What!? You should be going to the press and fighting with your school district to get this teacher fired. It’s not just about your daughter it is about the many other girls who can also be victims in the future
My daughter is not comfortable around her teacher due to him being inappropriate: What should we do?
Ummm how is this even a question call the cops put a restraining or protection order on him
Wtf this is disgusting. Go to the school district if no one in the school isn’t doing anything. Make a police report. This guy isn’t going to stop being a disgusting p.o.s.
If you make it public and report him more young women may decide to be brave and report him as well and the school would have no choice and fire him.
My neighbor was a perv and a teacher. My suggestion to you is go to the police and have him investigated. I’m sure there’s enough here to file a warrant and get search. I would also make sure you have cameras around your house since you said he’s a neighbor, your gonna need them. My perv neighbor had his house raided twice by SWAT, was sent to jail, and lost his teacher license and his wife left him. So he had no choice but to move.
Police should be your first stop! He won’t stop unless forced.
Load a gun and use him as target practice
Press charges for sexual harassment and file a restraining order. Then he will be forbidden from attending. Ask other parents to do the same.
Report him! They cannot take away her graduation. That screams for a law suit. She did absolutely nothing wrong.
How has this gone on so long?! Police and constant filing with the school board. Advocate for your daughter!!
Lawyer up and call the press
U should have already taken this to the police…smh
Make a police report. Get an order of protection. Check, on line, for criminal history for this creep. Your daughter has a right to her education, free of harrassment of any kind. The school will protect their own. They need to answer for that, too. I’m sure this is not the first complaint about this jerk.
Get a lawyer he made a sexual pass at more than one student if the school won’t handle it get a lawyer too and be sure to tell the school and watch how fast things changes I’m so sorry your daughter is going threw this the school should be more worried about protecting it’s students then their teachers don’t drop it either they are just trying to push you in a corner
Go see the prick thats exactly what I’d do
Also tell the school you’ll sue for sexual harassment and a endangerment of a child because they willing knew your child is uncomfortable and circumstances of what’s going on so if they don’t pull her there will be repercussions
File a complaint with the courts put his actions on record and maybe the principal will it was wrong what he did
4 years this continued to happen and worsen? Go to the police. I’d also reach out to news stations about the school not caring.
Sue that school and press charges on him. There are perverts that work in schools
Some sit in high places, principals or on school boards. Get them out of the schools.
Why are you asking facebook this and arent standing in the police station filing a report at this very moment?!? YOU are your child’s best advocate no matter what their age is. This is clearly sexual harassment and a restraining order needs to be filed and an investigation needs to be opened about this guy. Chances are there have been girls before her that were subject to his sexual harassment. Be the one who stops it so there is no next girl. Speak up and even consider moving if he is a neighbor, your daughter probably feels like a prisoner in her own home, or that her privacy could constantly be violated by this jerk. Dont back down from this. Your daughter deserves peace.
Get a restraining order.
Hell no. That teacher would be gone or my daughter in a diff school. But he would be reported in the least. I don’t play when it comes to my kids.
Why haven’t you gone and seen this dirty prick?? My three year old told me her daycare teacher told her she had dirty teeth and I nearly punched her out for that, if a teacher had done any of that to my child he’d be in hospital
Sue the school district. That’s bullshit.
Put Nails under his tires that morning or afternoon and whenever he should be leaving. Lol
Actively seek out other women/girls he was inappropriate with, maybe some have graduated already. Local college. Talk to a class action attorney. Is she comfortable enough to ask the girl she witnessed with the hand thing if he has been inappropriate with her at other times and if so would she be willing to discuss the incidents -even anonymously.
When I was in 10th grade there was a very handsome young married teacher who was very flirtatious. A couple years after I graduated he had lost his job for having an affair with a student.
Teach is expressing his power over not only your daughter, but you! This will escalate! Thisan is not only her teacher, but your backyard neighbor! THE POLICE MUST BE CALLEX AND A RESTRAINING ORDER FILED!! Also check his background, see if he taught somewhere else before…a leopard doesn’t change its spots! Good luck
Contact law enforcement immediately, and have him investigated!! A similar thing happened to my sister, and because the other girls the teacher was handsy with wouldn’t make a formal statement, he walked free. Now this was a good twenty five years ago, so who knows how many other girls this scum bag had touched or molested.
Get to the police NOW no ifs ands or buts. U should have already been to the police
Just tell the school you’ll be calling the police. End of story.
Police and board of education, immediately. He’s attempting to groom school girls, one being your daughter. Being your neighbour as well, sheesh. He’d be lucky not to be sleeping with the fishes if that were my daughter
Sounds like grooming. Report him to the school and t h e law.
