s not gonna matter what she’s wearing. Same to if he doesn’t want to cheat on you. Clothing has nothing to do with anything except for the purpose to cover nips and cracks.
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He told you about it so in my opinion he’s given you no reason not to trust him and it shouldn’t be any big deal to you, it seems he’s picked you and to me she’s looking pretty stupid and desperate.
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Make sure u always put out before he goes lol
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He’s already seen his BM naked 
no matter what she dresses like he knows whats under there. If he wants to go there hes gonna wether shes wearing a crop top or a turtle neck.
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You double talking, you either trust him or you don’t. ;and I am guessing that you don’t. She is dressing the sleeze to get him back, if what he tells you is true, he aint interested in her sleeze ass anymore.
Go with him and than giggle when you see her hahah
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Because she going to listen if he tells her to stop, right? She is obviously trying to get under your skin and your letting her.
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You can’t make someone grow up and she’s only wasting her own time playing games. He’s with you 
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She’s trying to cause an issue. Ignore. You’re better than that. Either you have trust for your boyfriend or you don’t in which case you should just leave. She sounds as tho she is a self conscious jealous soul looking for a way to cause drama. Be the bigger person and don’t allow it.
Your boyfriend shouldn’t have anything to say about how she dresses any more than she should him. They are both grown adults. If he wanted to cheat it wouldn’t be because of what she is wearing. They have a child together lol they know what eachother looks like naked anyway. If he cheats, it’s because he wants to. Not because she is wearing booty shorts or a bikini lol. You need to be secure in yourself. He was telling you what was happening, he is doing good as far as I can tell. He wouldn’t really say anything if he was going to do anything he’s leave you clueless.
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I think you need to love yourself more, then you won’t care how other women dress
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Meh. Go with him to pick up the kid. Show her she doesn’t bother you with how she dresses. You have the relationship with him, not her. She’s just trying to start shit.
You would not like it if someone asked you (especially an ex) to dress differently, don’t ask another woman to dress more conservative because you’re insecure. Trust your man, that’s all you can do.
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How she dresses is her choice, no one has the right too tell another how to dress, why he tells you these things is beyond me he didn’t have too, if he didn’t say anything these insecurities wouldn’t exist but he inputted that image in your head! You need to check him
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Clothes can’t make someone cheat, a person cheats because they want to. If he told you he obviously has no intention of cheating. Remember you’re still just the girlfriend not the wife you really have no say either way
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Maybe it’s just her style to show a bit of skin, each to their own. Trust his word and leave it be. let him deal with that side of things
Go with him because it’ll make her upset, if anyone tells her not to dress like that she’ll try more to cause problems
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Choose your battles…she’s a drama queen
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But like how do you know she’s only dressing in a way you don’t prefer when he’s around and that it’s not how she is always dressed? She could have ill intentions but you could also be working of your own insecurities. He’s open with you about it and that’s a good sign on his part. He is NOT gonna be able to tell someone he’s got nothing to do with how they can and can’t dress around him, it isn’t gonna go how you want it to and will more than likely make the situation worse
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You kind of make it sound like BM and their child are sharing clothes? Lol. What does it matter what she’s wearing? Are you going to buy her a new wardrobe if you’re so concerned? I don’t see how it’s at all relevant to you and shaming her isn’t the move. If he’s coming home to you that’s all that should matter unless there’s underlying trust issues coming to the surface now.
If you trust him then you have nothing to worry about. She might be doing it just to get under your skin. Try to learn to let it go. Even if he looks at her. It’s ultimately his fault. She may be dressing that way for a bigger reason that doesn’t involve you or him. Maybe she needs a confidence boast instead of assumptions.
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I think more the fact that is that baby mum only dresses like that when he goes over and obviously makes inappropriate gestures like I hope your girlfriend don’t get mad with me wearing this fact she has to point it out she knows what she doing and that’s what this lady concerned about not her actual dress sense in general and pretty sure you’d all feel the same if you was in her shoes and that was your man.
