My brothers ex is keeping their baby from him and us, help!?

File in court, they will order a DNA test (he will have to pay)
Then once results are in there will be another hearing to figure out custody/placement. (They will both have to go to mediation, and pay for it) if they are not able to agree on mediation, then a guardian ad litem will be assigned. She will look into both and make a recommendation. Idk what state you are in, but WI generally does 50/50 unless there is a good reason not to, or one parent wants less time.

There s always many sides to a story. Can’t judge as it looks like there s more to that

You can still go to court, DNA will prove it and he can get added and have rights.

Have him get a lawyer, get a judge to order a DNA test to prove paternity, then they will set him up with visitation and child support….

Maybe the baby is not his. Try for a DNA test. Hire a lawyer

They will also issue a new birth certificate when paternity comes back as he is the father

After ten years he should have put a ring on it…

Can’t he ask for a paternity test to be done?

I wonder if she’s worried it’s not his or something. I would do everything possible to get a DNA test and hire attorney. Good luck.

UK. And father has to be there to sign register if his name is going on certificate… if not then its left blank

He needs a lawyer & DNA to establish paternity. Document all interactions & communication in all forms.

Pray for them, In Jesus mighty name. Just pray. I am so sorry but have faith and pray Jesus touches her heart. Remember hurt people, will in fact hurt others if they are still not healed themselves. Pray for them :pray: God bless you and May God’s favor be with all of you. I pray everyone does what is right :heart: God bless you all!

GO. TO. COURT. for parental alienation! Good luck to your brother!

Check with the state you live in to see if they have a father’s registry.

He needs to do a DNA test and fight for rights.

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Lawyer. Go to court. He will get visitation.

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Take her to court asap.get a dna test and let him be the good daddy that he needs to be

Take her to court establish paternity and get the courts to help set up visitation and rights

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And then she will demand child support :woman_shrugging:

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She sounds toxic he can the her to court

Court will help him get his rights. She won’t be able to keep him from his baby for long.

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Oh I bet she will scream for child support

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Maybe she making an excuse cause she know the baby isn’t his …idk …just :thinking: maybe

He needs to take her ass to court and theyll give a dna test
Dont stall on that! Go asap!

Open a family court case ASAP-
Get DNA established through the court and get court ordered visitation.

That is absolutely evil. I hope that y’all come out on top. :pray:t2: good luck to y’all. Her day will come.

Stay out of it , be emotionally supportive if asked .

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Dna go to court they will sort it out!

One…you stay out of it,it’s his fight. He needs to go to court and establish that he’s the father.

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No birth rights for him no child support for her😊

Crazy women use the kids!!! Sad

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He can request a paternity test. He has the right to and she has to comply.

He can take her to court to fight for visitation

He needs to file papers for custody and request a DNA test

Her actions are childish and will be frowned upon in court.

All you can really do is go to court for custody. The police won’t step in as it’s a civil matter

That baby don’t sound like his an she knows ittt🤦🏼‍♀️ Get a lawyer!

He definitely needs to take it to court

You can still take her to court. The court will order a DNA test and all of his right will be back

Request a paternity test then fight like hell to see that baby.

Get a lawyer and fight for his rights.

Literally get a lawyer. Take her to court.

Get a lawyer take her to court DNA test and get his rights

Family court is the best solution

And you don’t live with them, right? Because you dont know what happens behind their doors. Let them figure this out. Stay out of it. It’s not your fight.

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He needs to take her to court! ASAP!!!

He needs a DNA test 1st and foremost
Then a lawyer

Hes going to need a lawyer. And a dna test for proof.

He needs to file with the family court

Take her to court asap!

Go to court to get a DNA test ordered then file for custody

Take her to court and have him tell them that he wants a DNA test done

Suggest he get a DNA test then let him go forth

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Go to court. He has rights

Take her to court :woman_shrugging:t4:

He needs to file for paternity in court

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Get a lawyer. Find out the laws in your state.

Yes he does ! Get a solicitor

Time to get a lawyer and get a court order for a DNA test.

Take her to court. Get DNA test done, establish visitation/child support.

