My daughter is not comfortable around her teacher due to him being inappropriate: What should we do?

Uhhhh you call the cops on his predatory ass and get him charged with sexual misconduct

Excuse me, thatā€™s YOUR DAUGHTER and what heā€™s been doing to her is WRONG!
If the school isnt making moves quietly to remove him from his position and away from students- take her to the police station, have her file reports and she needs to be 100% honest with them and everything! Have them place an order of protection/restraining order or whatever it is they do. Theyā€™ll investigate. If the police get involved, most likely the administration will put him on leave for the remainder of the year anyways. Sheā€™s entitled to her graduation ceremony, he doesnā€™t need to be there. :woman_shrugging:t3: if he straight told her he can see into your house, yā€™all need to go to the police and tell them that. She may not be the only one heā€™s doing this to! There could be more, and if she comes forward-it could help bring others to help get this man where he belongs.

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My best advice: have your daughter talk to the other girl (the one whoā€™s hand he moved near his crotch) she may have experienced other incidences as well, and has been too scared to come forward and speak up. Maybe if thatā€™s the case, she and her parents will feel better going together? And then like everyone else has said, get a lawyer, file a police report and make it known he has a history of being inappropriate with the female students he teaches. Donā€™t let the school scare you out of doing what you know is right. Best of luck to you dear!

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Get police involved. You should have already. You are her mother you should know how to protect her.

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Why have you not called the police. Your daughter is being sexually harassed. He wonā€™t be attending anything if he is charged.

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Go :clap: Toā€‹:clap: Theā€‹:clap:Policeā€‹:clap: this is sexual harassment and child molestation. He is using manipulation, extortion and blackmailing as forms of innocence. Get help NOW before it gets worse as he is your neighbor!

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Go to cops and get a lawyer. That will get their attention REAL quick

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Quit worrying about a graduation ceremony & go FILE A POLICE REPORTā€¦

this man is FAR from innocent, he just knows how to not get caughtā€¦

Imagine how many others heā€™s done this to. Start there. Get statements & people to go make a report with you.

Missing a graduation stinks, but pales in comparison to the hold this man has on your childā€™s life.
Empower her using the LAWā€¦

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Go above the school, contact the school board aswell as the police. Also get a restraining order.

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Police, file for a restraining order, contact a lawyer, then contact the school board and let them know, maybe even news station. You see it with high schools and colleges, sweep things under the rug because of bad publicity and the headache of having to deal with it. Too many of our daughters have to deal with this, are unheardā€¦ we need to be their voice, their strength, stand in her corner and fight for her.

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PLEASE go to the police. If heā€™s doing it to 2 girls, heā€™s doing it to more and has been for a while. Do not bother with the principal, the vice, the counselors, the board of education. None of that. Go directly to the police. Then go get you a lawyer bc he groomed your daughter, heā€™s sexually harassing her, and heā€™s causing emotional and mental turmoil. If she has any proof, that will help. If she can talk to the other girl and convince her to press charges, thatā€™d be great too. If one talks, the rest will follow. No way is he just doing this to 2 girls. I know the graduation part sucks, but you can have your own graduation at home away from him.

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Time to call cops and press charges

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All of this should be told to the schools admin then the police ā€¦not hereā€¦

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Get a lawyer, go to the police and file charges, the school system is a mandated reporter and has failed your child.File a lawsuit against the school in general and the teacher specifically. Contact the newspaper and all local television stations. SCREAM HER TRUTH TO ALL AND ANY!!!

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File a police report asap!

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What am I readin?You go to police and the school district.This is insane.Your daughter is going through this a teacher and your neighborWhat he has been doing is inappropriate completely.This is terrible.

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Clearly this needs to go to the police.

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police, school board

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I would not be posting on FB , I would be talking to an attorney !

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Shes finally told youā€¦ its now your responsibility as her parent to protect her. Call the police ā€¦ Yesterday!
Get a restraining order
Get letters from her doctor with dates sheā€™s been seem there.
A lawyer!
Plz stop worrying about a grad ā€¦ she needs you to protect her.

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School board,Police and News Media since the school is not protecting her and others from that sicko

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Get a restraining order. You need to contact law enforcement. Hes trying to groom your child. If the school says this is not a big deal, MAKE it one. Post this story to your page, call your local news station, get BIG with your voice. It is unacceptable for the school to brush off sexual harassment.

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How did yall become neighbors ā€¦that is fuxkin creepyā€¦was he always there ā€¦ or did he move in beside you ???

I had this happen to me in HS (2006). Me and a few other girls actually.
The coach was ā€˜relievedā€™ from his position and now is a coach elsewhere.

