His a child, Needs to grow up and take care of his family 
Deserve better x
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Donāt get married. You know what you need to do. Trust your gut.
Same thing happened with me and an ex of mine. He told me nothing was happening that they were just online friends. I ended up leaving and not even a day later they ended up dating. So I would leave. You deserve better
Get rid of him! Sounds like a big man child !
Thatās a nope for me. Leave him pronto!
You start a get out plan. He has no desire to be a family man.
Try having standards.
Leave his ass u deserve better . Someone will love u the right way .
86 him. Actions speak much louder than words. His actions stuck.You are an adult. I feel sorry for the children.
It will get worse as time goes by. You donāt need advice, just read your post again.
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You really need to move on from this relationship. You may not want to or be able to, but you should. Especially for the sake of your child. You deserve better and better is out there!
You leave or put him out ā¦you deserve better. No if ands or buts about it
He there taking up space
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You know what you need to do, you just want someone else to say it first.
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Run, donāt walk! Heās a big ole baby, and a mean one at that! He wants you to take care of him so he CAN keep acting a foolā¦ But believe me, thereās someone out there who will be a normal person and treat you like one, too!
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cut the cable and also leave.
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Leave, was in the exact situation. It doesnāt get better. Thereās more likely more than āJust friendsā she knows about you and the kids she just doesnāt care. if you have the means take your kids and run out the house. Heās a child and will never grow up. Had to deal with one in his 30ās heās been gaming since he was young. Itās their escape from life. They donāt want to fix whatās wrong so they run into their gaming world, try your best to ignore all the name calling all that is a projection of how he sees himself. Itās not worth staying, leave. Iām so sorry you have to deal with that.
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Show him where the door is (:
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Guess Iām confused on what youāre asking for
Dont agrueā¦dont loose respectā¦and get him back on trackā¦men wander easily
Uhhh leave! You donāt need to be treated like that!
Its wont get better especially if he doesnt realize hes taking it too far. Im a computer gamer and when i start spending an excessive amount of time on there my husband gets mad and we fight about it.i also realize myself though im going overboard and try to be more reasonable
Get out and do not look back . Get court orders for child support and get on with your life .
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Why in the world are you still with him! Get out before the baby gets big enough to feel your pain and stress.
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Go start a new life with it and find a man that treats you decent you deserve better than that and if you donāt ask for more than that youāll never get it why would you stick yourself in the situation like this just reread your post it says to leave not in so many words but it says to leave
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And hes still your boyfriend why???
Does he not have a job? Sounds like a kid still to me. If you want to be taking care of 2 kids instead of just 1 keep him. Otherwise leave and find you a man.
You are better off alone! You can find much better but dump him first. I know itās scary but you have your whole life in front of you! 
Kick him out or he needs to step up
Advice is my dearā¦kick him to the curb
Iām all honesty I would tell him to do one! Not only is he disrespecting you heās disrespecting your son! I think itās absolutely disgusting what heās doing āplaying a gameā what is he 10?!