Get the media involved. Trust me, they dont like that type of negative attention…
This is called grooming…
You shouldn’t be asking for advice online and should be protecting your child and call the police…
He obviously should not be a teacher or around young girls. I would call the police or Child Protective Services. Shame on the administration for not looking into it more when your daughter disclosed what he was doing.
BRING THIS UP TO THE POLICE AND GET A RESTRAINING ORDER!!! The school obviously does not care one effin bit
File a police report. Call the district school board and lodge a formal complaint. Tell the school you will sue for harrassment, that should get some results.
Id be going next door and smashing him up
Have him arrested, what the hell you asking people on fb, and not talking to the cops instead?
Call the police and have him arrested!
Call the police, he shouldn’t be doing that to his students, plus I’m sure the headmaster has to suspend him to investigate the situation as you have told him about it all, he can get fired for this, also having him as a neighbor he could do anything, I’d move before you involve the police, sounds like a right scyhio tbh, hope all gets better for your daughter. Tell her to get an attitude with him and tell him what’s what when he does anything and tell her to have a secret camera on her, you can get very small cameras now for proof of what hes doing.
Police and superintendent!!
I’d be telling them that you will be contacting the police and the school board
Call the cops shout it outside the school don’t let him get away with it he’s living next door ffs get a gun and aim at the fuckers window you seem scared to defend your child no wonder she’s so stressed he’s clearly a predator and your doing nothing to help her
Involve the police as this is not just a school issue with him living next door and that if needed be contact a reporter
Go to the police and get a restraining order and press charges on him for harassing her and assault on a minor ( him constantly touching her even after she said no) . He will HAVE to stay away. Get the local media and reporters involved without using her name AFTER you do the above. This will force the school to do something. I’m sorry but with the school, they will do nothing and try to make it disappear, just like it sounds like they’re already trying to do. You told them, they made excuses, I’d go to the police. I’d get signs for my yard and write warnings on them with an arrow pointing to his house to warn other mothers. I’d make him never want to mess with another young lady again. He does NOT belong near teenagers and who knows, maybe other girl’s will speak up once the ball starts rolling…
Ermmm why is this even a question? I’d be at the school with the police, this man should not be teaching innocent girls! The school has a duty of care to protect your daughter and investigate these claims, or they have failed and it goes higher.
Phone the police and school board… speak to other parents of the girls get all together and take that slime ball down… he will forever get away with this if u don’t stand ur ground… if that fails beat the shit out of him and tell him if u hear anything else about his slimes disgusting ways … u will be back. Vile vermin cretin needs dumping in a deep well somewhere
Report to the police and STOP PLAYING AROUND !
You should have went straight to the police when all this started
Considering he is your neighbor, I’d gets cameras first then go to cops and tell them everything to see if they can at least investigate him and if they do so that may not let him be able to go to graduation due to investigating him being a creepy ass around minor children. Hope your daughter heals eventually hugs to her.
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU??!?!? Seriously?!?! You need to be at the police station filing a report not making a f*cking FB post!
Lawyer up! Police too!
Contact the police immediately … he has been grooming her … restraining order ASAP Likely she isn’t the only one so the sooner the better
Go to the police not Face Book. Also call school board report his ass. Give me his damn information. He’s a SOB of a HUMAN being. My dad would be paying him visit with his few things in his hand.
I second and third all of the posts about a police report and restraining order. The restraining order would keep him from graduation, and protect her at home as well.
You need to go to the police.
And get him arrested and fired.
Next year, it will be someone else’s child also
Report him to the police ASAP
I know from personal experience my school didn’t take sexual assault seriously at all… the police were very helpful in my case although I could have had better support and suffered a lot less if I had gone in sooner
Definitely see the police ASAP and if you can get your daughter into Centacare they’re an all girls safe space and help with these sorts of things so much x
Lawyer time! I’ve threatened my kids school years ago about contacting a lawyer over something not this horrific…usually once you mention lawyer involvement they start changing their tune…definitely don’t sweep this under the rug…good luck!
- Why in the hell have you waited 4 years to even think about doing anything?
- Why is a Facebook post, more important to make, compared to being at the police station!?!
- You have helped him to be able to get to the point it’s at, with doing NOTHING from the time it started
- You have nothing you can do to prevent him from being at graduation unless he’s reported and the police do something now or the school does to investigate
If you know this information and fail in your duty of care to report this to the police you may get into trouble too… you address it now and he may be banned from going by the police, the school won’t have a say
He is grooming your child. Get the police involved.
Ah yes, my daughter is being sexually assaulted by her grown teacher, let me hop on Facebook and ask strangers what to do b*tch go to the cops.
