Why are u on Facebook asking random people when as soon as you learned of this you didn’t go to the police, get a restraining order, pay him a visit and kick the shit out of him. Posting his picture and warning other parents. You need to get off your phone and help your child.
My daughter is not comfortable around her teacher due to him being inappropriate: What should we do?
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oh hell no…
Okay so don’t bother at all trying to go through the school superiors or anything of the sort. They will do absolutely jack shit about this. They won’t “ruin a man’s life and career over the allegations from a teenager”. They will always stand with the person they have employed because it would be very bad publicity if it got out that he was in fact guilty. You need to go to the police NOW and file a harassment claim, sexual assault claim for all the touching and advances of the teacher that she repeatedly said no to but he never listened, and get a restraining order. If she gets a restraining order. If after these claims are filed, the school still does nothing, at least she can then attend her own graduation and he will not be permitted to be on the premises due to the restraining order. I bid you the best of luck.
Go to the police for sure
Call your local news outlets.
REPORT HIM! He will not stop until he gets what he desires!!!
Report him. Totally totally out of line.
Hell no tell on him 
Go to your local news outlet!!! Screw him
Contact the police immediately.
Umm why arnt the police involved yet?!
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Take it to the news station
Report it to the school!
Call police and report him
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Get it all in writing and press charges. Sick bstrd
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I would be going to your police department
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1st hes a teacher he crossed every single line and boundary. Why in the FUCK as you as a parent stopped this and called the law!!!
I’m not saying I’m correct, but I understand Tourette’s is a neurological disorder. Stress can increase the tics but are not the cause.
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Tell the principal, superintendent, and school board that you want to file a formal complaint and take it to the local newspaper. This is about your daughter’s safety and the many other daughters who will have to face this disgusting behavior. He should not be in a position of any power near children.
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Honestly at that point, I’m not sure if I’d want my daughter to attend that graduation because they are so terribly rude to her and obviously have no care in the world about it, which is absolutely awful! If you can’t find a better solution, maybe plan her a graduation at your home or elsewhere just for her, and make her feel very special and she would be safe, confident, and comfortable
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Where the hell is the father in all this ? Grow a set of nuts man , grab this guy and put the fear of god in him . Had similar thing happen to my granddaughter . To this day that teacher steps to the other side when he sees me .
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This makes me so angry. When our daughter was in high school, a teacher with a pregnant wife commented on our daughters sweater and said she needed to do extra credit. I called my husband at work and he met me at the school. We went to this teachers class and asked him to give us a list of the extra credit he requested. The studdering and excuses. These aholes need to be outed. I pray this girl will get to enjoy her graduation.
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I had this happen more than once with my teachers. Also, with a doctor and other inappropriate adults or “professionals”. There are a lot of creepy predator like people out there. Some are even running our country and like to smell children’s hair.
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I would talk to the police and file a complaint. Im sure they’re more girls. I wish you best of luck. Please get her to a therapist so she can learn how to deal with this anxiety.
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If that was my child they wouldnt go back to thay school full stop!
Something not sitting right about this story anyway!
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First stop should be a visit to the principal (you’ve already gone the counselor’s route) if that doesn’t work reach out to the school district.
They (the school) don’t want the bad press and you as a parent don’t want to put your daughter in that situation. Do whatever needs to be done for your daughter.!
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You went to the school and they did not address the issue. Go to the police and make a complaint. Make sure to have your daughter write the whole story down to hand in to the police and get your daughter a good lawyer!
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straight to the police file a complaint attend the school see the person in charge etc go as high as you can i would your daughter deserves her graduation and celebrate it dont let them bully you i hope all goes well for your daughter i would be so mad id probably go mental at the school etc your daughter deserves to be treated fairly etc and she is allowed to stand up for herself and tell her side all the way to court for this person
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Take a bat knock on his door and tell him if he doesn’t stay away from your daughter the second thing you will do is go to the Authorities, then break the front window with the bat and leave. I doubt he’ll call the police.
More then likely other girls will have a story to tell
Bring a lawyer when you go back to the Authorities
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As someone who was sexually harrassed and it got brushed under the rug… make noise and make it loud until justice is served.
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So why haven’t the police been called? But what I’m confused is you said her favourite teacher her freshman year, then said he was the new teacher her senior year… I’m confused…
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this needs to be reported to the police, and this teacher needs to not be teaching. What he’s doing is harassment, and god knows how many other students he’s done this to, or worse! It’s baffling that the school responded the way they did.
