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Ignore all these people judging you…
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Why get married to 1 person who you are supposed to vowed to cherish and love and faithful to, just to sleep around. I will never understand it. I had a friend that did this. It was a big regret, her husband did it qlot afterwards without her knowing. And now they are divorced and she’s remarried and the happiest she has ever been with just ONE person.
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If you are going to do this communication is key in the whole process. Talk about what you want and what you don’t. It’s pretty much an interview process finding the 3rd person. Talk to the lady/man together, find out if they fit your vibe/dynamic. Also is this something that you want? Or are you doing it just for your husband? If you give him a fmf will he give you a mfm? I’ve been in an open relationship and it’s fun to watch another girl pleasure my bf and then going in and having part in the fun and taking back “what’s mine” we’ve found our people on kik. It’s other couples/singles/people who can play separately or together. Just got to weed out the flakes and the people who say they are single but are married. It’s a process but once you find the right one, you’ll have fun.
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Fetlife is a good website to try out, don’t let other people’s opinions bother you. As long as you both agree and find someone who is safe and a good match, it’ll be fine
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Make an entire game plan before you even begin. This includes your boundaries and how you will discuss any scenario that could come up!
Otherwise If going for someone unknown I would just start looking online together.
You can make a profile about yourselves as a couple and exactly what you are looking for.
I personally think human beings are inherently supposed to explore whatever suits their sexuality and if you have a strong bond and communication with your partner this is a possible thing.
All the best !
I had a 3 sum with my best friend/ex boyfriend and his wife. They was separated (she was living/dating with another man and he went 2 years before dating) when me and him got together. After us being together for almost a year, his wife moved in with us and they got back together. We all had a mutual agreement that if we do any type of play we use protection. Well we all drunk one time and we did it the first time. Then the second time we did it she is the one who brought it up to have a 3 sum. She asked if she could be in control of the situation because she felt kinda odd doing it with out drinking (she also had past trauma that I didn’t know about until we did it the second time). I let her be in complete control and she actually enjoyed it more the second time around because she was in control. Me and her would flirt with each other and joke around. I kinda felt like I was in a relationship with both of them when we all lived together. I am also bisexual so I have been with both boys and girls. (I also can’t see myself having a 3 sum with 2 guys and 1 girl.)
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Why get MARRIED just to fool around?? Marriage is sacred between TWO ppl… Smdh
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Y’all nasty may as well just be friends with benefits
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I think a contract of rules should be written & signed
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What you going do when he is paying more attention to 3rd party than you and says it’s just different stuff or on other hand you might like 3rd party better,playing with fire
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In my opinion you might be opening pandoras box not a good idea not judging just saying
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A threesome is a huge step in the relationship. If your going to do it you need to set boundaries if what is aloud during and after it happenes . I’ve been it this situation and it ended in a breakup with my bestfriend He was my life . But after it happen it couldn’t stop cheating . Please really sit down and think about it before you do anything.
It’s definitely a fun and enlightening experience but make sure you guys have set boundaries and discussed everything before even looking for a third it’s only fun if you’re both on the same page. I’m not sure where to randomly find a third as We’ve mostly done it with friends however I know it’s an option on some swinger dating apps so I suppose I would start there.
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Just find a pineapple at walmart and place it upside down, a beacon for unicorns
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Why did you get married?
That’s flat out nasssty🤮
Good luck on catching a gross disease you can maybe never get rid of.
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Where are you from?
Folling ti kearn more, I have the same guestions!
Nope never done it & sharing is not caring in this situation! Also, why the third wheel have to always be a woman? Pose this question to your husband “Babe let’s select a man for our fun” 
now if his enthusiasm doesn’t match what yours was when the suggestion of a woman being the third wheel then throw the whole husband away Sis with his selfish ace isn’t your happiness just as important as his 
😮💨
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No matter what’s agreed on someone ALWAYS breaks the rules. If you want your marriage to stay intact don’t do it!
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Jesus Christ there’s way to many judgy people 
y’all a sad sight to see 
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I did it. I got a co worker. She wasn’t a good lesbian at all. ended up she left and we finished.
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I write from experience, unless you have an absolute happy relationship and boundaries are set and followed to a T, a threesome will break you up.
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She didn’t ask what you guys thought about whether she should do it or not. She asked how to find the 3rd party.
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Set some boundaries before going into it. That way no one is feeling left out, communicate what you want from it.
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Make rules with each other first. Limits. Stick to them. And you can find random people on chat sites
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We’ve done it. It can definitely be a lot of fun. Make rules and stick with them. You’ve got the right idea about finding someone you don’t know. Never mess around with friends. There are some clubs and bars that are meant for that kind of thing, just Google what’s in your area. Be safe and have fun
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Why is there so much judgment??
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You are setting yourself up. Sure, “just one time” for YOU…but for him, it will become a habit, and when you don’t want to do it anymore? He will do it without you!