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Ignore these people in the comments, you have ever right to feel like you do about it and I for god sure know Id ask him to say something to her too, only because it seems she’s making it obvious what she’s doing and we both know she knows, so I’d either ask him to stand up for himself & you against her, or I’d be doing it myself, confront her maturely whoever does it/if you do, nothing nasty and no name calling, it doesn’t even have to be a conversation, it’s great that you do trust him and even more amazing in my opinion that he tells you this stuff, I’d be super comforted by that, so worst case scenario is he refuses to say anything and strongly doesn’t want you to either, which is understandable and his choice, at that point y’all decide how to go about it, but if it were me, I’ll just say, I hate a man who’d rather “keep the peace”, I like men who stand up for what’s right and who they care about, have some balls basically, standing up for someone or anything doesn’t have to involve drama and lack of peace, it’s all about how you approach the situation, worst case scenario is she keeps dressing like that and at that point, I wouldn’t care anymore, I’d only care about something being said to her & then moving on, it makes a point that he’s not hers anymore and doesn’t want to be at that, it’s just about the principle of things for me, good luck girly, but st the end of the day, just remember he’s with YOU and telling YOU about her negativity, YOU are his person and she’s the one who has to live with that & clearly she’s not happy about it, find peace in that:two_hearts:
Follow you partners lead. Ignore her as long as your partner isn’t taking an interest what she wears etc shouldn’t bother you. You’re letting her get under your skin . Just smile and let her play her little games because you have what she can’t have anymore lol
if you trust him then you have nothing to worry about.
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I’m not even going to give my opinion on how you’d like to control her wardrobe, but I do have this to say: these are the risks men & women take when they decide to date a person with kids & who actively co-parents. If it’s too much to handle for you don’t be afraid to break up with this guy & go for a man without kids. It’s way less drama.
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she wants a reaction from you. Don’t give her one. Be the better person and ignore it.
Why do you feel the need to try and slut shame her? That says a lot about you as a person. Also she can literally dress how ever she wants to in her own home, also if your partner knows your insecure about what she wears why is telling you like that’s a problem as well 
Shouldn’t matter what she does if ya trust ya fella that he won’t do anything that’s the main thing u will drive yaself mad trying to control what someone else does xx
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She is an ex for a reason don’t buy into her behaviour, You partner is very open about this so just ignore. The more she sees it bothers you the more she’ll find ways to get under your skin.
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Dress just as slutty 
She’s tryna get at you babe and it’s working
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It depends how he feels towards u my ex went with my best friend and he comes over to see is children and we have slept together but the diffrence is it was revenge as he left me after I lost 1 of our twins and being with him 11 yrs and left me pregnant saying he isnt the dad she was baby sitting know I was pregnant and she betrayed me after being my friend for 23 yrs and tryed to take my children through lies in court and social services and called me everything and he wouldnt cheat on me your trash so I proved a point he will and did with is baby mumma of 4 children if you trust him then that’s good but my ex isn’t to be trusted.
You’re childish. She’s clearly his ex for a reason and you nor him can dictate how someone else can dress regardless of what you think if you want this relationship to last you need to grow up and be an adult. If you have insecurities then you need to work on them.
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Desperate woman do nothing for men.
Ignore her efforts, she’s very insecure and wanting to cause drama, and remember he’s been there, done that and moved on , nothing new to see! Just laugh, she’s fooling herself.
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if he says something she wins
Ughh it’s ok to feel the way you do , go with him every time and piss her off now 
If you trust him there is no buts. If you are secure in your relationship, she could walk naked, and he would not care. Now if she was naked, I would think a man I invested time in would tell her to knock it off and save it for someone interested. but I think he likes the attention cause why would he even tell you. honestly you are getting involved with him you will always have to be involved in the sleezy baby momma…you may want to question if your peace is worth it. Good luck!
One up her and I bet she’ll stop
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So you want your bf to CONTROL and DICTATE what his ex wears? How will you feel when he does it to YOU???
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How do you know he’s even telling the truth about her wearing skimpy clothes when he picks his child up? There is a ‘possibility’ depending on how your relationship is/has been going lately he’s maybe saying that to you to get you to show a reaction or plant the seed in your head she’s still interested in him so then he’s marking his territory basically saying if you weren’t to want me, the ex will. It’s only ‘him’ saying those things but you don’t know 100% if that’s even true. Some men/boys like to stir the pot to make themselves look the big man having 2 women wanting him where as in reality she could be answering the door in a big comfortable baggy tracksuit. I just don’t understand why he’d even tell you that so I’d say it’s more for a reaction because if he wasn’t trying to get a rise from you, he wouldn’t even say anything and IF she was dressing in skimpy clothes when he picks his child up, why would he assume it’s for his benefit? She might have a hot date when she’s child free 
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If you actually trusted him, this question wouldn’t have even been posted.
If you trust him, then she should be able to answer the door naked and you should know that he will get his child and leave.
