Speak to an attorney or get before a judge. This is not an over reaction.
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She absolutely has the right to meet her⌠unfortunately I donât think she can prevent her from being around her child if the father is involved tho
Ex means just that Ex why does she feel the need to meet his girlfriend? If my Ex had been messing around with that many women he would only see my kid on my terms in my house and I would go to court and explain the situation to a judge.
She should know who is around her child. Tip: Obeying the Biblical rule of not having sex outside of marriage (between one man and one woman) and this situation and conversation would not have happened
Do a police criminal check!! rock up and Sus their house out with a support person incase they act upâŚ
Whatâs the point ? She doesnât get a say in it anyway sonjust move on.
Oh hell no. My baby would NOT be around anyone I hadnt met.
Itâs none of her business
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Maybe itâs a friend of hersđ¤ˇââď¸
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Court - let the judge decide
Lol all these bitter Bitches talking bout MY child⌠Yâall the real problem at hand. Breaking news its your baby daddies child too gtfoh
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Iâm gonna say she donât need to meet her. Itâs a control issue, and she needs to get over it. If she is concerned about what type of person she is (criminal etc), she can find that without ever meeting her. Municipal court and county clerk of court dockets for most counties/cities are all online. All she has to do is a little public information searching, and she can find what she needs to ease her mind. If she finds something concerning, then of course, bring it up or take it to the court for custody issues, but just demanding to meet them Bc he couldnât keep it in his pants and was a douche, no. Move on.
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She has a right to meet who is around her child if they wonât agree ttell her to tell them until I meet her the kids are off limits,for their safety.
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Have her get a parenting plan through court and put a dating clause in. No new partners before a certain time.
Every mother should have the right to meet whoâs around her kids just like every father should have the right to meet whoâs around his kids. Personally Iâd be pissed if my boyfriend and I were to break up and he started seeing someone else but wouldnât allow me to meet her while bringing her around our son. Itâs not a âbitter baby mamaâ thing itâs a respect thing
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When my ex wanted to meet my bf all he did was say hi and they text each other now when I donât answer it has absolutely nothing to do with controlling she obviously trusted him enough he cheated on her with 20 different women
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Yâall
Have no idea how cruel someone could be to your child simply bc they are yours and yes youâd be surprised what a mother/father would allow ( gaberial Hernandez) !!!
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You always want to meet who gonna be around your kids. Period
Itâll probably be ok but Iâm like her. Iâd like to meet her
It is her business who is around her child. Just like itâs the dadâs business to know too. She has every right to be upset.
I donât let my ex try to dictate to me what I can do with my kids. Who I can have around them etc. this goes both ways.
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You have every right to know who is around your child l told my ex that the one he is with is not allowed around our son as she lost her children to cas because she has an addiction problem and needs to fix it and if he wants to see our son he can come here and new gf can suck it up end of discussion look said person up on social media that is how l got all my info and took screen shots and handed it all to him good luck momma stay safe
Probably an unpopular opinion, but thatâs his parenting time and none of your business, unless itâs something illegal or endangering to the child then itâs his business. Youâre not gonna be able to tell if someone is a a good person by just meeting them. Just like he has no right to dictate her next partnerâs involvement in their childâs life.
In my opinion both mom and dad should know who is around their child. If it were my child I would need to know who and how this person is. I agree that dad time is exactly that BUT seems like dad is around a lot of different women, and if it were me, that would be my problem. In a perfect world, mom and dad could talk and have understanding for the child/children they share, at that point thatâs all it should be about, is respecting your child.
Unless your baby cryâs when dropping her off, meaning she hates going for some reason you need to leave it alone. For godâs sake donât quiz her down about her visits. Children need to be children period!
Move on with gettinâ on. Stop obsessing over a man who lies and cheats. A man who had no problem sleeping with you either right before and or after he just got out of another.
Leave it alone itâs not her business anymore if heâs an ex. exâs are exâs for a reason. If their relationship is lasting she will meet her eventually, if not it wonât be long before sheâs gone. You canât control who theyâre around.
Yâall. Keep being with these NASTY MEN. You gonna get something AJAX canât take off.