I’d definitely be speaking with the BOE about a termination for sexual harassment. If that didn’t work I’d contact an attorney
My heart breaks for this girl…she’s dealt with being sexually assaulted by someone who is supposed to teach and guide then to top it off she has no one protecting her or fighting for her…she probably feels alone, abandoned, and hopeless get your shit together and fight for your daughter…as parents our kids should be able to count on us to be there for them and fight the battles they can’t we’re supposed to protect them from predators and you’ve done nothing…call the cops, a lawyer, the school board, reach out to other parents whose kids might have dealt with this behavior from the teacher because I guarantee there’s other girls, do anything and everything you can to make sure this monster doesn’t hurt anyone else and set the example to show your daughter that you have to fight back against people like him otherwise she’ll end up afraid and staying silent about this type of behavior from others in the future and things could get much worse
Police police police
I know this will be one of the hardest things your daughter has EVER done in her life but she cannot and should not let that b*****d win. Go to Graduation and walk with pride. You survived high school and him. I feel like not attending lets him win. If you have to stand by her side the entire time do so. If anyone asks why, yell it loud. The school won’t protect my child so I am. And my child will attend her graduation!!!
I find it very odd that she wasn’t diagnosed with tourette’s at a much younger age. Typically its diagnosed at around age 7, yes my son has Tourette’s. Stress does make it worse. I hate what ur daughter has been going through…it’s horrible! After everything that has happened I think going to the police to at least discuss ur options would b a good plan. I pray ur daughter can not only attend her graduation but that she has the best day ever! Prayers for u both
File a police report and go to the school board. I dealt with my daughter being bullied and when I kept it on the school level, they wanted my daughter to avoid these two girls. Like walking around the long way making her late for class. They kept deflecting until I filed a police report and went to the school board.
He is grooming!!! You need to file a police report and contact the school board directly!!! Get in touch with other parents!!! Make a scene!!! Based off of everything you have said, I am sure he has more victims!!! Making a scene will encourage them to come forward!!! Strength in numbers!!! Get ahold of your local news station!!! That will get the school’s attention!!! Fight for your daughter at all costs!!! Even if you aren’t successful, knowing that her parents fought for her with everything they had will give her strength to find healing in all of this!!! Fight fight fight!!!
You need to go to the superintendent and authorities should be involved. This happened to my daughter with one of her teachers. Something should be done before he does get out of hand and something happens to a student. I would also look into getting her an advocate
Call the police get her into counseling. My daughters best friend developed tics so bad her arms and legs would just fly around. Sometimes it looked like she was having seizures. She tried different medications, she had to stop driving and working. They finally found out that the tics were from PTSD from someone sexually harassing her at work. She’s 19 and since she got help for the real problem all her tics are gone. Good luck. Do you rent or own if you rent you should move if he rents you should call the landlord with complaints.
Well after someone bailed me out of jail because I know me and if he was my neighbor we would have had a come to Jesus meeting a LONG time ago! File a police report … get a lawyer … talk to other parents because she isn’t the only one … go to media if necessary! Protect your kid at all cost!
POLICE POLICE POLICE… FILE A REPORT WITH THE POLICE, THE SCHO DISTRICT GO IN PERSON MAKE A BIG COMMOTION MAKE NOISE MAKE YOUR/HER VOICE HEARD! You are the only voice standing up for your daughter make it a shockingly loud voice that people can’t handle make it happen not just for her but for every girl after her!
I’d definitely file a police report, even if nothing comes of filing it if for some reason you have to use it then you have it on file. Personally I would probably be in jail myself for assault over my kid and something like that happening to her. I have threatened neighbors over my dogs before I would probably not have any sense when it came to my kid.
What in the world? This may sound an attack, but why in the world haven’t you contacted the police?! Why haven’t you raised hell at the school? Reached out to other parents? Hired a lawyer? I’m flabbergasted at the fact of you’re clueless.
Your daughter needs you to protect her and most importantly her voice!!!
Do not stop until your daughter gets the justice she deserves. She is healthy, comfortable, and can continue life setting healthy boundaries.
Sounds like a civil suit needs to be filed first of all she was sexually harassed second of all they are discrimating based on her tourettes. Saying well I never seen her have tics and not trying to accommodate her. Get as much proof as you can and feel a civil suit. Go to the school board and go to the police I don’t think there is a statue of limitations on sexual harassment of a minor there maybe depending on the state etc but your probably within the time frame. If they ask why u waited tell them you tried to resolve it at the school and they did nothing
Go to the media and the police !! Personally that dude would be moving and resigning his position after I kicked his door and beat him down!! Seriously if no one in the school system will do anything fo to the media and put him on blast!! She’s not the only one!!