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I don’t have any advice on finding a third person, but if it’s something you and your partner are comfortable doing and you guys have made that decision, please ignore all the insecurity being projected onto you in here. It’s mind blowing. No one here is actually answering your question, just whining about “dOnT dO iT” 
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l get paid over $110 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $11812 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
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It’s defo good your doing it with someone you don’t know…
But it’s something yoh really need to think about and talk about.
Are you okay with having him have sex with someone else and touch them sexual?
Have you both thought about how it’s going to make you feel after? Or even when it’s happening, what if his paying the other woman too much attention?
It could really effect your relationship regardless if you both think you want it.
I do hope it works out for you… the only thing I could advice is using a escort x
I did! It was fun just make sure you set your rules ahead of time and I picked my best friend. Its not for everyone but as long as you’re not a super jealous person itll be fine.
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I can see the advice you’ve gotten in this post has triggered all of the upside down pineapples…
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It’s amazing how nasty some of these women are being to this question… I live in Cleveland. We have things here like fetish clubs and swingers clubs. There are ways to go about things, ask for recent std stats and be ready to share yours. Sometimes in these situations the women does all the communication with the other women and the man just gets to enjoy. Just do your homework like anything else and make sure you are solid with your partner.
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Just find another man… It’s better than another woman
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I was the third party in my besties three sum. Not everything partner crosses lines after exploring, so don’t let all the down comments cloud your mind. Now as to how to find one. Well maybe you and your husband can have a date at a bar. Then you can try to pick someone up. There no actually website I’ve found that makes it easier for exploring.
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No no no you will regret it later- I don’t care what anyone says — my guy asked me I put my foot down, he never asked again, no no no way , it won’t matter how many “rules” you two have - no no no - and before anyone says something about my answer - I saw so many other couples that did it and it end their relationship or 15 year marriage - and no matter how careful you are – or oh it’s just one time thing - he will be thinking about her everytime he’s with you in bed - like I say Idc what others say cause what’s happens behind close doors stays behind close doors- no one will actually admit what happens when they are fighting and say something- but it’s your life go for it
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Tinder has a lot girls looking to join couples also Seeking Arrangement. This is more normal than you think and they are out there
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Big mistake…I guess too many ppls morals are not there anymore
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Uummm, she wasn’t asking anyone if we agreed with their decision. She was asking where she could find the 3rd person! 
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As long as you both feel ready there is no reason it won’t work! There has to be no jealousy between you both. I’ve found that first planning who is going to get the most attention helps with anyone being left out. Just make sure the 3rd understands that too! Have fun and listen too all the insecure women on this post!
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I don’t know any apps for this but don’t listen to bitter ladies whose relationship didn’t survive their own threesome. I know plenty of people have done it & still do it & they’re very happy & have been together well over decades. They always said they set strict boundaries & communication is a must. Do you lady. These bitter bitties are just judgemental & feel their opinion is a gift.
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Some of these comments!! It’s something they both want!!
But answer to the post find a worker no strings etc ,
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If you are both in agreement cool. But someone you don’t know… that seems kinda gross and risky. I’d be afraid of catching something lol. Be safe and have fun!
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Ok don’t do it you will regret it for the rest of your life to watch it on porn and to do it is two different thing .think long and hard before …jumping in the sack with a stranger…or a friend…just saying
Its not necessarily for him,you guys are coming at her like shes doing it for him mabe she likes girls to and wants to experience with a girl as well,i wouldnt and its not my thing, but you have no right to judge,all she did was ask if anyone knew how to find another girl,she didnt ask noones opinion, come on now,be nice,do better.
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Threesomes are great, we had a girlfriend for a few months before she moved on. We went to a bar because the first time doing it is stressful and uncomfortable having a few drinks talking and flirting just adds to the sexual tension. Plus meeting that person before agreeing to having sex with them is safer. There’s also an app for lgbtq community (you want someone that’s bisexual) I think it’s called Tammy or Tammi I forget how they spell it. But good luck and if your sex life gets better after do it once in a while like every few months or whatever yall want it’s ok to have an extra in your relationship.
That never ends well! Do not do it! Trust me !
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Have you ever had a problem with either of you stepping out? If so, that will leave room for lots of questions and insecurities after. If not, you need to be prepared to know that you are no longer his only.
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Dont itll ruin your relationship
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That’s fornication God Don’t Like Sexual Sin
U And Yall Better spice it it without no company from nobody get around good people with good advice have a three Don’t solve shit sound like some inner self problems I see
If one of you enjoy it , chances are it won’t be just a one time thing
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Me and my man have been together 9 years and do it maybe 2-3 times a year. Its something we both agree on and I think sometimes its more for me then him, but it spices things up and then afterwards we go back to us. It takes a strong relationship and trust to do it, but if thats what you both want then try it. First I would say agree that if either one of you feel uncomfortable you put an end to it
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Opitions is yes a gift But if your selling your soul to the devil to be married NAW
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As one and as one only there’s other safe options remember don’t be no fool works for others but it don’t work for all remember that
DO NOT DO IT… Never ends well. Would be my advice
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If you Google “hooker in my area” I’m sure you can find something
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How bad are the insecurities? If you or your man have insecurities I would not do it! It will make the relationship bad… Just by experience. But definitely do it with someone you don’t know! But we never had luck on apps…
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Facebook is not the place for this
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l get paid over $110 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $18261 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
Details HERE… https://DollarGrowth54.surge.sh
Have a threesome with Jesus! You both need him!!