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Tell the school your lawyer will be in contact with them! Watch how fast they scramble!!! But I would suggest a police report as well.

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Police and school board because this sounds like one of those creepy lifetime movies

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Not cool. Why havenā€™t you moved on this already???

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Police then the news and media, if the news gets ahold of this and goes questioning the school that teacher will hopefully be fired because the school will have a community outcry. So sorry your daughter and family are going through this

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Beat him senseless.
Talk to the prinicipalā€¦ the school boardā€¦

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I actually went through something similar with my auto shop teacher in high school he ended up resigning because the school board and the police department ended up looking into him. But I didnā€™t come forward til later when there wasnā€™t as much evidence to convict but at least he isnā€™t working around kids anymore. Go to the police

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Go school and get a lawyer

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Reach out to victim support groups (ex - biker clubs that support child victims in court) and have them surround that POS at her graduation so she wonā€™t be visible to him and she wonā€™t have to see him!!

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Call the school board and have your daughter talk with the other student about her experience! Speak up donā€™t let them shun your voice. RAISE HELL! If that were me that sorry bastard would already be out a job. Imagine how many teens are going through this with him. That have and will continue to go through it. These are the kind of teachers your read about in 5 years because someone finally ā€œbelievedā€.

Go punch him in the balls for all young women

The biker club that dose this is B.A.C.A. Bikers against child abuse.

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Cant believe you have to ask strangers.you should know what to do.

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Report it the the education board and the police and dhs since she may not be the only child at the school affected by him take out an ivo as well for her protection Aswell.

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Iā€™d have gone through that school like a tornado in a trailer park. Sorry not sorry.

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Try getting the police involved he may have a record

I fully agree that what he is doing is wrong in every way. I experienced this with a teacher we had in high schoolā€¦luckily we were warned bc older girls had told us how he was. Luckily he retired but anywaysā€¦ Unfortunately I donā€™t think there is anything that can be done unless 1. A group of girls or guys who have witnessed his inappropriate behavior are willing to stand together and bring it to light 2. Another teacher or staff member sees it and says something 3. There is maybe a recording or 4. He takes it farther than just touching a little too close and inappropriately. Itā€™s bullshit I know but sadly thatā€™s the way our world is right now. Itā€™s so sad bc you always hear these stories of teachers being sexual with their students nowadaysā€¦like it used to happen when we were growing up but not like it does today. Itā€™s fucking sick and scary.

Frankly it might be worth it to turn into a bitch and tell the teacher that you will be filling a restraining order or something. I hope you can figure something out for her because thatā€™s fucking ridiculous. Itā€™s harassment if not assault. And he obviously knows he did something wrong to her if heā€™s accusing her of talking about him when it was something related to the film.

Have you called Texas Education Agency in Austin? They can advice you.
If you live out of state call the education agency. They can advice you

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5 things here 1. Confront him 2. Punch his lights out 3. Call the police 4. Report him to the school board 5. Pull her till hes been sacked and put behind bars

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Iā€™d get a restraining order and move I couldnā€™t sleep at night knowing that weirdo is next doorā€¦Iā€™m so sorry that your daughter has to go through thatā€¦Poor girl just wants to graduate and a sick F$&# has to ruin it for herā€¦Iā€™d probably talk to Superintendent and School Board and get a lawyer to have your backā€¦thatā€™s absolutely ridiculous that this sicko thinks making kids uncomfortable is okay in any way shape or formā€¦

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Really You, have to ask Facebook??? We should all turn in the Parent and the Teacher to the Police!!!

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I would get the police involved

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Why didnā€™t you call the police right when this had happened. And call the. News ! Go to the superintendent. Documents everything contact lawyersā€¦ Get that teacher fired!! If he done that to your baby he is doing to othersā€¦ Get more angry take actions! I would get a ppo out on that person! That makes me sick

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say something very LOUD IN THE CLASSROOM WHEN IT HAPPENS, SO ALL ARE AWARE/ and get another student to record the problems for about a week before doing so /so there is EVIDENCE

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Press official charges! With the police!

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Why the delay in contacting the cops? I am screaming out loud! This should

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Have been taken care of IMMEDIATELY!!!

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File charges on him and have him arrested for assault. Once your daughter asked him not to touch her, he assaulted her with every additional touch

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have her round up all the students who have witnessed and or experienced it first hand and have them all go to the principal, if that does nothing go to the police. Chances are heā€™s been doing this and will continue doing this if you donā€™t put an end to it now.

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Needs to be fired and jailed!

