My daughter is not comfortable around her teacher due to him being inappropriate: What should we do?

Um police report was the first thing that should’ve been done then going to the school restraining order board of education would be better then going to the school since they seem to not see much of anything wrong

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Report him to the school board if he’s doing it to her sure he’s has others

How about filing a restraining order. Than he could NOT go to either.

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Also, this is what you should not do… But I’d be knocking on his damn door too

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When I was in high school there was a creepy teacher. He was obvious. Pretty girls with big boobs didnt have to run in PE class he just sat and talked to them the entire time the rest of us ran, along with alot of other inappropriate behavior. I told my Dean about it and she didnt listen. The year after I graduated my mom threw the local newspaper at me and told me to read it. He was arrested for 16 counts of statutory rape for having sexual relations with a 16 year old at my school. He was 24. Do everything you can to protect your daughter against this predator before something bad happens to her or some other girl(s)!!!

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I would go to the police if the school isn’t going to do anything about it. Besides her word is there any proof of him being a weirdo towards her? If she had some type of proof I would definitely be matching my butt to the police station and get a restraining order and a no contact order or something

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Your neighbor?? I’d be kicking in his front door. Get the police involved asap and start pressing charges!

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Go to police and the local media.

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You should’ve made a report with the police - I didn’t see it in the post. If not, pull her and call the news.

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Go to the police and file a RO. Lose your shit in the office at that school so everyone knows what’s going on. Take a baseball bat to the teachers kneecaps and face. Don’t forget to smile real big in your mugshot!

I would file a bullying and harrassment form, it is in the WCPS student handbook. Go to the WCPSMD.COM and look under documents

Sometimes going to the media works

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Well, you are a better person than I am because I would have beaten the brakes off of him. You absolutely need to file a police report. I am not sure if you could get a restraining order because he is a teacher in the school and I don’t know how he would physically be able to stay a certain amount of feet away from her when they walk past each other in the hallway. I would also contact the local news media and tell them how the school is involved in a sexual misconduct cover up. Is the guy married? I would contact his wife as well and let her know what her husband did.

Beat his ass. Like fucking yesterday.

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Report him to the principal. If the principal doesn’t listen, go to the superintendent.

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Social media, local news outlet, and police station!!!

Our job as parents is to protect our children. Call the police, change Schools, move, call the news, demand attention and action. I mean, ANYTHING to protect your child. You are heartbroken? Get over yourself. Be an adult and STAND UP for your innocent child.

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You let it go then you allow him to continue to hurt young woman go to your ombudsmen take it higher than the school board dont stop till he is taken out of the school dont let another child be a victim

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He touched your minor child and you know where he lives and this is still an issue?

He’s a grown ass Man. Shes a minor in high school that he’s probably been grooming. He knows better.

So he needs at a minimum charges brought against him and his teaching license reevaluated.

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I feel graduation should be the least of your problems right now… Go lay a charge!

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As her parent and protector you’re allowing this. Put the hammer down and protect your child, what’s so hard about that? What about dad? Is he present to defend his daughter? Call the police and see if theres anything they can do, GET A RESTRAINING ORDER against him so that if he contacts her or your family again he goes to jail, and if all else fails, then take matters into your own hands. It’s ridiculous imo that people even need to ask advice for this kind of stuff that SHOULD be total common freaking sense! You gonna let it keep happening or you gonna do something about it?

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Sad Just take her away for a special weekend for graduration Have your own graduation Invitr friends and family Make her own sprcial memories

File a police report ASAP!!! Don’t wait, don’t think about it, don’t wonder if you’re doing the right thing, file the report!!! Protect your daughter and others bc if it has happened to her, it has happened to others and will continue - unfortunately. If she doesn’t now, your precious daughter will thank you later. It’s what needs to be done. Best wishes for her to be able to attend HER graduation. Sending hugs

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If you or others don’t do the right thing this man will escalate. I promise you within a few years he will rape a student. This might be the biggest, most courageous thing you ever do. Step up and do the right thing whatever that takes. God Bless.

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She needs to try and write down everything that has happened. Get medical records showing how this has impacted her health and call the authorities ASAP. Maybe even try to find out if this has happened to any of her classmates as well. also, (this is just me)
I would knock on his door and tell him to stay the hell away from my child. Make no threats but let him know
You will not tolerate his behavior

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Flat out get his higher ups involved immediately

One last thought. You say he is your neighbor? Don’t worry about retribution. He will never screw with you or yours if you do the right thing. In fact, I wouldn’t be surprised if he moves because now he has been discovered.