Get a lawyer and do paternity test.

Paternity test, only thing he has. Tell him to keep his ducks in a row.

Tell your brother it’s time to lawyer up!

Get a court ordered paternity test

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Get a lawyer and go to court

Get a lawyer and go to court and ask for a DNA test

Go to COURT…And establish he is the father.

I think I’m the only one on her side here.
I’m turning off notifications for this post

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He needs to get a DNA test!

He’s going to have to take her to court and prove paternity.

DNA test through the courts is the only way.

He’s going to have to get a lawyer.

1st get a lawyer
2nd paternity test
3rd legal rights

Get a lawyer.
Go to court.
Request a DNA test.

Court. Request a paternity test and fight for rights.

He can petition for a paternity test. He pays. And when the baby comes up as his he signs a form acknowledging the child and then has legal power to petition the court for custody/ visitation. If she goes against the court order it’s in his favor. :woman_shrugging:t2:

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DNA test and the court will fix the rest.

Court time for parental rights and a DNA test

File for reasonable shared* custody and paternity papers/ testing

I believe if he goes to court, files for paternity test and if results are what y’all believe they are he can fight for his rights. Sadly it can get ugly I wish women wouldn’t do this when a man wants to be there! But I will say This happened to a friend of mine and it turned out HE WASNT THE FATHER! She didn’t want him to know she cheated and he spent so much money fighting and sadly it ended that way. I pray he gets to see his baby and things get better

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Get a lawyer and fight for his rights

I’d suggest speaking to a lawyer and get it taken to court to get a court ordered DNA test

Sounds to me like your brother has really messed up, this time. Lol

File emergency custody :slight_smile:

He can put himself in child support. They will make him do a paternity test and she will have to put him on the birth certificate. Then he will have court ordered visitation and he can call the police if she doesn’t let him have the baby on the court ordered dates.

Court ordered paternity test. Get a family lawyer

DNA test and a lawyer

Child support does NOT mean he has ANY legal rights. Nor does putting him on the birth certificate. Sorry to burst so many bubbles. I found out my baby’s dad has zero rights until he goes to court and pays to have “PARENTAL RIGHTS BE ESTABLISHED”… nothing else matters without that and he cannot get visitation with out this!!! He can sign the birth certificate and pay child support and STILL have ZERO RIGHTS to his child.

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Take her to court and get a DNA test

It’s not your business and technically she can do as she sees fit. She just had a baby. Y’all aren’t entitled to go to the hospital sorry but that’s the facts.

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He needs to petition the court for a paternity test. Then they will add baby’s name to birth certificate. This is going to bite her in the ass, as where if she had been reasonable he probably would have visited the baby while leaving the new born with her. Now he can get partial custody of the baby and it won’t matter if she wants to breastfeed or whatever. Courts these days usually go for split custody as long as both parents are fit. Tell him to remain calm no matter what she does and let the court sort it out.

Take that crazy girl to court

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Why is it that it takes 2 people to make a baby, yet the mother has more rights to the child than the father, yes she carried the baby within her body, but that shouldn’t automatically give the mother ownership of the baby, the child belongs to both the Mum and Dad, a father shouldn’t have to fight to see his own child.

He needs to get his name on the punitive fathers registry and petition the court for custody or visitation. Poor guy. So many men won’t bother to be the father their children need, and then some moms are out here making it impossible for the ones who want to do right. Breaks my heart

No…there’s a piece missing that you don’t know. He had to have done something. Unless she’s a nutty buddy, he more than likely fked up in a big way for her and her dad to be acting that way.

He better take her to court on like Monday. And he needs to leave her for good. Quit playing games. Something like what she did is unforgivable in my opinion. She needs to grow up!

Family court ASAP they will order a dna test and will have visitation set up immediately

Tell him to file for visitation asap. Its a process but its better to get it done now then her playing games on when he can see the baby.

Demand dna test asap. Get a lawyer and tell him to stay away from her and don’t say anything crazy to her anymore - she will use it against him and he’ll never get to see the kid.

But she’ll be quick to put him on child support though

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