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My heart goes out to your daughter and to you as a parent! I am appalled that the superintendent, counselor and principal are choosing to ignore this. I would file a complaint with the police and the district. He has probably gotten away with this behavior for years and is emboldened by the fact that he has not been held accountable. I wonder how many other students have been victims of his disgusting behavior?
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File a police report for sexual harassment of a minor. Remember, he’s your neighbor as well, so this may not end once she graduates. He still lives nearby!
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That’s so scary when I was little I had a teacher that was like that with me , I cried to get taken out of his class . Because I was so uncomfortable, whenever I saw him on campus I would run hide every corner.
File a police report. The school will have to follow district procedures. Yes, it’s difficult and I completely understand. If your daughter has had this happen, you can bet there are other students it’s happened to as well. This teacher needs to be gotten away from his hunting grounds, immediately.
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This story is weird. One if this is my kid. Send the diploma in the mail and she would never enter that school again. Make a huge uproar or do nothing but actions speak louder than words and more innocent young girls are out there for him to pray on if you do nothing.
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Honey go to the education ombudsman or the education department this is totally inappropriate behavior and your daughter has a right to feel safe and to attend her own graduation good luck to you and your daughter
Go to the media, the police, anyone who will listen! He is sexually harassing her, and she should be able to feel safe at her own graduation. If nothing else, a lawsuit should be pressed against the school for enabling this person.
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Usually the teachers are not the ones that hand out the graduation diplomas so he probably won’t be anywhere around her when she goes up on the stage to get the diploma… at least that’s the way most schools do it…your daughter should go and hold her head up high and be proud of what she has accomplished by graduating
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When I was in high school there was a teacher like this, but only with the “pretty & popular” girls. He would spank them a yard stick or wooden paddle. I ended up confronting him & the vice principal with the threat of police involvement. He behaved while I was around but I don’t know about after I graduated.
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He repeatedly touched her … even when she said no? How about the police? A restraining order?
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if all this is true the police should have been your very first step
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File a police report and go to the media. There’s nothing like bad press to get a school to do something.
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Don’t mean to sound rude. But instead of putting this on Facebook, my first instinct would be police would have been called immediately as soon as school refused to do anything. Also daughter shouldnt have gone back to school.
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Stand up you wuss! Call the cops! Something! It’s your job as a parent to protect her and secure her safety! How is this even a question? Show her that standing up is a good thing and don’t be afraid to take control!
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That man is a predator! Your daughter and others are his prey. Someone needs to listen up and do something! Good luck sweetie! Good thing I don’t know where he’s at!
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Its pretty simple really. Report him to the police, the Department of education and the principal of the school. If he is stalking her, that is a criminal offence.
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File a police report… do not support people who are predators to young people… pretty sick some of these comments going out of their way to protect this predator because they don’t want bad press! These are bad people walking the damn streets!!
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Call the police, call child protective services, call a lawyer to sue the school district, and report it to the local news
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I had 2 male gym teachers that were like that. Always touching the girls and having them sit on their laps…Completely inappropriate the principal wouldn’t do anything about it. One even aske girls for kisses on the cheek and would turn his head so they’d get his lip instead…
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I’d take legal action against the school. Its amazing how fast they realise theres an issue when having to answer questions to their superiors.
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Skip the school and have a police report filed, then inform the school you have taken appropriate legal actions against the teacher. This is not okay not should it ever happened. If you do so in this order the school is less likely to have a chance to try and cover up anything and make excuses for any of his behaviors. Also, chances are that she is not the only girl that things have happened to. Once one speaks many will follow.
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Don’t know how it works “over-there” with protection of childs - age doesn’t matter BUT here in Sweden THIS is a heavy police report/issue! This is serius matter - DO SOMETHING to protect her!!
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Don’t just talk to the school, make a formal complaint, they have to address that. Otherwise they will be held accountable if this teacher does anything to anyone including your daughter. A formal complaint could stop him while they investigate. Bless your daughter for speaking up🙏🏾
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If this story were true it would have been 3 sentences long instead of 3 pages .
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Why wasn’t something done to this perv 3 years ago??? What are you waiting for?!?!?
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Go to the police,get the other girl/or girls as there are probably more to also speak up,go to superintendent of schools and let him know that his name will be dragged in the mud if you have to get the press involved
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Is this not against the law where you are? Inappropriate touching is sexual assault here in Canada.