Schools are AWFUL about holding teachers accountable, especially on hearsay. I’ve seen it multiple times. One of my teachers was allowed to resign after several rumors of him hitting on or sleeping with students. He transferred to a new school and happened to end up the girls softball coach. My boyfriends neighbor was the team manager and had him as a history teacher. He ended up texting her that he would give her an A in the class in exchange for sexual favors and she went to the police. He now has a soliciting prostitution of an individual less than 18 and a attempting sexual contact with a student charge and can no longer teach. He was passed around several schools before someone made a report.
Don’t just report to the school’s authorities. Report to the school board. Report to the police. And if and when the school does nothing about it, sue the teacher, the district, and each particular individual who was complacent after the report
His comment alone is sexual harassment. They tell you in orientation at even Walmart that just calling someone pet names can be considered sexual harassment. This man knew what he was doing. The school has it reported. There should be an investigation and he should be put on administrative leave until they have conducted investigation. They are also obligated to file a police report.
Go to your daughter’s counselor at school at report it to school. That should start the process. Get her pulled from any classes that he’s in.
I know someone that is going through this now.
It’s difficult
Hugs mama!!
Stay strong
Parents like this blow my mind. Like open your f****** eyes. You should of been called the cops ,the school principal and district leaders. You should of been up at the school switching classes and keeping him away from your child.
Buck up! Not a minute should pass that you aren’t doing something to PROTECT YOUR CHILD! Posting in a mom group isn’t doing a damn thing for your kid! Stop failing your kid! Be at the police station. Be at that school. Take an officer with you. Get a lawyer. File a complaint. Call a news station. Go over everyone’s head. DO. NOT. STOP.
If it were me and any of my 4 daughters, he’d be behind bars drinking blended up food from a straw while I smiled in my mugshot
File the report right before graduation so the cops pick him up during the graduation and he misses it all. They may not b able to press charges but maybe they can keep him busy for a couple of hours while u watch ur baby graduate and she can feel safe
My question is why if he made that comment and they all agree he did, was he not immediately asked to resign or fired. I have known teachers with many years experience fired for the same thing, a very inappropriate comment.
Wtf?! Is this made up or are the adults in this child’s life just that stupid?! Who allows no curtains on any bedroom window especially their kids?! Who cares what they look like! & how has this been going on for YEARS & this teacher hasn’t gotten fired or a beat down?! Seriously WTF?!!!
You need to file a restraining order immediately and start raising hell anyplace that will listen, up to and including pressing peeping tom charges, if applicable. The teacher is getting bolder with his students and the graduation move is nothing but a power play to make your daughter scared. If you cannot get him to leave, simply tell them that your daughter wont be showing up and take a day trip instead, maybe plan an overnight with her friends.
Something similar happened with a teacher in my school. He was rumored to have a history of being “overly nice” to young pretty girls…well apparently enough girls spoke up and he was no longer employed by the school district the following year. That may happen to this teacher, especially if enough girls give complaints about him. I wish you the best of luck and I’m sorry your daughter is experiencing this.
If that was my daughter, you would not need to ask anyone at that school for him to stay away. I would meet him at the door and he would gladly skip the graduation! Guaranteed.
Call the police! And don’t be scared to do it either! She’s your kid if they don’t want to listen, MAKE THEM! It’s your job as her mother to protect her, and move!
WT ACTUAL F? This can not be a true story if you have not contacted local authorities and filed a formal complaint to keep him away from your daughter and other young women. I assure you its not just your daughter. Get help for your child immediately…smh…I would have never left a child in this situation EVER
If you file a police report he should be given a no contact order so he can not be anywhere that she is thus curing the graduation dilemma.
Not meant viciously, but you probably should have called the police a long while ago. Then you need to call your states board of education and report what’s happening at the school to them.
Clear violation of many laws and many rules abs regulations of teaching.
This is technically sexual harassment, closing in on assault. She told him to stop touching her, and he continued… please file a report with your local police department.
Go to the board and tell them if the situation is not rectified then u will go to the media over this teach and also talk to the police and a lawyer.
So why isn’t he already arrested and doing time?
Pretty simple solution. Go to the police. If he’s done this with one girl he’s done it with more. You also could protect future atrocities with other girls.
Take it from someone who was groomed and assaulted by a man over twice my age at the age of 17.
Call the police. Call the district. Tell the principle that you will call the local news station and report the whole thing to the media if this teacher isn’t suspended/fired pending investigation. There is no way she is the only one. I would be willing to bet more girls come forward once it gets out.
Hope your daughter is ok!
Maybe if you file a restraining order he won’t be able to attend graduation.
when he started complimenting her, he already grooming her. please call the cops and if he can do that to your daughter, next will be other’s ppl daughters