My daughter is not comfortable around her teacher due to him being inappropriate: What should we do?

How, as educators can they condone such behavior? I have too little self control, I’d go ape shit.

Police report 100%. Also, depending on where you live, you can go to his teachers union or board of teachers or whatever it may be called (in Ontario it’s the Ontario College of Teachers for high school teachers, do y’all know what I’m trying to get at??) They can open a formal investigation into the situation. Absolutely threaten to involve the media, it sounds like it’s a story they wouldn’t want getting out. (I’m a journalist, I’m happy to help you reach out and spread the word if you need a hand!!)

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She could tell him once to stop doing it . 2nd time to tell him he is being reported

I’m confused mom did or did not know about all this the whole time??

Bring charges! Screw the school system! They’ll just protect him and the school! Tell the police what happened and bring it into the public eye before he does it to another student!!

Why haven’t the authorities been contacted? This is NOT a time to negotiate anything. Your child needs you to advocate for her.

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Make some noise, no school wants to deal with noise backed by the internet. Post their information

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Have you gone to the superintendent. His background should be investigated. Go to the police and let him know you are going.

Contact your local Hells Angels chapter. They will keep her safe.

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Time to file a Complaint with the police, He has overstepped Decency and has made this an Sexual abuse case! Also file a Restraining order against him, get the other girls to join in!

Give the girl some mace and a tape recorder,think a step ahead. Actual concrete proof cannot be called anything else. As far as peeking into her window ,who in their right mind leaves a teen girl’s window bare for the world to look in.?? Get a shotgun to address peeping toms.

Take it to the news stations and file restraining order for him. Also to the state board of licensing. Plenty you can do.

Question…why haven’t the police been contacted?

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Call the police. More stuff could have happened. Plus, its called sexual harassment.

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Contact a lawyer Suing Schools Under Title IX for Sexual Harassment

If a teacher or other school employee has sexually harassed or abused your child, you might be able to sue the school district based on a violation of a federal law known as Title IX. That law says any educational program that receives federal funds—all public schools and most private schools—may not discriminate “on the basis of sex.” Sexual harassment is a form of sex-based discrimination. It includes comments or behavior of a sexual nature, unwanted sexual advances, or sexual assault or coercion. The U.S. Department of Education has also made it clear that Title IX prohibits harassment based on gender, including any unwelcome conduct based on a student’s actual or perceived sex, gender identity, or gender expression.

The U.S. Supreme Court has set a high bar for successful Title IX lawsuits. In order to win damages for a teacher’s sexual harassment, a student must show that a school official:

knew about the school employee’s sexual harassment
had the power to take corrective action, and
did so little about the misconduct that the response amounted to “deliberate indifference.”

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He needs to be fired and criminally prosecuted, he has been grooming her. And if he’s done that much with her who knows what he’s done to other girls - or will in the future?

File a formal police report. Also see if any other classmates had problems. This will accelerate

Document everything and report so at least its on file incase someone else reports to pd

Police report and threaten to take it to the media!! She deserves to be at her graduation and be comfortable!!!

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If he is a neighbor why haven’t you confronted him about his actions? And why haven’t you called the police and file a report???

Why have you not reported this to the police?

Report it instead of looking for answers on Facebook? Why is it even a discussion?

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Should be a no brainer, time to talk to school management about it, don’t put it off.

girl was taking measurements for inseams…

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Is this a joke? You don’t know what to do?

There were no cameras in the classes??

The police would have been my first stop!

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And you have to ASK? I don’t need to know anything else.

Um go to the police? Why have you not already??!

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I am dumbfounded that you have not taken this to the police.

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Who are you, Dear Annie?

Call the police and then go to the media. Shame on the school for not listening and letting this happen

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He should b in jail call the police let them lock him up he won’t be there then…

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Go to the police and ask the newspaper to attend graduation

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She needs to report him… He has probably done this before and will do it again.

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Go to the police and start recording everything

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What a load of shit. Couldn’t be more made up if you tried.

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I would be paying that teacher a visit with a police officer.

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This is your chance to show your daughter what grace is.

Get the cops involved and sue the school get a restraining order

Move and move schools. Long term trauma is too damaging.

Screw it, I say go to the news at this point.

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File a complaint. He has no business being near kids

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Make a complaint with police dept

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I would be reporting that shit to police if they aren’t going to do anything about it

Go over the schools head and speak directly with the board of education

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Get a lawyer… and if he’s doing stuff like that, he needs to be in jail.