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It’s important in this type of situation that you go though all of the proper channels with good documentation of the incidents. You went to the principal and counselor without success, next is the superintendent. Be persistent. After the superintendent, is your school board, and state board of education. Depending on the responses that you get as you peruse this, there will be a point that law enforcement and legal representation should be considered. If he isn’t stopped, he will continue to ruin lives. Your daughter is a smart and brave young lady for speaking up and coming to you. Best wishes. Stay strong.
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Since you’ve informed the school board and choose to ignore it, I’d file a report with local law enforcement…should be sexual harassment…
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Go in front of your school board and to your state human rights commission and file a complaint.
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File a complaint. Reach out to your local sexual abuse advocate. He is a teacher and is grooming his female students and vulnerable students. Get an advocate to help you with filing with police . He should be held accountable to his actions and the school for doing nothing to assist in her safety.
Honestly, and this sucks and I don’t condone the world this way, your daughter will have to deal with being around men like that for her whole life. Unfortunately, anything less than assault (and even then sometimes not if it’s not proven) is considered bad but not THAT bad. Multiple enough-older men have tried to take advantage of me, pushing and asking over and over while I was drunk or snowed into their house and I had to figure out how to protect myself while not upsetting them. I hope like hell your daughter never needs to live in that world, but also, she is physically safe at her graduation. He can’t talk to her at her graduation (I assume?) and perhaps she can get a friend to stick with her. A lot of these creeps won’t bother girls in front of other guys, so a guy friend is preferable. But also, I agree with the other comments: these actions need to have proper and appropriate consequences. I’d like to believe that there’s a way to teach these people to behave appropriately and respectfully, but I doubt it. Your local paper, Facebook group, a petition from the students, other school parents getting together, lots of things could help disseminate this. Women and girls deserve to be informed about the creepiness of their teachers if the school superiors won’t bother to help protect their students.
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Everyone saying this is made up. In my high school there was a known hs teacher who has sex with MANY students. And it was well known. By everyone. And was never stopped.
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Start with counceler on up until someone is willing to recognize how wrong this man is.Principal,police,school board,media until someone else is a voice for this young lady and brings it to full attention. She is a victim and deserves to be heard. Who knows how many others there might be.
I would call a lawyer and have a document drawn up stating the complaint. Or contact the school board with specific instances, dates and times in a written complaint
I was harassed at a job once and no one would help me until I wrote a complaint with specific instances and threatened to send it to the next boss up
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This needs to be made public in your area. This man should not be around either male or female students. The school system in your area needs to be doing a better job of protecting their students. It sounds like this needs to become a legal matter.
School board and police, someone like that should not be near students! I don’t know if school counsellors are psychologists, we don’t have them in the UK, but if they are part of a professional body, I would get in contact with them too. The fact that no one seems to be taking this seriously is disgusting
Curious if you have also taken this complaint to the school board since the powers that be at the school have done nothing to protect your minor daughter from being securely harassed?
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Definitely go to the police and I could go to ofsted or whoever is over seeing the school and talk about it… Something will be done then they need good ratings to get pupils in and they will be scared to let something like this leak so will be pretty quick in their response… I would also threaten to go to the papers to and name everyone who have spoken to at the school and let your daughter down and the teacher involved… Go full mama bear on them let it loose x
I’d be taking actions as far as I could and I wouldn’t stop. He’s a predator, and if he isn’t stopped then someone else will fall victim!
Get a restraining order and tell everyone that you plan on going to the graduation. Have room in your phone to video when the cops drag him away if he’s stupid enough to go there. Definitely sue the school and him personally. File criminal charges against him. Keep talking about it. Don’t be nice about it. You’re speaking up can possibly prevent this from happening again.
Go to their boss. And higher. And higher. Talk to the police and if necessary the media. That man is a danger to all. Don’t stop.
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What he was doing is not ok and if the school board is doing nothing about his behavior take it higher predators should not be allowed to still work in schools period.
Report the creep and make sure it’s with the education department not the school also police . Has nothing to do with your daughter having Tourette’s . How dare he . 
Contact RAINN, they can help connect you with information and resources. You likely need a lawyer, definitely need to file a police report and probably civil suits against the principal and superintendant for failure to even suspend the teacher with pay and hold an inquiry into the alleged grooming and abuse AND failure to report to the police themselves (they are legally mandated reporters), leading to continued damages to your child (as well as a civil suit against the teacher himself). The DA will decide whether there’s a strong enough case to charge the teacher, principal, and/or superintendant for their respective actions and inactions. Do not get the media involved, at least not until your legal matters are resolved.
