You could probably lose about 150lbs if you get rid of HIM! I ioe you find better, girl. You deserve someone who is going to love you for you and not your weight.
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Drop him. Then lose wt…
Lose him. You are beautiful, it doesn’t matter what your weight is!
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For better or worse, in sickness and health…
Dump him!
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He’s the weight you need to lose. Kick him to the curb
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My husband watched me shave my head bald and fed me Twinkies so he could play with my pudge. Get a better man. Sounds like that ones broken.
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I would move on. He should love you regardless of what size you are.
Not Even Close, to being a slice, of worth it. Girl move on
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145? Are you kidding me? I weigh 155 right now and I feel like I look better than I have in SO long. Drop that sad excuse for a man. You deserve better.
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My ex did that. Told me he wasn’t attracted to me and hasn’t been in love for awhile. Intell he noticed other me wanted me then it was how I just gave up. You deserve better.
Can’t love you at your low, don’t deserve you at your high.
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NO!!! Dry Bones!!! Move On!!! N E X T!!!
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Sounds like a jerk to me. If he really loves you it wouldn’t matter how much you weigh
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Loose weight and leave him!!! 
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Kick him to the kerb, no man is worth it if he loves you for what he expects you to be in his eyes, he wants a show pony.
Loose him if they love u they love you unconditionally . I put on 27 kgs before being diagnosed with a medical condition we are still married 25 years later
Your partner should love you for you! Not how you look that’s horrible you deserve so much better 
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He’s just using that as an excuse … a very bad one at that …. Never lower yourself to that kind of human please find someone who appreciates you no matter what you look like. I have been with my partner for almost 10 years now and we both have put on some weight but she is just as beautiful As the day I met her
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Leave. It’s only gonna get worse.
Nope he should love you no matter what
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Sorry but he should love you for who you are not about your weight.
I would leave he is not worth it
He should love you weather you are fat or skinny
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The pandemic is only going on 2 years. If you gained weight during the pandemic it wasn’t your weight gain that started causing problems 3 yrs ago. There has to be more to this.
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I’d leave him. Throughout life your looks will change and weight will fluctuate. Weight is just a number and I’m sure he’s gained a pound or two as well. I think that is rude as hell and horrible on his part.
If you loose him that would be a lot of weight gone from your life. You deserve someone who will love you for you.
Leave that man, he doesn’t deserve you if that’s how he feels! Gaining some weight doesn’t change who you are as a person. It doesn’t change the love someone should have for you. Let alone that’s not even a high weight for him to be rude like that. I guarantee you there are so many men who will treat you way better than that that would give anything to be with you. Don’t stay with a petty man who can’t even take on an extra few pounds of a woman! That weight can be lost and so can he.
First he’s full of crap for using some weight gain as a reason to no longer love someone. He’s just trying to make this your fault. Also 145 isn’t an unhealthy weight unless like 5ft. And even then he should be a positive change with you. Cutting out sodas and crappy foods, giving you words of encouragement, etc. not just eww you got fat.
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leave his ass you deserve better
I’d say drop about 180 pounds by finding a new boyfriend. Sounds like a jerk.
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No, find someone who makes you feel good about yourself!
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Leave, doesn’t seem like you guys are really it for each other anynore
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Leave. He should love you no matter what
Leave. He should love you for you…no matter what. And if you do loose the weight and he is interested again, don’t go back with him because you will always be conscious of your weight.
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