You don’t need to be bothered with her actions. You need to worry about his reactions. If he doesn’t give her a reaction, then let it go. If he does give her a reaction, then you need to reevaluate your entire relationship.
Is it respectful to answer the door for her ex when she’s half naked? No. But his reaction to it is what you need to be looking at.
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If u trust him what she does dont matter
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Laugh it off. She sounds like she is desperate for attention 
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If you’re saying “you just never know”, then you don’t trust him. Period.
So, either you trust him to not fuck another person simply because they are wearing “skimpy” clothes, or you believe he has no self control, which is why you feel you need to control the situation and make her wear different clothes. Sounds like the latter to me, personally.
The best thing he can do is just flat out ignore it. Give no reaction to it at all. Act as if she’s just wearing sweats. If he asks her to wear different clothes, that will lead her to believe that her attempts to turn him on were working, and she’ll continue. If he just ignores her though, and only focuses on his child, she’ll eventually give up and move on. Ok?
His loyalty shouldn’t change because of what another woman wears. If he is that easily taken let her have him back. It’s annoying but trust him and don’t let her bother you
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You want to tell her how to dress in her own house because you’re insecure?
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Have you ever gone with him during the pick up? Obviously stay in the car, but start letting her see you un bothered by her and it may help. My fiance’s ex does this as well, except she just naturally dresses that way. Wears what looks like underwear and then crop top, she will dress that way at home, at sport events, and at stores. Nothing I can do about it. It’s her choices and her life, I just watch her make a fool of herself.
What he likes? That’s strange all around to even say.
Secondly, who gives a shit you’re with him now take it as a compliment but you’re def insecure and need to work on that
I don’t even see the point in him telling you that? Sounds like he wants a reaction out of you. The ex is probably trying to look nice to get him back, if she’s even doing that at all. I would just ignore it. At the end of the day if he wants to do something with his ex then he will no matter what she wears.
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She’s just trying to get attention. Lol
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Lol funny… She is his Ex she not his wife or daughter so he really cant tell her what she can and can not wear …lol
If he telling you about it. Hes not trying to hide anything
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Yep shes trying to make you mad. So you and your partner will start arguing and fighting its all part of her plan. If he’s coming home and telling you theres obviously no intentions. I would let it go. Wouldn’t want no problems with his baby mama that could hurt y’all in long run.
He can’t tell her what she can and can’t wear and neither can you. Maybe see if you can ride with him for pick up/drop offs so you’re more comfortable. Or see if they can meet halfway. Yes “you just never know” but that comment alone shows that you don’t fully trust them around each other. You’re just a gf, you’re not a wife. Your opinion MIGHT matter more if y’all were married, but maybe not. But again, neither one of you can/should be telling her what she can and can’t wear
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Well obviously what she is doing is working the fact that he told you should say a lot and the fact you want him to say something will give her exactly what she wants to make you uncomfortable be better don’t let it phase you and work on those insecurities
If you trust your partner, don’t let any personal insecurities get the best of you. It’s all about perspective, maybe he is telling you 1)because your his best friend, and most likely won’t go around venting/talking about it w anyone else. 2)To keep you in the loop of their interactions, it sounds like he is aware she is an attention seeker and may be making fun of her. Maybe it’s not so much you being insecure but her placing you in a “competition” like situation that makes you uncomfortable- that’s in her head, don’t let it become reality. If you got the man , and he is honest and true to you, you already won. No competition.
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She is doing it to get a reaction… if you don’t react you win… hold your head high and trust your man. She is an ex for a reason 
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Trust him. It is not up to u or him on what she wears or doesn’t. Stay in your lane
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Whatever you put up with is what you will have. You have control over exactly one person - you. He is not telling you about his ex to make you feel better if he can’t say something to her about how inappropriate it is. Re-read your post, hon. You know what to do.
She just likes to tease.
Definitely trying to get attention “I hope your gf doesn’t get mad” is screaming attention. Ignore it.
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“I trust him, but at the same time you never know” that’s not trust. You can’t expect nor tell women to dress how you want them to so your man doesn’t cheat.
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If you trust your man, don’t give her the satisfaction of letting her bs bother you. If you don’t trust your man, leave him. It’s that simple.
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She trying to make him regret breaking with her,But its ur bed he sleeps in,i wouldnt worry,she possibly having a life crises,lol
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She’s trying to get a reaction. The best reaction is no reaction
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She is trying to rile you up , don’t give her the satisfaction!!!
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