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Go to the news stations. She can remain anonymous because of her age and still get the word out there. If the school is accepting of this they’re likely willing to overlook something more major. I’m sure they would back up and punt if confronted by news media

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Go to the cops. The school will never listen. I’m sorry but this post is ridiculous mamma bear up an do what needs to be done! I’m sorry to be so cold but no one in this world will protect your babies you have to. Kick an scream an make a fuss till your satisfied! That school will walk all over you . They have no power that’s your baby not theirs remind them of that! Tell them you will sue them. Get mad! They will back down I promise you that!

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Surely this isn’t true if so there’s been a gross failure to protect this child. And the level of ignorance is disturbing. Honestly you need to go see a counsellor asap and speak to the authorities school police etc.

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Get her a teaser… if he touches her she needs shock the fuck out of him. That will teach him. If Police report, principles won’t do anything arm your self. I got tried of taken advantage of in high school. My dad got me one I told the dude not to touch me and he did I shocked him. You can also file restraining order against him.

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Is this supposed to be an inappropriate joke, written for dramatic effect, or a real question about someone’s real daughter that you are now just getting worried about… come on it’s Facebook… it’s not real! No mother would right this kind of shit going on with her daughter and not give a shit when it’s first brought to a mothers attention… no way… not believe able!!

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What the actually fuck am I reading !!!
Go to the police

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You need to go to the police and file a complaint. End of story. Then, you need to tell the school that if they dont do something you will be contacting am attorney.

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I would contact the police and attorneys for advice. Tell the school you are doing so. Also go to the school board and not the principal because it sounds like they are coddling the teacher and siding with him and not doing enough to worry about protecting the students!!!:flushed:

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This one is really easy. Take this to a news reporter. Blast this everywhere! Shout it from the rooftops. School systems never do anything until shit hits the news.

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It would be so horrible if he ate something that made him sick or ended up sustaining an injury before graduating :shushing_face:

Has he physically touched her inappropriately and also I would go to the higher-ups

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He probably wouldn’t be living next to me any more or any where else for that matter.

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Go get a restraining order out on him that would stop him from going

This is a safeguarding issue and needs to be reported ASAP to the authorities! The man is a predator and the situation needs to be dealt with. For the sake of your daughter as well as any other potential future victims!!

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Police and school board. Go all the way to the top of the chain. This should have been stopped a long time ago.

file a police report and an exparte on the teacher. go to the graduation anyway and have the police keep an eye on him dont be afraid to talk to police.

Please contact your local law enforcement immediately. Bring any proof you have against this dirt bag directly to them. If he did this to your daughter, I can guarantee she isn’t the only one and he will keep going until it gets way worse. Please notify them that he is also your neighbor which sounds scary and he may be unpredictable. The school district needs to be aware and any investigating officers or detectives will get in touch with the school officials. Hope this helps! Good luck to you!

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I’m sorry if this actually true… but I feel the questions being asked on this page and another keep getting more and more questionable.

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He cannot get away this your poor daughter.

Um… Go to the school board… The authorities… Is this seriously even a question??

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Should have reported him long ago

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If this is true then…can I ask why police/ social services are not involved

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I don’t even believe this is a true story sounds made up

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u should have layed a charge long ago please do so

Go to the police and school authorities. How have you not already :woman_shrugging:t3:

This has been. Happening for 4 years and you are just worried about it now? He’s your neighbor and you haven’t gone over there and punched him in his face yet?

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I’d get a restraining order

Take it too the police get a restraining order with that comment he made in & out of school can probably do it knowing you’re daughter is fearing for her safety.
Also superintendent needs a call too.
You’re daughter def needs you right now.
Also the order will stop him from coming to graduation too

Get a personal protection order

:face_with_symbols_over_mouth: get him arrested lock him up for life I was 12 when I got sexually harassed by my moms church friend he would make comments abt my body like my thighs and butt and he would smack my a** and I told my mom amd sister abt it and how uncomfortable I am around him my mom didn’t do a single thing abt it never called the cops never talked to him abt it never did a single thing. I’m 18 and she’s still friends and close to him after I told her what he did
Please for the love of your daughter file a report and get him locked up before he does something bad to your daughter or someone else’s daughter

File a police report and contact the district office about the discussion with the school principal.