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Get the police involved, and your local news channel. The superintendent shouldā€™ve handled this if the others could not but since that couldnā€™t be done either, Iā€™d take every step possible to out him and show his true colors to EVERYBODY!! I guarantee you heā€™s done/doing this to more than just the one student. Heā€™s SICK and needs to be dealt with.

Call the police get a Lawyer. If you have yo. You can also sue the school
And get your money back for the Lawyer and medical expenses. I feel you told them and they did nothing. He should never teach again.

This is just ridiculous. Why havenā€™t you immediately contacted the authorities when the grooming began in 9th grade?? Why on earth havenā€™t you yet, all these years later. Doctors alone wouldā€™ve reported this. As a parent, cā€™mon. Thereā€™s a whole lot left out, a whole lot fabricated or whole lot of you just really donā€™t get it?

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Um if you need to askā€¦ You are wasting time and potentially allowing more to happen!! Get your shit together and stop it now

I wouldnā€™t first ask people on Facebook thatā€™s for sure!

Ring the police and complain about him!!! Jesus what kind of mum wouldnt do that!

Wait. What the hell? Youā€™re the parent and youā€™ve been letting this slide? Idiot

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This isnā€™t something you need advise on. Youā€™re her parent. You should know exactly what you have to do. So get off the social networking sites and PROTECT YOUR DAUGHTER! Calling the police should have been your first thought. Not posting it seeing what other parents would do.

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File charges against that teacher for sexual harassment.

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He needs reported to school board get her out of there

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Start with news paper lawyer also start talking and getting statement from students

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I would get a lawyer and have him brought up on sexual harassment charges. Him living next door to you whoā€™s to say he might rape her one day. Something isnā€™t right with this man nor the school principal or counselor. I would take a lawyer and go before the board if education and get them all three fired.this teacher has done this before to other girls, and the school isnt protecting your kid. If you do get s lawyer get a woman,she will fight this better than a man would in this case.what does your husband say about this if you havenā€™t told him,i suggest u get him involved now on this matter, even if you arenā€™t with him he needs to know
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Omg are you serious posting this on social media and letting it go on for 4 years and not going to the police first, something is wrong with this story and I surely arenā€™t believing it.

Why are you placing this on fb. Go to the police.

He got to the point were he was touching ur child &u never thought about getting the police involved? How the hell have u not went up to his house &knocked his damn teeth out?! Jesus Christ. When it comes to my children, I DONā€™T PLAY.

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Itā€™s the end of her senior year. The school is going to try to coast by and not upset things. Thatā€™s wrong. We all KNOW that. I would get my kid a xanax and escort her to graduation. I would also persue the issue further with a police report as others have suggested. If you stay away from graduation youā€™re giving the abuser what he needs to intimidate and groom other girls.

He was grooming her and heā€™s doing it to other girls. Police asap. File a restraining order as well. Then take that report to the school board.

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File a report, get a restraining order, and then the school has no choice. Tbhā€¦this would have been my first course of action.

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Thereā€™s motorcycle groups that you can contact that will show up in LOADS and support her to make her feel safe. They do it for kids of domestic/sexual violence. I would ask your daughter if that would be something that would make her feel protected enough to go. The principal said it was open to the public so thereā€™s no reason the motorcycle group could not go to support her and make her feel protected.

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Did yas call the police? If nothing is done heā€™ll just do it to another innocent little girl! People are sick!

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Iā€™m sorry to hear this is been my entire lifeā€¦ And itā€™s still going on and Iā€™m 58 I donā€™t know how it happens. I have to set my boundaries and lose a lot of people I thought were friends.

Definitely file a report. And look at your schools handbook for specific language to point to. Go to the media if you have to. Use social media. The most important thing is to make sure that your daughter feels empowered. This school is failing her hugely and if she doesnā€™t feel like the adults that are supposed to protect her (aside from her parents), if something more is to happen, she may come to a point where she stops sharing because it seems pointless because nobody is doing anything.

I didnā€™t even finish reading thisā€¦but I would be marching my happy ass over there and having a not so nice conversation with him! And if he didnā€™t stop I would make him stop!

Time to call the police. Should have went there when she first told you! Your precious daughterā€™s mental and physical health is at stake. Heā€™ll do it again. Guaranteed.

Now I will admit I didnā€™t read all of it but if you in America you have access to guns. That guy I donā€™t care who he is needs dealing with he has been grooming your daughter. Stuff going to the school they wonā€™t do anything and good luck getting the cops to bring justice. Sorry but I am one of those mums that have always said anyone does that to my kids I am going to be the one going to jail and I will skip and smile the whole time

Like why is he still even teaching? I would have went to the damn school, had him called to the office and kick his ass myself. Thatā€™s disgusting!