This is child abuse a d needs to be reported to the police. All the staff at school are mandated reporters and have been derelict of their duty at the moment they were notified of the inappropriate behavior. This will result in fines and jail time. Report this now. He will do this to other girls and who knows how many he has done this to before her.
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This needs to be addressed by the police and formal complaints need to be filed. He is a predator and allowing him to get away with small stuff and pushing it aside isint doing anything to help your daughter or change his behavior. It needs to be stopped. He is a predator…and should not be a let around young girls, let alone be a teacher. Please realize and believe that your daughter is not the only one, there are other girls out there who he has done this to, your daughter coming forward shows how strong she is…She needs your support and do not let this school system cover up the problem so they dont look bad. that teacher needs to be arrested and held accountablefor his actions. Im praying for your daughter and for all the other girls he hurt. They need to know its not their fault and he is wrong! Im sorry you all are going through this.i wish u the best…god bless
Go to the the superintendent and principal and let them know since they aren’t taking in action you will go to the school board and make a formal complaint, so it’s on his record.
File a complaint with the police if the school will not do anything. They will need statements from the girls he has been inappropriate with. He needs to be stopped. Clearly, his behavior is escalating as the girls mature. He is also psychologically abusive. He must be stopped from being a danger to other young female students. I don’t understand why your daughter cannot attend her graduation. Her family and everyone else’s family will be watching. It is a public event. You can take her home when the ceremony is over.
Since the higher-ups have all denied your requests, I would take it to the news. This is a very serious situation and absolutely not OK.
If nobody at the school will listen then it’s time to go above that and/or speak with police. He should’ve been fired immediately
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I don’t believe this… Why would you let this go on for four years and then complain???
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This teacher has issues of control by attending her graduation but not the baccalaureate, the exact opposite of what was proposed. And I’m sure this isn’t the first time he’s made inappropriate remarks to any of the students. Contact the police and schedule a meeting with the DA ASAP! This teacher may not have made advances towards your daughter but he is harassing her and it needs to stop now. Ask DHHS to interview her in your home and to make a recommendation that this teacher stay away from her. Unless this teacher has his own child graduating, there’s truly NO need for him to be there. The principal, board, supt. are covering their asses because he probably has rights in his contract. This is about keeping your child safe. Safe from him and the fear he instills. I was a teacher for 40 years at the elementary level and this makes me sick. No one who supports his contract will want to get involved in protecting him or his rights!
And then people wonder why sexual predator are only ever found out after they commit a crime.
Name, shame and report there ass out of a carrier near vulnerable people 
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They do sting operations all the time. I agree with everyone saying go to the police, but at this point, since it’s public, he may not fall for it. For all we know, he follows this page as well.
What do you mean what do you do? Get your butt to the superintendent’s office and request a meeting with with principal and teacher and tell them fix it after that go straight to p.d and report it because you have to have a paper trail before they can do anything to him. And go to the media that way many more students come out and it will become a bigger mess. Make a big scene
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You have gone through the proper channels and they are not taking this serious enough. now it’s time to File a complaint with the police department and contract children’s services they should begin an investigation
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Dear GOD, I was waiting for a punchline in this post - it ever came. This is SO BAD. Why oh WHY haven’t you filed a police report AND gone to a lawyer?
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Unfortunately stuff like this happens more than people realize. Usually the school system and board just tries to cover it up and hopes nobody notices.
First stop should be to the police and then the school maybe a restraining order is due
Beyond the school thing, you need to move. How healthy is it him being next door?
Then what you need to do is go to the police I am sure without a doubt there are charges they can press against him if nothing else go to board of education but not do Facebook
That man is a predator and should have been run out on a rail! He’s just bilious vermin and there are far too many of them that get away with this crap!!
I read many very good ideas here. You can also tell the Superintendent that you plan to take it to the school board, even thought they are dealing with a powerful teacher’s union.
Sue the something out of the school. For child endangerment and pandering to a predator.
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Please please please order the book “open blind eyes” it will for sure show a whole new reality as to how important it is to get help asap. A lady in the next town over from me wrote it. It’s by rachel Timothy. You can find it on ebay, amazon and even at barnes and noble. Please dont give up…even if she graduates before you can get help. Still get the help…
Record everything! If no one listens to you complain, post it for the world to see. Social media with track him and any person who enables him down and end it.
Why wasn’t it dealt with With the teacher involved