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Go to administration or guidance dept. Report this creep

Hes your neighbor go demand to know why tf he touched your daughter after she asked him not to!

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Has any of this been reported to the school…?

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go to the police, make as much noise and chaos for him as possible. He has no business being near minor children, let alone teaching. He is a creep

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Call a lawyer and police .He should have been reported long ago. He should not be teaching children. He is weird and creepy and worse, he could be doing criminal things.

Uhm you report him to the school and call the police. Try and get her to record anything he says to her.

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What the fuck am I reading?
How has it even got this far?
Go to the police, TODAY!

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I couldn’t even read this whole thing! That dude is a fucking pedophile! Restraining order!!!

CALL Police, school district and a lawyer against the school

File a report! Screw graduation… sick bastard!

Report him please so he can’t keep hurting people this way.

File a police report!!!

Time to call the police

You need to contact police

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Call the police. Like right now.

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Call :clap:t2: the​:clap:t2: police.

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You need to file police report

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WTF!!! Why have you not gone to the police station!!!

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Im so sorry your daughter has been through this. I was sexually assaulted as a 16 year old by a person older than 18 at the time. And nothing was ever done to him. And I’ve told people who are close with him over the years…they don’t believe he would do something like that despite the fact I very much experienced. These situations are very hard and very sucky!!!

Go to the police hun. If they refuse to do anything take it to the police this is sexually harassment and it’s an even bigger charge with her being a minor

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First contact a lawyer and have them deal with the school system. Next go to the police and make a report on that Teacher. No telling what all he has done to other girls past and present if he is doing that to your daughter.

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So sad! What is this world coming to?

File a police report they have to investigate! If not go to the media the school district and police will be forced to do something then

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Lawyer, police , news station

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I dont know but the police and a restraining order. He needs to be charged and he will nit be attending anything if you have an order and ask the judge to indicate that.

I’d go to your local news station. Honestly sounds dramatic but if what you are saying is true he was trying to groom her and I hate to say this but I highly doubt she is the only one. I would go to the news station with the concern about him and tell them what the school told you. I’m personally appalled the school isn’t taking more action. I get just based off her side not doing this BUT based off what she is saying they should be investigating him themselves!

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Why havent you called the police???

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Wtf? Are you even kidding me right now, why the fuck wouldn’t you report him asap to the cops! Then school system, he’d never have the chance to hurt another student, id prob kill him myself

He has been grooming her. Freaking weirdo. If the school won’t do anything get the police involved. More then likely he is doing it to other girls the way you talk so maybe the police can do an investigation that will allow more girls to come out.

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Hi go to the damn cops bc this could happen again to other girls

You are the mama. What do YOU think you should do. This post scares me. Simply because this is a major thing and you are turning to complete strangers to be told what to do. You have your OWN mind. Don’t let social media (or anyone) condition your brain to think you can’t think for yourself. You are her mama. Do what you think you should do.

I’d file a restraining order first, police report, and then I’d call an attorney and hit that school with a massive law suit. I’d talk to the other parents to see who all else had had an issue with him and probably the news too. That teacher shouldn’t have a job much less be able to attend graduation.

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Everything I want to tell you to do well get me back in Facebook jail… .45

Report that shit to the police.

There is no compromise… stand up for your child. Put your foot down. Absolutely no way in hell would I compromise when my child is in pain because of some nasty asshole teacher. He should be fired.

Go to the police station honey screw the school. He should be charged

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Call everyone don’t let them keep it quiet. The schools behavior is disgusting and it exactly why girls and woman are afraid to say anything

He wouldn’t WANT to go if it was my daughter because I would be telling him and everyone at the school about him and if he knew I’d be at the graduation he’d stay away to avoid me

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Time for a restraining order against said creep. It should have never gotten this far. Go to the police department and demand safety for your child if he’s looked in windows what else has he done and what might he do? The school is going to avoid at all costs because it’s a lawsuit against them. They have to know everything and I’d make formal demands and accusations. Lawyers are happy to assist free of charge in cases like this!

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Threaten to file a police report and threaten to press charges against the teacher and the school light a fire under them.

Go to the police , and get a lawyer because the school district is supposed to make sure our kids are safe and if he’s this much of a creep then your daughter may not be the only one. Fight with all you’ve got mama .

You’re under reacting. You go to the police and get your daughter an advocate. She is being sexually harrased (and assaulted when he puts his hands on her).

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