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Hey… if you both **TRUST each other, then do what you want to do. Idk where I would find someone, but I would start off with some vodka cause I’d need it.
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I had my 3sum when I was single. It was with my 2 friends. Idk if it’s because we where all chicks but shit went bad within 15 mins.
It causes issues even if both agree
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Good way to end your marriage
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Why would u even think bout it you both should b enough for each other…just saying
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Yea one time thing ok. Your asking for trouble women just remember that. The Devil WILL be in Control of your Life. Horrible
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Most times, I think everyone should enjoy a good ol 3some, but the rules you have already laid down from the jump tells me it’s not gonna go well. Don’t do that to yourself.
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Only if you wanna end up single and divorced?!
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l get paid over $110 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $19350 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
Details HERE… https://DollarGrowth72.surge.sh
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Setting yourself up for trouble
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I’ve read too many stories where they both wanted to do this and one of them backs off the last second when it’s actually go time. Be careful. Try tinder maybe?
Be CAREFUL. You’re relationship will never be the same!
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Why ? Just work on your sex lives its okay to tell eachother how to improve on the act . Unless your gay and wanna mess with a female or he gay and wanna mess with a male lol I don’t get the point of it otherwise
Hey If others want to reccomend groups where this woman can join and not be barraged then link them. Sorry lady. Maybe try also groups specifically dedicated to that type of discussion. Trust me. There is alot
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What a sick pair of yahoos. Yeah of course your husband agreed to it, but I’m betting only if it was another woman. Get your your head out of the mud what a pair of losers.
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Definitely do not recommend…
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It can cause problems but if u both agree and have rules set it may be alright. We had a threesome with a girl we both knew but didn’t see very often so it didn’t have to be weird all the time lol. As far as finding a stranger… That will be harder than u think. U will second guess ur choice a billion times. That’s why we didn’t do it with someone we didn’t know.
l get paid over $110 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $20154 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
Details HERE… https://DollarGrowth89.surge.sh
l get paid over $110 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $20184 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
Details HERE… https://DollarGrowth95.surge.sh
Yeah one time thing. Good luck with that. I’ve had several girlfriends ruin their relationships that way.
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If you look great it like your looking for a date and etc meet in public first etc etc but to warn threesomes can get overrated real quick and remember to go in with an open mind cause one might get insecure during and get mad at the other afterwards so you might want to make sure a threesome is what u both want
If your having issues in your marriage it won’t make it better and if your not you will have issues. However if you choose to have communication. Have your does and don’t. He has to understand to be equal on attention. Most of the time it starts with one and ends up being more or your in divorce court. Be careful
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I thought about this too and we want someone we also both don’t know and honestly, the safest way imo would be in Vegas where prostitution is legal. They have a bunny ranch and they get checked for stds. I honestly don’t know if I could ever really go through with it but that’s what I would do.
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l get paid over $110 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $21119 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
Details HERE… https://DollarGrowth105.surge.sh
Don’t do it! You WILL regret it! It’s for his pleasure. I bet it’s another girl! And it won’t be once and you will regret it and it will destroy you relationship
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Ive had a threesome before with my fiance and a man i just met… Im now married to that man and that was 8 years ago:rofl:
(my fiance was an abusive pedophile so it was his fn karma) Anyways… With my experience thats how ill always look at threesomes. Someone in the couple just might fall in love with that third person, and by having a threesome, its just opening a door to your spouse. If i EVER want another threesome, it will be all girls:rofl:
I think this you might regret. You are opening a different kind of door for your partner and relationship. If you allow this I’m sure he’ll think you will allow anything in the future. Goodluck though. Hope it works out 4 url.
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l get paid over $110 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $11459 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
Details HERE… https://DollarGrowth121.surge.sh
Beware…you be sorry!
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Yikes at all the judgment in these comments! Smh.
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Be careful what you wish for
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Good luck having him abide by the one-time only rule
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Damn can yall stop projecting on op?
Ask to bring a man in see how much ya husband wants it then . It will likely ruin you sadly
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Kick him to the curb.
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Your both need help,you should have more respect for each other.if you don’t care for each other anymore than that you don’t have a marriage.
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Itll change shit 100% and 9 outta 10 it’s you’ll never come back from it
u do not really want an answer
Stop fu€king kink shaming! If y’all don’t like it, then don’t do it. It’s that simple.
OP, make sure y’all have multiple conversations on what y’all BOTH are okay with & not okay with. You have to lay everything out & have a plan for all of it. Also have a conversation about what to do if one of y’all wants to back out.
Also, a lot of men simply don’t want to have a threesome with another man, because they look at it as them being called “gay”. Plus, threesomes with another woman is so much more fun🤷🏻♀️
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