Why havenā€™t you filed a police report yet?!

If this is happening to your daughter who is speaking out I canā€™t imagine whatā€™s happening to the girl who is afraid to.

File a police report.

Take her to the police station. Have her file a report against him for sexual harassment against a minor. Call the school board and tell them of the situation and that you have filed a police report against the teacher. Call the school tell them you have spoken to both the school board and the police and have made a report and if they still allow him at the graduation then you plan to sue the school and the teacher. I would also make the police and the school board know that if they allow the teacher at the graduation and if they donā€™t fire the teacher then you will sue and report it to the media. No one likes their dirty laundry aired on the media and no one likes to be sued or charged with sexual assault. Iā€™d also speak with a magistrate judge or criminal attorney and see what all they can do about the situation. I know thatā€™s alot of people to involve but if the school doesnā€™t want to do anything about it then this will be the push they need to get rid of him. It I was the principal he would have been fire on the spot and I myself would have filed a lawsuit against that teacher

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Iā€™d definitely file a police report and go to the school board. I would personally talk to him face to face even if he is your neighbor. Keep a journal of every incident.

That is harassment and there seem many witnesses who also turn out to be protecting the offender,mubayole bonna!!!

I agree file the report get a restraining order or a harassment order. See my dad was old school and once he got word of a certain male teacher putting hands on a girl and making all us little kids stand in line with hands in the air on picture day because a kid sang the pledge of allegiance instead of saying it my dad called the school to see if the teacher was there then drove right on over. The teacher got word a parent was coming to see him and he tried to leave swiftly, but my dad caught him in the parking lot. Letā€™s just say the teacher didnā€™t get away with his actions. A few weeks later another student came forward saying the teacher had grabbed her arm and the teacher was let go.

And the fact that heā€™s your neighbor. Why didnā€™t her dad go pay him a visit yet? Do something! Youā€™re being to soft with the situation.

It sounds a bit dramatic IMO. Thereā€™s no reason she canā€™t attend her graduation with him there. Youā€™re going to be there with her and other family I assume, so she will not be alone with him. I feel like too big of a deal is being made over this. He didnā€™t do anything to her physically, he only made comments. Making inappropriate comments is not dangerous. Itā€™s just inappropriate. She has no reason to not attend her graduation. Sheā€™s there to graduate and not to draw attention from the teacher. If he would say or do something inappropriate, youā€™ll be there to take care of it. Sheā€™s never going to see the guy again after this, so itā€™s not necessary to go overboard with it all. Obviously the school doesnā€™t think thereā€™s evidence of wrong doing, being heā€™s still employed there. Itā€™s one last encounter with him and then sheā€™s free of him. Donā€™t scare her over it and make a big deal. Just let her enjoy her graduation.

Couldnā€™t even finish your comment go to the police right now and file sexual harassment charges before your comment or story turns into ā€œmy daughter was r*pedā€ by her teacher you should of questioned his integrity in the beginning itā€™s nice when an adult acknowledges our accomplishments when it comes to school but reminding him of an actress is inappropriate especially if she is still a minor and your a fool for waiting so long

Call the local news station. He is clearly grooming girls and the school wonā€™t doing anything until he rapes oneā€¦trust me. You need to find other victims which I guarantee there are and let the public crucify him.

File a police report. Seriously. This society needs to STOP trying to find ā€œniceā€ ways of dealing with predators. You donā€™t have to find a polite way to STOP sexual abuse. Go to the police. Go to the school board. Press charges. Sue. THIS NEEDS TO STOP.

Speak with the other girl and her parents also see if she would be willing to come forward. Be interesting to see how many other girls will come forward also. Hopefully this might change the outcome

Go to the police. You are probably one of many families that have not done anything, and so nothing has been done to him. Beyond inappropriate!!

It is never to late to change classes if she is being harassedā€¦ this mom is to passive and her daughter followed suit. Call the police.

Call Child Protective Services to make a report. Or you can and should call the police.

Iā€™m confused about why you havenā€™t filed a police report? This would be step 1, and a pretty obvious one.

Go to the police station and report the teacher to the school board since the school ainā€™t doing nothing about it

Lawyer up. I work for an agency that does educational law ant they would take a case like this. Our lawyers donā€™t play.

This cannot be real. I donā€™t care who this guy is, a teacher, a neighborā€¦he is a predator and needs to be stopped. Call the damn police

Report it again and then to the police if no action is taken by the school board.