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Time to call law enforcement. Should have been done immediately.

Please don’t trust the school to punish him! Police report and a lawyer, like yesterday! Restraining order!

File a police report. She may be saving lots of girls from a potential criminal

Are you kidding?!?. Report him to the police. This is not just about YOUR daughter. He is a sexual predator.

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Take it to the media

Omg maybe there are more victims he needs to be fired and investigated !! He sounds like a perv

Slice his tires the morning of graduation :blush:

Go to police and make a complaint of sexual assault

Call the police and report the creep!! :scream: if the school won’t take the allegations seriously the police will!

Call the school board, and report it to the police.

GO TO THE POLICE. That should have been your first phone call. This man is a predator and needs to be reported.

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file a complaint with the school and report him to the police.

Principal,school board, superintendent and press.

Turn it over to the police

Go to the news go to media outlets and put him on blast

Restraining order… Go over the head of the school and talk to whoever they work for… Tell the school you are going to the press to not only talk about the incidents but also the schools response of doing very little to protect its students.

Go to the media. Hopefully public outcry will help him loose his job.

I’m not from the us so I have no advice but this has utterly appalled me and I’m so so sorry that your daughter has had to go through this AT SCHOOL. And that they don’t seem to want to help or stop this disgusting predator.

make a police report. file a restraining order. sue the school for not even investigating once you spoke to them.

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Flog the “teacher” with a bat….:woman_shrugging:t3::woman_shrugging:t3: well I would If that we’re my daughter….

Take it to the media.

Call the police. Ask for a restraining order.

Why even bother with the school… if she has been sexually traumatized by this man, then go to the police. If it is decided no actual crime was committed, she will have to choose whether to go to her graduation, with everyone there, including parents and family, and entire class… or stay home. The guy sounds like a real jerk, but he is also a neighbor… are there any plans to move out of the neighborhood? Let him be a jerk at the graduation and let everyone see. She will have her support system right there so remind her of that and ignore the creep.

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Is there any legal direction in which you can handle this. It’s late in the game but maybe filing a legal complaint may be enough to have the school to suspend him or at least force them to ask him not to come to graduation.

We have got to teach our daughters to be more proactive and to use their voices.

I would personally have changed schools and moved house. The school is in the wrong. I suggest you contact the school board and police

Tell the teacher if he ever touches my daughter again that it’ll be the last thing he ever touches because he won’t have fingers anymore. Fucking perv…

Call the police. File a restraining order for sexual harassment.

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TELL SOMEBODY 3 Years ago

Consult an attorney asap

Go to the police and file an official report for sexual harassment against this creep. Keep after the school superintendent and board until you get your voice heard. Good luck to you and your daughter.

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This just sounds like more bs

File a complaint with police

Call the school board, call the police, tell the newspapers and blast him publicly online. He’s a predator and has likely done much worse in private to someone before and got away with it which is why he’s so brazen about it now. We all have to speak out with these things because it doesn’t stop.

I’d file a complaint with the school board and call a lawyer

And just look at all the attention you got. That’s what you wanted so I hope you’re happy. You obviously have way worse problems than spouting off all over FB. :smirk:

All the girls need to file. Charges

Thats when you as a mother bust a mother fuggin cap in his nasty azz theres no margin for error against predators

Ewww. He was grooming her. That’s awful. I feel sorry for your daughter. She shouldn’t have to deal with that crap.

Do set up cameras since you stated hes your neighbor as well.
I’m assuming hes single?

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I don’t believe this story the line a3ll-out the blinds was just past over to easily. We didnt have any on our daughters room because she couldnt finds one’s she likes. Bs

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A simple threat of getting a lawyer because of behaviour should do it. If not go all the way

It’s called get a lawyer… Press charges? Like… Expose the school. They hate that shii

Go and see him and tell him what you will do to him if he ever touches your daughter

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He’d be dead meat if it was my daughter. Never mind graduation :face_with_raised_eyebrow:

Forget the school… call the police IMMEDIATELY. This guy is a perv, the police need to deal with this and the school district will follow suit.

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That is so awful. Why was he not fired?

You have to ask? Talk to the priciple then the district if u need too.

Police report then go to your state Dept of education. Attorney general governor whoever will listen!!! I wouldn’t stop until someone listened!!

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my husband would go “talk” to him

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This sounds made up as fuck

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I would call law enforcement and a attorney!:face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth:

Tell the school board. They NEED to know this!

Try a restraining order